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Thrust Into Love #3
Tapped by My Roommate
Ethan Greene: Shy geek, newly bi-curious, and...propositioning his gay roommate?
I have a passion for a lot of things: wildlife biology, Godzilla, bowties...
But when it comes to people, I'm more timid.
Which is why I'm stuck with a toxic ex-girlfriend who's holding my lizard hostage.
I need to face her--and save my dignity.
But a little backup won't hurt, right?
My roommate is the perfect wingman.
Rhett is assertive and charismatic. The kind of guy people respect.
And when he meets my toxic ex, he's also the kind of guy to get protective.
I take comfort in his strength, even as I envy it.
But when he kisses me, things get awkward.
Frustrated by the tension between us, I turn to a hookup app for answers.
I don't mean to proposition my roommate. Really.
It's just a weird fluke--a mortifying one.
But Rhett has a proposition of his own.
He wants to help me explore my curiosity.
But he's a bartender who practically flirts for a living, and I'm in way over my head.
It could all end in heartbreak.
Unless I find the courage I've been seeking my whole life.
Can I be bold enough to ask Rhett Hayes to be mine?
Tapped By My Roommate is Book 3 of the Thrust into Love series featuring a flirty bartender, a timid but passionate geek, and a mistaken app hookup that encourages these two roommates to explore friendship and love. It can be read as a standalone.
I have a passion for a lot of things: wildlife biology, Godzilla, bowties...
But when it comes to people, I'm more timid.
Which is why I'm stuck with a toxic ex-girlfriend who's holding my lizard hostage.
I need to face her--and save my dignity.
But a little backup won't hurt, right?
My roommate is the perfect wingman.
Rhett is assertive and charismatic. The kind of guy people respect.
And when he meets my toxic ex, he's also the kind of guy to get protective.
I take comfort in his strength, even as I envy it.
But when he kisses me, things get awkward.
Frustrated by the tension between us, I turn to a hookup app for answers.
I don't mean to proposition my roommate. Really.
It's just a weird fluke--a mortifying one.
But Rhett has a proposition of his own.
He wants to help me explore my curiosity.
But he's a bartender who practically flirts for a living, and I'm in way over my head.
It could all end in heartbreak.
Unless I find the courage I've been seeking my whole life.
Can I be bold enough to ask Rhett Hayes to be mine?
Tapped By My Roommate is Book 3 of the Thrust into Love series featuring a flirty bartender, a timid but passionate geek, and a mistaken app hookup that encourages these two roommates to explore friendship and love. It can be read as a standalone.
354 pages, Kindle Edition
Published September 9, 2021
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D.J. Jamison
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September 10, 2021
“I’m not perfect,” I mumbled. “There’s that whole hero complex thing.”
“Rhett, you can be my hero anytime,” he said. “As long as you let me be your hero too.”
“I can do that.”
this was cute as fuck. 😭 my fav part about Rhett and Ethan’s relationship is, although Rhett has this hero complex of always wanting to be there for his family/friends and protect them, i found it so sweet the way Ethan wanted to be the same for him. i love it when couples show an equal amount of love and care for each other. i feel like it’s rare in these romance books bc, often times, it’s only one person who shows it more and ofc there’s nothing wrong with that and it doesn’t mean the other person’s love is any less but, when i actually read about both people in the relationship wanting to be there for each other?? my heart is so full of love. 🥰🥰
“Rhett, you can be my hero anytime,” he said. “As long as you let me be your hero too.”
“I can do that.”
this was cute as fuck. 😭 my fav part about Rhett and Ethan’s relationship is, although Rhett has this hero complex of always wanting to be there for his family/friends and protect them, i found it so sweet the way Ethan wanted to be the same for him. i love it when couples show an equal amount of love and care for each other. i feel like it’s rare in these romance books bc, often times, it’s only one person who shows it more and ofc there’s nothing wrong with that and it doesn’t mean the other person’s love is any less but, when i actually read about both people in the relationship wanting to be there for each other?? my heart is so full of love. 🥰🥰
September 19, 2021
4.5 stars⭐️
finally, a book came through for me😌 Rhett and Ethan were so stinking adorable and they didn’t disappoint me... i think i love them more than Simon and Parker? they were just the right amount of sweet, sexy and steamy.
