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[Laing is non binary and pronoun fluid, so I’ve gone with ‘they’ as the most gender-neutral pronoun option in the absence of specifically stated preferences]
I have putting off writing this review for a long time on account of, you know, emotions and shit. Urgh. The truth is, I don’t think I really know how to begin to articulate the experience of reading this. It’s so … expansive and eye-opening and fascinating. And, um, kind of deeply painful too, because I don’t think there’s really a way to talk about the reality and the complexity of bodies without touching on painful things, of which death, suffering and identity scrape only the surface. Mostly, though, I’m just in awe of the mind that created a book like this. To move eruditely and compassionately, and yet also accessibly, through about century’s worth of art, politics, and medicine, and find uniting themes amongst what sometimes seems an impossible chaos of humanity, is simply an extraordinary feat and equally extraordinary to witness.
Everybody winds its exploratory, occasionally personal, narrative around the life and work of Wilheim Reich, someone I was familiar with because of, err, Kate Bush. There’s always been, I think, something intriguing and difficult about Reich: a student of Freud, he believed that emotional trauma was ultimately inextricable from bodily trauma (damage caused to the mind is expressed in the body, in freeing the body, we free the mind, etc.) and made an actual attempt to explore where fascism came from (at a time when Freud and his compatriots were insisting that their role was to remain neutral in all cases) only to die—some years later—in a United States prison, having succumbed to paranoia and potentially schizophrenia, insisting that, err, magic boxes were the cure for all ills.
Laing does not absolve Reich of his complexities (he grew quite abusive in later life, to say nothing of homophobic) but it is interesting—and unexpectedly moving—to see him spoken about as someone other than the guy who thought the power of orgasms could change the weather. He also makes a surprisingly effective through-line for a book about bodies and freedom and politics: this man who was at least at partial, if unintentional, inspiration for the sexual revolution, who wrote so passionately against both sexual and political repression, whose most infamous ‘therapy’ involved isolating in yourself in a box, and then died in a prison cell in a country that calls itself the land of the free.
To say the book is about Reich, however, is barely scrape the surface of its accomplishments. Reich’s ideas—and his limitations—offer a lens through which to investigate bodies as both of sites of vulnerability and tools for resistance. Laing examines the body in illness, the body in prison, the body *as* a prison, the body as a subject of violence, as well as the body as an expression of art, selfhood and protest. This is a journey that takes Laing from Reich and his contemporaries to Kathy Acker and Susan Sontag, to Dworkin, Carter and the Marquis de Sade, to Christopher Isherwood, Nina Simone and Malcom X, all via some figures I was personally less familiar with like Bayard Rustin and Ana Mendieta. And look I’m just not learned enough to be able to say sensible things about how Laing discusses these very disparate figures but I personally felt her perspective was always nuanced, knowledgable and compassionate, and the way she integrated their stories into the broader narrative was masterful. I mean, imagine finding something interesting to say about de Sade, of all people—and yet Laing manages.
I think there are probably some readers who may find the book’s structuring unconventional to the point of intimidating. And it did, honestly, take me a bit to adjust to Laing’s thematic fluidity—moving with them from person to person, idea to idea. But, in the end, I loved it and admired it, and I felt very moved by Laing’s … I can’t think of a better word for it than textual freedom. Which is fitting because, by the end of the book, they are inviting the reader to “imagine, for a minute, what it would be like to inhabit a body without fear.” It was slightly frightening for me to realise—either because of me, or because I’d just spent so long thinking about all the ways the body could be trapped, violated, and made vulnerable—that I couldn’t. But please don’t think this is a grim or a depressing book. It tackles grim and depressing subjects somewhat inevitably. And yet there’s a defiance to it—a rejection of constraint and conventionality—that feels just enough like hope.
It's rare to find a book that really changes how you think or makes you want to expand the edges of how you think. I feel kind of dizzied and grateful right now to Everybody for giving me that to me, at a time in my life when I wasn’t quite ready for it, but also deeply needed it. It’s such a confronting experience at times that I’m having trouble “recommending” it in the conventional sense. But if you’re open to what Everybody is offering, you are in for something both rare and remarkable.