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A Muslim Woman's Diary
A Muslim Woman’s Diary is a collection of thoughts, reminders and advice in the form of quotes from a Muslima to all her sisters across the world. The book is divided into four fundamental themes – haya, nafs, sabr and obedience. The aim of this work is to help you deal with the major and minor issues in your life, as well as guide you to change your mindset into a positive perspective when facing calamities. Along the way, you will also gain an overall understanding of the Islamic principles in how to understand your worth as a Muslim woman in a Western society, how to deal with your nafs, how to maintain sabr in times of hardship and finally how to be obedient to your Lord and parents. By the will of Allah, this book will help you re-evaluate the meaning of your life and assist you to see the light within the darkness.
Published on April 12th
Published on April 12th
208 pages, Paperback
First published April 15, 2021
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January 4, 2025
Sisters, read this please. It’s so beautiful I cried. Not in a sad way, but I felt it in my heart. I kept smiling and be reminded of our creator. I love Islam so much it’s so beautiful
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March 17, 2022I want to buy this book rlly badly bc I saw an excerpt from it online but it’s literally $25 😭😭
May 20, 2025
I feel bad for giving only 1 star but the only positive aspect about this book is that it gives you some Islamic reminders that might be helpful at some point.
However, I hate this trend of aesthetic, « poetry » books that are literally just blank pages. What do you mean I pay for a book that’s 50% empty ? I thought it was gonna be a real diary, with struggles the author faced and her reflections on them, but turned out it was just some random phrases written on top of simple illustrations. It’s just the Muslim version of milk and honey.
And although some reminders are good, what’s with the author and happiness ? A lot of times in the book she wrote that if you’re happy in your life you should be worried because it means Allah has given you this dunya, or that if you’re happy you’re gonna drift away from Allah and that hardship is the only way to feel close to Allah. I’m sorry but Muslims need to stop with this narrative that implies misery is a pillar of Islam.
Of course hardships are part of life, and there’s always wisdom in everything you go through. But being happy is not a sin! Being happy doesn’t necessarily take you away from Allah, for some people, joy is actually what’s gonna make them remember Allah because they’re gonna be thanking Him all the time for his blessings.
Anyways, I feel like this book might be good for people who don’t usually read and want something simple, and that’s okay. But it didn’t do it for me.
However, I hate this trend of aesthetic, « poetry » books that are literally just blank pages. What do you mean I pay for a book that’s 50% empty ? I thought it was gonna be a real diary, with struggles the author faced and her reflections on them, but turned out it was just some random phrases written on top of simple illustrations. It’s just the Muslim version of milk and honey.
And although some reminders are good, what’s with the author and happiness ? A lot of times in the book she wrote that if you’re happy in your life you should be worried because it means Allah has given you this dunya, or that if you’re happy you’re gonna drift away from Allah and that hardship is the only way to feel close to Allah. I’m sorry but Muslims need to stop with this narrative that implies misery is a pillar of Islam.
Of course hardships are part of life, and there’s always wisdom in everything you go through. But being happy is not a sin! Being happy doesn’t necessarily take you away from Allah, for some people, joy is actually what’s gonna make them remember Allah because they’re gonna be thanking Him all the time for his blessings.
Anyways, I feel like this book might be good for people who don’t usually read and want something simple, and that’s okay. But it didn’t do it for me.
July 20, 2025
Sisters, read this please. It’s so beautiful, i cried.
Not in a sad way, but i felt it in my heart.
This book has my heart.
Not in a sad way, but i felt it in my heart.
This book has my heart.
October 10, 2021
Sometimes you read a book and love it so much you want everyone you know to read it too!! This is that book. It is so good i did not want it to end.
Amazingly written.
Definitely recommend to all muslim woman out there <3
Amazingly written.
Definitely recommend to all muslim woman out there <3
March 20, 2024
I love this book every single reminder is so beautiful wow.🤍
February 20, 2023
i loved this. its rlly such a good reminder of islamic principles and its so easy to get through. i rlly loved it.
