A memoir of love and loss, of being in the right place at the right time, and of the mysterious ways a beloved pet can bring people together, from CBS Sunday Morning News correspondent and multi-Emmy-Award-winning Martha Teichner.
There are true fairy tales. Stories that exist because impossible-to-explain coincidences change everything. Except in real life, not all of them have conventional, happily-ever-after endings. When Harry Met Minnie is that kind of fairy tale, with the vibrant, romantic New York City backdrop of its namesake, the movie When Harry Met Sally, and the bittersweet wisdom of Tuesdays with Morrie.
There's a special camaraderie among early-morning dog walkers. Gathering at dog runs in the park, or strolling through Union Square Farmer's Market before the bustling crowd appears, fellow pet owners become familiar-as do the personalities of their beloved animals. In this special space and time, a chance encounter with an old acquaintance changed Martha Teichner's world. As fate would have it, her friend knew someone who was dying of cancer, from radiation exposure after 9/11, and desperate to find a home for her dog, Harry. He was a Bull Terrier--the same breed as Martha's dear Minnie. Would Martha consider giving Harry a safe, loving new home?
In short order, boy dog meets girl dog, the fairy tale part of this story. But there is so much more to this book. After Martha agrees to meet Harry and his owner Carol, what begins as a transaction involving a dog becomes a deep and meaningful friendship between two women with complicated lives and a love of Bull Terriers in common. Through the heartbreak and grief of Carol's illness, the bond that develops changed Martha's life, Carol's life, Minnie's life, Harry's life. As it changed Carol's death as well.
In this rich and touching narrative, Martha considers the ways our stories are shaped by the people we meet, and the profound love we can find by opening our hearts to unexpected encounters.
Martha Teichner has been a correspondent for “CBS Sunday Morning” since December 1993, where she’s equally adept at covering major breaking national and international news stories as she is handling in-depth cultural and arts topics. Since joining CBS News in 1977, Teichner has earned multiple national awards for her original reporting, including 11 Emmy Awards and five James Beard Foundation Awards. Teichner was also part of the team coverage of the Newtown, Conn., elementary school shooting which earned CBS News a 2014 duPont-Columbia Award. Teichner was born in Traverse City, Mich. She graduated from Wellesley College in 1969 with a bachelor’s degree in economics. She attended the University of Chicago’s Graduate School of Business Administration. Teichner resides in New York City.
When Harry met Minnie: A True Story of Love and Friendship by Martha Teichner is a 2020 Celadon Books publication.
A melancholy, but touchingly poignant memoir about the love of dogs and a very special unexpected friendship.
When I received a copy of this book in the mail I was super excited because it came with a cute cover and title. Looked like my kind of book!!
Then I read the synopsis, which explains the book dealt with some very heavy and sad topics. Still, I had high hopes that this book would be a special one.
Many of you hear me speak often about my cats- but I also have two Cocker Spaniels. Trust me, I love dogs just as much as I do cats! While I am not all that familiar with bull terriers, I have seen them on television, in dog shows, and think they are absolutely adorable… and no, I never thought they resembled an anteater. 😁😁
So- from one dog lover to another- I was sure this book would resonate - at least from the standpoint that I’m as crazy and dedicated to my pets as Martha.
But, this book is not just a book about dogs- it's really a story about love and friendship and stepping up to help those you care about, being with them and for them, and holding close the time you got to spend with them.
When Martha realizes her bull terrier, Minnie, is in mourning and needs a companion, an acquaintance puts her in touch with Carol. Carol has terminal cancer and needs to find her bull terrier, Harry, a new home before she is no longer able to care for him.
Harry has a slew of health problems, but Martha is willing to see how Harry gets along with Minnie and if the situation will work out. While she has her reservations, Harry and Minnie adjust and bond with each other- eventually.
In the process, Martha and Carol also forge a special bond- one that deepens into a valued friendship, one that has such a big impact on Martha, she decided to write this book about their friendship and the two special dogs that brought them together.
As recently as yesterday evening, I warned a Goodreads friend, who expressed interest in reading this book, that despite that precious cover, and funny title- this book was NOT a ‘cute dog’ story.
In fact, I confided to my friend that I had found the book a bit depressing, although I didn’t think that was ever the author's intention.
