Whole Heart, Whole Horse: Building Trust Between Horse and Rider

by Mark Rashid

Many horse trainers, even those who espouse the so-called natural horsemanship approach, take the position that horses who fail to obey a human's request are doing so as much out of perversity as ignorance. That's not Mark Rashid's view. In his words, "If we understand that horses can't separate the way they feel from the way they act, then we can start to see that unwanted behavior isn't bad behavior at all. More times than not, it's just the horse expressing the way he feels at that particular moment in time. . . .How we perceive that information dictates how we respond to it."

Whole Heart, Whole Horse focuses on this idea, covering such subjects as gathering information from the horse, turning rider/trainer mistakes into positive experiences, developing realistic boundaries between you and your horse, understanding how and why horses release energy from real or perceived traumas, and reaching a comfortable balance point between horse and rider. Rashid analyzes developing softness, consistency, dependability, trust, and peace of mind in both horses and humans, as well as how to become a leader whom your horse will willingly want to follow and work with.

Full of examples that extend beyond the training pen, Whole Heart, Whole Horse offers good sense and information that will make you a more astute, capable, and sensitive horseman and person.

Genres: Horses, Nonfiction, Audiobook, Animals

224 pages, Hardcover

First published May 1, 2009

About the author

Mark Rashid (pronounced RASH-id) is an internationally acclaimed horse trainer known for his ability to understand the horse’s point of view and solve difficult problems with communication rather than force. He began working with horses at age ten, when he met the “old man,” who taught him to work with horses, not against them, and to listen to what the horse is trying to say. Mark’s clinics center on one-on-one work with horse and rider and are immensely popular with people around the world.

When Mark decided to study the martial art of aikido as a way to improve his horsemanship, he brought the same quiet determination to it that he exhibits in his work with horses. After years of practice, he has earned a second degree black belt in Yoshinkan aikido and now teaches the “way of harmony” in the local dojo.

Mark worked full time on ranches for many years gathering herds, managing stock, and training horses. When time permits, he still enjoys working on ranches near his home in Estes Park, Colorado.

Mark has been a guest on NPR’s The Horse Show and was featured on the Nature series on PBS. He is the author of nine books - Considering the Horse, A Good Horse is Never a Bad Color; Horses Never Lie; Life Lessons from a Ranch Horse; Horsemanship Through Life; Big Horses, Good Dogs, & Straight Fences; A Life With Horses; Whole Heart, Whole Horse; and his latest, a novel, Out of the Wild. He also has a solo music CD Song of the Prairie and enjoys singing and playing guitar with a local band The Elktones.

Reviews

[Marjolijn · Rating 5 out of 5]

Another inspirational book on how we deal with our horses. Loved it!

[Teisha · Rating 5 out of 5]

What I loved about this book was the way it addressed the "intangibles" of the horse world... balance, softness vs. lightness, peace,trust, joy etc. It is not written in a "wow-factor" kind of way, it is very simple in its story telling, and beautiful because of it. The author was able to put words to feelings I have with/about my horses that I wasn't able to do myself. I definitely recommend it to any horse lover/owner. It makes you examine your horse-habits...training, handling, attitudes, long-held notions...and offers a safer, more peaceful way of approaching problems...though it's not a how-to manual. Well done. Will be adding it to my book shelf.

[C.J. Darlington · Rating 5 out of 5]

I love Mark Rashid's books, and this one is one of his best (right alongside Horses Never Lie). If I only get one thing out of a book I can apply to my riding, I consider it valuable, but this one not only has that one thing (and more), it also shows me how I can be that horseperson I want to be---calm, cool, a leader but not a bully.

[Suzanna · Rating 4 out of 5]

I have read enough from this author that I didn't get as much from this book as the others. That is more because if you understand the concepts from his previous books, this book is revisiting them and will serve as a good reminder and help one to fine tune those ideas. A worthwhile read for anyone who wants to improve their horsemanship and relationship with horses.

[Michelle · Rating 4 out of 5]

Mark Rashid has sort of an unhurried story telling style, but it sort of gets his point across about quietness and calmness in a demonstrative fashion. I like his ideas about horse training. They are very gentle and respectful

[Ellen · Rating 5 out of 5]

A master with horses and with people. Not a how to book but an exploration of human/equine life. Very highly recommended.

