Again, another book that's even better to read again as an adult! I didn't it expect it to sing to my homeschool mama heart, but reading Heidi often made me reflect on the beginning of our homeschool journey. It was a sweet experience to talk about our first year with my eldest.
During the pandemic, after enduring many strict regulations over the summer, my daughter was struggling through day 5 of distance learning (almost 7 hours of sitting at a computer for instructions, up to 2 hours of online homework). She never complained, but I saw a huge change in her-- eating less, no interest in playing. Her lack of complaint scared me the most.
When her teacher skipped her break, I slammed the computer shut. We skipped outside to go swimming, and I decided at once that even if I was the worst homeschool parent in the world, anything was better than this. We had the most magical year together as a family.
When the year was over, when we began to return to the "old normal," it broke my heart that we were throwing away all we had learned and gained. I wanted a "new normal" made from the lessons we'd gleaned from an experience that shook the world. It was scary to take that leap because the pandemic and a cross-country move hadn't allowed us to integrate into our homeschool community, and I didn't know what to expect.
These words squeezed my heart:
"Heidi grew very brown and strong and healthy from this outdoor life, and she was as happy as the merry little birds in the trees in the green woods."
During the pandemic, this was actually a compliment I received from the pediatrician. She was concerned with how many children were struggling with Vitamin D deficiency and low muscle tone because kids were getting too much screen time, but my children were muscular and clearly spent the majority of their time outdoors.
There are many benefits to homeschooling, but this is one of my favorites! Instead of spending hours at school and a few hours outdoors, but kids are super motivated to finish their best work in a couple hours so they can spend all day outside in the woods, at the beach, at a museum, swimming with friends, playing with friends on the playground. My kids are very brown, healthy, and happy, and nothing could make me more delighted as a parent (except that they are also reading machines) and lack nothing on academics).
We had an excellent discussion about the importance of Heidi's education. Her grandfather cared deeply about her health and happiness, others were concerned about her academics. During the tug-of-war, which was more important? It was wonderful to see how learning to read and receiving an academic education blessed her community and gave Heidi the ability to help others. I had the opportunity to mention the quote "an education is the difference between wishing you could help others and being able to help them." However, we circled back around to the importance of going outside and being physically and mentally healthy. My eldest was worried about Heidi's mental health when she was cooped up inside away from people who loved her and cared about her whole being. We were glad when others were finally able to see the benefit of her living with her grandfather, who cared deeply about her entire person and finally came around to the idea of her receiving an education, although we were a little sad that she was no longer a homeschooler like our family. We only wish she had a CoOp and a few more friends for her hikes with Peter, like we do.
After we had so much to discuss, we came to the conclusion that there are many hard things required of us, but it's important to check in with ourselves to see if we're healthy and happy, and make a change if something doesn't feel right.
Aside from the homeschool aspect of this book, it's a very darling story. We laughed the entire way through and loved how Heidi was adored by all. We're very excited to watch the movie!