In cases like this, when my personal preference or misgivings could alter my opinion of a book, I faced a dilemma many reviewers will relate to. It's a good book, well written, deserves a positive score- but it left me feeling a little blue.
But, I decided I owed the publisher a professional review- not a diatribe about my personal woes or losses. Everyone has had a tough year, and none of us are where we would like to be from an emotional or mental health standpoint.
To that end, I was determined to give this book the best, most positive critique possible. So, strapping on my critical thinking cap- I started writing...
Well, the more I wrote, the more I thought about the book, and the more I reflected on it, I came to realize that while the subject matter is depressing, and uncomfortable at times, it might be just the type of personal story one can draw strength from, or find comfort in...
Because-when you get right down to it, it’s a lovely, heartwarming journey about friendships- the one Minnie made with Harry- and the one between Martha and Carol- and how Martha did the right thing by both of them.
Martha, as many of you already know, is a correspondent for CBS Sunday Morning. So, it’s no surprise, really, that she can write a good story.
However, I felt she did an incredible job of introducing readers to Carol and bringing her memory alive in these pages. Naturally, she also did justice to Harry and Minnie, who played such a big role in making this friendship possible, and in highlighting the patience and love from both pet parents as they played 'matchmaker' for their beloved dogs.
So, after some introspection, I believe that overall, this book is a touching and sweet tribute to Carol, it’s an ode to friendship, to Harry and Minnie, and to the pride in pet ownership.
It’s about the special memories we create, and the time we cherish with friends and family.
Obviously, Martha’s life was enriched by Carol and Harry, but they too benefited from Martha’s dedication to them as well. This book is certainly a cathartic endeavor for Martha, I think, but there are life lessons in here we can all benefit from.
So even if your heart is heavy- especially if your heart is heavy- or you are in a funky mood or world weary- don't pass on a chance to read this wonderful, heartfelt memoir written around great dogs, love, good people, and friendship!!
As someone who has also spent way too much money on vet bills for a newly rescued four legged child, I immediately bonded with Martha Teichner. Forget her fame as a CBS Sunday Morning newscaster, she’s a dog lover. And make no bones about it (pardon the pun), this is a book for dog lovers. When Martha talks about what fruits her dogs loved, I could relate. Cooper demands his banana at breakfast and apple at lunch. When she talks about the lengths she goes through to get the right diet and meds for Harry, I related. But it’s also about so much more than dogs. Love. Friendship. Loss. The lengths people will go to for those they care about. It’s also about how dogs are the perfect antidote through the bad times. The book is sad, but has lots of wonderful moments that will bring a smile to your face. Dog lovers will relate to it, but even no dog people will find lots in it for them. “Memories are our true remains, to be treasured, to be shared, to dim, and eventually to be lost, when no one is left to remember.” My thanks to netgalley and Celadon Books for an advance copy of this book.
Wow, this book. This book! Through a mutual friend, Martha meets a woman who is dying of cancer and needs a home for her dog, Harry. Martha’s own dog, Minnie, is the same breed, bull terrier. Martha didn’t just take Harry and move on with life. Instead, she met Carol, Harry’s owner, and built a friendship with her throughout her last days.
When Harry Met Minnie is the most poignant story of friendship, love and loss, and how animals help us heal. I was mesmerized with each of Martha and Carol’s big hearts, as well as Harry and Minnie and their relationship because Harry also experienced a grave loss. I can’t even begin to tell you how much I loved this story. I know it’s never fun to read about loss, but the author balances her story with so much love and hope and adorable, loving dogs.
I received a gifted copy. All opinions are my own.
This book tells the story of two friendships: one between Martha Teichner and Carol Fertig;
Martha Teichner
Carol Fertig
and the other between their Bull Terriers, Harry and Minnie.
Harry (right) and Minnie
Martha Teichner is a long-time correspondent for "CBS Sunday Morning", where she covers national and international news as well as cultural and arts topics.
Martha Teichner is a television news correspondent
Carol Fertig was a fashion designer, stylist, and style editor who designed collections of objects and artworks for luxury clients.
