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In the Hands of the Lord: The Life of Dallin H. Oaks
Dallin H. Oaks may not have seemed the likeliest choice to become an Apostle. His life path had been anything but conventional. He was only seven when his mother became a widow. His young adulthood saw him joining the National Guard and marrying at nineteen. But all along that path, the Lord was preparing him for the call that would eventually come.
This engaging biography by noted historian Richard E. Turley, Jr. takes the reader on a fascinating journey through the life of an extraordinary leader. It is filled with stories and photographs detailing his boyhood, his family life, his education and military experiences, and his distinguished academic and law career.
Most important, we witness his willingness to set aside that career in favor of a higher responsibility. In 1984, when President Gordon B. Hinckley extended the call to the apostleship, Dallin H. Oaks replied, “My life is in the hands of the Lord, and my career is in the hands of His servants.” His lifetime of dedication to the Lord’s work gives truth to his words and offers inspiration and faith to all who ready his story.
This engaging biography by noted historian Richard E. Turley, Jr. takes the reader on a fascinating journey through the life of an extraordinary leader. It is filled with stories and photographs detailing his boyhood, his family life, his education and military experiences, and his distinguished academic and law career.
Most important, we witness his willingness to set aside that career in favor of a higher responsibility. In 1984, when President Gordon B. Hinckley extended the call to the apostleship, Dallin H. Oaks replied, “My life is in the hands of the Lord, and my career is in the hands of His servants.” His lifetime of dedication to the Lord’s work gives truth to his words and offers inspiration and faith to all who ready his story.
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Richard E. Turley Jr.
32 books29 followersRichard E. Turley Jr. retired in March 2020 as Managing Director of the Church Communication Department of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He served previously as Managing Director of the Public Affairs Department, the Church Historical Department, the Family History Department, and the combined Family and Church History Department. He also served as Assistant Church Historian and Recorder. An innovator by nature, he helped oversee the creation of the four-volume history Saints: The Story of the Church of Jesus Christ in the Latter Days, the launch of FamilySearch and FamilySearch Indexing, the building of the new Church History Library, the development of the Joseph Smith Papers, and the formation of the Church Historian’s Press. He acquired key books, documents, and artifacts for the Church’s historical collections, including the 1829 Printer’s Manuscript of the Book of Mormon. He also served for many years on the Church’s Historic Sites Committee.
He has authored or edited numerous books and articles on Latter-day Saint and Western U.S. history, including Massacre at Mountain Meadows: An American Tragedy; Victims: The LDS Church and the Mark Hofmann Case; How We Got the Book of Mormon; and How We Got the Doctrine and Covenants. He was the general editor for The Journals of George Q. Cannon print volumes, as well as coeditor of the series Women of Faith in the Latter Days.
Mr. Turley is also the recipient of numerous awards, including the American Historical Association's Herbert Feis award and the Historic Preservation Medal from the Daughters of the American Revolution.
Mr. Turley received a bachelor’s degree in English from Brigham Young University, where he was a Spencer W. Kimball Scholar. He later graduated from the J. Reuben Clark Law School at BYU, where he served as executive editor of the law review, was elected to the Order of the Coif, and received the Hugh B. Brown Barrister’s Award, given to the student who demonstrates the highest standards of classroom performance.
In September 2023, the First Presidency announced that it had commissioned a new biography of the Prophet Joseph Smith to be written by Mr. Turley.
He has authored or edited numerous books and articles on Latter-day Saint and Western U.S. history, including Massacre at Mountain Meadows: An American Tragedy; Victims: The LDS Church and the Mark Hofmann Case; How We Got the Book of Mormon; and How We Got the Doctrine and Covenants. He was the general editor for The Journals of George Q. Cannon print volumes, as well as coeditor of the series Women of Faith in the Latter Days.
Mr. Turley is also the recipient of numerous awards, including the American Historical Association's Herbert Feis award and the Historic Preservation Medal from the Daughters of the American Revolution.
Mr. Turley received a bachelor’s degree in English from Brigham Young University, where he was a Spencer W. Kimball Scholar. He later graduated from the J. Reuben Clark Law School at BYU, where he served as executive editor of the law review, was elected to the Order of the Coif, and received the Hugh B. Brown Barrister’s Award, given to the student who demonstrates the highest standards of classroom performance.
In September 2023, the First Presidency announced that it had commissioned a new biography of the Prophet Joseph Smith to be written by Mr. Turley.