i thought the dichotomy of the bi-awakening was unique and intriguing. instead of the geek being queer with the jock being “straight”, it was the geek who experiences the bi-awakening, with the jock coaxing him through it. i truly had never read the stereotype that way round before and i thought it was executed so well.
jock x nerd trip truly never gets old💅🏻
these two just had such a wholesome love for each other. like they were so soft, goofy and encouraging. i was a simp low-key. like Rhett’s protectiveness over Ethan was swoon-worthy, honestly— even when Ethan put himself down or believed the nasty words of other people, Rhett wasn’t having any of it.
the scene where they’re whispering in the dark and Rhett telling Ethan that he’s enough was just 🥺🥰
they both admired each other so much and i think that’s why this worked so well. they were equal in their love, protectiveness, admiration... they were both always there for one another, growing together while falling more in love🥺 eurgh, it was just so sweet. but still had some conflict and angst— it was just the right amount.
any conflict or “breakup” (i wouldn’t even really call it that here) wasn’t dragged out and dramatised. both guys were mature and just obsessed with each other, so it made for the perfect combination for minimal unnecessary angst.
and despite this being part of a series, i love how this can be read as a stand-alone. there’s barely (if any) crossover to the previous books so it’s perfect if you wanna dive into the series out of order!
the pacing was another thing that worked really well? it was surprisingly kinda slowburn but also not? lol, idk exactly how to explain it— i think bcos they were both unconsciously crushing on one another, it gives you that instant gratification to reel you in, but still the satisfaction of them fumbling and working their way through their feelings. it was adorable how goofy and flustered they’d both get around each other.
honestly, it’s the perfect feel good read, with two extremely lovable characters. definitely recommend when you’re in the mood for something fun, light-hearted and sweet with just the right dose of steam ;)
Without the bowtie, Rhett had zeroed in on my throat. He sucked my Adam’s apple, making me jolt. “Say it, Ethan. I promise I want to hear it.”
“Did you know alligators are always erect?” I blurted. Rhett lifted his head to look at me.
Jesus, why did I say that?
“Really?”
“They keep it tucked inside their body, but yeah. Always ready to go.”
finally, a book came through for me😌 Rhett and Ethan were so stinking adorable and they didn’t disappoint me... i think i love them more than Simon and Parker? they were just the right amount of sweet, sexy and steamy.
i thought the dichotomy of the bi-awakening was unique and intriguing. instead of the geek being queer with the jock being “straight”, it was the geek who experiences the bi-awakening, with the jock coaxing him through it. i truly had never read the stereotype that way round before and i thought it was executed so well.
jock x nerd trip truly never gets old💅🏻
these two just had such a wholesome love for each other. like they were so soft, goofy and encouraging. i was a simp low-key. like Rhett’s protectiveness over Ethan was swoon-worthy, honestly— even when Ethan put himself down or believed the nasty words of other people, Rhett wasn’t having any of it.
the scene where they’re whispering in the dark and Rhett telling Ethan that he’s enough was just 🥺🥰
Then I said, gently, “You’re beautiful too.” He started to shake his head and I kissed him more insistently.
“Yes,” I said again.
“You’re enough. Say it for me.”
“I’m enough,” he mumbled.
“Again, and louder.”
He huffed and glanced up at me. “I’m enough,” he said, sounding irritated but more confident. It would do.
I smiled. “Better. Now get your sexy body in the shower, and I’ll show you just how much I like it.”
they both admired each other so much and i think that’s why this worked so well. they were equal in their love, protectiveness, admiration... they were both always there for one another, growing together while falling more in love🥺 eurgh, it was just so sweet. but still had some conflict and angst— it was just the right amount.
any conflict or “breakup” (i wouldn’t even really call it that here) wasn’t dragged out and dramatised. both guys were mature and just obsessed with each other, so it made for the perfect combination for minimal unnecessary angst.
and despite this being part of a series, i love how this can be read as a stand-alone. there’s barely (if any) crossover to the previous books so it’s perfect if you wanna dive into the series out of order!
the pacing was another thing that worked really well? it was surprisingly kinda slowburn but also not? lol, idk exactly how to explain it— i think bcos they were both unconsciously crushing on one another, it gives you that instant gratification to reel you in, but still the satisfaction of them fumbling and working their way through their feelings. it was adorable how goofy and flustered they’d both get around each other.
honestly, it’s the perfect feel good read, with two extremely lovable characters. definitely recommend when you’re in the mood for something fun, light-hearted and sweet with just the right dose of steam ;)
Ethan twined his fingers with mine, and my heart swelled. We fit together. We always had.