Carol Fertig was a creative artist
*****
Manhattan resident Martha Teichner starts her Saturday mornings with a stroll to the Farmer's Market at Union Square, accompanied by her Bull Terriers Goose and Minnie. Tourists take pictures of the dogs, venders smile and wave, and the man in charge of the fruit stand laughs when larcenous Goose steals a juicy apple from a crate on the ground.
Martha Teichner with Goose and Minnie
Then Goose dies in early 2016, and Minnie is bereft, constantly searching for her doggie friend of nine years. Martha, who also misses Goose, thinks of acquiring another mature Bull Terrier but can't find one of the appropriate age.
Now fate steps in. Martha is strolling around the Farmer's Market in July 2016 when she happens to meet an acquaintance, architect Stephen Miller Siegel, who's walking his Golden Retriever Teddy. Stephen mentions that his friend Carol Fertig is dying from cancer, and looking for a home for her 11-year-old Bull Terrier Harry.
Carol Fertig and Harry
Martha agrees to consider the adoption, and starts emailing with Carol, to learn about Harry. In the spirit of full disclosure, Carol tells Martha that Harry takes meds (puppy Zoloft and Phenobarbital for OCD and anxiety; Rymadyl for arthritis; and Tynell for colitis) and eats special food for his sensitive stomach. In other words, Harry is a 'money pit.'
On the up side, Harry is lovable, smart (he made up a game with a metal bowl and tennis balls), outgoing, and stubborn - a trait that's endearing to fans of Bull Terriers.
Harry throws and catches tennis balls with his bowl
Martha and Carol agree to set up encounters between Harry and Minnie, to see if the pups get along. The veterinarian suggests short meetings, then longer visits, then sleepovers, and - over the next few months - the dogs and their owners have a number of 'dates.'
Harry (back) and Minnie
This leads to the pooches eventually being left alone together, monitored by a videocamera that takes FOREVER for the technology-challenged ladies (and their friend Stephen) to get working. 😀
In between visits Martha and Carol constantly exchange emails laced with emojis, photos, and videos - so as Harry and Minnie become friends, Martha and Carol do as well. Along the way Martha comes to appreciate Carol's fashion sense, creativity, and artistic talent.
Carol Fertig had her own unique fashion sense
As the visits proceed, Martha and Minnie come to love Harry, and it's fun to see Minnie go from being indifferent to Harry, to roughhousing with Harry, to embracing Harry as a compadre....all of this assisted by plenty of chicken and hamburger treats.
Martha Teichner with Harry (left) and Minnie
The tale then switches to Carol's declining health and imminent death. Carol's 'family' consists largely of her friends in New York, who band together to help Carol in her final months. They care for Carol, bring her food, get her admitted to the appropriate facilities, keep her company, and help her seek compensation from the 9/11 commission, because the Twin Towers dust and debris caused her cancer.
Manhattan is as much a character in the story as the people and dogs, and we see the city through Martha's eyes as she shops, takes buses, walks along the river, looks for addresses, goes to Chelsea Piers, races through the rain, visits the Farmer's market, goes to the Barking Zoo pet store, takes the dogs to St. Peter's Chelsea Church for the “Blessing of the Animals,” has an encounter with 17 police officers, and more.
Martha Teichner walking along the river
Teichner is an experienced writer with a good eye for detail, and her story inspires both laughter and tears. This is a very good book, highly recommended.
When Harry Met Minnie is less about the titular pooches and more about their owners. Martha Teicher is an Emmy winning CBS Sunday Morning correspondent and dog lover. Shortly after the death of her beloved dog Goose, Martha agrees to take in the dog of a woman who is dying of Cancer. Carol Fertig the stylish and fun owner of Harry, who is dying of Cancer that was caused by toxins from 9/11.
While the book does talk about Minnie and Harry and their growing bond but more importantly it's about the friendship between Martha and Carol. The two ladies share a moving but bittersweet and all to short friendship, that touched even my cold dead heart.
I really enjoyed this sweet but quietly charming story about friendship, be it between 2 Bull Terriers or between 2 women dealing with life and death in NYC.
DISCLAIMER: I own a 2-year-old, three-legged pit bull terrier who is the best dog in the world. My love for her in no way influenced my review of this book. (OK. Maybe a LITTLE.)
