This quote from Nikki Bush’s book “Future-Proof Yourself: How to win at work and life” really resonated with me. If I’m really honest she got me at the dedication, on the first page.
I know many people feel that one can compartmentalism work and life. For those not familiar with the term compartmentalism it simply means “keep separate” - like keeping different boxes or compartments for each part of your life. And maybe some can and do, compartmentalize fairly successfully…I think they are more inter-related than we care to admit.
The reason I make this point is because at one point I did think. “If I was still working in corporate this would be on my favourite book lists” and found myself skimming the work summaries .
However each chapter consistently closes off with a summary of work and family life take-aways.
So as I progressed I actually loved seeing how the two areas intertwined and realized that part of the future-proofing yourself is about starting to see the connection so just as relevant for the home executives with a side hustle, small start- up, in fact any one brand business. You just got to be in the room with today’s top thinkers it’s like a corporate getaway at half the cost…
When I was in corporate, engagement was an issue, when I worked in voluntary organizations, I learnt how personal power trumps positional, when I was a stay at home mom, I realized that parenting is the ultimate leadership challenge! All covered in the book…
if you can’t regulate yourself, you sure aren’t going to inspire a team or a family in this ever changing world.
So best we learn to enable courageous conversations and reframe attitudes or experiences. This book is an all round favourite for me.