I was bought this book as a gift by my well meaning partner, but as an emergency nurse, I can’t finish this.
While the sentiment is nice, this book is everything that is wrong with society’s view of nurses. We are not heroes, we are not infallible.
We are humans, working at our jobs, and yes, it is a hard job. But this viewpoint that has been put forward by the media that we are “heroes”, “saints”, and “angels” is damaging.
It perpetuates the idea that we go above and beyond every single day for nothing more than the gratuity of others, That we put ourselves at risk of physical assault, burnout, and mental distress, for nothing more than love of people. That we “signed up for this” so that makes the levels of bullshit we deal with acceptable. That we can’t have an off day, or make a mistake without being completely villainised.
I don’t want to be seen as a hero, and praised by the public whilst being ignored by my organization when I’m hit in the face by a patient, or verbally abused by a disgruntled family member. And then be asked “what I could have done differently in that situation.”
Or to have my leave requests denied when I’m crying out please for the love of god I need a break.
To be told “thank you for your service during this pandemic!” And then in the same breath, “oh you caught Covid at work? Oops. Oh you have no sick leave left because we refuse to offer you annual leave? Guess you won’t be paid then.”
My story is the same as thousands of other nurses.
We are not heroes. I am just a person trying to do a job. I love caring for people and I love my job, but want to be treated fairly still. I don’t want to go above and beyond at the risk of myself anymore, but because it is plastered over the media, we are just… expected to.
“It’s part of the job”.
We don’t want to be hailed as heroes. We want more resources and support.