Compelling, Excellent and Necessary Read
As a former victim of childhood s.a, a Christian, and social work/mental health major who also has experience in the court system, I cannot recommend this book highly enough. My reasons are several. One being that I know firsthand the devastating impact of such abuse on a child and teenager. Another reason is that although I've never been in a cult, I am convinced there are multiple cults out there today and I grew up in a time where some of those scenes in the news from similar cults are still easily called to mind. The names were news headlines when they occurred: Jim Jones and the Peoples Temple, David Koresh and the Branch Davidians, Scientology, Heaven's Gate, Warren Jeffs and the FLDS etc.
I think for many victims of cults it starts quite normally and innocently. After all, many of us want to believe in someone, some higher purpose and many of us grew up seeing our grandparents or parents going to church, or attending with them. We are taught to respect authority, in church we learn that there is an appointed leader of the congregation, temple or ministry. We are taught to call him "Father," "Reverend," or "Pastor." We find comfort, spiritual peace or familiarity in certain "rituals." We sing at certain times, kneel or bow our heads in prayer, listen to a sermon which is usually a Biblically based "lesson." Except in cults. Many of these same things are used: the leader, the prayers, tithing etc. But we must be on guard when introduced to a new group or spiritual program because some of these will take a sprinkling or two of truth, woo you in, and then TWIST that truth into something ugly and deviant.
With his book "Deceived," Mike King shines a light into a VERY dark place and he does so masterfully so that other adults will hopefully NOT get drawn in and subject their children to such perversion that could and would NEVER be "of God" for the Lord tells us that for anyone who harms a child, it would be better to have a millstone hung around their necks and drown.
I commend the children for their bravery and though I can't fathom EVER participating in ANYTHING like this thankfully, I have to say that I'm glad Erin came forward but I do believe she should have faced some punishment also. And Carla needs to be watched at the very least because I firmly believe she will not stop!