Over 50 years after the original book became a best seller and birthed an international women’s movement, the sequel to Helen Andelin’s Fascinating Womanhood is here. Originally published in 1963, Fascinating Womanhood sold over 5,000,000 copies globally and was translated into seven languages. As controversial as it was popular, the book also spawned a grassroots movement where women could learn more about feminine influence in relationships and the home - classes that continue to this day in countries including Australia, Brazil, Cameroon, Japan, the Philippines, Saudi Arabia, South Africa, Uganda, the United Kingdom, and the United States.
The sequel, Fascinating Womanhood for the Timeless Woman, sees Andelin’s daughter, Dixie Andelin Forsyth, pick up her mother’s mantle with the aim of "awakening an enlightened form of femininity in women, in order to inspire a noble masculinity in men and create a lifelong romance".
“Fascinating Womanhood for the Timeless Woman holds the position that most cultures have lost the sense of ascendancy that comes from proper cultivation of femininity and masculinity in women and men, respectively. This book teaches that femininity inspires a noble masculinity in men and that it empowers and liberates women to pursue their greatest potential. We teach that women are the 'gatekeepers of civilization and humanity’s original adults'. We refer to something we call ‘feminine power which is unlocked by a fascinating woman,'" Dixie says.
Fascinating Womanhood for the Timeless Woman is not merely a book of personal or moral opinions. It’s based, in part, on modern science, over 50 years of teaching experience and feedback, and, most importantly, results.
Feminists beware (or, better yet, consider keeping an open mind to an alternative perspective,as this book celebrates a few aspects of the Feminist Movement), but I sincerely LOVED this book. For women who still revel in the privilege and joy it is to be a woman, and rejoice in the inherent manliness that makes men men,this book is amazing, and so refreshing. There ARE still traditional relationships that celebrate talents and roles both genders contribute, and families who continue to thrive because of it. If you're a women wanting to know how to celebrate your own femininity and worth, love your husband more sincerely, and rail against a backwards society that tries to tell you you're wrong, I highly recommend this read. These days tradition is the highest form of rebellion, and I'm proud to be one swimming against the currents of mainstream society.
No rating. Read this as a challenge to read something very different & also possibly for which I am not the target audience (though I am a happily married woman and mother). Above all, it's good to read different perspectives in an effort to understand others.
I understand why people in today's culture would see this as controversial but at the same time, if you are someone who thinks that then this book/lifestyle simply isn't for you and that's fine! This is like a combo of "mom, grandma, aunt, and big sister advice" great for women who don't have those kind of traditional women in your life.
This book is amazing!! The way it is written is to give massive info to men and women about correlation. It's one of those books with tips every page you flip!! The writer, Dixie, makes it so enjoyable I decided I must finish this book with babe.
I have to say when I started reading this I wasn’t expecting to like it as much as I did. Regardless of the reader’s views regarding the spheres of men and women, there’s a lot of insight here regarding communication and how to be respectful of other people.
A book about the "natural" roles of masculinity and femininity and how woman can use their femininity to draw out a man's masculinity in marriage but also everyday interactions with men. I appreciate she didn't paint the woman only in the home as the only place to be and liked her explanation of masculinity and femininity. So parts did make me cringe a little bit in their assumptive tone as not all women and mothers are indeed as described, as well as how antiquated some of the advice felt, especially around a woman's appearance, but do see where she is coming from a little too. Oh, and cringey was the entire "girlish" speaking section. 🤢
I did feel sad and guilty as she described how we can damage our husbands with our anti-masculine words towards them, as I realized I have done that many times in my marriage and that is a great takeaway from the book for me as something to work on and towards.
I will also comment that the audiobook was super annoying as you here every grasp of breath and smack of the lips.
This book might appear a bit cheesy because of the aesthetic. Do not be fooled!
I'm not really a girly girl and I very much enjoyed it. The teachings that are offered are invaluable, especially for young women like me who find the idea of a more classical womanhood appealing but didn't have close enough relationships with older women (f.ex. grandmothers) to teach them the ways. It is a rock to hold on to in a world where the definition of a woman is debated. This book is easily understandable and gives a good introduction into Helen Andelin's and Dixie Andelin Forsyth's work. It teaches really nice (psychological) tricks which principles I have also found in Marshall B. Rosenberg's "Nonviolent Communication" and other communication/relationship classics. I am only giving this book 4 Stars because I expected it to go into more detail. For that their Youtube channel is a great source with amazing examples that really helped me to settle into womanhood and create a better relationship with my partner.
This book was a really good reminder of all the ways that I am giving up my feminine power and instead trying to be masculine. I clearly still have a long way to go in order to truly be the most feminine version of myself, but this book gave me a lot of good pointers on where to continue to improve and to therefore improve my relationship
I read this on recommendation from a wise friend, and found lots of gold. Solid, old-fashioned / timeless advice on relating well to men. (I would call the chapter on "girlishness" a bone to spit out.) It's written for wives, with one chapter specifically for single women, but good relationship advice applies to all relationships.
It’s truly timeless while remaining true to the original fascinating womanhood. A great book to keep referring to for women who want to remain feminine and keep on improving.
I truly enjoyed reading this book. It just shows how unaware women are to what their purpose is. The subtle changes I have made have really changed the way I see things. I have more peace surrounding me a!ong with true happiness.
I listened to this in audio book format via Hoopla and enjoyed the insights it gives. I'm a product of the 80s and avoided learning to cook because that was beneath me. Big mistake. This book has encouraged me to become a well rounded woman. I like the feeling.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom dixie It means so so much. I practice the principles in your book. I will read it again and use it as a study guide as opposed to just a quick read. Again thank you
Lúc đầu mình tưởng đây là bản cập nhật của cuốn sách ngày xưa, nhưng nó là bản bổ sung thì đúng hơn. Sẽ không có những nội dung của cuốn trước, mà gồm những nội dung hiện đại hơn. Phong cách viết của người con gái hơi khô khan và , cá nhân mình thích cuốn sách trước hơn.
Good Reminder -- Enjoyed the reminder of this traditional advice for women and feminine wisdom. Would not necessarily revisit this title, but I do recommend reading it once.
I did not like it. The original version that I read was very condescending and obnoxious, it also stood to reason that a person I had the misfortune to interact with and liked it, was exactly as expected. It's a shitty read and I guess I now have judgments about the people who enjoyed it.
I had a lot of opinions before I read this book based on what I knew about the original 1960s version. This updated version has some good points however, even if I don’t agree with the larger philosophy.