This book is a must for dog lovers, but it is also a great story about human beings. It is a lovely, sweet, and at times emotional read that is not only about dogs but their humans as well. It is a true story. I immediately recommended it to my friend with a bull terrier and I’m glad I did, because it’s a lovely and sometimes heartbreaking story about those of us who love our dogs more than anything. It’s also a lovely New York story, incorporating present day New York, 9/11, and a friendship between two women as well as two dogs.
The writer, who is a reporter, has an accessible and page-turning writing style that will immediately draw you into the story and its central friendship.
Many thanks to NetGalley Celadon Books and the author for granting my wish for this sweet and lovely book which manages to be uplifting and laugh out loud funny even as it deals with heartbreak.
When I read the book's description, I just knew that When Harry Met Minnie would not disappoint. The novel is a true story that traces the lives of Harry and Minnie, bull terrier pets of famed designer, Carol Fertig and award winning correspondent, Martha Teichner. The book is also about how Carol and Martha's relationship blossoms into a deep and special bond as Carol's life deteriorates from the terminal cancer.
I laughed and cried, and was absolutely moved by such a touching story that When Harry Met Minnie delivered. A truly emotional read. Five stars.
I received a digital ARC from Celedon Books through NetGalley. The review herein is completely my own and contains my honest thoughts and opinions.
You might think that When Harry Met Minnie by Martha Teichner is a book about dogs. It is more a book about people who love dogs and how lives can be changed if you follow your heart. Martha Teichner, correspondent for CBS Sunday Morning, has written a memoir about friendship, the human kind and the animal kind. When the author was making her weekly visit to a farmer’s market, accompanied by her bull terrier, Minnie, she was approached by an acquaintance she had not seen for quite a while. He asked if she might be interested in possibly adopting a male bull terrier. His friend who was dying of cancer was looking for a loving home for her dog Harry. The story that ensues will make you laugh and cry and sometimes both at the same time. This is a lesson in living and a lesson in dying. The memoir starts with serendipity and leads to friendship. It is a beautiful memoir, one that stays with you for a long time. Highly recommended. Thank you to Celadon Books, NetGalley and the author for the e-ARC in exchange for an honest review.
When Harry Met Minnie is the sad but beautiful story between two women, Martha & Carol and their Bull Terriers Minnie & Harry.
A chance encounter with an old acquaintance brought Carol and her sweet boy Harry into Martha's life. Carol who is fighting cancer with little time left is in need of a home for Harry. This is where Martha and Minnie come in. From here a beautiful friendship is born. One that hits the reader right in ALL the feels.
The emails between Harry and Minnie was one of my favorite things about this book. They had me laughing out loud and I even read them to my husband who also had a good laugh. The humor between Martha and Carol was so heartwarming.
I'm such a big fan of memoirs and was so happy when this book arrived from Celadon Books. I will admit I don't really read beloved animal stories but this one really stuck with me.
A couple of takeaways: ▪️I absolutely believe in being in the right place at the right time. ▪️Animals really do help us heal.
Martha Teichner, correspondent for CBS Sunday Morning, has written a heartfelt tribute to her friend, Carol Fertig and the two lovable dogs who brought them together.
Over the years, Martha has adopted several bull terriers. Her current bull terrier is a lovable diva named Minnie. Martha genuinely likes this particular breed of dog and when she was given a chance to care for Harry, a bull terrier whose owner was dying of cancer, she agreed to give him a chance.
When Harry met Minnie, Martha knew she could bring Harry into her home. The two dogs became fast friends and together they stole her heart. Thus began an unexpected friendship with Carol Fertig and her dog, Harry, that would enrich Martha’s life.
This memoir is an account of enduring friendship, love, and loyalty as well as a story of life's ordinary days to be treasured and remembered with their good times as well as bad times.
Thank you to NetGalley, author Martha Teichner, and Celadon Books for giving me the opportunity to read the ARC of this poignant, heartfelt memoir.