September 8, 2025
It wasn’t bad but a very light read and much more geared to younger ladies I would say then myself. Appreciate the idea though ❤️
October 31, 2025
I want to buy 1000 copies of this book and give one to everyone I see ❤️
January 17, 2026
I really liked the reminders in this book but honestly I was expecting something different like a diary written for women. Instead it’s mainly a collection of short reminders.
I think it’s especially great for teenagers.
It’s written in a poetic style which I usually don’t prefer, but the words are so nice n relatable that I ended up finishing it. Overall, it’s a gentle n meaningful read.
I think it’s especially great for teenagers.
It’s written in a poetic style which I usually don’t prefer, but the words are so nice n relatable that I ended up finishing it. Overall, it’s a gentle n meaningful read.
December 23, 2024
These were good pearls of information that were delivered in very short phrases and lines. Some were excellent reminders, and others were more opinionated. I wish the passages were more in-depth and had better Quran/hadith that connected more effectively with what the author was trying to say; the verses used did not always seem to flow with the passage written.
Overall, this was a good series of reminders for a clearly younger crowd. It is far more suited to teenagers than adults. I did not find that it even answered the questions that the author stated in her note afterward. Despite this, gave it 3 stars.
Overall, this was a good series of reminders for a clearly younger crowd. It is far more suited to teenagers than adults. I did not find that it even answered the questions that the author stated in her note afterward. Despite this, gave it 3 stars.
January 19, 2023
“Sisterhood in Islam is one of the most beautiful things. Accompany yourself with sisters on the deen
and watch how much you'll prosper. You'll slowly adopt their manners, great mindsets and good habits.”
Simple and cute, loved it! May Allah SWT increase this woman in knowledge and spread her word!
and watch how much you'll prosper. You'll slowly adopt their manners, great mindsets and good habits.”
Simple and cute, loved it! May Allah SWT increase this woman in knowledge and spread her word!
March 14, 2026
𝟒★
Always keep your heart pure.
What do i even sayyyy? This was such a beautiful, poetic, and motivating book. Its filled with reminders and poems. And such a perfect read for ramadan. It really helps you grow spiritually and love ur deen more. But at same time reminds you to not forget you have been created into this world for a purpose.
Protect your tongue from lying,
your eyes from treachery
and your soul from hypocrisy.
As a teen it really changes ur perspective on what religion and life and god is. It really makes you open your eyes and see that you are stronger and braver than shaytan-satan-‘s plans. It really helps you heal and build a better mindset.
It can be difficult
to refrain from speaking ill of others,
especially those whom we dislike.
However, it’s important
that we identify the bad within ourselves
and acknowledge the good within others.
This can prevent us
from speaking ill of them.
You know sometimes you read a book. And it just was written for you? That was my thought all along the reading journey. It’s just soooooooo poetic and powerful. The author is such an artist. She must have worked reaally hard to make it so beautiful. Its also such a masterpiece in the islamic world i think it should be translated into every single language out there so teens like myself can benefit from it. May allah bless her life and work. And i really hope she continues on her work.
𝒬𝓊ℴ𝓉ℯ𝓈：
There where honestly sooo many highlights and I couldn’t choose but these are some of my favourites💞
If your future goals are only based on worldly pleasures,
such as obtaining a mansion
or the fastest car,
then sadly
you are drifting away from Allah
and towards Shaytan.
No one is saying
that you can’t have goals in this dunya,
but you must balance
between the dunya and akhirah.
Have you ever realized
that even after you achieve something
which you so dearly desired,
you somehow still don’t feel fully satisfied and content?
Maybe it’s because this life isn’t Jannah.
The dunya doesn’t contain the things
that our soul is craving.
We’ll never feel true satisfaction until the day
when we reach our final destination, Jannah.
Sometimes the heart feels like a heavy stone,
but that’s because you’ve drifted away
from the main purpose of life.
The weight of worldly matters has piled up in your heart,
and now it has become a clump
which has no value in the eyes of Allah.
Replace worldly matters with that will benefit your akhirah
and watch how soft and light your heart will become.
Don’t misuse your youth
with fake promises
and empty words.
Wait for the one
whose words are reminders of your Creator,
a spouse who cares for your akhirah
as much as his own.
If he doesn’t care for his own,
then why would he care for yours?