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May 12, 2021
4.75 stars. Almost a 5. Despite some small reservations, everything I wanted from this biography was checked off.
When Dallin H. Oaks wrote Life's Lessons Learned back in 2011, I assumed that satisfied the life history requirement for a General Authority. Happy to be proven wrong.
This feels timely, pertinent, and should help Saints understand his unique background and perspective he brings to his role. I don't look to prophets and apostles for meme-able quotes and warm fuzzies; I seek direct guidance, and am 100% satisfied with how Dallin H. Oaks fills that function.
Seven highlights that will stick with me:
• The theme of changing perspectives based on additional knowledge and experience pokes its head up frequently, and is wonderful to observe. I love the mention of when Henry B. Eyring and Dallin H. Oaks disagree on an undisclosed topic. After the meeting, Oaks thanks Eyring for helping change his perspective. A good life lesson here.
• I love the Oaks children recollecting their parents occasional disagreement or having differing points of view. +10 points to Dallin and June for explaining to their children that "conflict will occur between husband and wife. The important thing is learning to work things out." Many biographies unfortunately suggests this never happens in the lives of religious leaders, which I worry establishes a false expectation.
• I appreciate feeling like Dallin H. Oaks is the General Authority successor to Leonard Arrington's vision for opening up the historical archives of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and am grateful for his role in supporting the Joseph Smith Papers Project, the Saints four-volume history, and new publications regarding Mountain Meadows.
• President George H.W. Bush in the early 1990s saying, upon meeting with the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve, that "he had never met a group of men with more comprehensive knowledge of what was going on in all parts of the world." It's easy to assume the brethren are unaware of societal trends and world events, and I appreciate a US President recognizing how informed Church leadership is.
• Learning that he has celiac disease. I shared this with my son 9-year old who has Eosinophilic Esophagitis (EOE) and avoids wheat, as well as many other foods. It meant a lot to him to know that he shares a food intolerance with a member of the First Presidency.
• In 1988, three years after being called to the apostleship, he once spent a lot of time telling stories from the pulpit, after which as he "sat down, the Spirit whispered to him, 'Never do that again.'" This appears to be a key in understanding why Dallin H. Oaks presents his doctrinal messages in such a solemn and serious tone.
• His lack of concern with people who become upset at his messages. Elder David A. Bednar is quoted: "He is fearless, absolutely fearless... He draws a lot of fire..., but he couldn't care less. All he wants to do is please Him whom he serves."
Five areas which left me wanting more, and keep me from a full 5-stars:
• Despite the clear value in a law school education, let's agree that a legal career does not sound exciting when written down (unless you're Atticus Finch). It is what it is, not the fault of the author. This will be known as the "2nd Nephi Isaiah Chapters" section of this biography.
• His experience leading Brigham Young University in the 1970s is nothing more than a blip and feels like a missed opportunity. Henry B. Eyring's biography provides fascinating details about his role at Rick's College during this same time period, and the difficult decisions he was required to make. No mention of possible problems in the transition from Wilkinson's 20-year presidency to President Oaks' 9-year stint, and no significant personal interactions with students or faculty are mentioned. I left this section feeling the author highlighted his accomplishments to avoid stating that President Oaks didn't really enjoy the experience professionally.
• Everybody close to him comments on his sense of humor, but actual examples of this humor in action are few and far between. Assuming one of the purposes of this life story is to counter the somber impression people get from him at the pulpit, such humorous anecdotes would help. Not even a favorite lawyer joke?
• Similar to other church biographies, the detailed life history is 5-stars... until he is called as an apostle, after which it goes to 3.5 stars. The chronological narrative turns into general, themed chapters (except for the chapter on the Philippines). They're written remarkably well, especially the chapters on religious freedom and his letter writing. But still... the change of pace is too apparent to disregard.
• The man's a workhorse, and can rival Theodore Roosevelt in the "use time productively" race. In his adult life, apart from limited time with children, what were his personal hobbies? The author mentions an occasional quiet evening, an 11:00pm tennis match, the occasional garden. No other personal interests to flesh him out? Does Dallin H. Oaks truly have no need to let off steam and unwind in any manner? He quoted Fiddler on the Roof once in General Conference... that's suggests some type of personal association with the arts that's not included here at all.
Despite those small hiccups, a life history commensurate with the man.
