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Growing Up Biden
A memoir from Valerie Biden Owens, longtime political strategist, one of the first female campaign managers in United States history, and younger sister of Joe Biden.
In this revelatory, engrossing memoir, Valerie Biden Owens shares stories from growing up in Delaware as the only daughter of the close-knit Biden family. Later, after the tragic accident that killed her niece and sister-in-law, Valerie moved in to help raise Beau and Hunter while then-Senator Biden commuted to Washington, DC.
But beyond their deep sibling relationship, Valerie has been in lockstep with her brother throughout both of their political careers. She has run almost all of her brother’s political campaigns—starting from his run for high school class president. From speechwriting to debate preparation, Valerie has played an integral role in shaping her brother’s message and strategy.
Growing Up Biden details Valerie’s decades-long professional career in politics, and her fundamental presence in her brother's life as a close confidante. This memoir, full of candor and warmth, brings readers into the Biden home, watching as the siblings were raised to live with deep empathy, to work hard, and to help wherever they can.
In this revelatory, engrossing memoir, Valerie Biden Owens shares stories from growing up in Delaware as the only daughter of the close-knit Biden family. Later, after the tragic accident that killed her niece and sister-in-law, Valerie moved in to help raise Beau and Hunter while then-Senator Biden commuted to Washington, DC.
But beyond their deep sibling relationship, Valerie has been in lockstep with her brother throughout both of their political careers. She has run almost all of her brother’s political campaigns—starting from his run for high school class president. From speechwriting to debate preparation, Valerie has played an integral role in shaping her brother’s message and strategy.
Growing Up Biden details Valerie’s decades-long professional career in politics, and her fundamental presence in her brother's life as a close confidante. This memoir, full of candor and warmth, brings readers into the Biden home, watching as the siblings were raised to live with deep empathy, to work hard, and to help wherever they can.
288 pages, Hardcover
Published April 12, 2022
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About the author
Valerie Biden Owens
3 books28 followersValerie Biden Owens is the first woman in U.S. history to have run a presidential campaign – that of her brother, Joseph R. Biden, Jr. She also led his seven straight U.S. Senate victories and has been a principal surrogate on the campaign trail.
Valerie is Chair of the Biden Institute at the University of Delaware, a partner at Owens Patrick Leadership Seminars and a senior advisor to Diversified Search Group. Valerie sits on the Advisory Board of the Beau Biden Foundation for the Protection of Children. For 20 years, when Valerie was not managing or advising President Biden’s campaigns, she served as Executive Vice President of Joe Slade White & Co., a media consulting firm. She has worked extensively with Women’s Campaign International, training women how to organize and develop communication and political skills.
Valerie was a Resident Fellow at the Institute of Politics at the John F. Kennedy School of Government at Harvard University. She was honored as a “Woman Inspiring Change” by the Harvard Law School’s International Women’s Day. She served as the U.S. Senior Advisor to the United Nations General Assembly
(UNGA71). In 2021, Valerie was named by Forbes Magazine as one of the 50 >50 women leading the way in impact through social entrepreneurship, law, advocacy and education. Valerie has served for the 35 years on the board of the Ministry of Caring in Delaware.
Valerie is a graduate of the University of Delaware, which recently bestowed upon her an honorary doctorate. She is married to Jack Owens, an attorney and businessman. They have three children.
Valerie is Chair of the Biden Institute at the University of Delaware, a partner at Owens Patrick Leadership Seminars and a senior advisor to Diversified Search Group. Valerie sits on the Advisory Board of the Beau Biden Foundation for the Protection of Children. For 20 years, when Valerie was not managing or advising President Biden’s campaigns, she served as Executive Vice President of Joe Slade White & Co., a media consulting firm. She has worked extensively with Women’s Campaign International, training women how to organize and develop communication and political skills.
Valerie was a Resident Fellow at the Institute of Politics at the John F. Kennedy School of Government at Harvard University. She was honored as a “Woman Inspiring Change” by the Harvard Law School’s International Women’s Day. She served as the U.S. Senior Advisor to the United Nations General Assembly
(UNGA71). In 2021, Valerie was named by Forbes Magazine as one of the 50 >50 women leading the way in impact through social entrepreneurship, law, advocacy and education. Valerie has served for the 35 years on the board of the Ministry of Caring in Delaware.
Valerie is a graduate of the University of Delaware, which recently bestowed upon her an honorary doctorate. She is married to Jack Owens, an attorney and businessman. They have three children.
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February 11, 2022
I would like to thank Celadon Books for providing me with a copy of this most interesting book in exchange for an honest review. This is a story of an Irish Catholic family as told by the only girl in a family of boys. The book is heartwarming with some humor tossed in. The book is not a political book but a behind the scenes look at a politician’s family. I had never heard of Valerie Biden Owens before reading this book. I was surprised to learn she was the first female presidential campaign manager. It is always amazing at what unexpected information one can learn just by reading a book. If you enjoy heartwarming family stories with loads of interesting information, give this book a try.
I read this in hardback book format. It is 177 pages published in 2022 by Celadon Books
I read this in hardback book format. It is 177 pages published in 2022 by Celadon Books
March 24, 2022
Growing Up Biden
by Valerie Biden Owens
I was offered this book to read in return for my honest opinion. I want to thank the publisher for the generous offer.
When reading this book it helps to keep in mind that times were different when I was growing up and the Biden kids were a bit older than me so to some people, the parental guidance may seem strange or downright wrong. But this was the way it was at the times. Younger people reading this may think the Biden parents might be odd, but to me they sounded like normal parents of the day.
The prejudices against Catholics and the Irish was also very strong. Kids got bullied for being one or the other but Biden was both. Plus he had a speech impediment which made life even more difficult.
This book takes the reader inside the family and the family dynamics and follows the family growing up. Through good times and bad times. The Bidens seem to be a normal family for the times but they have close family sibling ties. The rest of the family is close too but didn't seem any closer than most families.
The first quarter of the book jumped around and didn't seem to stay in any order. But it finally went chronologically and made more sense!
When it got to the car accident where Joe lost half his family, wow, I was dying! I never understood the full story like it's told here. The behind the scene story. So touching and sad.
There were many happy moments too! This was a great book to see behind the life of our President. A man who grew up just like us but very, very bullied. A man who has had such a tough life but still remains compassionate and caring. A man of wit and wisdom.
by Valerie Biden Owens
I was offered this book to read in return for my honest opinion. I want to thank the publisher for the generous offer.
When reading this book it helps to keep in mind that times were different when I was growing up and the Biden kids were a bit older than me so to some people, the parental guidance may seem strange or downright wrong. But this was the way it was at the times. Younger people reading this may think the Biden parents might be odd, but to me they sounded like normal parents of the day.
The prejudices against Catholics and the Irish was also very strong. Kids got bullied for being one or the other but Biden was both. Plus he had a speech impediment which made life even more difficult.
This book takes the reader inside the family and the family dynamics and follows the family growing up. Through good times and bad times. The Bidens seem to be a normal family for the times but they have close family sibling ties. The rest of the family is close too but didn't seem any closer than most families.
The first quarter of the book jumped around and didn't seem to stay in any order. But it finally went chronologically and made more sense!
When it got to the car accident where Joe lost half his family, wow, I was dying! I never understood the full story like it's told here. The behind the scene story. So touching and sad.
There were many happy moments too! This was a great book to see behind the life of our President. A man who grew up just like us but very, very bullied. A man who has had such a tough life but still remains compassionate and caring. A man of wit and wisdom.
