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First published October 18, 2016
Loving her is so damn easy. It’s as natural as breathing or the beating of a heart.
"Scars stick around to prove you showed up for life. That you lived. That you fought. That you loved.”
“If you take you away from me, you take everything."
“Bruises go away. Scars stick around to prove you showed up for life. That you lived. That you fought. That you loved.”Talk about a book coming out and hitting you right in the feels… This book had me tearing up from the start and bawling like a baby by the end. And it felt so good! I love a good cry when I’m reading, especially if the ending is satisfying to me. Written in the Scars is an emotional read about a married couple fighting for their love. As the blurb says, Falling in love is easy. Falling out of love is the hardest thing in the world. Thats what makes things so complicated for Ty and Elin. No matter what their relationship goes through, they can never quite manage to fall out of love with each other.
“Maybe that's what love is, something so beautiful and perfect that you can only feel it.”
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"I'm yours, E. You're mine. We are two people that get it right most of the time, but, on occasion, we fuck up."

"Loving her is so damn easy. It's as natural as breathing or the beating of a heart. It's making life work around the love that's hard."
















"I loved her. That’s never been a question. It's making life work around the love that's hard. Life doesn't care about feelings. It couldn't give a shit about who you love and want to be with. It keeps tossing crap your way, trying to break you until all you know is the chaos of it all."I really loved this quote, and the whole premise of the book: that relationships take more than love, they take work.
"You can't expect a relationship to succeed based on the love you felt at the beginning. It succeeds because you continue to build on it until the end."And after seven years of marriage, Ty and Elin learn that even the strongest relationships have challenges. They struggle, they fight, and eventually, Ty leaves. He's not gone for long, forty-three days, to be exact. But it only takes a second for a life to change, and Elin suffers a loss during his absence (which he is unaware of) that makes forgiving him even harder.

"I have wanted you since the moment I saw you at your locker in eighth grade. From the moment I asked if you had any gum because I wanted to hear the voice of the girl that took my breath away. I've wanted you since that exact second, and I've never stopped."
"I promised you for better or worse, until death do us part. This is the worse part. I'm aiming for the better now. Even if it takes me until the death part, I'll try. I love you, Elin. I'm going to remind you of that until you believe it."He isn't afraid to admit his mistakes, say sorry, and beg for her forgiveness. It has been so hard to find a good grovel lately, and this definitely delivered! Ty was perfection <3 <3

"I've imagined this scenario a thousand times. The moment I saw him again has played over and over in my mind. The vision always looks different. Everything from us running in slow motion to each other, kissing like our lives depended on it, to me throwing every punch and kick I could manage straight into his gorgeous, frustrating face was possible."It all just felt so genuine, I was crying for so much of this novel because of how well these emotions were displayed. Because while Ty is very convinced they'll find their way back to each other, Elin isn't so sure. She loves him, of course, but she's practical about the fact that maybe, sometimes, love isn't enough.
"But when you're in a hole this deep, is love a big enough ladder to climb out? It certainly doesn’t seem so."Luckily she has a close group of friends, who are more like family, to help her through it.
"Don't make decisions because you just want to end the pain. Don't lose Ty because you're mad or hurt or confused. Be the smart girl I know you to be."I understood her pain, anger, and fear. I thought it was just the right amount of angst. Honestly the only thing I would change is that I wish . But eventually, she can't help but let him back in.

"Maybe that's what love is, something so beautiful and perfect that you can only feel it."
"Your heart will be more scarred than your back by the end of your lifetime. That is, if you live the right way."
"Love fully, even when it gets hard. Give forgiveness, even when you aren't sure the other guy deserves it. And in every friendship you're in, don't forget to actually be friends."
"Sometimes family isn't made by blood. Sometimes it's a choice."
"Even when you can't walk in someone else's shoes, you do have to try them on."

“ love you, Ty. For better or worse. Til death do us part. ”
“Bruises go away. Scars stick around to prove you showed up for life. That you lived. That you fought. That you loved.”
“The foundation of a marriage is love. The walls of shared life are built with trust, loyalty and respect. Once those are torn down, there's nothing left standing. ”