September 15, 2021
3.5 “I want everything with you” stars
“I’m not as sexy as you.” […] “It’s just facts. I’m not athletic. I don’t have this kind of muscle tone.”
I did reach for him then. I pulled him against me, shuddering as his sweats and T-shirt brushed my naked flesh. I kissed his mouth slowly, thoroughly, until he was clinging to me. Then I said, gently, “You’re beautiful too.”
He started to shake his head and I kissed him more insistently. “Yes,” I said again. “You’re enough. Say it for me.”
“I’m enough,” he mumbled. “Again, and louder.” He huffed and glanced up at me.
“I’m enough,” he said, sounding irritated but more confident.
Look, I will be honest, 50% of why I read this book was because I loved the second book in this series and was interested in seeing where this one would go. And 50% of why I read this book is because I love the older Godzilla movies and wanted to read about a main character being obsessed with them. I was not dissapointed on both of those fronts so i’m very happy.
I had such a good time reading this book, it was very sweet and very endearing and most of the book put a big smile on my face while I was reading it. Also I stayed up way too late to read it so that also tells you a lot.
Brief summary
Rhett is 21 years old and he lives with Ethan, who is 22. Ethan moved in after a bad break up with his ex-girlfriend. Ethan thought he was straight. And Rhett is more of an hook ups kind of guys and doesn’t really want a relationship. They’re roommates but they weren’t really friends yet, but they start getting to know each other. They get drunk one night and kiss. Ethan is attracted to Rhett so he decides to sign up for a dating app to explore his attraction to guys. Rhett and Ethan end up matching on the dating up and setting up a time to meet up. They decide to be hook up but of course pesky feelings get in the way and they fall in love.
First, I love awkward moments in books, where they don’t really know what to do and how to act. And there was so many of those in this book where they didn’t know what they were yet so they didn’t know how to act and I found it super endearing and very realisitc. A trope I really like in college books is when both mcs are fuck buddies and they're fumbling and unsure with each other and they want more but they don't know how to tell the other because they don't want to lose them, it can be so endearing when done right and I loved how it was done in this book because I could easily tell that they both wanted each other. I thought it was so sweet how they were fumbling and a little awkward with each other because they were both scared to ask for more, it felt very relatable to me. Also I liked how they both broke their hook up rules many times just because they wanted to, it was so sweet.
Second, one of my favourite thing in books is sexual exploration and I really loved the sexual exploration in this book. Ethan is demisexual and he was never with people he had a strong emotional connection with so he didn’t really know what he likes in bed so I loved seeing him come undone and enjoy the sex they were having. I loved seeing him wander at how everything felt, even a simple kiss made him see stars and I really loved that. I loved how Ethan made lists of everything he wanted to try, it was so endearing. And I loved how we got to see so many phases of the sexual exploration, from kissing to frotting to his first time receiving an hand job to his first time giving an hand job to his first time getting a blow job to his first time giving a blowjob to his first time doing anal and bottoming (which was also a little awkward, as a first time often is and I really loved that touch). And all the sex scenes were very hot and I loved how they were varied and not always the same thing.
Third, Ethan had been through a bad break-up where his ex put him down a lot and didn’t show any interest in his passions and I loved how Rhett kept showing him that he’s interested in everything about Ethan and how he kept reassuring Ethan that he’s lovely and hyping him up at every situation, it was so sweet to read about and really worked for me. I loved how even Rhett’s point of view was always him thinking how lovely Ethan is, it was so sweet.
Side note but knowing that Ethan wasn’t treated right and made fun of for what he likes in his previous relationship, I really liked how he was wary of Rhett doing the same to him, it felt so realistic and it was a touch I really enjoyed. Mostly because Rhett kept proving that he would never do those things.
Fourth, I really enjoyed how important to the story Godzilla was. I liked how it wasn't just a couple of mentions but actually integrated in the stories and the characters lives, it was so lovely to read about for me. And I was absolutely here for all the references, it was music to my ears. And I loved how Ethan's favourite Gozilla movies are the older ones because they're also my favourites, so it made me enjoy the book even more. Also shutout to Zilla the iguana, that was such a nice touch and I loved it.
Fifth, Ethan hated conflict and he let people step over him because of it (which is very relatable to me) and Rhett kept encouraging him to stand up for himself and I couldn’t help but cheer for him everytime he did it, I was really proud of him for doing so because I know how hard it can be.