February 17, 2022
Valerie Biden Owens' heartwarming memoir tells about growing up as the younger sister of President Joe Biden. Their close Irish Catholic family in Delaware emphasized the importance of family, and always being there to help each other. Owens says that her earliest memories are of her brother Joe watching out for her welfare. When Joe's first wife and daughter died in a 1972 auto accident, she was there to help him, moving in to care for his two motherless boys. Owens was Joe's longtime campaign manager, good friend, and trusted advisor. She also has a close relationship with her other brothers, Jimmy and Frankie. After raising her three children with her husband, Jack, she also worked as a political media consultant and trained women in developing countries through the Women's Campaign International.
Owens is a good storyteller, and wrote amusing anecdotes about the four Biden siblings as children before moving on to their even more interesting adult lives. She also tells about the difficult times such as pressure-filled campaigns, and the loss of Joe's oldest son, Beau, to cancer. Owens faith, strong family ties, and humor keep her steady. She notes the declining empathy in this country, not so much on an individual level, but on a societal level. The country has become divided, and the pandemic keeps people isolated so simple acts of kindness are especially important now. Having a kind heart was one of the most important things she learned growing up Biden.
Thank you to Celadon Books for the opportunity to read this enjoyable Advanced Readers Copy. Publication date is April 12, 2022.
Owens is a good storyteller, and wrote amusing anecdotes about the four Biden siblings as children before moving on to their even more interesting adult lives. She also tells about the difficult times such as pressure-filled campaigns, and the loss of Joe's oldest son, Beau, to cancer. Owens faith, strong family ties, and humor keep her steady. She notes the declining empathy in this country, not so much on an individual level, but on a societal level. The country has become divided, and the pandemic keeps people isolated so simple acts of kindness are especially important now. Having a kind heart was one of the most important things she learned growing up Biden.
Thank you to Celadon Books for the opportunity to read this enjoyable Advanced Readers Copy. Publication date is April 12, 2022.
April 26, 2022
Heart warming, reassuring and sincere describe this wonderful short book. Valerie Biden Owen is beautiful on all axis! A great memoir of politics and the enduring meaning of familial love. Very well written, this book will hold your attention, evoke tears (joyful and sorrowful), and make the laughs roll.
March 10, 2022
Giveaway Win!
Going into this book I only knew 2 things about Valerie Biden Owens:
1) She's President Joe Biden's sister
2) Her son Cuffe was married to a "Real Housewife" for 2 seconds
After reading this book I don't really feel like I know much more. Valerie loves her brother Joe but that's about all we learn in this book. She barely talks about her other 2 brothers,
What are their names????
NO clue
This book is less about Growing Up Biden, and more about growing up Joe Bidens sister and best friend. And even with that Valerie tends to brush over all the really interesting things that happened to her brother like:
1. His wife and daughter's death
2. His brain surgery
3. His 3 Presidential runs
4. The sexual assault accusations against him
5. Beau Biden's death
6.HUNTER BIDEN PERIODT
7. January 6th
Just to name a few.
I knew I wasn't going to get any juicy dirt but I still expected to learn something about if not the author Valerie. Maybe I thought I'd learn something new about the President. Neither happened tho.
On the good side I will say that this was a quick read and despite my months long reading slump I did fly through this book....so there's that?!?
No rec.
Going into this book I only knew 2 things about Valerie Biden Owens:
1) She's President Joe Biden's sister
2) Her son Cuffe was married to a "Real Housewife" for 2 seconds
After reading this book I don't really feel like I know much more. Valerie loves her brother Joe but that's about all we learn in this book. She barely talks about her other 2 brothers,
What are their names????
NO clue
This book is less about Growing Up Biden, and more about growing up Joe Bidens sister and best friend. And even with that Valerie tends to brush over all the really interesting things that happened to her brother like:
1. His wife and daughter's death
2. His brain surgery
3. His 3 Presidential runs
4. The sexual assault accusations against him
5. Beau Biden's death
6.HUNTER BIDEN PERIODT
7. January 6th
Just to name a few.
I knew I wasn't going to get any juicy dirt but I still expected to learn something about if not the author Valerie. Maybe I thought I'd learn something new about the President. Neither happened tho.
On the good side I will say that this was a quick read and despite my months long reading slump I did fly through this book....so there's that?!?
No rec.
February 6, 2022
While there is not much new material that can be presented about our 46th President, this is a welcome insider account of what it meant to grow up as his younger (and only) sister. His innate warmth, sincerity and honesty are on full display through the eyes of Valerie Biden Owens, his closest confidant and most trusted campaign manager. This is an indepth portrait of a tightly knit family that always has one another's back. Even when her advice isn't followed, as her deep reluctance to facing off against the vulgar force that is tRump, knowing that the latter would stop at nothing to win, no surprise in his refusal to acknowledge the defeat. Those of us looking in with horror at the shambles wrought by the previous administration can be reassured by the calming hand of the Biden clan and their values. When introduced to Kamala Harris who was warned not to cross Valerie, Ms. Harris remarked that she understood, that she has a sister. "Not one like this!" grinned Joe. Kudos to one and all.
January 30, 2022
In Growing Up Biden, Valerie Biden Owens has found the perfect blend of heartwarming anecdotes that brought a smile to my face, while sprinkling in plenty of comical moments that left me laughing out loud, and stories that brought tears to my eyes. The introduction includes a quote that is often attributed to Michelangelo when asked how he made the masterpiece “Angel” at the Basilica of San Domenico: “I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.” She follows that by saying, “Whether or not that story is true, the message is powerful. We all carve and we are all carved. Sometimes we hold the chisel; other times we are the marble.”
Growing Up Biden tells the story of a family who carved and were carved by each other from day one. Biden Owens is a gifted storyteller, using words to bring the reader into her life through stories of faith, courage, kindness, and empathy. (And as a bonus, we get a unique perspective on our 46th President, Joe Biden) From the very first campaign to the night of President Biden’s acceptance speech, I enjoyed the “backstage pass” to the many milestones they reached as sister and brother, while also learning more about the dynamics of all four Biden siblings—Valerie, Joe, Jimmy, and Frankie—and the unique roles they each played. But the main characters in the story were a brother and sister who were unequivocally each others’ guideposts. The level of trust Joe has in his sister and the many ways she has stood her ground on decisions because she knew what her brother would say demonstrated the values their parents instilled in them.
Valerie Biden Owens did not write a political book; she tells the story of her family who just happened to end up in politics. Reading this book confirmed what I already knew to be true: the world needs more empathy, and I am even more proud to have supported her brother.
{Note: I received an Advance Reading Copy in exchange for my honest review.}
Growing Up Biden tells the story of a family who carved and were carved by each other from day one. Biden Owens is a gifted storyteller, using words to bring the reader into her life through stories of faith, courage, kindness, and empathy. (And as a bonus, we get a unique perspective on our 46th President, Joe Biden) From the very first campaign to the night of President Biden’s acceptance speech, I enjoyed the “backstage pass” to the many milestones they reached as sister and brother, while also learning more about the dynamics of all four Biden siblings—Valerie, Joe, Jimmy, and Frankie—and the unique roles they each played. But the main characters in the story were a brother and sister who were unequivocally each others’ guideposts. The level of trust Joe has in his sister and the many ways she has stood her ground on decisions because she knew what her brother would say demonstrated the values their parents instilled in them.
Valerie Biden Owens did not write a political book; she tells the story of her family who just happened to end up in politics. Reading this book confirmed what I already knew to be true: the world needs more empathy, and I am even more proud to have supported her brother.
{Note: I received an Advance Reading Copy in exchange for my honest review.}
March 7, 2022
*This was a giveaway, an ARC (Advanced Reader Copy). The book was mailed to me free of charge by the publisher, so I might write an honest review. I am delighted to do so. The publication day approaches soon – April 2022.