[Rlouiseg · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is an amazing book. I always cry when I read about The Black. It's so special and beautiful. You should definitely read it.

[Sheila Lamb · Rating 3 out of 5]

A beautiful book, full of beautiful stories. The author is a horse whisperer of sorts whose gifts are revealed to him through his relationship with “the old man” and culminate with a horse called “the black”. If you remember The Black Stallion, the story line is familiar.

Don’t get me wrong. The messages in the book are on target. Seeing situations from the horses’ point of view is valuable. Understanding how the horse thinks is insightful.

For me, the book placed Rashid in the mythical, magical realm. I wanted less of a fairytale and more of the truth.

Perhaps this is Rashid’s truth, but it read like a great story. :)

[Kalyn · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is the second book I’ve read by Mark and again, I am in awe. I am so inspired by his way of thinking and the way he works with horses. I really hope to be half as good as he is, one day. I am soaking up all of his words and insight and hope to use it with my first horse, who I’ve only had a few months now. Amy and her Morgan gelding totally made me cry, and I am obsessed with his story about The Black. I hope to have that bond and connection one day as well, as I know how hard it is to come by. Mark did it again, and I am totally here for it!

[Q · Rating 5 out of 5]

I adored this book. Every story made me want to run out and spend time with the horses while also wanting it to keep going so I could continue reading. I miss it now that it's over, like I miss a novel full of beloved characters.

[Loni · Rating 5 out of 5]

Rashid is a great storyteller and a horseman with a vision to encourage relationship with horses first. He reminds us to be kind, calm, honoring, consistent, and honest with the horses and ourselves. It is an easy book to read and to understand. Recommended.

[Caryn · Rating 4 out of 5]

The author has a pleasant way of telling horse stories from his life experience to impart training philosophies. This is an enjoyable read, and you may learn concepts to take into the barn when working with your horses, whether handling them on the ground or in the saddle.

[Dominique Dijkshoorn · Rating 5 out of 5]

I absolutely LOVED this book! Mark has a great easy style of writing that keeps one captivated throughout. This is the first one of his books that I have read and cannot wait to get started on another. The only tough part is deciding which one 🥰

[Stephanie · Rating 5 out of 5]

Mark's is an invaluable voice in this horsemanship journey. I am grateful to read his stories.

[Beanie · Rating 5 out of 5]

I love Mark's books!

[Selena · Rating 4 out of 5]

So wonderful

[Tiffany Wilmoth · Rating 5 out of 5]

I love everything about this book. Of all the Rashid books I have read, this one is precise on his training philosophy.

[Rachel · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book moved me to my core. Mark Rashid is an inspiration.

[Luca Van De Laar · Rating 4 out of 5]

Beautiful stories, the design is weirdly big tho like a childrens illustation book

[Hollie Wildëthorn · Rating 5 out of 5]

Mark never lets us down. All of his work is on point for teaching realationship with horses and more broadly, the rhythm of life.

[Jenn · Rating 5 out of 5]

Loved this book, some really lovely stories and simple ways in which to build trust :)

[Ellen Broadhurst · Rating 4 out of 5]

Interesting stories, builds on his other books. I enjoy reading about how Rashid solves horse problems. Not a ton of new insights for me personally, but an engaging overall read.

[Olivia · Rating 5 out of 5]

I got this book from the library I don't know how many times and started reading it. I never finished it though, this last time I tried reading it again it just clicked and I 'got it.' It made sense! It has changed the whole way that I ride and train and even think about my horses. I deffinitely recommend this to anyone who is really wanting to get the most potential out of their horse.

[Amanda · Rating 5 out of 5]

I really whipped through this one. Rashid's style of writing is very easy to follow and is extremely conducive to absorbing the lessons behind each chapter or anecdote.

[Gael Stevens · Rating 5 out of 5]

The man is a legend and a genius.

[Amy · Rating 5 out of 5]

Love

[Betsey · Rating 5 out of 5]

LOVED it. Having a "Western" guy confirm what classical dressage - you know, the understanding of horses that started with Xenophon - has been teaching all along; well, it's not just that. He says it in a better way: with stories, that make it So Clear! An emotional read for me. Tearjerker at the end.

If you're ever laid up for awhile (can't ride etc.), make sure you've got a copy. :D