I was NOT sent this book for free - I bought it based on a lot of reviews written by people that, upon closer inspection, did get their book for free. I'm not exactly sure what that entails... but for me, this was so far from a 4 1/2 star book that it makes me wonder what that involves. The author clearly loves her dog(s). I love my dog also. But I don't take her to the farmers market and let her steal pies, I don't feed her people food from the table and I don't feed her "ground sirloin". I also don't let her chew up toys in the pet store nor chase sheep on farms in England (I can't imagine the farmer being pleased about a woman walking her dog on his land, letting them run after and bite at his sheep). I found this overindulgence sort of disturbing. If my dog needed regular medicine, I would make sure I had a supply on hand not have to chase about trying to find some last minute. I found her attitude about Harry's medical needs naive and also sort of disturbing. I didn't enjoy the writing - it was very choppy, overly detailed in places and with lots of gaps. This felt like a journal where someone was jotting down their thoughts and reflecting on past events. When I finished this book, I found myself wondering what prompted Ms. Teichner to write it. As she mentioned several times in the book, she's an accomlished journalist with a long career. Did she just want to try her hand at something new? Was she bored? Did she want to add author to her resume? Perhaps it was a form of therapy to help her through her grief? In the hands of a good writer, this could have been a lovely story.
Martha Teichner is a correspondent for CBS Sunday Morning, but her story here is about her love of bull terriers, and how she agreed to care for a dying woman’s elderly dog, Harry. She already had a bull terrier named Minnie, and an acquaintance approached her when she and Minnie were walking one weekend and asked her to consider taking Harry when his friend Carol could no longer care for the dog. Martha was skeptical—would Minnie accept Harry? Harry was 11 years old and taking several medications—could she deal with his challenges? She and Minnie met Harry and Carol, and agreed. When Carol became too ill to care for Harry, his occasional visits became permanent, and Martha sent her many amusing pictures and videos of the two dogs. A friendship developed between not only the two dogs, but also the two women. Teichner has written a wonderful story about friendship, both canine and human. Thanks to the publisher, Celadon Books, for this ARC.
The Author ( Martha Teichner) a dog lover, especially Bull Terriers. She liked to take her dogs to the Union Square farmers Market on Saturday mornings. there was Piggy, Goose and now Minnie.
For more than thirty years Martha had an au pair to take care of her dogs while she was at work or traveling. Stephen knew Martha and her dogs, he had a friend Carol who had a Bull terrier named Harry. Carol had terminal cancer and wanted to find a good home for Harry. Since Martha had only Minnie now, she was considering taking Harry. Two dogs usually kept each other company. There were many steps to get the two dogs together. Harry also had some health issues, that wasn't a deterrent for Martha.
Martha was getting to know Carol. Carol was an artist , designer and they became friends . Their friendship had little time to blossom; just months.
After Carol died, Harry became very ill. He had cancer too. Martha did all she and the vet could do to keep Harry going.
Loved the book.
The author's writing is poetic , beckoning us for more.
When Harry Met Minnie is a story about love. Love between a dog and their human, between dogs themselves and human companionship. Journalist, Marth Teichner's book is less a memoir and more a story of belonging. It's an engaging cute yet emotional story. I had to put the book down a few times and come back to it later. Not that it was a sad book, but there were moments that hit hard.
***I received a complimentary copy of this trade paperback galley from the publisher. Opinions expressed in this review are entirely my own.***
This was such a heart tugging book. I cried and I just thought how great Carol and Harry were and I longed to have been a part of their life. What a blessing this book was to read and I can't wait to share it with my dog loving friends. This was 4 star read and I need to tell you if you think that you are not a fan of memoirs then you are wrong. This story of love and loss is not one you will want to miss. You will not be able to put it down. The Mary Reader received this book from the publisher for review. A favorable review was not required and all views expressed are our own.
I thought this book was just ok. Total sadness and I'm talking doggie sadness, not human...I can handle human sadness, but I cannot handle doggie sadness. The writing was ok...sometimes I thought we were off on another tangent. I guess I just wanted doggie antidotes and there just wasn't enough of that for me. DO NOT read this if you have recently lost a dog or have a sick dog. My dog it completely healthy and I couldn't even keep it together. Happy endings to all dog books please!
Sometimes when we least expect it the best things happen to and for us. The reality is, life is not a fairy tale. It starts and ends and even pets have a dash between those dates.
When Harry Met Minnie, they did fall in love, even if for only a short time, but oh what a time they had. This book is the best kind of boy meets girl, boy falls in love with the girl and they live ever after because it is about two very cute Bull Terriers. Their love story starts when someone’s mom is dying and need to find a Godmother for her doggie.