This is a beautiful book, and I loved reading it. I got swept up in it. It has the feeling of Michelle Obama’s Becoming. Because it is written beautifully and is teeming with values. I always intuitively knew I liked Joe Biden. But I didn’t have the details about why. It was just a feeling. But now, I can see not just who he was, but who the whole family is. I am now so enamored with Joe, Valerie, Jimmy, Frankie, the parents, Jill Jack. Oh most especially Jack!!! I’m half in love with Jack Owens. This family is special, and we are so very lucky to have their values to emulate and resonate, to lead and govern and heal.
The book is not as much a political advertisement as it is a study in character. It’s a feel good book. It’s not even political, except the stark contrast we have from the presidential predecessor. Joe is everything we need in a person, as well as a leader. Like Michelle’s book, one gets the feeling that compassionate politics, leadership based on values and strong leadership and governance, well it makes you believe.
Valerie is a powerhouse, but is also a deeply caring mother, sister, wife, and friend. Her devotion to Joe (their dual devotion and dedication) is matched by her devotion to Beau and Hunter (who she partly raised, to her children, to her husband, to Jack, not to mention a tireless commitment to serving others. She mentions relating to Michelle Obama, who also had a protective and protected cherished relationship with her older brother.
The losses of Joe’s wife, young daughter, and eventually Beau really tore me up. I have no idea why so much tragedy should have to be shouldered in a family. But I do know that loss shapes you, and shapes what becomes important in a life trajectory. I also know it illuminates what is essential to know and live by. I like to think that Joe’s parents and Beau and all of the rest of our loved ones, are holing us in the fight for the soul of America, and in the search for our better angels, and we certainly need all the help we can get.
Faith, Family, and Kindness are cornerstones for Valerie and Joe. Their values are laced in everything they are and everything they do. It was such a pleasure to see leadership entrenched in what matters most, and as a bipartisan, people centered approach. I miss that. I miss what it felt like before we were in this divided corrosive world with hatred and ugliness. It’s like the contrast between the worst and the best of humanity. But I have hope – great hope. Martin Luther King said the arc of history bends towards justice, even if its slow moving. Lately I like to think it bends towards justice, compassion, and humanity. And the more examples we have of such leadership, the more hopeful I feel. I loved seeing Joe through Valerie’s eyes, and Valerie through Joe’s. A brother sister team, whose mutual respect, love, and admiration are unparalleled. And to see how that love extends to their spouses, children, parents, siblings, and to the world. We are indeed in good hands, and have reason for hope.
This is a beautiful book, and I loved reading it. I got swept up in it. It has the feeling of Michelle Obama’s Becoming. Because it is written beautifully and is teeming with values. I always intuitively knew I liked Joe Biden. But I didn’t have the details about why. It was just a feeling. But now, I can see not just who he was, but who the whole family is. I am now so enamored with Joe, Valerie, Jimmy, Frankie, the parents, Jill Jack. Oh most especially Jack!!! I’m half in love with Jack Owens. This family is special, and we are so very lucky to have their values to emulate and resonate, to lead and govern and heal.
The book is not as much a political advertisement as it is a study in character. It’s a feel good book. It’s not even political, except the stark contrast we have from the presidential predecessor. Joe is everything we need in a person, as well as a leader. Like Michelle’s book, one gets the feeling that compassionate politics, leadership based on values and strong leadership and governance, well it makes you believe.
Valerie is a powerhouse, but is also a deeply caring mother, sister, wife, and friend. Her devotion to Joe (their dual devotion and dedication) is matched by her devotion to Beau and Hunter (who she partly raised, to her children, to her husband, to Jack, not to mention a tireless commitment to serving others. She mentions relating to Michelle Obama, who also had a protective and protected cherished relationship with her older brother.
The losses of Joe’s wife, young daughter, and eventually Beau really tore me up. I have no idea why so much tragedy should have to be shouldered in a family. But I do know that loss shapes you, and shapes what becomes important in a life trajectory. I also know it illuminates what is essential to know and live by. I like to think that Joe’s parents and Beau and all of the rest of our loved ones, are holing us in the fight for the soul of America, and in the search for our better angels, and we certainly need all the help we can get.
Faith, Family, and Kindness are cornerstones for Valerie and Joe. Their values are laced in everything they are and everything they do. It was such a pleasure to see leadership entrenched in what matters most, and as a bipartisan, people centered approach. I miss that. I miss what it felt like before we were in this divided corrosive world with hatred and ugliness. It’s like the contrast between the worst and the best of humanity. But I have hope – great hope. Martin Luther King said the arc of history bends towards justice, even if its slow moving. Lately I like to think it bends towards justice, compassion, and humanity. And the more examples we have of such leadership, the more hopeful I feel. I loved seeing Joe through Valerie’s eyes, and Valerie through Joe’s. A brother sister team, whose mutual respect, love, and admiration are unparalleled. And to see how that love extends to their spouses, children, parents, siblings, and to the world. We are indeed in good hands, and have reason for hope.
February 5, 2022
I received a copy from the publisher in exchange for my honest review.
I really enjoyed this book. I have read many of the books about President Biden, and all written by members of his family, so I was curious what new stories his sister was going to tell.
While some of the stories are the same - you cannot tell the story of Joe Biden without Neilia, Beau and Naomi - they were different in that they came from Valerie's point of view. I also loved the layer she added about coming from a family of brothers whereas her sisters-in-law came from families of sisters and they had to learn to speak the same language. I can hear the potato salad conversation vividly!
I liked that this touched on his campaigns, but that it wasn't the focus. Even though this was Valerie's story, I came away knowing more about all members of the Biden family and what makes them who they are. As the daughter of an educator, I appreciated this in some of the way I appreciated Dr. Biden's -- the lives of women in education were so different in the 1960s! But this was more than Valerie Biden Owens the educator, or the campaign manager, this was the story of President Biden's protector, even though she was the younger sister -maybe especially because she was.
An excellent read.
I really enjoyed this book. I have read many of the books about President Biden, and all written by members of his family, so I was curious what new stories his sister was going to tell.
While some of the stories are the same - you cannot tell the story of Joe Biden without Neilia, Beau and Naomi - they were different in that they came from Valerie's point of view. I also loved the layer she added about coming from a family of brothers whereas her sisters-in-law came from families of sisters and they had to learn to speak the same language. I can hear the potato salad conversation vividly!
I liked that this touched on his campaigns, but that it wasn't the focus. Even though this was Valerie's story, I came away knowing more about all members of the Biden family and what makes them who they are. As the daughter of an educator, I appreciated this in some of the way I appreciated Dr. Biden's -- the lives of women in education were so different in the 1960s! But this was more than Valerie Biden Owens the educator, or the campaign manager, this was the story of President Biden's protector, even though she was the younger sister -maybe especially because she was.
An excellent read.
July 3, 2022
Memoirs are always hard to review, but I really enjoyed this one written by Valerie Biden Owens. I listened to this one via audiobook and Valerie reads it herself which I always enjoy when the author reads their own books. I loved how she is so close with Joe (in addition to the rest of her family) and how much he appreciates and values her advice. She is also the only girl growing up in a family of boys and this gave her an interesting perspective in how she communicated, especially with other females. This memoir was heartfelt, genuine and interesting, and it is one I would recommend as the focus is not entirely political. (But even those parts were fascinating as she was trying to find her way as one of the first female campaign managers in US history.)
Thank you to Celadon Books for the advanced copy to review.
Thank you to Celadon Books for the advanced copy to review.
March 17, 2022
"It isn't easy raising an older brother."
