Insightful and sad story
We, humans, usually personify objects around us, either for fun or for emotional support. It may be a favourite toy or any day to day object. But in the book “The Unusual Bond” by Vijay Kakwani, the protagonist, Vaidehi, has chosen a grave as her emotional crutch. As she finds her husband, a highly successful writer, drift away from her, she stumbles across the grave of a person. Her teacher from her high school was someone she had hated when she was a child. But upon finding out she was already six feet under, Vaidehi feels compelled to pour out her emotions in front of the grave. She brings flowers from her garden every day and then sits for a session of venting. Graves do not judge.
The book is a 23 paged novella, but emotions are high, as are the implications behind the story. The protagonist carries a lot of emotional burdens. And her troubles run more profound than an average person. She embodies the expectations and aspirations that we have. Her loneliness is immediately evident from the fact that she chooses a grave, the last place a person would desire to unwind as her place of calmness.
I liked that the author has also inserted a few commonplace issues that most Indian girls have had to face. When a spouse gets too immersed in his/ her work, it ultimately destroys a relationship. I was sad when I read the scene where Vaidehi is at the hospital. She finally gives up trying when her husband gives an evasive answer, probably without even hearing her question. A person may provide all material things for you, but if he/she is not emotionally present, then is there even a relationship?
In retrospect, it is a sad story of a woman who just wanted to live a happy life with her family but is disappointed in every step of her life. Her solace is in talking to a grave, which makes the story more desolate. Readers should give the book a once over.