This took me forever to get through - over 2 years to finally finish. While I agree with a lot of the information, it got repetitive and could have been maybe half the length or less and still gotten the point across. This is all about sharing your excess and skills with others in your community and getting what you need for free from them. The book also discusses the impact of purchases on the environment. I love the idea behind this book and I think this can really work if you're in the right community, as it apparently has with the authors' community. Where I am? Not so much, I guess.
I did join my local Buy Nothing group on Facebook, expecting to find like-minded people and a way we could all share our excess with others. Of course I had stuff collecting dust in the basement and I'd love to see that being put to use! What I found were a few great people willing to share and a lot of people looking for freebies. I did give away quite a few things, but I quickly discovered not everyone shared the same attitudes. We had the woman who constantly asked for food, items for gifts for her kids and neighbors, even asking for others to supply her with all the fixings for cookouts on a regular basis. Oh, and you have to deliver it all to her too. (As an aside, my area has sooo many options for free food for those in need and many ask nothing in regard to proof of income but it does take minimal effort on the recipient's part.) And the woman who seemingly lived on Facebook and immediately asked for anything and everything as soon as it was posted, saying how it would be such a blessing to her and how she'd always wanted one of those... and then I saw a post from her looking for storage tubs and a shed (to store all the stuff she took, I'm assuming). Before I realized who she was, I gave her a few items and had to repeatedly ask if she was coming to get them after multiple noshows. I also was yelled at by a member who didn't get an item I offered up. I hated seeing the same few people get everything offered because they had the time to sit online and jump on offers right away so I gave away items by choosing randomly and that was apparently not okay with her. Or the people who wouldn't show up when they said they would. Yes, you can block the annoying people, but what really bugged me was the administration of the group. I'd often seen people asking for items for others and it wasn't an issue. On the occasions someone broke a rule, they were simply asked to remove the post or change the wording. I posted asking people to hold items back from their recycle bin (toilet paper and paper towel tubes, paper bags and boxes) and offered to collect them and take them to our county animal shelter for enrichment for the animals there. My post was immediately removed and I was blocked from posting or commenting with no explanation even though another post put up just before mine was basically an ad for another charity and stayed put. Seriously?! I messaged the admin pointing out the hypocrisy and quit the group before my banishment ended. I don't need someone on a power trip picking and choosing who can post what. The constant sob stories from people trying to one-up each other to get any particularly "good" items was getting really old anyway. A friend is in a different group (different neighborhood) in town and they have a lot of issues with people taking free stuff just to resell. I'm on the border of two neighborhood groups... the other group? Has the same admin as the one I was in. Members can be in only one group but apparently the rules don't apply to admins?
Thankfully, there's now an app that's not associated with Facebook though it does originate from the same people who started this, the authors. It's newer and doesn't have many local (to me) members so things move slowly, but at least it's an option without that BS and you can choose to see and offer to a wider geographical area as well. Maybe someday I'll live in an area where people are more interested in helping each other rather than just being out to line their own pockets. I'm now back to donating my excess items to a charity whose mission I am happy to support. If someone's going to make money off what I give freely, I'd rather it be them. If you do choose to use your own local Buy Nothing group, I'd suggest joining and sitting back and watching for a bit. It'll quickly be obvious who is sharing freely and who is just there to get freebies to hoard or resell. And know, you don't have to give to the first person who comments; it's your choice. I do think with the right community, this idea can work, but it doesn't work everywhere.
From reading this book, it seems the authors have more to do with the Facebook groups than I thought. It might be time to reign some things in or cut ties. I've also seen a lot of comments about the authors themselves that weren't so positive so I'd be hesitant to give money to them by buying this book. I mean, shouldn't a book about getting everything for free be FREE anyway? Why not put this out as a digital file and let people download it? Unless the profits are going to charity... which isn't mentioned as what's going on here. I guess my impression of this book/movement was really soured by my experiences in the group. I do peek at the app on occasion to see if there's an ask I can fulfill, but mostly I just donate.
Thanks to Atria Books and NetGalley for the eARC in exchange for my honest review.