With those words, Valerie Biden Owens had me. I listened to most of the audio book while driving about and, thus, wasn't really taking notes aside from early on, but I think that circumstance was actually a plus. As it was, I listened, really listened to her words and took in what she was saying. I liked her. I've never met nor expect to meet her but feel like I know her now. Not only do I feel I know her, but she helped cement my gut instinct about that big brother, you know, who just happens to be President of the United States, that he's a genuinely nice guy. Don't get me wrong. No president is perfect but I came away from "Growing Up Biden" feeling like I had seen the human side of a genuinely good guy. In the process, we get to know Valerie and her family as well as the entire Biden family as people we might know and like.
Since I wasn't taking notes aside from the early going, I won't try to detail the entire memoir. The focus is on the family, I should note, although politics have certainly influenced the entire Biden family. Even behind the scenes, it wasn't easy. I don't think I ever knew Valerie Biden Owens was the first female to manage a presidential campaign, not to mention one of the first females to strategize and manage any campaign. She faced and met the challenge as she juggled a high pressure job with raising her own family. She's been with her brother from the beginning, from his early forays into politics through today. At some point, Valerie remembers that Joe said about her, "She's been my best friend since I was three years old." She remembers that they certainly disagreed occasionally but intuitively trusted each other.
I recall hearing about the eagle taking flight over one of President Biden's final campaign stops. What I didn't know was his sister's reaction as the first thought that came to her mind was that the late Beau Biden was keeping an eye on them. Human moments like that, which continue throughout the book, make this a special kind of memoir. It shares not only Owens' view of life as a Biden but how that life and the events shared have shaped not just them but have shaped the world. I wish I knew her. Heck, I wish I had known the entire family. Like any family they've had their share of ups and downs, joy and tragedy, but I found much to admire and relate to. Lovely book. Lovely family.
Thanks so much #NetGalley and #MacmillanAudio for giving me the opportunity to "meet" Valerie Biden Owens. I already admired her big brother. Now I want to give her a hug.
With those words, Valerie Biden Owens had me. I listened to most of the audio book while driving about and, thus, wasn't really taking notes aside from early on, but I think that circumstance was actually a plus. As it was, I listened, really listened to her words and took in what she was saying. I liked her. I've never met nor expect to meet her but feel like I know her now. Not only do I feel I know her, but she helped cement my gut instinct about that big brother, you know, who just happens to be President of the United States, that he's a genuinely nice guy. Don't get me wrong. No president is perfect but I came away from "Growing Up Biden" feeling like I had seen the human side of a genuinely good guy. In the process, we get to know Valerie and her family as well as the entire Biden family as people we might know and like.
Since I wasn't taking notes aside from the early going, I won't try to detail the entire memoir. The focus is on the family, I should note, although politics have certainly influenced the entire Biden family. Even behind the scenes, it wasn't easy. I don't think I ever knew Valerie Biden Owens was the first female to manage a presidential campaign, not to mention one of the first females to strategize and manage any campaign. She faced and met the challenge as she juggled a high pressure job with raising her own family. She's been with her brother from the beginning, from his early forays into politics through today. At some point, Valerie remembers that Joe said about her, "She's been my best friend since I was three years old." She remembers that they certainly disagreed occasionally but intuitively trusted each other.
I recall hearing about the eagle taking flight over one of President Biden's final campaign stops. What I didn't know was his sister's reaction as the first thought that came to her mind was that the late Beau Biden was keeping an eye on them. Human moments like that, which continue throughout the book, make this a special kind of memoir. It shares not only Owens' view of life as a Biden but how that life and the events shared have shaped not just them but have shaped the world. I wish I knew her. Heck, I wish I had known the entire family. Like any family they've had their share of ups and downs, joy and tragedy, but I found much to admire and relate to. Lovely book. Lovely family.
Thanks so much #NetGalley and #MacmillanAudio for giving me the opportunity to "meet" Valerie Biden Owens. I already admired her big brother. Now I want to give her a hug.
April 4, 2022
Biden Owens's memoir of family is beautifully written, without compromising her characteristic honesty and bluntness. The warmth and protectiveness the author feels for her big brother--indeed, for every member of the Biden family whether legal or honorary--is evident throughout the book, whether on the campaign trails or walking the reader through the gut-wrenching losses of Neilia and Naomi Biden and the family cocooning in the aftermath. I loved the insider descriptions of each family member, living or gone, and how much love Ms Biden Owens obviously feels for each one. I also appreciated the glimpses into now-President Biden's feelings on varying political issues and flashpoints, and what guides decisions he makes on those. I read this title via the audiobook version, which is read by the author, and that amplifies all the highs and lows of loving, living, and Growing Up Biden.
My thanks to Macmillan Audio and NetGalley for the opportunity to preview this title in exchange for my honest opinion.
My thanks to Macmillan Audio and NetGalley for the opportunity to preview this title in exchange for my honest opinion.
April 2, 2022
Thank you to Celadon Books, this is my first advance reading copy. At first I thought it started out slow and wanted to fast forward to the parts I thought would be interesting (presidential campaigns). Then I realized that this is the story of her and Joe’s life and you can’t just fast forward. The book was well written and enjoyable to read. I never knew much about Joe Biden, let alone his sister. This memoir was a great read and not super political. I appreciate how Valerie talks about how things were said or done in the past, and acknowledges that is now considered to be chauvinist. Standards change. I’m not usually a memoir person, but this book was a great read and I learned a lot about the Biden family. The book contains a good message that crosses any political lines - “kindness reverberates. What you do and what you say matter.”
March 13, 2023
A fairly well-written book by a woman who is said (by Joe DiGenova for example) to be the brains of the Biden family (and therefore perhaps of the Biden grifting enterprise). The book is unintentionally revealing, with Valerie Owen's tattered slip often showing.
A school teacher, like her future sister in law, Ms. Owen's first job was in Prince George's County, Maryland, the African American suburb of Washington, D.C. (where middle class blacks fled to escape the crime and bad schools in DC itself). Ms. Owens and her editors call it "Prince George County," in her chapter on her early career.
Another slip in her stories relating to schools: after a year in her first, job for reasons not stated or explained, Ms. Owens quits Prince George's County public schools to move back to Delaware, where an old college professor offers her a job at the Friends School. She rankles, saying she won't be teaching a bunch of snooty kids who go to private school. Eventually she takes the job. Chapters later we find that Senator Joe Biden later sends future addict Hunter to...the Friends School.
Much of the early chapters are about her parents always scratching for money for rent and Catholic school tuition. They are always moving and never own a home. They are very aware of other people who can afford to belong to private swimming pool clubs or to buy a home and not move every few years. They are very aware of another branch of their own family who are well off for awhile, until they lose everything to alcoholism. At one point Valerie's mother gives her children $5 to find the child who said something mean and hit him and come back to show her the child's blood on her little assailant's knuckles. Later, when Joe Biden has his first aneurysm and brain surgery in 1988, Valerie goes to a diner to have coffee and wonder what she will do if she has no brother whose campaigns she can manage (Joe recognizes that she is smarter than he, especially about people and voters, and gives her final say on all campaign matters). A table is laughing about Senator Joe Biden's hospitalization and one man says he hopes Joe Biden dies. Ms. Owens carries a hot cup of coffee over to the table and pours it on the man.
Her life seems threaded with envy of others and a desire to punish anyone who does not respect her. Many of her stories of revenge are couched in terms of how she vanquished men who had high roles in her brother's campaigns who treated her in a sexist manner. Maybe these are true as she states them, though some of her stories of revenge involve violence against children or assaulting strangers in restaurants, so it is hard to be sure. That her family became the Manchurian candidates who are willing to destroy America for payola is not surprising.
