This is a tricky one to review because the author is so brave to tell her story. And also because it’s not a book that you can enjoy – you can admire the narrator, try and empathise with her, certainly sympathise, and wish her well, but this is certainly not, as some reviewers call it, ‘a great read’.
But I knew that before I read it, and there’s no doubt at all that this is an important story that needs to be told. The author hopes that by sharing, she can pave the way for others to tell their own stories and for voices to be heard.
Along with Ann and Joe Cusack, she has told that story so well, clearly, honestly, and succinctly, without shying away from anything.
I think what is most staggering about Maureen’s story is that her mother joined in with her abuse by her stepfather. That is utterly sickening and unforgiveable. What is interesting though, is that Maureen stayed in contact with her mother for a long time – which goes to show how deep the manipulation and fear went.
What is also staggering are the missed opportunities to help her. Someone must have noticed – when she became pregnant so young, why weren’t more questions asked? Why didn’t a teacher, or a neighbour, or a friend’s parent step up? What is wrong with us that we turn a blind eye?
I’m so pleased that Maureen is now living a happy, fulfilled life with her children who love her, and that she has found peace. What an astoundingly brave woman she is. I hope she knows that, out of all the adults in her life, she has done right by that scared little girl she once was.