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Single for a Season: How to Be Single and Happy—A Guide for Christian Singles
Why is it so difficult to find the perfect partner? Is God preventing me from finding that special someone for a reason? Is there something wrong with me? Will I ever meet someone—or am I going to remain single forever?Perhaps as a Christian single, you’ve asked yourself some or all of these questions—and you’re not alone. The good news is that God has a plan for you.Author David Brühlmann tackles these questions head-on in his honest, heartfelt book, Single for a Season. Through his own challenges as well as the stories of twelve other Christian singles, Brühlmann reveals profound insights so that you may find peace, inspiration, and meaning during this season of your life.Single doesn’t need to be lonely. Instead of wasting time on what-ifs and should’ve-beens, Single for a Season will help •Dispel myths about the single life—and why you’re still single•Experience true joy, satisfaction, and contentment in being single•Find your God-given purpose as a single•Deepen your relationship with Him•Take key action steps to change your life right nowBy demonstrating how living as a Christian single not only builds up God’s kingdom but also leads to a life of satisfaction and purpose, you’ll discover a new passion for your life, regardless of relationship status. Single for a Season will help you make the shift from the impatience and anxiety that comes from waiting for Mr. or Mrs. Right, to living a life filled with purpose and passion.From step-by-step exercises and real-life stories that help you implement the concepts presented, to additional resources and insightful questions to consider, this is the perfect book for any single wanting to live a fulfilling life—or for your next Bible study. Start your journey today and make this time one of the most exciting, meaningful seasons of your life.
278 pages, Kindle Edition
Published March 23, 2021
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About the author
David Brühlmann
2 books2 followersDavid Brühlmann’s dream of getting married and having a family has not yet become a reality. Instead, he has decided to help singles make the most out of their single season. Currently, he runs online meetups, discussion groups, webinars, workshops, and writes inspiring blog articles on Medium, encouraging singles to be happy and perhaps help change the world. David is also in the process of creating and building a multi-media, multi-faceted resource website for singles.
David has also been an innovative scientist holding an MSc. in chemical engineering and a PhD in biology and is known for excellent articles in peer-reviewed journals and entertaining talks at biotechnology conferences. Having understood how to leverage the advantage of singleness, in 2019, David renounced his corporate carrier to dedicate his life to the development of high-quality education for children and young adults in Cambodia.
In his free time, David travels the world, enjoys outdoor sports, plays the piano, and empowers others in his local church.
>> Discover David's book, Single for a Season.
David has also been an innovative scientist holding an MSc. in chemical engineering and a PhD in biology and is known for excellent articles in peer-reviewed journals and entertaining talks at biotechnology conferences. Having understood how to leverage the advantage of singleness, in 2019, David renounced his corporate carrier to dedicate his life to the development of high-quality education for children and young adults in Cambodia.
In his free time, David travels the world, enjoys outdoor sports, plays the piano, and empowers others in his local church.
>> Discover David's book, Single for a Season.
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January 19, 2023
Well, this was a solid book, but honestly nothing unique. I feel like there are better books with the same information (probably even better presented) like Kingdom Single: Living Complete and Fully Free and 7 Myths about Singleness
I loved David's heart, passion, and much of what he had to say. He could have made this book fantastic if he had shared more about his personal journey to discovering the lessons he was passing on, instead of just presenting a summary.
Overall, a solid book on godly singleness that I can recommend, just not as highly as some others.
I loved David's heart, passion, and much of what he had to say. He could have made this book fantastic if he had shared more about his personal journey to discovering the lessons he was passing on, instead of just presenting a summary.
Overall, a solid book on godly singleness that I can recommend, just not as highly as some others.
June 23, 2022
I was so excited to find this book--for singles, by a single, written at least in part on how to enjoy life as a single. I love how honest David was throughout the book about his own journey, and appreciated the lists he shared of ways he's handled and enjoyed his single life.
