Heavy topics for kids
The author did a great job portraying depression, death, accidents, fear, etc that was very age appropriate for the target audience as well as not shying away from the ugliness of it all. I give her props for that. It reminded me very much of how the world turned upside down for some in the year 2020, except a different scenario caused everyone to be shut inside and schools to close. In this story, it hasn't stopped snowing and people are snowed in for the foreseeable future.
Being locked away with her family is understandably making Lou go nuts, especially when dealing with her whiny little brother, her disattached mother, and the distance from her friends which seem to be growing apart.
I am not sure how kids take/took to this story and while I did enjoy some parts, others.....I couldn't get past.
Her mother's attitude just made me angry. Yes, she was sad, yes life was hard, yes people handle grief/change differently, but wow. She was harsh with her daughter. It broke my heart to read about a little girl trying to "fix" things for her MOTHER, a woman who is SUPPOSED to be there for HER! How she tried to just spend quality time with her mother, how she wanted to see her mom happy and making art again and over and over the woman was all "I don't want to talk about it." Or "STOP IT!" Or "Can't you just help?", "I can't handle this right now", "He's your brother."
Well, lady he's YOUR son! Its is not a child's job to make sure her sibling is not bored and taken care of or entertained. Her daughters concerns and feelings were JUST as valid! As an adult, she should try to BE there for her kids. I'm not saying an adult has to hide her feelings or emotions and put on a mask. But there are ways to handle it healthily, without making it worse for kids. It was just so sad and upsetting.
Idk, maybe I just can't relate. Even as a child my mom would sit me down to explain situations so I wouldnt be confused, even when she was having marital problems. I was also never a child who pretended to like things just because my friends did. Nor did I stay friends with kids that I felt were mean. That's just not something I can relate to.
I think poor Lou had problems dealing with her pain because her mother wasn't showing her a good example and so she kept it bottled up too and made choices that her herself and sometimes others.
Towards the end though she broke through and expressed herself through art which was beautiful! It was overall a good book and their father was so supportive even when in the face of a tragedy their friend/neighbor was going through too. So sweet of them to help. Loved that.