One could compare this book to the growing number of books by "first" women to run a campaign, which is the hook Ms. Owen's pitches her book on. It has certain similarities to KellyAnne Conway's book on being the first woman to manage a winning presidential campaign. Both are replete with passages describing extended family get togethers, meals, and interactions. (Both authors are given to long lists of names of which relatives were at an event or participated in an activity, and the names refer to persons who are not fleshed out or described well for the reader, so that the passage is a long, boring list whose meaning is only known to the author and perhaps her immediate family.) Ms. Conway's Italian family seem to be better cooks, own their own homes and businesses, and less often destroyed by alcohol and other addictions than Ms. Ownen's Irish clan. They seem happier, even though Ms. Conway grew up fatherless. Ms. Conway seems to have also been a much earlier achiever, winning awards as a child and working and saving money as a child. Ms. Owen's seems to have done very little as a child other than pray for a figure. Comparing the way they analyze issues both geopolitical and in terms of personal dynamics inside families and campaigns, makes it clearer that Valerie Owen's is not really capable of abstract thought (as she herself writes in her own book when it comes to knowing about or having to answer questions about "policy") - she simply has feelngs, intuitions, hunches, and whatever bumpersticker the Democrats have issued that month.
Indeed, Ms. Owens seems a bit if a kook. Nancy Reagan was pilloried for consulting a psychic or astrologer or some such. Toward the end of this book Ms. Owens really lets down her guard and recounts a number of stories about how she made campaign decisions by reliance on omens and portents - a white owl flying in front of her, Hunter's birthday (February 1970) being the number of electoral college votes needed to win (270), imagining that her deceased nephew Beau was kibitzing in heaven with Congressman Clyburn's deceased wife to bring victory in the South Carolina primary.
It may be that Joe Biden is only president because in his campaign in 2020 he finally replaced sister Valerie with other people as his campaign manager.
A school teacher, like her future sister in law, Ms. Owen's first job was in Prince George's County, Maryland, the African American suburb of Washington, D.C. (where middle class blacks fled to escape the crime and bad schools in DC itself). Ms. Owens and her editors call it "Prince George County," in her chapter on her early career.
Another slip in her stories relating to schools: after a year in her first, job for reasons not stated or explained, Ms. Owens quits Prince George's County public schools to move back to Delaware, where an old college professor offers her a job at the Friends School. She rankles, saying she won't be teaching a bunch of snooty kids who go to private school. Eventually she takes the job. Chapters later we find that Senator Joe Biden later sends future addict Hunter to...the Friends School.
Much of the early chapters are about her parents always scratching for money for rent and Catholic school tuition. They are always moving and never own a home. They are very aware of other people who can afford to belong to private swimming pool clubs or to buy a home and not move every few years. They are very aware of another branch of their own family who are well off for awhile, until they lose everything to alcoholism. At one point Valerie's mother gives her children $5 to find the child who said something mean and hit him and come back to show her the child's blood on her little assailant's knuckles. Later, when Joe Biden has his first aneurysm and brain surgery in 1988, Valerie goes to a diner to have coffee and wonder what she will do if she has no brother whose campaigns she can manage (Joe recognizes that she is smarter than he, especially about people and voters, and gives her final say on all campaign matters). A table is laughing about Senator Joe Biden's hospitalization and one man says he hopes Joe Biden dies. Ms. Owens carries a hot cup of coffee over to the table and pours it on the man.
Her life seems threaded with envy of others and a desire to punish anyone who does not respect her. Many of her stories of revenge are couched in terms of how she vanquished men who had high roles in her brother's campaigns who treated her in a sexist manner. Maybe these are true as she states them, though some of her stories of revenge involve violence against children or assaulting strangers in restaurants, so it is hard to be sure. That her family became the Manchurian candidates who are willing to destroy America for payola is not surprising.
One could compare this book to the growing number of books by "first" women to run a campaign, which is the hook Ms. Owen's pitches her book on. It has certain similarities to KellyAnne Conway's book on being the first woman to manage a winning presidential campaign. Both are replete with passages describing extended family get togethers, meals, and interactions. (Both authors are given to long lists of names of which relatives were at an event or participated in an activity, and the names refer to persons who are not fleshed out or described well for the reader, so that the passage is a long, boring list whose meaning is only known to the author and perhaps her immediate family.) Ms. Conway's Italian family seem to be better cooks, own their own homes and businesses, and less often destroyed by alcohol and other addictions than Ms. Ownen's Irish clan. They seem happier, even though Ms. Conway grew up fatherless. Ms. Conway seems to have also been a much earlier achiever, winning awards as a child and working and saving money as a child. Ms. Owen's seems to have done very little as a child other than pray for a figure. Comparing the way they analyze issues both geopolitical and in terms of personal dynamics inside families and campaigns, makes it clearer that Valerie Owen's is not really capable of abstract thought (as she herself writes in her own book when it comes to knowing about or having to answer questions about "policy") - she simply has feelngs, intuitions, hunches, and whatever bumpersticker the Democrats have issued that month.
Indeed, Ms. Owens seems a bit if a kook. Nancy Reagan was pilloried for consulting a psychic or astrologer or some such. Toward the end of this book Ms. Owens really lets down her guard and recounts a number of stories about how she made campaign decisions by reliance on omens and portents - a white owl flying in front of her, Hunter's birthday (February 1970) being the number of electoral college votes needed to win (270), imagining that her deceased nephew Beau was kibitzing in heaven with Congressman Clyburn's deceased wife to bring victory in the South Carolina primary.
It may be that Joe Biden is only president because in his campaign in 2020 he finally replaced sister Valerie with other people as his campaign manager.
March 27, 2022
Originally published on my book blog, TheBibliophage.com.
Valerie Biden Owens offers readers insights into her family, political and otherwise in upcoming her memoir, Growing Up Biden. As the younger (and only) sister of President Joe Biden, she has a unique story to tell. At its heart is a deep trust between family members. And that’s the foundation on which she, her brother, and most of their family have built a lifetime of public service.
Biden Owens delicately balances family stories with public experiences. The former often made this only child wish for siblings, and even brought a tear to my eye. On the other hand, the Biden family has endured plenty of heartbreaking events in the public eye, right along with their triumphs.
As her brother’s primary campaign manager, Biden Owens went from teaching social studies to living the political life. But politics was never the sum total of what she did. So she also talks about their childhood, and the way the family pulled together after Biden’s wife and young daughter were killed in a car crash. And in between campaigns, Biden Owens also builds a family of her own, with her lawyer husband and three kids.
If you’re looking for tell-all dirt, this is certainly the wrong place to find it. Biden Owens clearly puts her family first and every family story has a positive spin on it, even when folks disagree.
My conclusions
Growing Up Biden is an eminently readable memoir. And, Valerie Biden Owens seems like a personable, down-to-earth woman. Many of her life experiences are unique, while other parts of her story relate easily to regular life.
As I read, I thought many times about that moment on 2020 Super Tuesday when a protester rushed onto the stage. Those closest to Joe Biden were his wife (and now First Lady) Jill and his sister Valerie Biden Owens. That Jill pushed back at the protester and protected the siblings is a testament to the way this family operates. One for all and all for one is their implicit and explicit motto.
Despite offering her side of many public events, Biden Owens also makes plain that being Catholic underpins her life. Her faith is a subtle thread throughout this book. I also appreciated her superstitious nature. Perhaps it’s a function of her political life or her upbringing. Either way, the stories about owls, Saint’s days, and signs from heaven made me smile.
If you’re curious about the Biden family from their own perspective, this is a perfect choice. It’s also the story of a woman at the dawn of the feminist movement who forges her own path, despite significant obstacles. I highly recommend it.