Knowing the right people in New York is a good thing and so the moms get connected and Harry with his swag comes to live with Minnie and her mommy after a sad thing happened. The story is about love, both between the dogs and between the moms and their friends and how those things change our lives.
I have known dogs that changed my life, saved my life (a very brave BoBo who killed the snatterrake when I was a small child), and those wonderful furbabies that pass through our lives and leave smiles and memories. The book is enhanced because one of the moms is Martha Teichner, a CBS Sunday correspondent. The story is nothing short of uplifting, deeply sad and emotional, and reminds us that opening your heart is usually worth it. The narrative is rich and warm, read by the author on the audio, which I recommend. Very touching.
I would like to thank Celadon Books for giving me an advanced copy of this book so that I could read and review it. I’m not certain I would have selected this book on my own, but I know I would have been missing out if I hadn’t gotten the chance to read it. This was a heartbreakingly sweet story that had my snuggling my poor cat a little harder while I sniffled my way through this book. The author is a great writer and her descriptions of the people and animals bring them to life in this compelling memoir. CBS correspondent, Martha Teichner, found herself wanting to adopt an older dog to keep her dog Minnie company and ease the loss of her dog Goose. This takes her on an adventure and emotional roller coaster journey that is amazing to witness. This is a story of friendship, loss, and most importantly love in all of it’s many forms. Anyone who has ever loved a four legged friend should read this book.
If you’re a dog lover, or someone that enjoys stories of fate, When Harry Met Minnie by Martha Teichner may be for you. This is a heartwarming, emotional and sensitively written memoir brought to us by an author most famous for her work as an American television news correspondent.
The story is one that the author reports as an unexplainable coincidence which changed everything in her life. Having been part of the New York City dog walking scene, bull terrier walking Martha meets Steven with his dog at a farmer’s market. Through conversation about dogs, Steven reveals his good friend Carol also has a bull terrier. Carol has terminal cancer and wishes to a find a forever home for her beloved bull terrier Harry when she can no longer care for him. Martha has been searching for an older male bull terrier for her dog Minnie. Introductions are made. Martha and Carol have so much in common, and Harry meets Minnie.
Through the course of several weeks, the two dogs spend more time together. The antics of the dogs are hilariously written, similar to what you expect from a new parent marvelling at the wonders of their ever-changing baby’s own growth and development. This book has many moments of joy and describes the true friendship that quickly developed between the two women. There are also moments of sadness which left me in tears. The book is both engaging and entertaining. It’s no wonder that many publishers were willing to publish this book.
I listened to my library’s audiobook copy of the book which was narrated by the author. Given her professional background, her performance made it easy to listen to. I loved the fact that she narrated the book so the story could be told in her own voice, as it magnified the compassion and intimacy of this beautiful story. I highly recommend this format to those of you who enjoy audiobooks.
I listened to When Harry Met Minnie on audio and I am so glad that Martha narrated her own book. She is one of my favorite correspondents on CBS Sunday Morning and it just seems right that she told her own story. While this is a dog story, it is a lot more besides. It is a tale of friendship, food, New York City, cancer, fashion and death. Martha has a gift for providing details and I enjoyed her descriptions of her apartment in New York, the food she shopped for and the fashions she and Carol wore. The theme of how sometimes just a chance encounter can completely change your life runs throughout the book. And while the story was a sad one that a friend was dying of cancer, it was heartwarming that Martha and Carol became friends and that Martha was able to provide a home for Carol’s beloved pet dog, Harry. My only regret is that by listening to the audio, I missed the photos from the book.
This book was just what I needed. Although it deals with some heavy topics, this book packs a punch in the feels department. As a dog lover (two dogs, one cat) I'm sure this book will resonate with people who like a good memoir, and just want some hope and love in their lives. This is not just a dog story; it's a story of two women who find each other during the most depressing times in their lives.
I laughed, and I cried throughout this novel, and that doesn't happen very often. A truly emotional read, I give it 5 stars.
I am typically not a memoir reader nor do I dive much into the non-fiction side of the book world but occasionally one comes along and it reminds me why these genres can be so loved. I also knew by the cover and synopsis that I would probably need tissues and lots of them.