When Dallin H. Oaks wrote Life's Lessons Learned back in 2011, I assumed that satisfied the life history requirement for a General Authority. Happy to be proven wrong.
This feels timely, pertinent, and should help Saints understand his unique background and perspective he brings to his role. I don't look to prophets and apostles for meme-able quotes and warm fuzzies; I seek direct guidance, and am 100% satisfied with how Dallin H. Oaks fills that function.
Seven highlights that will stick with me:
• The theme of changing perspectives based on additional knowledge and experience pokes its head up frequently, and is wonderful to observe. I love the mention of when Henry B. Eyring and Dallin H. Oaks disagree on an undisclosed topic. After the meeting, Oaks thanks Eyring for helping change his perspective. A good life lesson here.
• I love the Oaks children recollecting their parents occasional disagreement or having differing points of view. +10 points to Dallin and June for explaining to their children that "conflict will occur between husband and wife. The important thing is learning to work things out." Many biographies unfortunately suggests this never happens in the lives of religious leaders, which I worry establishes a false expectation.
• I appreciate feeling like Dallin H. Oaks is the General Authority successor to Leonard Arrington's vision for opening up the historical archives of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and am grateful for his role in supporting the Joseph Smith Papers Project, the Saints four-volume history, and new publications regarding Mountain Meadows.
• President George H.W. Bush in the early 1990s saying, upon meeting with the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve, that "he had never met a group of men with more comprehensive knowledge of what was going on in all parts of the world." It's easy to assume the brethren are unaware of societal trends and world events, and I appreciate a US President recognizing how informed Church leadership is.
• Learning that he has celiac disease. I shared this with my son 9-year old who has Eosinophilic Esophagitis (EOE) and avoids wheat, as well as many other foods. It meant a lot to him to know that he shares a food intolerance with a member of the First Presidency.
• In 1988, three years after being called to the apostleship, he once spent a lot of time telling stories from the pulpit, after which as he "sat down, the Spirit whispered to him, 'Never do that again.'" This appears to be a key in understanding why Dallin H. Oaks presents his doctrinal messages in such a solemn and serious tone.
• His lack of concern with people who become upset at his messages. Elder David A. Bednar is quoted: "He is fearless, absolutely fearless... He draws a lot of fire..., but he couldn't care less. All he wants to do is please Him whom he serves."
Five areas which left me wanting more, and keep me from a full 5-stars:
• Despite the clear value in a law school education, let's agree that a legal career does not sound exciting when written down (unless you're Atticus Finch). It is what it is, not the fault of the author. This will be known as the "2nd Nephi Isaiah Chapters" section of this biography.
• His experience leading Brigham Young University in the 1970s is nothing more than a blip and feels like a missed opportunity. Henry B. Eyring's biography provides fascinating details about his role at Rick's College during this same time period, and the difficult decisions he was required to make. No mention of possible problems in the transition from Wilkinson's 20-year presidency to President Oaks' 9-year stint, and no significant personal interactions with students or faculty are mentioned. I left this section feeling the author highlighted his accomplishments to avoid stating that President Oaks didn't really enjoy the experience professionally.
• Everybody close to him comments on his sense of humor, but actual examples of this humor in action are few and far between. Assuming one of the purposes of this life story is to counter the somber impression people get from him at the pulpit, such humorous anecdotes would help. Not even a favorite lawyer joke?
• Similar to other church biographies, the detailed life history is 5-stars... until he is called as an apostle, after which it goes to 3.5 stars. The chronological narrative turns into general, themed chapters (except for the chapter on the Philippines). They're written remarkably well, especially the chapters on religious freedom and his letter writing. But still... the change of pace is too apparent to disregard.
• The man's a workhorse, and can rival Theodore Roosevelt in the "use time productively" race. In his adult life, apart from limited time with children, what were his personal hobbies? The author mentions an occasional quiet evening, an 11:00pm tennis match, the occasional garden. No other personal interests to flesh him out? Does Dallin H. Oaks truly have no need to let off steam and unwind in any manner? He quoted Fiddler on the Roof once in General Conference... that's suggests some type of personal association with the arts that's not included here at all.
Despite those small hiccups, a life history commensurate with the man.