I loved almost everything in this book but sadly there was two things that didn't work for me.
The first one was the fact that this book is in a series about datings apps and all, but there was one conversation consisting of 13 message exchanged on the dating app and that was the only online content we got. I love anything online and online chatting in books so I just would have prefered to have way more online content, expecially since this book is marketed as being about an hook up app.
The second one was Tess, Ethan's ex. I really enjoyed the mentions of her being abusive towards Ethan and how it was shown that what she did to him left scars and how he’s still dealing with them. I just didn’t enjoy that she kept actually showing up on page all the time, I just don’t like when exes keep showing up all the time, I prefer my books to only be focused on the main characters, I can do a couple scenes but she was there too many scenes for me, I just wanted to go back to our main characters and their relationship, because I enjoyed that way more than all the scenes she was in.
Also side note, I really would have appreciated a trigger warning for emotional abuse because we saw a lot of it, on page, from Ethan’s ex and it was really hard for me to read about it because I wasn’t prepared for it at all. I would have liked to know it was coming so I could have prepared accordingly.
All in all, I had such a good time reading this book and I really enjoyed the experience.
I received an ARC of this book, and this is my honest review.
“I’m not as sexy as you.” […] “It’s just facts. I’m not athletic. I don’t have this kind of muscle tone.”
I did reach for him then. I pulled him against me, shuddering as his sweats and T-shirt brushed my naked flesh. I kissed his mouth slowly, thoroughly, until he was clinging to me. Then I said, gently, “You’re beautiful too.”
He started to shake his head and I kissed him more insistently. “Yes,” I said again. “You’re enough. Say it for me.”
“I’m enough,” he mumbled. “Again, and louder.” He huffed and glanced up at me.
“I’m enough,” he said, sounding irritated but more confident.
Look, I will be honest, 50% of why I read this book was because I loved the second book in this series and was interested in seeing where this one would go. And 50% of why I read this book is because I love the older Godzilla movies and wanted to read about a main character being obsessed with them. I was not dissapointed on both of those fronts so i’m very happy.
I had such a good time reading this book, it was very sweet and very endearing and most of the book put a big smile on my face while I was reading it. Also I stayed up way too late to read it so that also tells you a lot.
Brief summary
Rhett is 21 years old and he lives with Ethan, who is 22. Ethan moved in after a bad break up with his ex-girlfriend. Ethan thought he was straight. And Rhett is more of an hook ups kind of guys and doesn’t really want a relationship. They’re roommates but they weren’t really friends yet, but they start getting to know each other. They get drunk one night and kiss. Ethan is attracted to Rhett so he decides to sign up for a dating app to explore his attraction to guys. Rhett and Ethan end up matching on the dating up and setting up a time to meet up. They decide to be hook up but of course pesky feelings get in the way and they fall in love.
First, I love awkward moments in books, where they don’t really know what to do and how to act. And there was so many of those in this book where they didn’t know what they were yet so they didn’t know how to act and I found it super endearing and very realisitc. A trope I really like in college books is when both mcs are fuck buddies and they're fumbling and unsure with each other and they want more but they don't know how to tell the other because they don't want to lose them, it can be so endearing when done right and I loved how it was done in this book because I could easily tell that they both wanted each other. I thought it was so sweet how they were fumbling and a little awkward with each other because they were both scared to ask for more, it felt very relatable to me. Also I liked how they both broke their hook up rules many times just because they wanted to, it was so sweet.
Second, one of my favourite thing in books is sexual exploration and I really loved the sexual exploration in this book. Ethan is demisexual and he was never with people he had a strong emotional connection with so he didn’t really know what he likes in bed so I loved seeing him come undone and enjoy the sex they were having. I loved seeing him wander at how everything felt, even a simple kiss made him see stars and I really loved that. I loved how Ethan made lists of everything he wanted to try, it was so endearing. And I loved how we got to see so many phases of the sexual exploration, from kissing to frotting to his first time receiving an hand job to his first time giving an hand job to his first time getting a blow job to his first time giving a blowjob to his first time doing anal and bottoming (which was also a little awkward, as a first time often is and I really loved that touch). And all the sex scenes were very hot and I loved how they were varied and not always the same thing.
