This midlife memoir by Toby Neal is her best writing to date (although I am guessing she will surpass it with her next book). The writing is classic Neal, engaging, heartwarming, exciting, and thoughtful. Although not as wrenching emotionally as “Freckled”, there are many moments of introspection and insight, and the flashbacks to Neal’s time working as a school counselor provide a strong contrast to the wonder of the travels, as well as context for Neal’s emotional and intellectual introspection. There were laugh-out-loud moments and moments I cringed as I recognized myself and my husband on our own travels, facing the less-pleasant aspects of togetherness.
As a reader who has traveled many of the same paths as Neal, to many of the same parks and along many of the same roads, I can attest to both the accuracy of the descriptions, and the beauty of the places she describes. For those who haven’t been to these remarkable and unique locations, you will feel as though you are there with Neal as she and her husband experience the joy and wonder of the natural world. This is a hallmark of Neal’s writing – her ability to so thoroughly describe a sense of place, time, and culture that the reader is transported by the writing.
The writing is accompanied by Mike Neal’s superb photography. I’ve been following Mike Neal’s work for longer than I’ve been a reader of Toby Neal’s writing, and his photographs are some of the finest I’ve seen. Mike Neal has the same ability to draw the viewer into his photos and engage with the viewer that Toby Neal has with readers. His perspective is unique and fresh, and he imbues his photos with powerful emotion and deep connection to the natural world.
Taken together, you can see how this couple have been married for 35 years; they beautifully complement each other and have learned to play on each other’s strengths. This book is a delight in so many ways, the kind of book I will re-read many times over.