Be someone who fears Allah
in public and in private,
because then
you are indeed successful
in this world and the hereafter.
When you find yourself
walking into the wrong way
or getting too comfortable in the dunya,
remember death,
because truly death is the destroyer of all pleasures.
It’s completely normal to feel sad and depressed occasion-
ally.
Surely a true believer will also feel such a way;
but the thing that makes a believer stand out
from a non-believer is
the way the former handles it.
Does the sadness turn you away from Allah?
Or does it bring you closer to Him?
This is how you can evaluate your iman.
In sad times
we tend to get a feeling
that the world is against us,
and that we don’t belong here.
That is actually quite true.
We don’t belong here.
This is not our place.
This is not our home.
Our eternal home is Jannah.
This feeling is to remind you that this is all temporary
and a better, eternal life is waiting for you ahead.
If you ever feel like
no one will be able to help or understand you,
then go to Allah.
Find a quiet place, light a candle, make a dua
and pour all your heart out to Allah.
Believe me,
your heart will suddenly crumble,
and all your worries will be taken away.
When you catch yourself
in the middle of doing something haram,
look at it as a sign of Allah reminding you to stop.
How do you expect to be protected,
if you’re not willing to sacrifice any of your time
for the sake of the Protector?
It’s said that
beautiful things
are often felt in the heart
and not seen with the eyes.
This is an excellent example of how we can’t see Allah,
but we feel His existence deep down in our hearts.
Never feel ashamed of Islamic principles
and especially not in front of the disbelievers.
It might be bothersome to stand out in a crowd
full of people who don't believe in what you do.
But we know there is wisdom behind everything
Allah has ordained for us.
This is the time you must remain firm in your deen.
I feel like even christians and jews can relate to some of these quotes. They’re honestly soo mesmerising. I still have a tone of more highlights but i don’t have enough space and time to write so i’ll leave it here.
I fell like yhis is the perfect book for the muslim girlies. Especially if they are new to the world of islam and islamaphobes an racism. It really helps you see your religion as a gift not a responsibility. Yes it has some laws and comes with hardship but what doesn’t? Allah (swt) himself promised us that:
“Surely, with hardship comes ease.” 94:5
So don’t stress💞💞
Always keep your heart pure.
What do i even sayyyy? This was such a beautiful, poetic, and motivating book. Its filled with reminders and poems. And such a perfect read for ramadan. It really helps you grow spiritually and love ur deen more. But at same time reminds you to not forget you have been created into this world for a purpose.
Protect your tongue from lying,
your eyes from treachery
and your soul from hypocrisy.
As a teen it really changes ur perspective on what religion and life and god is. It really makes you open your eyes and see that you are stronger and braver than shaytan-satan-‘s plans. It really helps you heal and build a better mindset.
It can be difficult
to refrain from speaking ill of others,
especially those whom we dislike.
However, it’s important
that we identify the bad within ourselves
and acknowledge the good within others.
This can prevent us
from speaking ill of them.
You know sometimes you read a book. And it just was written for you? That was my thought all along the reading journey. It’s just soooooooo poetic and powerful. The author is such an artist. She must have worked reaally hard to make it so beautiful. Its also such a masterpiece in the islamic world i think it should be translated into every single language out there so teens like myself can benefit from it. May allah bless her life and work. And i really hope she continues on her work.
𝒬𝓊ℴ𝓉ℯ𝓈：
There where honestly sooo many highlights and I couldn’t choose but these are some of my favourites💞
If your future goals are only based on worldly pleasures,
such as obtaining a mansion
or the fastest car,
then sadly
you are drifting away from Allah
and towards Shaytan.
No one is saying
that you can’t have goals in this dunya,
but you must balance
between the dunya and akhirah.
Have you ever realized
that even after you achieve something
which you so dearly desired,
you somehow still don’t feel fully satisfied and content?
Maybe it’s because this life isn’t Jannah.
The dunya doesn’t contain the things
that our soul is craving.
We’ll never feel true satisfaction until the day
when we reach our final destination, Jannah.
Sometimes the heart feels like a heavy stone,
but that’s because you’ve drifted away
from the main purpose of life.
