This star has a major misunderstanding of what a "story" is and how to tell it. This book has very few stories, a whole lot of dull facts about a pretty bland life (not "an unexpected life" as the subtitle oddly claims), and puts up giant walls so that we don't get to really know the star at all beyond how anxious she always seems to be.
And if you're looking for any inside information on her big TV shows, forget it. There is virtually nothing about the making of ER beyond a few pages regarding the pilot and her ridiculous decision to leave the show (and give up $27 million). There's also very little about The Good Wife, failing to address the rumors of tension on the set.
Julianna Margulies, who almost always plays sour serious characters on TV, claims to be an upbeat and happy "Sunshine Girl" who paid no real attention to life until she was 35. She moves from country to country, home to home, poor mom to rich dad, seemingly unaware of her own feelings beyond a perfectionist desire in school.
I'm not buying it for a minute. If she really is as ditzy and birdbrain as she comes across on the pages of this book, then she needs some serious mental health help.
Most of the book is about her upbringing--she doesn't even get to finishing high school until literally half way through the book (page 112 out of 229) and even then she returns to her younger years multiple times later in the book. The rest of the book isn't about her TV shows but contains totally insignificant details of routes she took to get somewhere, insignificant jobs, colors in home furnishings, and odd quirks of unknown friends. After a while it feels like she's doing everything she can to avoid talking about the things she's most famous for or about who she really is inside.
The biggest problem in the book is her lack of solid stories--in all those first 112 pages there are facts and some information but almost zero detailed stories. She doesn't seem to understand that simply telling that you went to a country, met a few new friends, and didn't like the dark room you were living in doesn't mean you're telling an actual story. The only significant thing that happens to her, beyond moving a whole bunch, is that she breaks her front teeth, which we hear about multiple times throughout the rest of the book.
There's a real problem with a Hollywood memoir when the most significant memorable thing in the book is a girl breaking her teeth and having trouble with those teeth in adulthood. She gushes over an oddly kind dentist she meets in college who ends up fixing her teeth without charging her, but also creepily following her everywhere for the rest of her life.
Margulies also has a warped view of her divorced parents. Her mother is just plain crazy and Julianna thinks the woman is the best thing in the world. Her father is an outstanding provider and gives her great advice, but she slams him throughout by trying to claim he was distant and uninvolved. Instead, she fails to see that the distance came because her mother put up a big wall that didn't allow her father to cross into her life.
Julianna screams at her dad later in life for not being there more for her, yet the poor guy--who provided everything she ever needed including private school, horses, European trips, month-long vacations, and her college education--was simply stuck because her mother banned him from being an active part of her life. Her mom was the real problem, but Julianna can't admit that. Meanwhile she accepts her mother bringing random hookups and boyfriends to the house or her mom's total irresponsibility at moving the kids without notice and dropping them off at a school where they haven't been enrolled (you read that right). It's sad to see a celebrity blame a father who actually sounds like one of the finest dad's I've read about in a memoir while glossing over the mentally ill mother that actually did the damage.
You don't come away from this book admiring Margulies. She's neurotic to the point of almost having her mother's craziness. The fact that she stuck with a verbally abusive boyfriend for ten years, while she was becoming rich and famous, proves she lacks the inner strength she claims to have. She wants to be nothing like her father who was unable to spend a lot of time with her, so she claims to value and prioritize her own child--while working 14 hours days on a TV show in another country and pushing pro-abortion causes. Typical Hollywood hypocrite.
I didn't find much sunshine in this book at all. It's actually a very dark, sad story of an affluent, successful woman who never really seems happy.