June 16, 2021
President Oaks is a giant among men. My family has benefited greatly from his personal ministry to us. My grandfather is the Dr. mentioned from his days in Chicago. I’ll never forget when President Oaks attended the viewing of my Grandma and pulled all of us grandchildren aside and talked to us about death and the resurrection. He told us the story mentioned when he could not make it home before Elder Maxwell passed away. I’ll never forget the comfort he brought to our family that day. President Oaks continued to minister to my grandpa throughout my grandfather’s life including attending his 100th birthday party days before he passed away. I have no doubt that President Oaks has been called of God to minister and guide us in the church in these last days and I loved learning more about this great man.
March 16, 2021
I loved learning more about this amazing man. Wonderful book!
March 9, 2021
Such an interesting and enlightening biography of an amazing man. I love seeing how the Lord has not only shaped Elder Oaks into his best self, but the Lord has also shaped him to become extremely useful in God's kingdom on earth. Elder Oaks' talents and experience have been very an important resource over the decades as God's Kingdom and the adversary's kingdom have both grown in comparison with each other. It made me sad to read about the criticism and cruelty he often receives for speaking what the Lord tells him to say. These men truly devote their lives to building God's kingdom on earth. I highly recommend this book. Fantastic!
October 3, 2025
The life of Dallin H. Oaks.
After President Nelson’s passing, I told my mom I had reservations about Dallin H. Oaks becoming prophet. I knew I’d sustain him, but I didn’t feel the same warmth I had with President Nelson—Oaks seemed more stern. My mom, who had read his biography, felt the opposite and encouraged me to read it to “get to know him” better.
I could not have asked for a better experience. I’m humbled. I adored this. It brought such peace and humbleness to my spirit. “There are no shortcuts in his life. Do things right, or not at all.”
After President Nelson’s passing, I told my mom I had reservations about Dallin H. Oaks becoming prophet. I knew I’d sustain him, but I didn’t feel the same warmth I had with President Nelson—Oaks seemed more stern. My mom, who had read his biography, felt the opposite and encouraged me to read it to “get to know him” better.
I could not have asked for a better experience. I’m humbled. I adored this. It brought such peace and humbleness to my spirit. “There are no shortcuts in his life. Do things right, or not at all.”
March 10, 2021
I enjoyed reading more about President Oaks. The first half was particularly interesting to me. I wondered why he didn't include sitting next to me at at table once. Oh well.
October 24, 2025
6 stars. Highly recommend. Especially love the first 2/3 of the book, in the pre-apostle years.
Love:
-hearing about his political leanings changing as a SC clerk
-listening to his kids tease him about how serious he comes across in his talks but everyone who knows him personally says he’s so different and so funny irl
-how much he did as dean of Chicago law to help underserved communities
-his dislike of the honor code modesty requirements pre-BYU president years
-how hard he worked his whole life. Honestly astounding.
-his family camping trips literally everywhere. Love that.
-how much June did as basically a single mother—still pursued education and seems so funny, would love to read her personal history he did for her.
-love that big law can be practiced more at home now!!! Sheesh. His days at k&e were wild.
-the section on all the personal letters he wrote—love.
-he just really loves his family.
Would love to see how his views on LGBTQ+ have changed—like it mentioned he said once it was wrong to say individuals were born that way? Does he still think that?
Love:
-hearing about his political leanings changing as a SC clerk
-listening to his kids tease him about how serious he comes across in his talks but everyone who knows him personally says he’s so different and so funny irl
-how much he did as dean of Chicago law to help underserved communities
-his dislike of the honor code modesty requirements pre-BYU president years
-how hard he worked his whole life. Honestly astounding.
-his family camping trips literally everywhere. Love that.
-how much June did as basically a single mother—still pursued education and seems so funny, would love to read her personal history he did for her.
-love that big law can be practiced more at home now!!! Sheesh. His days at k&e were wild.
-the section on all the personal letters he wrote—love.
-he just really loves his family.
Would love to see how his views on LGBTQ+ have changed—like it mentioned he said once it was wrong to say individuals were born that way? Does he still think that?
October 11, 2023
This was excellent! Highly recommend.
March 17, 2026
Format: audiobook
I don't know how I could give a book about the Prophet anything less than five stars! To hear about his life and all the challenges he has overcome was incredible. Pres. Oaks is one of the most hard-working individuals I think I've ever heard about, and he hasn't stopped yet! From his work in law, to being BYU president, to his church service, Pres. Oaks displayed Christ-like love for all those around him, and gave us a stunning example to follow. I would highly recommend this biography!
