This is not the first book I’ve read in the 9Marks series, and overall, I’ve found the series to be theologically solid and grounded in careful biblical interpretation. However, this particular book fell short of that standard.
As someone who holds complementarian views and fully affirms that the office of elder/pastor is reserved for qualified men, I expected a more robust and biblically grounded defense of that position. Unfortunately, the book relied too heavily on personal bias and the specific practices of the author’s own church, rather than presenting a clear, scriptural argument. Though he does pull out many scriptural passages.
Gilbert begins well, affirming the equal value of men and women and God’s design for both to exercise dominion—points with which I completely agree. But his explanation of the fall introduces a troubling framework: he suggests an inverted authority structure from serpent to woman to man, implying that men hold a higher inherent authority than women. This goes beyond the question of pastoral roles and veers into a hierarchy of value, which undermines his earlier affirmation of equality.
The most helpful portion of the book was the application section at the end, where Gilbert explores practical questions. However, even there, he leans heavily on what his own church does, and while he admits that others might take different (but still biblically faithful) approaches, the result is more confusion than clarity.
I’ve heard stronger, more thoughtfully developed arguments for complementarianism than what’s presented here. In a longer format, perhaps Gilbert could have explored his points more fully, but as it stands, this book doesn’t satisfactorily answer the question it claims to addr