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257 pages, Kindle Edition
First published September 14, 2021
Sociopaths are generally considered to be created through abuse and trauma, unlike the genetic psychopath, and while many of us confuse the two terms given some similar behaviors—such as a lack of empathy, dishonesty, and shallow emotions—they are two very different constructs.That perfectly describes the two women, a neighbour and an employee who were psychopaths from several sociopathic boyfriends I had in recent years. I have consciously stopped going out with them (something about them always attracted me) and now have a very empathetic, boyfriend who is a law professor who teaches Emotional Intelligence for Lawyers (as well as Taxation) so he's definitely not one of them.
Not just in terms of how they are formed in a person, but also because the sociopath, unlike the psychopath, is actually highly emotional (when it comes to negative emotions like rage) and likely to be very reckless. The best way to differentiate the two is to think of a cold, calculated, in control psychopath versus a hot-headed, volatile, impulsive sociopath.
The lie detector does not measure deception, which is the core problem. Polygraphs look out for increased sweating, an elevated heart rate, and erratic breathing, but none of these responses are indicative only of lying; there could be so many other reasons for them.I can't imagine anything more stressful than having the police accuse you, totally innocent, of a major crime and then subjecting you to a polygraph test. I'm freaking out just thinking of a situation like that.
Rather than being signs of deception, these responses are usually just signs of stress. So giving someone who has just been through a stressful or traumatic experience a polygraph is pointless. Finally, some people aren’t stressed by lying, even if they have done something horrific and are being questioned by the police. Someone with psychopathic tendencies, for example, is very unlikely to have a stress-related physical response when lying or deceiving.