I don't know how I could give a book about the Prophet anything less than five stars! To hear about his life and all the challenges he has overcome was incredible. Pres. Oaks is one of the most hard-working individuals I think I've ever heard about, and he hasn't stopped yet! From his work in law, to being BYU president, to his church service, Pres. Oaks displayed Christ-like love for all those around him, and gave us a stunning example to follow. I would highly recommend this biography!
November 15, 2025
Learned a lot about President Oak’s life that I’d never heard before. That man is a hard worker. I can’t believe how much he’s accomplished in his lifetime.
February 28, 2022
How can one not love President Oaks? I always enjoy biographies of apostles because I get to see the professional, church, and general life experiences that have shaped them into the leaders they have become. Dallin Oaks' journey is a little atypical, in that he didn't go on a mission (because of the Korean War), he never served as a bishop, and he wasn't a mission president. His resume instead includes clerking for Chief Justice Earl Warren, the Presidency of Brigham Young University, and time on the Utah Supreme Court. And then he has labored away as an Apostle of Jesus Christ for nearly forty years! His life contributions easily get a solid 5 stars.
For the biography, I give 4.25 stars. Organization of this type of work is never easy. Should an author take a chronological approach, or separate out career from church service? Where should family be discussed? How much room is there for the subject's philosophical introspection? And what is the proper balance between these elements? Turley's finished work isn't perfect, but it's very well done. In comparing In the Hands of the Lord to biographies of Gordon B. Hinckley, Thomas S. Monson, and Russell M. Nelson, I felt like I didn't get as much information about what specifically he did during his years as an apostle. Turley spent more time on Oaks' thoughts about the issues facing the church and quoting from his talks and letters, rather than reviewing his administrative functions, and this was perhaps purposeful, as Dallin Oaks himself talks about wanting his apostleship to be less about administration.
I'll finish my review with my favorite quote from the whole book that I think sums up this marvelous human being. In the words of President Oaks:
For the biography, I give 4.25 stars. Organization of this type of work is never easy. Should an author take a chronological approach, or separate out career from church service? Where should family be discussed? How much room is there for the subject's philosophical introspection? And what is the proper balance between these elements? Turley's finished work isn't perfect, but it's very well done. In comparing In the Hands of the Lord to biographies of Gordon B. Hinckley, Thomas S. Monson, and Russell M. Nelson, I felt like I didn't get as much information about what specifically he did during his years as an apostle. Turley spent more time on Oaks' thoughts about the issues facing the church and quoting from his talks and letters, rather than reviewing his administrative functions, and this was perhaps purposeful, as Dallin Oaks himself talks about wanting his apostleship to be less about administration.
I'll finish my review with my favorite quote from the whole book that I think sums up this marvelous human being. In the words of President Oaks:
Throughout the remainder of your life will you be a judge and lawyer who has been called to be an Apostle, or will you be an Apostle who used to be a lawyer and a judge?... I knew that if I concentrated my time on the things that came naturally and the things that I felt qualified to do, I would never be an Apostle. I would always be a former lawyer and judge. I decided that I would focus my efforts on what I had been called to do, not what I was qualified to do. I determined that instead of trying to shape my calling to my credentials, I would try to shape myself to my calling.
July 16, 2021
I have to say I was so disappointed in this book. The author wrote it as more of a historical book than a biography for me. I honestly don't need to read every single word the Pres. Oaks has said. The biography on Pres. Nelson is absolutely fantastic. It reads quickly and you can place yourself in some of the stories. Not with this book. It pained me to see the time and effort that Pres. Oaks put into his work. I am sorry but his family had to have suffered because of it. I understand that great people must function this way but it was just sad to me. If the author said one more time, "and then he worked harder" I was going to lose it.
I skimmed the last 50 or so pages because it literally was just quotes by Pres. Oaks. He is a remarkable man don't get me wrong. What he has accomplished in one day I couldn't do in a lifetime but this book is not one that I would ever want to read again.
I skimmed the last 50 or so pages because it literally was just quotes by Pres. Oaks. He is a remarkable man don't get me wrong. What he has accomplished in one day I couldn't do in a lifetime but this book is not one that I would ever want to read again.
April 3, 2024
Got gifted this one. Straightforward hagiography as the genre demands, and another entry into the canon of American religious biographies that try to balance a traditional Horatio Alger bootstrapping narrative with the need for some foreordination and then divine intervention on the subject’s behalf. What propels our hero to success and happiness? Grace in a general way, and his works more specifically. Many such cases unforch.