The weight of worldly matters has piled up in your heart,
and now it has become a clump
which has no value in the eyes of Allah.
Replace worldly matters with that will benefit your akhirah
and watch how soft and light your heart will become.
Don’t misuse your youth
with fake promises
and empty words.
Wait for the one
whose words are reminders of your Creator,
a spouse who cares for your akhirah
as much as his own.
If he doesn’t care for his own,
then why would he care for yours?
Be someone who fears Allah
in public and in private,
because then
you are indeed successful
in this world and the hereafter.
When you find yourself
walking into the wrong way
or getting too comfortable in the dunya,
remember death,
because truly death is the destroyer of all pleasures.
It’s completely normal to feel sad and depressed occasion-
ally.
Surely a true believer will also feel such a way;
but the thing that makes a believer stand out
from a non-believer is
the way the former handles it.
Does the sadness turn you away from Allah?
Or does it bring you closer to Him?
This is how you can evaluate your iman.
In sad times
we tend to get a feeling
that the world is against us,
and that we don’t belong here.
That is actually quite true.
We don’t belong here.
This is not our place.
This is not our home.
Our eternal home is Jannah.
This feeling is to remind you that this is all temporary
and a better, eternal life is waiting for you ahead.
If you ever feel like
no one will be able to help or understand you,
then go to Allah.
Find a quiet place, light a candle, make a dua
and pour all your heart out to Allah.
Believe me,
your heart will suddenly crumble,
and all your worries will be taken away.
When you catch yourself
in the middle of doing something haram,
look at it as a sign of Allah reminding you to stop.
How do you expect to be protected,
if you’re not willing to sacrifice any of your time
for the sake of the Protector?
It’s said that
beautiful things
are often felt in the heart
and not seen with the eyes.
This is an excellent example of how we can’t see Allah,
but we feel His existence deep down in our hearts.
Never feel ashamed of Islamic principles
and especially not in front of the disbelievers.
It might be bothersome to stand out in a crowd
full of people who don't believe in what you do.
But we know there is wisdom behind everything
Allah has ordained for us.
This is the time you must remain firm in your deen.
I feel like even christians and jews can relate to some of these quotes. They’re honestly soo mesmerising. I still have a tone of more highlights but i don’t have enough space and time to write so i’ll leave it here.
I fell like yhis is the perfect book for the muslim girlies. Especially if they are new to the world of islam and islamaphobes an racism. It really helps you see your religion as a gift not a responsibility. Yes it has some laws and comes with hardship but what doesn’t? Allah (swt) himself promised us that:
“Surely, with hardship comes ease.” 94:5
So don’t stress💞💞
May 21, 2025
Liked it very much, important reminders
December 13, 2024
This book/diary contains a lot of general knowledge and advice most Muslim women already know. However, what makes this so great is sometimes you really do need to see these words written out in front of you. No matter what you’re going through, this book has something for you. No matter how well we know these things, going through hardship and seeing these reminders/advice on paper feels so much different and it’s the perfect reminder for anyone who is either trying to strengthen their imam or looking to further grow. It’s also great how each page is short and easily digestible makes for a great easy read perfect for reflecting.
It’s a simple debrief on the hardships of each one of our lives as a muslimah, to keep us going and realise we need the dunyq strategically to get to the akhirah with upholding our deen so we should have sabr ( patience ) ۶ৎ
It’s a simple debrief on the hardships of each one of our lives as a muslimah, to keep us going and realise we need the dunyq strategically to get to the akhirah with upholding our deen so we should have sabr ( patience ) ۶ৎ
April 23, 2022
This was an incredible book that I hope finds it’s way to every Muslim woman’s bookshelf. Written eloquently and kindly, “A Muslim Woman’s Diary” gives gentle reminders of what matters most- our connection with our Creator whom we will ultimately return to.
It serves excellent reminders for the Muslim woman in areas such as haya, nafs, sabr, and obedience to Allah (S).
Although a quick read, this is the kind of book you want to revisit from time to time just to gain those reminders of principles that matter most and should be embodied by the Muslim woman. Highly recommend.
It serves excellent reminders for the Muslim woman in areas such as haya, nafs, sabr, and obedience to Allah (S).