Martha Teichner told two intertwined stories in this book that tugged hard at my heart strings. Carol Fetig is fighting cancer and diagnosed with little time left. When her doctor suggests putting her bull terrier, Harry, down when she leaves this life, Carol seeks out a new home for Harry. As chance encounters and fate goes, this leads Carol and Harry to the open heart of Martha and her bull terrier, Minnie. Martha journals the journey of Harry and Minnie and her growing friendship with Carol and shows the emotional side of cancer and loss.
This was a highly emotional read for me. For those who have fought the fight with cancer or those who have lost their beloved fur-babies, this will be a hard read. It's so real and so raw but also full of hope and times of happiness. It's an honest look at the end stages of cancer and makes you consider those four legged (or less) family members who may be left behind when you go.
Though heart wrenching, I am thankful to have received this emotional memoir from Celadon Books. Sometimes we need reminders that life is short and your calling card can come at any time. Spend time with all of those that you love and don't let the daily grind make you forget how to live in the moment.
A direct to the heart memoir about friends and doing the right thing whenever put in a position to make the choice. It is difficult at times and very touching. One dog mom trying to find a partner for her distressed dog after the loss of their other furbaby. Intertwine this with someone who introduces her to a women who is terminally ill and must find a place for her dog to go after she passes. Thus begins the love story of Harrie and Minnie. A tough subject to broach. Content Disclaimer for anyone that recently lost a pet or a loved one.
This book isn’t just about dogs. It’s about companionship and being there for one another. The sacrifices we make the love we have for another. To put others before ourself. The friendship and connection that was made not just just between Harry and Minnie but their owners themselves, Martha and Carol. An ode one would say to Carol and a memory that will last forever.
This book is on Wesley Banks current list of ‘100 best dog books of all time’ and will make number 69 of the 100 I have read. As you can see from my 4 stars, while I thought it was a good book, and the dogs are a significant element, it is mostly about the lady who took a dog in, and the lady who had to give hers up.
The author, Martha Teichner, who has been a correspondent for CBS’s Saturday Morning, does a great thing by taking in Harry. I appreciated how she didn’t bring in any politics into the book. I share her attitude on dogs:
‘And I need at least one dog walking along beside me, even better, two, as I push my grocery cart east, across town, and then back. Without a dog or two beside me, I feel incomplete. I catch myself talking to one or the other even if they’re not there and then feel like an idiot.’
Martha has a bull terrier and says a bit about the breed in this passage which finishes with a question that I am still pondering:
‘Bull terriers are odd dogs. With their egg-shaped heads, slitty eyes, and pointy ears, they’re funny looking. Think Spuds MacKenzie or the Target dog. BTs are opinionated, exuberant, stubborn, extremely silly, and loving, but at times too smart for their own good. What does that say about bull terrier owners?’
We learn that Harry has health problems, In the email Martha receives that lists them, it also has this fun fact:
EXCENTRICITIES When he was about 4 months old Harry discovered a metal bowl at the dog park. It has been in his life ever since. He is incredibly smart and after a time he figured out he could put a tennis ball (or 2) in the bowl and flip it out and catch it. He does this for hours and will entertain (or not) guests for hours with this “trick.” | am going to send you videos of Harry with his bowl under separate Cover.
Related to requirements for the health issues, here is a passage of one thing Martha winds up having to do:
‘Breakfast. Not mine, Harry’s and Minnie’s, | Ordered Harry’s three kinds of prescription diet dog food online and had the shipments sent to my office, since delivery service, can’t get into the building where I live unless someone’s home to buzz them in. A case of twelve cans and two eight-and-a half-pound bags of dry food. Heavy. I took them home six cans or a bag at a time on the bus, so it took four days per shipment. I became a dog-food packhorse.’
I have kept a journal since 1986 and It sounds like Martha keeps one too. So when she started on the process to take on Harry, seems normal it should go in her journal and then it built into this book. Here she discusses it with Carol Fertig, Harry’s owner:
‘I explained that from the very beginning of the journey we were on together, what we were sharing seemed special to me. I said that after Harry’s first visit, I started keeping a diary because I didn’t want to forget anything that happened. On Sunday afternoons, on airplanes, in hotel rooms late at night, I wrote, racing to get down the previous week’s events before they were overtaken by something else, before I got too far behind. As I did, it began to dawn on me that this was a good story, and I should maybe try to write a book. I had never written a book, so who knew what would happen, I said, but I would only attempt it if I had her permission. If she felt I was in any way intruding, infringing on her right to a private death, I wouldn’t do it, I told her, but telling the story would mean that something of who she was would be left behind. She would have to trust that I would get it right.’