May 21, 2021
I knew very little about this man before reading this book. I have greater respect for him no after having read it. This was a very uplifting and inspiring book. I have deeper appreciation and admiration for him as one of the first presidency members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
October 31, 2023
Excellent read. I was highly impacted by the story of Oaks’s life. He was appointed president of a major university at my current age. Provokes a lot of introspection for me! He was an extraordinary man. Humble beginnings having tragically lost his father at an early age and raised by a single mother. First in his class at University of Chicago law school. Supreme Court clerk to Chief Justice Earl Warren. BigLaw associate at Kirkland & Ellis under Robert Bork. And then his transition into academia. I feel a kindred spirit with his attraction to academia and teaching. As well as his interest in meaningful pro Bono work for indigent defendants. He even used Les Miserables in a court proceeding! My kind of guy. He is a deeply spiritual man and I am astonished at the power, status, and prestige he gave up to minister to the one and instead devote his life to God and service to his fellow man. I didn’t know he turned down the D.C. Circuit judgeship that eventually went to Scalia! And that Scalia asked for his recommendation. Remarkable. Oaks easily could have been a Supreme Court Justice. His commitment to the Utah Supreme Court as a Justice during a difficult period for the court was inspiring. And I could see how he enjoyed the “menu” of the common law and general jurisdictional matters in state court. In all, his willing acceptance to be an apostle and his extraordinary service to the Church is inspiring.
Because of this book I have started a daily journal, similar to how he did in his late 30s. Because of this book I am inspired to go into big law and my career with an eye towards what really matters. I did also learn that Oaks is probably a workaholic (the book calls his work ethic as an oft-turned-to “medicine” for the travails of life), but that he tried mightily to make time for family relationships and was supported by a magnificent woman who was his equal in all respects. I also learned that they had “heated” discussions about things in their marriage and that it was a healthy form of robust debate and resolution of things that matter. Not necessarily an indicator of a failing marriage. And I love how he said that the family is the most effective department of health, education, and welfare. In sum, I learned a lot from this book and have taken away many things to incorporate in my own life.
My only misgiving with Rick Turley’s treatment was the inclusion of some unnecessary minutiae. Sometimes it felt disjunct and out of the blue and altogether unimportant in the large scheme of Oaks’s life. But I appreciate that he had to digest a trove of personal history sources and pick and choose. For the most part, he chose wisely.
Because of this book I have started a daily journal, similar to how he did in his late 30s. Because of this book I am inspired to go into big law and my career with an eye towards what really matters. I did also learn that Oaks is probably a workaholic (the book calls his work ethic as an oft-turned-to “medicine” for the travails of life), but that he tried mightily to make time for family relationships and was supported by a magnificent woman who was his equal in all respects. I also learned that they had “heated” discussions about things in their marriage and that it was a healthy form of robust debate and resolution of things that matter. Not necessarily an indicator of a failing marriage. And I love how he said that the family is the most effective department of health, education, and welfare. In sum, I learned a lot from this book and have taken away many things to incorporate in my own life.
My only misgiving with Rick Turley’s treatment was the inclusion of some unnecessary minutiae. Sometimes it felt disjunct and out of the blue and altogether unimportant in the large scheme of Oaks’s life. But I appreciate that he had to digest a trove of personal history sources and pick and choose. For the most part, he chose wisely.
February 15, 2026
Read this one aloud to Hayden on all of our long car rides over the past few months 🤗
Pres. Oaks’ life is so well documented! While I learned about his achievements and impressive resume, I enjoyed most the opportunity to learn more about his character. The book is full of excerpts from his own personal journal, and I appreciated seeing a side of him that doesn’t normally come across in his talks. I love him!
“Our lives our made up of little, simple circumstances that amount to a great deal when they are brought together, and sum up the whole life of the man or woman.”
“Elder Oaks encouraged to “focus on strivings rather than on accomplishments”, observing that “strivings are better indexes of accomplishment than any other worldly measure, such as position, power, or prestige.” Moreover, “focusing on strivings is also helpful to put in perspective the fact that no one is perfect, that we all fall short, and that we are, therefore, all in need of repentance and the stoning sacrifice of our Savior.”
At the funeral of his first wife, June Oaks: “Elder Oaks praised her goodness: “She was my best friend, a vital strength to my weakness, a loved stimulus to my strengths. In the gardens of my marriage, I grew the vegetables and she cultivated the flowers.”