Although a quick read, this is the kind of book you want to revisit from time to time just to gain those reminders of principles that matter most and should be embodied by the Muslim woman. Highly recommend.
February 14, 2026
I wish it was longer 😭❤️🩹
June 19, 2024
Vlot leesbaar - gelijkaardig aan Milk& Honey maar met betere inhoud hahaha
Jammer dat ik echt in zulke boeken altijd maar Max aantal pagina’s oprecht top vind… gewoonweg omdat de overige pagina’s gewoon ‘meh’ zijn.
Oke ik ga mijn mening aanpassen - dus het is belangrijk om dit boek MEERMAALS te lezen aangezien het anders kan hitten op andere momenten in je leven.
Al bij al, leuk boek en vlot leesbaar :p
Jammer dat ik echt in zulke boeken altijd maar Max aantal pagina’s oprecht top vind… gewoonweg omdat de overige pagina’s gewoon ‘meh’ zijn.
Oke ik ga mijn mening aanpassen - dus het is belangrijk om dit boek MEERMAALS te lezen aangezien het anders kan hitten op andere momenten in je leven.
Al bij al, leuk boek en vlot leesbaar :p
August 13, 2025
One of the greatest book i have ever read
March 18, 2024
Average good, its a short and sweet poetry? advice? book. I will say some of the things for me personally were very obvious and I only really reflected on like 10% of the book but everyone's journey is different so if you felt like this book was one that changed your life for the better and brought you closer to Islam or helped you reflect on your journey and shortcomings, very happy for you!
April 14, 2023
I finished it so quick. It was very eye opening and it really made me think about my faith more and to be more aware of what I do as a girl who wears a hijab. Also to be a better Muslim inshallah.
I will definitely read this again.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I will definitely read this again.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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June 14, 2022Surely, with hardship comes ease.
March 21, 2025
Eye opening
This book is a must for sisters just starting their journey in islam, sisters you have lost faith and trying to regain it. I enjoyed every page of the book
This book is a must for sisters just starting their journey in islam, sisters you have lost faith and trying to regain it. I enjoyed every page of the book
March 15, 2026
Well that was disappointing.
Imagine you have a friendly outgoing personality and the first words you get as advice from another Muslim is this: “Being an extrovert can be good but having shyness and modesty is even better. The traits of a Muslim woman should not be outgoing, playful and attention-seeking, instead, shy, humble and modest.”
What’s the equivalent of red-pill talk for Muslim women? I thought this was someone mocking the insane things people say to police Muslim women and it’s not. The author is serious.
I decided to keep reading in hopes that things got better. No, no they didn’t.
This book is written very shallowly. Each page includes less than a paragraph and much of the advice is just misogyny under the guise of religion/culture. For example, no aspect in Islam emphasizes that a Muslim woman must be shy in the bashful sense as an opposite quality of outgoing or playful. That is not what Islamic haya refers to.
I could go on and on about how this soujds like the musings of someone who has been culturally oppressed as a woman and thinks that is relates to Islam. But whatever.
Alhamdulilah this isn’t a “diary” that I relate to. And I honestly would not recommend this to other people.
Imagine you have a friendly outgoing personality and the first words you get as advice from another Muslim is this: “Being an extrovert can be good but having shyness and modesty is even better. The traits of a Muslim woman should not be outgoing, playful and attention-seeking, instead, shy, humble and modest.”
What’s the equivalent of red-pill talk for Muslim women? I thought this was someone mocking the insane things people say to police Muslim women and it’s not. The author is serious.
I decided to keep reading in hopes that things got better. No, no they didn’t.
This book is written very shallowly. Each page includes less than a paragraph and much of the advice is just misogyny under the guise of religion/culture. For example, no aspect in Islam emphasizes that a Muslim woman must be shy in the bashful sense as an opposite quality of outgoing or playful. That is not what Islamic haya refers to.
I could go on and on about how this soujds like the musings of someone who has been culturally oppressed as a woman and thinks that is relates to Islam. But whatever.
Alhamdulilah this isn’t a “diary” that I relate to. And I honestly would not recommend this to other people.