The book is set in NY, which some people love, and some of us used to love to visit. It is very rich in details; of the city, of people, and of what they wear. The details of conversations and correspondence are provided. Carol’s decline in health is also provided in painful detail.
One detail I found interesting was on her au pair or in this case dog au pair. (au pair [ˌō ˈper] noun: a young person from abroad, typically a woman, who helps with housework or childcare in exchange for food, a room, and a small wage.) The author has had quite a few which she summarizes some thoughts on it here after listing those she has had:
‘There have been at least a dozen others. I’ve loved the incredible variety of people who answered my ads and didn’t think being a dog au pair was strange. Most of them have been interesting people.’
Those who live in or love New York will like this book more than I did. Those who enjoy hearing details of fashion and furnishing will enjoy this book more than I did. I did find the book very different than my other dog books and enjoyed the story even though those aspects were not my cup of tea.
Having recently finished “When Harry Met Minnie: A True Story of Love and Friendship” by Martha Teichner, I am happy to have had the chance for the preview; thank you NetGalley and Celadon Books!
Believing in fate and reading about those amazing moments in this story is definitely one of the things I will remember about "When Harry Met Minnie."
Martha came into Carol's life when Carol needed her most. And Minnie was there for Harry when he was in need of friendship as well. In this case the brief yet powerful friendship was treasured forever in a diary of memories and a crazy amount of furry photos. This story had heart-break, but it was balanced with moments of joy. E-mail exchanges between Martha and Carol were sad yet comforting; and at times funny too. I am so grateful Martha was able to share all of it with all of us lucky enough to read her story. 🐾❤🐾
Thank you to Celadon Books for sending my a physical copy in the mail one day. I love getting surprise books in the mail and this was no different. :) ESPECIALLY books about animals...even more so when they are about animal human relationships. When I read the synopsis, I knew that it wouldn't necessarily end well but I dived in like I had no idea. And I can't tell you how much this book touched my heart...it almost makes it hurt all over again as I am writing this. Essentially, the book is about how two bull terrier lovers came together even though they were complete strangers at the time. Martha and Minnie were just going about their business one day when they learned of a fellow bull terrier lover who was in trouble...and by in trouble I mean she had a terminal disease and was trying to find a good home for her senior bull terrier. Martha contacted Carol to see what the story was and learned that Carol had cancer and she was desperately trying to find someone who could take on Harry through the rest of HIS life...as they shared the same vet, it was easy to learn about the many issues Harry had. Most people would probably not take on a dog with so many health issues as we all know those can be expensive...especially for a stranger. Martha and Carol sort of date the dogs so they can get to know each other before the big day but things happen sooner than expected and Harry is thrust into full time life with Martha and Minnie. I was so sad he never got to see his human mommy again and he had no idea that that last goodbye really was the last goodbye. My heart really hurt after this book but you need to read a book like that every now and then, in my opinion. Life can't all be sunshine and roses. All in all, I really liked this book and as it made me laugh and cry, it got a 5 star rating :) My only wish would be that it had some pictures thrown in...I was looking up Carol and the dogs throughout :)
This book fell flat for me. I kept waiting to FEEL something. I KNOW, I KNOW, the subject matter was very sad, as it follows the author agreeing to take in a dying woman's dog, and their subsequent relationship. For some reason, it just didn't tug on my heartstrings. ( I am an avid doglover, BTW). Maybe there was too much detail, as I found myself skimming over anecdotal stories more times than just once. Thank you NetGalley for this copy!
This was a heartfelt book through-and-through. It had me in tears from the first chapter and then laughing out loud nearly two seconds later. This book made me want to work in NYC at Bark box even though I am not in my mid-20’s. I enjoyed getting to know the different people that were a part of the book and the connections they had with one another and the Minnie and Harry! I appreciate the authors connection to her dear friend and this does to show, “everything certainly does happen for a reason.”