“My dad (Pres. Oaks) said that the best thing a father can do for their children is to love their mother. He loved my mother.”
“I knew that if I concentrated my time on things that came naturally and the things that I felt qualified to do, I would never be an Apostle. I would always be a former lawyer and judge. I made up my mind that was not for me. I decided I would focus my efforts on what I had been called to do, not on what I was qualified to do. I determined that instead of trying to shape my calling to my credentials, I would try to shape myself to my calling.”
Pres. Oaks’ life is so well documented! While I learned about his achievements and impressive resume, I enjoyed most the opportunity to learn more about his character. The book is full of excerpts from his own personal journal, and I appreciated seeing a side of him that doesn’t normally come across in his talks. I love him!
“Our lives our made up of little, simple circumstances that amount to a great deal when they are brought together, and sum up the whole life of the man or woman.”
“Elder Oaks encouraged to “focus on strivings rather than on accomplishments”, observing that “strivings are better indexes of accomplishment than any other worldly measure, such as position, power, or prestige.” Moreover, “focusing on strivings is also helpful to put in perspective the fact that no one is perfect, that we all fall short, and that we are, therefore, all in need of repentance and the stoning sacrifice of our Savior.”
At the funeral of his first wife, June Oaks: “Elder Oaks praised her goodness: “She was my best friend, a vital strength to my weakness, a loved stimulus to my strengths. In the gardens of my marriage, I grew the vegetables and she cultivated the flowers.”
“My dad (Pres. Oaks) said that the best thing a father can do for their children is to love their mother. He loved my mother.”
“I knew that if I concentrated my time on things that came naturally and the things that I felt qualified to do, I would never be an Apostle. I would always be a former lawyer and judge. I made up my mind that was not for me. I decided I would focus my efforts on what I had been called to do, not on what I was qualified to do. I determined that instead of trying to shape my calling to my credentials, I would try to shape myself to my calling.”
February 5, 2026
I loved learning more context about President Oaks’ life and felt like it helps me understand his speaking style, subject choices, and mannerisms so much more. President Oaks seems to be labeled by many as strictly traditional and overly conservative, but I think his life tells a different story.
I was so impressed by his mother, Stella, who after her husband died young, trusted the care of her children to her parents and went to Columbia for a Masters degree, at a time when that was unheard of, especially for women in the Church. I love his support and encouragement of education for women, including his first wife even while they had young kids at home, and in his capacity as president of BYU. I admire his deep commitment, diligence, and sacrifice for the things in which he believes. I look forward to hearing from him more as the Prophet and President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
I highly recommend reading this to get to know him better! We only get a tiny glimpse in his conference addresses.
I was so impressed by his mother, Stella, who after her husband died young, trusted the care of her children to her parents and went to Columbia for a Masters degree, at a time when that was unheard of, especially for women in the Church. I love his support and encouragement of education for women, including his first wife even while they had young kids at home, and in his capacity as president of BYU. I admire his deep commitment, diligence, and sacrifice for the things in which he believes. I look forward to hearing from him more as the Prophet and President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
I highly recommend reading this to get to know him better! We only get a tiny glimpse in his conference addresses.
March 17, 2026
President Oaks was already a hero to me, but after reading about his life, he’s even more so. Very misunderstood and misrepresented. He is extremely loving, fair, and generous. He takes his calling as God’s servant seriously. He declares truth and counsels us all to have love and mercy for our fellow humans, especially those who are different.
I thought it interesting that he almost didn’t take the BYU president job because of dress and grooming standards. When he was at BYU, he pushed to change policy that paid women equal to their men counterparts. He has been teaching love and tolerance for LGBT community since the 90’s!
He worked really hard. He inspires me to work harder to develop my knowledge and intellect. After reading about him, I feel even more confident trusting and sustaining him as the Lord’s prophet on the earth.
I thought it interesting that he almost didn’t take the BYU president job because of dress and grooming standards. When he was at BYU, he pushed to change policy that paid women equal to their men counterparts. He has been teaching love and tolerance for LGBT community since the 90’s!
He worked really hard. He inspires me to work harder to develop my knowledge and intellect. After reading about him, I feel even more confident trusting and sustaining him as the Lord’s prophet on the earth.