Pair with other political books like Dan Pfeifer’s Yes We (Still) Can for the campaign comparisons. Another natural pair would be Joe Biden’s Promise Me, Dad for his perspective on the same time periods.
Acknowledgments
Many thanks to Celadon Books and the author for an advanced reader’s copy in exchange for this honest review. Growing Up Biden debuts on April 12, 2022.
Valerie Biden Owens offers readers insights into her family, political and otherwise in upcoming her memoir, Growing Up Biden. As the younger (and only) sister of President Joe Biden, she has a unique story to tell. At its heart is a deep trust between family members. And that’s the foundation on which she, her brother, and most of their family have built a lifetime of public service.
Biden Owens delicately balances family stories with public experiences. The former often made this only child wish for siblings, and even brought a tear to my eye. On the other hand, the Biden family has endured plenty of heartbreaking events in the public eye, right along with their triumphs.
As her brother’s primary campaign manager, Biden Owens went from teaching social studies to living the political life. But politics was never the sum total of what she did. So she also talks about their childhood, and the way the family pulled together after Biden’s wife and young daughter were killed in a car crash. And in between campaigns, Biden Owens also builds a family of her own, with her lawyer husband and three kids.
If you’re looking for tell-all dirt, this is certainly the wrong place to find it. Biden Owens clearly puts her family first and every family story has a positive spin on it, even when folks disagree.
My conclusions
Growing Up Biden is an eminently readable memoir. And, Valerie Biden Owens seems like a personable, down-to-earth woman. Many of her life experiences are unique, while other parts of her story relate easily to regular life.
As I read, I thought many times about that moment on 2020 Super Tuesday when a protester rushed onto the stage. Those closest to Joe Biden were his wife (and now First Lady) Jill and his sister Valerie Biden Owens. That Jill pushed back at the protester and protected the siblings is a testament to the way this family operates. One for all and all for one is their implicit and explicit motto.
Despite offering her side of many public events, Biden Owens also makes plain that being Catholic underpins her life. Her faith is a subtle thread throughout this book. I also appreciated her superstitious nature. Perhaps it’s a function of her political life or her upbringing. Either way, the stories about owls, Saint’s days, and signs from heaven made me smile.
If you’re curious about the Biden family from their own perspective, this is a perfect choice. It’s also the story of a woman at the dawn of the feminist movement who forges her own path, despite significant obstacles. I highly recommend it.
Pair with other political books like Dan Pfeifer’s Yes We (Still) Can for the campaign comparisons. Another natural pair would be Joe Biden’s Promise Me, Dad for his perspective on the same time periods.
Acknowledgments
Many thanks to Celadon Books and the author for an advanced reader’s copy in exchange for this honest review. Growing Up Biden debuts on April 12, 2022.
April 19, 2022
This is book about Joe Biden's sister and growing up with her. What you get in this book is a memoir written with humor and cantor from the beginning to the end. She is Joe's best friend and confidant. (The first woman in U.S. History to manage all his campaign's!) The book is full of family ties, but Joe is the center of attraction. There are times when she talks about other members of the family, but it seems like she brushes over them. We learn about the many tragedies, hardships and everyday challenges that Joe went through to get to the top: Losing his first wife and daughter, brain surgery, his previous Presidential runs, Beau Biden's death, and the Trump nightmare election but they are glossed over. Most of these issues I have read about before, so I am glad she didn't spend time rehashing old stuff. Instead, what Valerie Biden offers is a unique perspective into the soul of a President who endeavors to save the soul of the nation. This memoir was a great read and not super political. "What matters most in life are simple ordinary acts of kindness-one person being considerate, thoughtful, or unselfish toward another."(p.36) Lets never brush over that statement! Read the book.
March 11, 2022
I really enjoyed this audio narrated by the author. Valerie is President Biden's sister. I love how she talks about her relationship with her brother and their family. She shares many stories of their childhood all the way up to the election. They are very close and she stepped up when Joe lost his first wife and daughter in a car accident.
She is very transparent on her relationships including her husbands and others. She examines many things through out their lives. She was instrumental as a fierce sister and protective of everyone in her family. I found her narrative very transparent and it was refreshing. I loved her comparison of the light and the candle. You will have to read this novel to find out what she meant.
Thank you NetGalley for this advanced audio and Celadon Books for a physical copy of this book. This book is due out April 12, 2022.
She is very transparent on her relationships including her husbands and others. She examines many things through out their lives. She was instrumental as a fierce sister and protective of everyone in her family. I found her narrative very transparent and it was refreshing. I loved her comparison of the light and the candle. You will have to read this novel to find out what she meant.
Thank you NetGalley for this advanced audio and Celadon Books for a physical copy of this book. This book is due out April 12, 2022.
January 30, 2023
Growing up Biden was a vey good book. I really enjoyed reading about the family of the current president. It was very interesting and very informative.
February 12, 2022
Written by the sister of Joe Biden, this is now the sixth Biden book I have read. Family is so important to the Biden story, and so often told, it is great to read of the Scranton and Delaware days (highs and tragedies), etc. from a different and privileged point of view.
As impressively "one of the first female campaign managers", Val has run almost all of her brother’s political campaigns—starting from his run for high school class president. Her constant and essential presence in her brother's life as a close confidante and helping to raise his children has allowed her insight and expertise on his political life. There are a lot of vignettes from the Joe 1988 and 2008 presidential campaigns.
Of course, I am most interested in the Joe Biden 2020 presidential campaign. For that campaign, Jen O'Malley Dillon was campaign manager with
Val as senior advisor. Her inside recollections are part of the concluding few dozen pages.
I thank Celadon Books for providing me with a copy of this engaging book in exchange for an honest review.
As impressively "one of the first female campaign managers", Val has run almost all of her brother’s political campaigns—starting from his run for high school class president. Her constant and essential presence in her brother's life as a close confidante and helping to raise his children has allowed her insight and expertise on his political life. There are a lot of vignettes from the Joe 1988 and 2008 presidential campaigns.
Of course, I am most interested in the Joe Biden 2020 presidential campaign. For that campaign, Jen O'Malley Dillon was campaign manager with
Val as senior advisor. Her inside recollections are part of the concluding few dozen pages.
I thank Celadon Books for providing me with a copy of this engaging book in exchange for an honest review.
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March 10, 2022
I was able to listen to an eARC Audiobook version of Growing Up Biden, by author Valerie Biden Owens, thanks to @netgalley. She also narrated the audiobook and I felt it gave authenticity to her stories. This isn’t an actor playing various parts within a story, these stories are about her life and experiences and the inflections and emotions in her voice were as real as if the events were happening that day. Whether I was listening to the book while driving my kids to and from school, cooking dinner or laying down to sleep, I felt drawn in by Valerie’s voice and her stories. It honestly made me feel like I was transported back to the days where I’d sit with my grandmother as she’d tell me stories about her life. Listening to Growing Up Biden was like warm chocolate chip cookies fresh out of the oven or wrapping up in a blanket fresh from the dryer; it felt comforting and nostalgic.
Our current President, Joe Biden and his siblings are not from my generation. In fact I looked up what generation he was classified under during the election cycle and was surprised to learn that he was not an elder Baby Boomer but instead a younger member of the Silent Generation. Valerie, only a few years younger than her brother Joe, is also a member of that generation. So listening to her stories that quite literally start at the beginning of her life and travel to the present; with more emphasis on the past, was like a history lesson for me. Not just about the Biden family, whom I only knew cursey information about, but also about a time in history that I’ve only ever heard about but never experienced.
I think it is very easy to hear the name Biden and immediately think of Joe, but Growing Up Biden helped teach me about other members of the family who are just as formidable, just as strong, just as smart as the one we elected to run our country.
