This book clarifies the issues borderline patients face in their daily lives and the attendant treatment dilemmas therapists confront. The authors offer a clear and concise stance for engaging this troubled and troublesome population, focusing in particular on the first stage of therapy, the time during which a constant attachment must be formed between the borderline patient and the therapist. This first phase of treatment is neither quick nor easy to resolve; a guide to its management can make the difference between a successful treatment and one that flounders.
I think there is a lot to be said for this book. The author argues it's best just to be present for a while to denvelop trust. Only once object constancy is present can the work of therapy begin. Being able to hold and hand back the projections of the client in a repackaged form is a skill of good therapy. Needs a very aware, extremely patient and non-egotistical person it would seem. Overall a good read and does not confine itself to strictly to any theoretical approach. The author seems to be sharing insights from hard-won skills.