February 26, 2026
I went into reading this hoping to have a deeper understanding of President Oaks. He’s not a spiritual leader I’ve ever really connected with - he feels very tough love and black and white and intense to me in his messaging. This book however gave me a profound admiration and understanding of him and his life. Losing his dad at such a young age, being away from his mom while she went back to school to be able to provide for her kids (the foundation she started for women?!), being committed to integrity and honesty and hard work. Highly recommend this book and am very inspired by the life he has led personally/spiritually/academically and professionally.
December 8, 2024
Other than it took me forever to read, I loved this book. I love Pres. Oaks. He’s one of the very best. It was neat getting to know him better through this book. Towards the end of the book I had to start annotating.
If you want to know more about Pres. Oaks or the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, take a look at this book.
If you want to know more about Pres. Oaks or the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, take a look at this book.
December 29, 2025
Biography
I have never read a biography of any of our modern day church leaders but felt impressed to read President Oaks. I felt the spirit throughout this book and loved reading how his childhood and experiences have shaped who he is today. I loved hearing all sides of his personality, not just what we see at the pulpit. I honestly loved seeing and understanding his humanity, and i do feel closer to him as a Prophet than I had before.
I have never read a biography of any of our modern day church leaders but felt impressed to read President Oaks. I felt the spirit throughout this book and loved reading how his childhood and experiences have shaped who he is today. I loved hearing all sides of his personality, not just what we see at the pulpit. I honestly loved seeing and understanding his humanity, and i do feel closer to him as a Prophet than I had before.
June 19, 2021
Very engaging, loved listening to this one.
April 5, 2022
Enjoyed getting to learn more about President Oaks. I especially appreciated one of the last chapters where it talked about and included excerpts from letters between President Oaks and lay members.
November 18, 2023
I absolutely loved this book. I got it from the library, but now I think I need to own a copy.
His dad died when he was young and his single mom experienced emotional breakdowns, yet he became a wonderful leader who loves Jesus Christ. This book was extremely uplifting and I learned a lot. I also have many screenshots (I read an ecopy) of amazing quotes and thoughts to continually look back on.
His dad died when he was young and his single mom experienced emotional breakdowns, yet he became a wonderful leader who loves Jesus Christ. This book was extremely uplifting and I learned a lot. I also have many screenshots (I read an ecopy) of amazing quotes and thoughts to continually look back on.
August 10, 2025
I have learned so much by listening to this biography of Dallin H. Oaks. I’ve set new goals of writing a more complete history of my life and keeping a journal that might be more useful to those who follow and to consecrating my efforts to God’s glory. He has lived and taught a higher standard for living, God’s standard. How appropriate that the book concludes with the reminder that, “Anything worth doing is worth doing right.”
March 18, 2026
I really enjoyed listening to this audiobook. President Oaks is amazing.
March 7, 2021
I loved learning more about President Oaks. I’m grateful that he is such a great journal keeper, there are so many great insights and quotes from his personal journal. It was also fun to get somewhat of an inside look of the life of a general authority and member of the first presidency. I understand more about him and that makes me appreciate his conference talks more, his desire to expound doctrine and speak directly.
March 6, 2021
A fantastic biography. Very well written. I loved the frequent use of Oaks' journal entries as well as the journal entries of others.
President Oaks has not always been a favorite church leader of mine (which is why I decided to read this book! I wanted to understand him better by learning of his life.), but reading this biography has deepened my admiration and respect for him.
President Oaks has not always been a favorite church leader of mine (which is why I decided to read this book! I wanted to understand him better by learning of his life.), but reading this biography has deepened my admiration and respect for him.
July 26, 2022
I loved learning about Pres. Dallin H. Oaks. He lived a life of hard, hard work, excellence in all he did, and lived a life of dedicated service to God and man.
September 8, 2025
I loved learning about Elder Oaks! What I loved most was how real he is. How honest he is about his struggles. And how he has to develop his faith and align his actions as he learned and grew. And as he grew—he did change his actions to match his beliefs. I love how he studied to receive answers, sacrificed to serve God, and has dedicated his life to his Savior. I learned real and applicable lessons that can apply to me. I am grateful to know my church is led by men like him, who step away from professional success and living a life of comfort and luxury—to serve God and His children. It’s incredible to get a peek inside his life and how tiring his call is. It was also fascinating to see glimpses into the revelatory process of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve. I also appreciate how he listened to everyone, truly knows how to counsel, and is comfortable expressing his difference of opinion in a respectful way.
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