Valerie was her own trailblazer as a campaign manager for her brother in a time where women were relegated to secretarial positions and answering phones. Her no nonsense approach to politics and being able to firmly stand her ground are why we, as Americans, know his name. My daughters would often pipe up with questions about why people would make the comments they did to Valerie or challenge her authority. Being raised as “no means no” tween/teens girls in the year 2022, this concept is foreign to them. This lesson in the trials women face has no boundary of age. The discussions that came from listening to this book, I think, would have made Valerie proud.
Obviously politics plays a role in this book, but I appreciated that Valerie didn’t go far into the Trump era Presidency. This book is about the Biden childhood, the Biden parents, the siblings and their relationships, their experiences as they aged and into the present with Joe’s victory. Are there some Republican/Trump comments, yes, but it shouldn’t distract from the whole piece regardless of what side of the aisle you sit.
A huge thank you to @netgalley, author @valeriebidenowens and @macmillian.audio for an advanced audiobook copy of Growing Up Biden in exchange for an honest review.
Our current President, Joe Biden and his siblings are not from my generation. In fact I looked up what generation he was classified under during the election cycle and was surprised to learn that he was not an elder Baby Boomer but instead a younger member of the Silent Generation. Valerie, only a few years younger than her brother Joe, is also a member of that generation. So listening to her stories that quite literally start at the beginning of her life and travel to the present; with more emphasis on the past, was like a history lesson for me. Not just about the Biden family, whom I only knew cursey information about, but also about a time in history that I’ve only ever heard about but never experienced.
I think it is very easy to hear the name Biden and immediately think of Joe, but Growing Up Biden helped teach me about other members of the family who are just as formidable, just as strong, just as smart as the one we elected to run our country.
Valerie was her own trailblazer as a campaign manager for her brother in a time where women were relegated to secretarial positions and answering phones. Her no nonsense approach to politics and being able to firmly stand her ground are why we, as Americans, know his name. My daughters would often pipe up with questions about why people would make the comments they did to Valerie or challenge her authority. Being raised as “no means no” tween/teens girls in the year 2022, this concept is foreign to them. This lesson in the trials women face has no boundary of age. The discussions that came from listening to this book, I think, would have made Valerie proud.
Obviously politics plays a role in this book, but I appreciated that Valerie didn’t go far into the Trump era Presidency. This book is about the Biden childhood, the Biden parents, the siblings and their relationships, their experiences as they aged and into the present with Joe’s victory. Are there some Republican/Trump comments, yes, but it shouldn’t distract from the whole piece regardless of what side of the aisle you sit.
A huge thank you to @netgalley, author @valeriebidenowens and @macmillian.audio for an advanced audiobook copy of Growing Up Biden in exchange for an honest review.
April 20, 2022
I enjoyed this moving and touching memoir by Valerie Biden Owens about the enduring love and determination of the Biden family through changes, grief, and political campaigns. It’s my first non-fiction read of the year and my first Biden memoir—which means I have no other account of the Biden family to compare it to—but I thought it did what any good memoir should do: illuminate, educate, and inspire.
At the heart of this quick read is a story about a brother and sister, their unfailing loyalty and commitment to each other, and the people who shaped them along the way. Readers learn how and where the Biden story began, what influenced this political family, and the long and arduous road to the White House.
There’s a lovely chapter solely dedicated to the loss of President Biden’s first wife and daughter, and I thought it was respectful and emotional, bringing me to tears. I was unaware of many of the details, which were devastating, or that it had occurred so soon after Joe was elected to the Senate for the first time. Valerie recounts those dark days, how she stepped in to help take care of Joe’s young sons by moving into their house, where she would remain for several years.
Besides the heartfelt family relationships, some of my favorite parts of the book are the historical aspects she recounts. Valerie does a nice job illustrating the climate during each of their campaigns, especially in the 1970s and 1980s, discussing how tides turned and how what worked during one decade might not work in another. I was impressed with the family’s perseverance in the face of so much opposition.
As Joe’s lifelong campaign manager and sister, Valerie also has a front row seat behind the political curtain, and while I’m sure she has many more stories that are not included in this book, it’s nice to have a peek at the inner workings. As a woman working against a force of men, she’s an inspiration.
Although she wasn’t Joe’s campaign manager in the 2020 election, she still played an important part in that monumental election. Garnering the most votes ever in a presidential election—during a pandemic!—is no small feat, and it was nice to relive those celebratory moments again, the intense relief more than half of the nation felt on that Saturday afternoon when we learned Biden had won the presidency. While I may not agree with all of Biden’s political stances, I can agree he is an empathetic man who wants what’s best for our nation, and reading Growing Up Biden reminded me that it’s what is most important in any candidate.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own. Thank you to Celadon Books for providing me with an advance copy.
Check out my reviews at A Book Wanderer
At the heart of this quick read is a story about a brother and sister, their unfailing loyalty and commitment to each other, and the people who shaped them along the way. Readers learn how and where the Biden story began, what influenced this political family, and the long and arduous road to the White House.
There’s a lovely chapter solely dedicated to the loss of President Biden’s first wife and daughter, and I thought it was respectful and emotional, bringing me to tears. I was unaware of many of the details, which were devastating, or that it had occurred so soon after Joe was elected to the Senate for the first time. Valerie recounts those dark days, how she stepped in to help take care of Joe’s young sons by moving into their house, where she would remain for several years.
Besides the heartfelt family relationships, some of my favorite parts of the book are the historical aspects she recounts. Valerie does a nice job illustrating the climate during each of their campaigns, especially in the 1970s and 1980s, discussing how tides turned and how what worked during one decade might not work in another. I was impressed with the family’s perseverance in the face of so much opposition.
As Joe’s lifelong campaign manager and sister, Valerie also has a front row seat behind the political curtain, and while I’m sure she has many more stories that are not included in this book, it’s nice to have a peek at the inner workings. As a woman working against a force of men, she’s an inspiration.
Although she wasn’t Joe’s campaign manager in the 2020 election, she still played an important part in that monumental election. Garnering the most votes ever in a presidential election—during a pandemic!—is no small feat, and it was nice to relive those celebratory moments again, the intense relief more than half of the nation felt on that Saturday afternoon when we learned Biden had won the presidency. While I may not agree with all of Biden’s political stances, I can agree he is an empathetic man who wants what’s best for our nation, and reading Growing Up Biden reminded me that it’s what is most important in any candidate.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own. Thank you to Celadon Books for providing me with an advance copy.
Check out my reviews at A Book Wanderer
June 16, 2022
You'd think I was obsessed with the Biden's, since I've read one of Joe's books and Jill's book and now Joe's sister's book! But it's more slow burn than obsession--the more I know about them, the more I admire them--it's really that simple. And the more it aggravates me that the people who claim to share the values they hold in abundance--decency, probity, humor, duty and service, and family above all--idiots fail to recognize. So I'm trying to even the balance.
More than that, Valerie Biden Owens intrigues me because she was a campaign manager beginning in the 70's, when women didn't do that. Part of the credit goes to Joe Biden, for insisting on treating her as an equal (the story of how he insisted she get a college education even if he had to temporarily sacrifice his own moved me more than I can say) and not allowing the many men who tried to take Valerie down to get away with it.
Both Valerie and Joe are Scorpios (their family is thick with Scorpios, in fact) and unlike Joe, who comes off more as a hail fellow, well met Sagittarius, Valerie does not hold back. On the subject of Trump and how he brought out the worst in Americans, she speaks my mind and heart more thoroughly than anyone. She's honest and authentic as she shares her story of the times she lived, how she and Joe pulled off some fantastic victories early on, and she's absolutely Joey's biggest supporter, but she doesn't pretend he's perfect. Her mom really stressed the importance of siblings uber alles and man, they've lived it out beautifully.
