I rarely say that a book has changed my life, but this book has done that. It has changed my life. If you are not a reader, become one; just for this book. I can guarantee that it will make you see the world from a whole new perspective.
We, the people who live in a first world country, think we know everything. We think we've made it and are better than the rest of the world because our leaders are civilized and educated and WE voted for them. But the reality is that we don't know anything. Yes, we pride ourselves on reading the news and listening to podcasts and generally being aware of current issues. We skim the tops of articles so we can talk about it at our luncheons, parties and dinners. We applaud ourselves, thinking of how we've played our part in righting the wrongs of this world. But we are very, very wrong. The reality is we don't know anything.
We don't know war. We don't know hunger. We don't know starvation. We don't know poverty. We don't know grief and loss on such a large scale that we become psychologically damaged by it. We go to bed every night, certain that we are safe and secure. But not everyone has this luxury.
When the Arab Spring began, I was only 17 years old. Just like everyone I watched the anti-government protests, and the subsequent victories achieved by many of these countries with better governments forming, making the standards of living higher and safer. But it never affected my life and I never bothered to research and read more in-depth about why this happened. When the Syrian civil war began, and millions of people were displaced, the world put a label on them; Syrian Refugees. A lot of European countries tried to pass them around like they were a load of laundry because no one wanted to take responsibility and help these people out. I remember there was a country that even had a petition going around where people could sign it so that their country does not house any refugees.
It is absolutely vile that we acted this way. They are still real people with dreams and hopes who have lost absolutely everything. They lost their homes, families, friends, jobs, stability, and livelihood. It could have been any of us. But our superiority of living in a first world country prevents us from seeing anything unless it directly affects us. And I am ashamed that it took reading this book for me to realize that I can and should do more. Yes I've signed petitions and donated, but I can also make others aware of this. And that is the most important thing. Less ignorance = more positive change.
I read this book in the 2nd week of June 2020, when the George Floyd's murder sparked protests all over the world. And I saw the parallels of the protests in this book and the Black Lives Matter protests. How we protest knowing we are protected to a certain degree. No is going to open fire on us with guns or drop bombs on our heads. The Syrians also protested thinking the same thing. But instead of change, they got a war they did not ask for. Their opinions and feelings were deemed irrelevant and were quashed down by Assad. It is absolutely horrific that one man can be so brutal to his own people and not suffer any consequences.
This book follows one man Sami from childhood to adulthood and all that he experienced before and during the war. It is an absolute eye-opening, emotional, heartbreaking and extraordinary true story about survival and the fight for freedom. It is not an easy book to read, but it is important that you read it. I hope and pray that one day the people of Syria find their way back home and never have to suffer like this again.
This book is well-written, engaging and translated from Swedish.