The one part I did not *love* was his last chapter on dating; I agree that being single does not mean you are weird or that you are horrible at relationships, buuut his points still don't come across as powerfully since he's still single. I agreed with a lot of them, but they make me wonder, "would this really get me my future spouse? Or would it just friend zone me as it did for David?" They can be useful points, but I think they would be way more helpful if they included examples of how they actually worked for getting a spouse, instead of how he had a nice time getting to know someone.
But the gem of this book is David writing as a long-term single to all other singles. It's a powerful platform and I think he uses it well. It's a rather rare read to find these days, but David meets the need pretty darn well.
The one part I did not *love* was his last chapter on dating; I agree that being single does not mean you are weird or that you are horrible at relationships, buuut his points still don't come across as powerfully since he's still single. I agreed with a lot of them, but they make me wonder, "would this really get me my future spouse? Or would it just friend zone me as it did for David?" They can be useful points, but I think they would be way more helpful if they included examples of how they actually worked for getting a spouse, instead of how he had a nice time getting to know someone.
But the gem of this book is David writing as a long-term single to all other singles. It's a powerful platform and I think he uses it well. It's a rather rare read to find these days, but David meets the need pretty darn well.
July 10, 2022
Wow the amount of highlighting I did for this book is insane!! So much good wisdom given besides the general advice of “pray about it” and “it will happen when you least expect it”. I love the amount of empathy the author has and the shared stories of other Christians from around the world. At the end of every specific chapter he gives a bunch of key takeaways and steps that add to the life lesson found within each. The use of scripture and planting Bible verses that relate with the lesson was great as well.
“But in the grand scheme of things, [a long season of singleness] doesn’t matter because finding someone special is not the key to overcoming the fear of missing out. The only way to do that is to turn your back from the lack and toward the One who gives abundance.”
I can safely say now that after reading this book I’m reminded of God’s goodness and control in my life, that He is on my side and wants the best for me and His kingdom. Being single isn’t so sad or a pity looking thing anymore, it’s another opportunity to have more time to do more things for God.
“But in the grand scheme of things, [a long season of singleness] doesn’t matter because finding someone special is not the key to overcoming the fear of missing out. The only way to do that is to turn your back from the lack and toward the One who gives abundance.”
I can safely say now that after reading this book I’m reminded of God’s goodness and control in my life, that He is on my side and wants the best for me and His kingdom. Being single isn’t so sad or a pity looking thing anymore, it’s another opportunity to have more time to do more things for God.
April 24, 2021
This book is a must read!
I am loving the realness and authenticity the author uses. I love how he tells it like it is for single Christians in today’s world. Most singles think there’s something wrong with them because they’re not married in their early 20s.
I love that this book is almost an ode to singleness. I love that it highlights being single is ok and actually a great place to be.
I am loving the realness and authenticity the author uses. I love how he tells it like it is for single Christians in today’s world. Most singles think there’s something wrong with them because they’re not married in their early 20s.
I love that this book is almost an ode to singleness. I love that it highlights being single is ok and actually a great place to be.
April 12, 2021
In a culture that sometimes makes singles feel less-than, “Single For a Season” encourages you in the opposite; singleness is an invitation to thrive and make the most of right now. This book will give you practical tools to help you live out your God-given purpose as you navigate the many gifts that a season of singleness has to offer.
May 14, 2021
LOVED LOVED LOVED this book. I have read a few on being single but this one is definitely at the top of my list. It has real examples, real heartbreak and real truth. It is not just the story of one man and one single but of many and the testimony of God's healing. It also has great practical tips. Really enjoy this!
August 24, 2021
Single for a Season turned out to be a game-changer for my life. This book taught me to be proud of being single and to thrive regardless of my marital status. The writer David Bruhlman busts several myths related to singlessnes, myths that the society has taught us. The book also was an eye-opener for me as I realized singles from all parts of the world face similar challenges and believe in similar myths. There are several take-aways in this book for single people to make a productive life out of their circumstances. David has included several inspiring and relatable stories from singles around the world, which makes it all the more real. In one chapter, he has listed out the five common fears that singles have including: Times is running out and God is not in control. The book, however, is much more than just busting myths and fears. It has action points: how to become whole, find confidence, seek out better role models, heal from past relationships etc.
