I received an uncorrected proof of Saved by a Song through a goodreads giveaway.
I’d never heard of Mary Gauthier, but the title of this book drew me in. I know the power of music and I wanted to learn more about it from someone who creates it. Each chapter begins with the lyrics of a song, most written by Mary. That song then plays a part in the story told within the chapter, of what she was going through at that point in her life and how the song either came out of that or was influenced by it. Sometimes a song will help her realize something she’d not have otherwise known, other times it’s a way of coping, of dealing with life’s difficulties, of attempting to express what’s so very difficult to express.
The book is as much autobiography as it is anything else. It’s just that music is her life so song plays a vital and always present role. Many chapters deal with very personal struggles she lived through, from being given away when born, adopted by a family with many problems, being gay at a time when that was far less accepted, dealing with drug and alcohol addiction, and troubled relationships. But through music, through creating songs, she was able to slowly find her way, find her calling.
There are also moments that help the reader learn a little about how to write a song, ways to express your thoughts and feelings such that they’ll resonate not just with you but with others. We each have our own personal issues, but there is always something universal about those issues, and if you can express that you can create a song that not only helps you but others.
A couple chapters are about songwriters teaming up with soldiers to help them express what they’ve experienced and what they’ve felt and are feeling. These were the most moving chapters for me, hearing how she saw the demeanor of these soldiers change from being very closed down and distant at the beginning to opening up, sharing their experiences, and seeing the sense of relief when their emotions and thoughts were expressed in song. Very moving, very powerful, showing how songs can help heal. And when the songs were shared with a larger audience they showed how connected people are, how the songs can express feelings shared by many, how even written from a very personal perspective they can resonate with others.
When asked if songs can change the world, she says absolutely yes and explains it by saying a song can change a heart by generating empathy. A changed heart will change a mind. When a mind changes a person changes. When a person changes the world changes. One song, one heart, one mind, one person at a time. Saved by a song.