I was not really familiar with Nietzsche's work, but I read the book because Brad wrote it. I think Brad is a great teacher and writer.
You are supposed to be reading the book throughout the year, there are fifty-two chapters - one for each week, but I read the whole book in just a few days. For me personally, this book comes in such perfect timing. When I found the book, I was almost at a breaking point. I was exhausted. My team and I have been working non-stop for months building our product. I lost my dear father, my Papa, due to a heart attack just a couple of months prior, and I was stuck in the grieving process. I fell into a bout of depression, and I started to question myself and my effectiveness as a leader.
Reading this book helped me to put things in perspective and to have hope again.
This is the part that really helped me: Reflecting Your Light.
(if you are in a dark place right now, please read this chapter)
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As an entrepreneur, you are a leader. Your co-founders, your team, and to some extent, your customers and investors all work with you because you play an important and positive role for them. They see you as a “light” in their lives. It is completely irrelevant in your present dark hour whether you think this is justified or important. The fact that your light shines is inescapable, and recognizing it is not an act of ego or vanity but simply one of acknowledging reality. Once you have recognized this reality, you can observe your light’s reflection. It is visible even if you are inclined to say, “so what?” Observe how your presence changes and animates discussions. Observe how people respond to your requests and questions. Notice the level of motivation in your organization, even in difficult times, and recognize that you selected these people, and they selected you to work with. Watch for the reflection and the effects of your light shining. Don’t actively minimize it, just see it, like you see the illumination of the moon. If a sense of detachment accompanies your mental state, use that to help see things as a disinterested observer. You have now recognized your importance in these people’s lives and observed and experienced how you affect them. These are simple facts. You may elect to make judgments about those facts in your depressed state. You might dismiss them as unimportant. Sometimes “Imposter Syndrome” is a component of depression—in that case, you may have the thought that these people are making a mistake or that you are a fraud. This does not change the fact that your own light, reflecting off these people and your role in their lives, has now reflected back onto you. You may not enjoy or appreciate it in your depressed state, but it is there and worth acknowledging. No matter how dark the world may seem, it would be darker without you. It would also be darker if you did not have those other people to reflect your light."
Thank you, Brad and Dave, for writing this book. I forever owe you.