November 29, 2023
Hear me out, I did not finish this book and for a moment, I felt guilty about it, but then I realized that I had valid reasons.
The book had some good ideas, but it lacked a lot of substance. It did not teach me anything new, and I found it to be quite disappointing. Initially, I thought of keeping my opinion to myself since it could be helpful to some readers, but after seeing the price, I changed my mind.
The book costs almost €17, and it is empty of new ideas, emotions, and explorations. Most of the pages are half-empty, and the sentences are generic and seem to be “aesthetic”.
I read 80 pages of it, but none of them made me reflect on myself. The book was cool as a reminder, but it did not encourage me to take any action. I would not recommend this book because there are cheaper and more insightful books that explore these themes in greater depth.
The book had some good ideas, but it lacked a lot of substance. It did not teach me anything new, and I found it to be quite disappointing. Initially, I thought of keeping my opinion to myself since it could be helpful to some readers, but after seeing the price, I changed my mind.
The book costs almost €17, and it is empty of new ideas, emotions, and explorations. Most of the pages are half-empty, and the sentences are generic and seem to be “aesthetic”.
I read 80 pages of it, but none of them made me reflect on myself. The book was cool as a reminder, but it did not encourage me to take any action. I would not recommend this book because there are cheaper and more insightful books that explore these themes in greater depth.
February 23, 2026
It feels like a gentle wakeup call about this dunya and everything that distracts us from what truly matters. The book carries beautiful, short messages written in simple yet powerful lines.
It is designed in such a comforting way whenever you feel depressed, alone, distant from Allah, or simply want to reconnect with Him, you can open any random page and instantly receive a reminder. That’s the beauty of this book. Even though the lines are short, the meanings are deep and thought provoking.
Overall, it is a lovely collection of reminders. If you are trying to build a reading habit and want something light yet meaningful in an Islamic way, this book is definitely a good choice.
It is designed in such a comforting way whenever you feel depressed, alone, distant from Allah, or simply want to reconnect with Him, you can open any random page and instantly receive a reminder. That’s the beauty of this book. Even though the lines are short, the meanings are deep and thought provoking.
Overall, it is a lovely collection of reminders. If you are trying to build a reading habit and want something light yet meaningful in an Islamic way, this book is definitely a good choice.
October 17, 2025
A good book that can be used as daily reminder when we get caught up in this world. I liked the way the book was sectioned in to four topics: haya, nafs, sabr and obedience
The only thing that was not sitting wright with me was the first quote of the book that could’ve been written in a better way, but other than that I liked the rest of the writing in this book and I will definitely re-read it when ever I feel like I’m stuck on a certain topic in my life and need a reality check, it’s a very good reminder that one should not only focus on this dunya which we as Muslims tend to do sometimes. This book gives us a good guide for a better understanding of one’s relationship with Allah.
The only thing that was not sitting wright with me was the first quote of the book that could’ve been written in a better way, but other than that I liked the rest of the writing in this book and I will definitely re-read it when ever I feel like I’m stuck on a certain topic in my life and need a reality check, it’s a very good reminder that one should not only focus on this dunya which we as Muslims tend to do sometimes. This book gives us a good guide for a better understanding of one’s relationship with Allah.
April 2, 2022
This is one of the best (perhaps the best) Islamic book I've ever read.
It made me remember on the first day of Ramadan how important it is to focus more on the faith. I am very happy that I received the book as a gift from my girlfriend! It is definitely recommended! I also found the book very easy to read. I am grateful to the author for this wonderful book.
It made me remember on the first day of Ramadan how important it is to focus more on the faith. I am very happy that I received the book as a gift from my girlfriend! It is definitely recommended! I also found the book very easy to read. I am grateful to the author for this wonderful book.
September 2, 2023
Mashallah, this book was really short but impactful for me, so I recommend it for anyone wanting to learn more about Islam.
A lot of the beautiful quotes made made me think a lot about certain things, and I have taken photos of the quotes to keep for when I need it.
The references to surahs from the Quran is really nice too, I love this book!
A lot of the beautiful quotes made made me think a lot about certain things, and I have taken photos of the quotes to keep for when I need it.
The references to surahs from the Quran is really nice too, I love this book!
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