In many ways, this book acts like your personal journal since I was compelled to take notes several times so I won't forget those truths and action points. I learnt to be okay with my expectations of marriage and singleness, became more confident in God's plan for my life and began desiring more from my current circumstances than I ever did before. The book is not against marriage. It's not against singleness. It's both pro-marriage and pro-singleness as long as we keep trusting in God's plan. It's a must for single people.
In many ways, this book acts like your personal journal since I was compelled to take notes several times so I won't forget those truths and action points. I learnt to be okay with my expectations of marriage and singleness, became more confident in God's plan for my life and began desiring more from my current circumstances than I ever did before. The book is not against marriage. It's not against singleness. It's both pro-marriage and pro-singleness as long as we keep trusting in God's plan. It's a must for single people.
June 2, 2025
Bad and disheartening, in fact
As an author myself, I try to be gentle on other writers and give them the benefit of the doubt, but this book was bad.
I’m sure this gentleman is nice, but it’s very clear he struggles with anxious attachment, insecurity, and doesn’t have great boundaries. When we are talking about how to be single and happy, you have to do the work first, which can include therapy, radical, self-awareness, etc…
Listening to a grown man talk about his hyper-fixations on women he’s never had a conversation with before is just a rejection diary dressed up as a book with actual advice. In addition to that, while I appreciate reference of scripture, there’s no actual solutions that are being referenced. We can lean on faith and also use the great tools God gave us to improve; it doesn’t need to be one or the other.
The short of it is, I just basically listened to this guy complain about all the times women haven’t liked him or he “missed” an opportunity with and then continuing to say that he’s “actually” happy, but then doubles back by saying he’s not single by choice.
People in the position of singleness is a sensitive topic and while we all have the free will to share our stories, this should be shared as a memoir of a guy who is struggling with meeting women in the Christian community. This is not a guide.
As an author myself, I try to be gentle on other writers and give them the benefit of the doubt, but this book was bad.
I’m sure this gentleman is nice, but it’s very clear he struggles with anxious attachment, insecurity, and doesn’t have great boundaries. When we are talking about how to be single and happy, you have to do the work first, which can include therapy, radical, self-awareness, etc…
Listening to a grown man talk about his hyper-fixations on women he’s never had a conversation with before is just a rejection diary dressed up as a book with actual advice. In addition to that, while I appreciate reference of scripture, there’s no actual solutions that are being referenced. We can lean on faith and also use the great tools God gave us to improve; it doesn’t need to be one or the other.
The short of it is, I just basically listened to this guy complain about all the times women haven’t liked him or he “missed” an opportunity with and then continuing to say that he’s “actually” happy, but then doubles back by saying he’s not single by choice.
People in the position of singleness is a sensitive topic and while we all have the free will to share our stories, this should be shared as a memoir of a guy who is struggling with meeting women in the Christian community. This is not a guide.
October 18, 2024
It’s okay - nothing earth shattering. I’m not impressed by the “soul mate” language - it’s sorta buying into the modern concept of “this is the person you are matched for and you have to find them and don’t settle for anyone else.” A chapter on “name it and claim it” and a chapter on “taking Jesus out on a date.”
Overall it had some good stuff. The author himself put in 2 or 3 times a plea for “any ideas on how do run a Christian singles group please email me” and it appear his “thing” is to be a “influencer.”
Would I say read it? Yes. Is it a pivotal book on the subject? No.
Overall it had some good stuff. The author himself put in 2 or 3 times a plea for “any ideas on how do run a Christian singles group please email me” and it appear his “thing” is to be a “influencer.”
Would I say read it? Yes. Is it a pivotal book on the subject? No.
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