I had not realized Valerie, an incredibly devoted Catholic, had been married and divorced--with the active, loving support of her family priest. Her story of her current marriage, which started with the two of them in actual dislike for a sustained period of time, is the best contemporary romance story I've ever read. If I actually wrote books instead of reading them, I'd definitely use it as a template; it's perfect!!!!
This is another one I read in less than 24 hours, because it was engrossing and profound--and surprisingly included the kind of magical synchronicities I see in the world, but didn't expect. But I should have, because deep spirituality, whether in an organized religion or not, always contains a recognition of resonant natural symbolism.
It's beautifully written, too.
A word the author uses again and again and again--with great intent--is empathy. It's a characteristic that, if we only stressed it as necessary to develop, we'd be such a great country. It's a word I have used and used and used over the last two decades, and I felt so aligned with Valerie Biden Owens on this, as so many other things.
I trust her, like I trust all the Bidens. America is so lucky to have them. If more Americans were centered in service and gratitude instead of petty partisan hostility, there is nothing we couldn't do.
More than that, Valerie Biden Owens intrigues me because she was a campaign manager beginning in the 70's, when women didn't do that. Part of the credit goes to Joe Biden, for insisting on treating her as an equal (the story of how he insisted she get a college education even if he had to temporarily sacrifice his own moved me more than I can say) and not allowing the many men who tried to take Valerie down to get away with it.
Both Valerie and Joe are Scorpios (their family is thick with Scorpios, in fact) and unlike Joe, who comes off more as a hail fellow, well met Sagittarius, Valerie does not hold back. On the subject of Trump and how he brought out the worst in Americans, she speaks my mind and heart more thoroughly than anyone. She's honest and authentic as she shares her story of the times she lived, how she and Joe pulled off some fantastic victories early on, and she's absolutely Joey's biggest supporter, but she doesn't pretend he's perfect. Her mom really stressed the importance of siblings uber alles and man, they've lived it out beautifully.
I had not realized Valerie, an incredibly devoted Catholic, had been married and divorced--with the active, loving support of her family priest. Her story of her current marriage, which started with the two of them in actual dislike for a sustained period of time, is the best contemporary romance story I've ever read. If I actually wrote books instead of reading them, I'd definitely use it as a template; it's perfect!!!!
This is another one I read in less than 24 hours, because it was engrossing and profound--and surprisingly included the kind of magical synchronicities I see in the world, but didn't expect. But I should have, because deep spirituality, whether in an organized religion or not, always contains a recognition of resonant natural symbolism.
It's beautifully written, too.
A word the author uses again and again and again--with great intent--is empathy. It's a characteristic that, if we only stressed it as necessary to develop, we'd be such a great country. It's a word I have used and used and used over the last two decades, and I felt so aligned with Valerie Biden Owens on this, as so many other things.
I trust her, like I trust all the Bidens. America is so lucky to have them. If more Americans were centered in service and gratitude instead of petty partisan hostility, there is nothing we couldn't do.
April 24, 2022
A full review can be found on my blog.
I received the audiobook version of Growing Up Biden and I enjoyed Valerie as a narrator - a lot of her personality came through and, as a listener, I could feel how emotional some topics were which helped humanize the book. My only true critique of Growing Up Biden relates to its timeline as the book jumped around quite a bit, so there were a handful of times where I had to skip back and re-listen. Overall, I think this is a quality memoir - it's direct, honest, and quick. If you have an interest in the Biden family and want an insider's view from beginning to end, I think Growing Up Biden is your best choice (that is until President Biden leaves office and writes his own memoir, of course).
I received the audiobook version of Growing Up Biden and I enjoyed Valerie as a narrator - a lot of her personality came through and, as a listener, I could feel how emotional some topics were which helped humanize the book. My only true critique of Growing Up Biden relates to its timeline as the book jumped around quite a bit, so there were a handful of times where I had to skip back and re-listen. Overall, I think this is a quality memoir - it's direct, honest, and quick. If you have an interest in the Biden family and want an insider's view from beginning to end, I think Growing Up Biden is your best choice (that is until President Biden leaves office and writes his own memoir, of course).
April 22, 2022
I have always felt an affinity with Joe Biden after learning he lost a wife and daughter at a young age just as I had lost a husband and son. I think it is part of what makes him such an empathetic and understanding man. This book, written by his sister Valerie, gives me an even deeper insight into what makes Joe Biden the man he is. I have great admiration and respect for his entire family, even more so after reading this book.
I won this book on Goodreads Firstreads, but my opinions are my own.
I won this book on Goodreads Firstreads, but my opinions are my own.
May 10, 2022
I quite loved this book. (But then again I love Joe Biden)
It was well written and I am embarrassed to say that I had NOT been familiar with "Val"'s critical role in ALL of Joe's campaigns. I found that fascinating
BUT my favorite parts were about the Biden family and their strong relationship (and faith). Such honesty, support and loyalty... AND TRUST ... is truly inspiring.
And it is one of the few times in my life when I am NOT glad to be an only child; how wonderful it would have been to have had a brother/sister relationship like that of Joe and Val.
It was well written and I am embarrassed to say that I had NOT been familiar with "Val"'s critical role in ALL of Joe's campaigns. I found that fascinating
BUT my favorite parts were about the Biden family and their strong relationship (and faith). Such honesty, support and loyalty... AND TRUST ... is truly inspiring.
And it is one of the few times in my life when I am NOT glad to be an only child; how wonderful it would have been to have had a brother/sister relationship like that of Joe and Val.
February 22, 2022
This book offers an interesting look into the Biden family through the eyes of Joe Biden's sister, Valerie. I liked learning about their family's journey, from childhood into the present. I love how they all stick together and take care of each other whenever tragedy strikes. I was just wishing for some pictures, but I read an Advance Reading Copy, so that may have been the issue.
I received this book as a Goodreads giveaway. Yay!
I received this book as a Goodreads giveaway. Yay!
March 20, 2022
This is a memoir by Joe Biden's sister but it is so much more! She was one of the first women ever to manage a senate campaign. She did all of Biden's campaigns including three presidential runs.
This family is so solid that she helped raise his sons when Joe's wife Neilia was killed in a car accident. Even with her fierce loyalty to Joe, she was very outspoken in her views with him and he knew he needed to listen to her.
This book is an inside look at politics and I grew to respect Joe Biden even more after reading how others tried to tear him down. The whole family makes me want to be a part of them.
Thank you Celadon Books for allowing me to win this paperback and review it. I cannot say enough good things about this book and now I want to read Joe's books.
This family is so solid that she helped raise his sons when Joe's wife Neilia was killed in a car accident. Even with her fierce loyalty to Joe, she was very outspoken in her views with him and he knew he needed to listen to her.
This book is an inside look at politics and I grew to respect Joe Biden even more after reading how others tried to tear him down. The whole family makes me want to be a part of them.
Thank you Celadon Books for allowing me to win this paperback and review it. I cannot say enough good things about this book and now I want to read Joe's books.
April 29, 2022
Memoir written by President Joe Biden's sister Valerie. She writes about the Biden's family of origin and how it has impacted both her and the President. An ok book but it is not a definitive book on the Bidens which is to be expected as it's written through the lens of family love.
August 3, 2023
It was an interesting insight into the Biden family and what Biden’s sister has as a viewpoint on his life and how hers is intertwined. The cheap political attacks made me like the book less. Removing those would have made it 4*
June 29, 2022
An interesting and personal memoir by the President’s sister. Themes of family, the importance of family support, resilience and overcoming hardship.
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