Third, Ethan had been through a bad break-up where his ex put him down a lot and didn’t show any interest in his passions and I loved how Rhett kept showing him that he’s interested in everything about Ethan and how he kept reassuring Ethan that he’s lovely and hyping him up at every situation, it was so sweet to read about and really worked for me. I loved how even Rhett’s point of view was always him thinking how lovely Ethan is, it was so sweet.
Side note but knowing that Ethan wasn’t treated right and made fun of for what he likes in his previous relationship, I really liked how he was wary of Rhett doing the same to him, it felt so realistic and it was a touch I really enjoyed. Mostly because Rhett kept proving that he would never do those things.
Fourth, I really enjoyed how important to the story Godzilla was. I liked how it wasn't just a couple of mentions but actually integrated in the stories and the characters lives, it was so lovely to read about for me. And I was absolutely here for all the references, it was music to my ears. And I loved how Ethan's favourite Gozilla movies are the older ones because they're also my favourites, so it made me enjoy the book even more. Also shutout to Zilla the iguana, that was such a nice touch and I loved it.
Fifth, Ethan hated conflict and he let people step over him because of it (which is very relatable to me) and Rhett kept encouraging him to stand up for himself and I couldn’t help but cheer for him everytime he did it, I was really proud of him for doing so because I know how hard it can be.
I loved almost everything in this book but sadly there was two things that didn't work for me.
The first one was the fact that this book is in a series about datings apps and all, but there was one conversation consisting of 13 message exchanged on the dating app and that was the only online content we got. I love anything online and online chatting in books so I just would have prefered to have way more online content, expecially since this book is marketed as being about an hook up app.
The second one was Tess, Ethan's ex. I really enjoyed the mentions of her being abusive towards Ethan and how it was shown that what she did to him left scars and how he’s still dealing with them. I just didn’t enjoy that she kept actually showing up on page all the time, I just don’t like when exes keep showing up all the time, I prefer my books to only be focused on the main characters, I can do a couple scenes but she was there too many scenes for me, I just wanted to go back to our main characters and their relationship, because I enjoyed that way more than all the scenes she was in.
Also side note, I really would have appreciated a trigger warning for emotional abuse because we saw a lot of it, on page, from Ethan’s ex and it was really hard for me to read about it because I wasn’t prepared for it at all. I would have liked to know it was coming so I could have prepared accordingly.
All in all, I had such a good time reading this book and I really enjoyed the experience.
I received an ARC of this book, and this is my honest review.
November 24, 2022
Never judge a KU book by its cover because this book was actually really good.
I've always loved the sex tutor trope, but is "spineless idiot finally gets his backbone" a trope because now I love that too.
This book was cute but sorry I still don't like iguanas. And I think the author intended for us to find Linh funny and cute but I thought she was hella annoying.
I've always loved the sex tutor trope, but is "spineless idiot finally gets his backbone" a trope because now I love that too.
This book was cute but sorry I still don't like iguanas. And I think the author intended for us to find Linh funny and cute but I thought she was hella annoying.
September 6, 2021
This was a cute set up, although I one point I did think I was going to get really annoyed by a simple lack of having a conversation plot point.
Thankfully DJ didn't go all the way down that route and, after a small hiccup, our two erstwhile heros managed to discuss their feelings and everything cleared up nicely!
It's a really sweet opposites attract combo with a bisexual awakening and a touch of the jock/geek about it. Both Ethan and Rhett are relatable, and really nice, characters who it's easy to find yourself rooting for.
There's a couple of sub-plots about finding your self-courage and motivations for taking control of your life which also worked well and I loved Ethan's love for lizards and other reptiles.
Nice side characters and some really steamy exploration made this one a hit.
#ARC kindly received from the author in return for an honest and unbiased review
Thankfully DJ didn't go all the way down that route and, after a small hiccup, our two erstwhile heros managed to discuss their feelings and everything cleared up nicely!
It's a really sweet opposites attract combo with a bisexual awakening and a touch of the jock/geek about it. Both Ethan and Rhett are relatable, and really nice, characters who it's easy to find yourself rooting for.
There's a couple of sub-plots about finding your self-courage and motivations for taking control of your life which also worked well and I loved Ethan's love for lizards and other reptiles.
Nice side characters and some really steamy exploration made this one a hit.
#ARC kindly received from the author in return for an honest and unbiased review
September 15, 2021
My arrangement with Rhett had never been casual at all. I’d only been able to do it because I’d already felt connected to him. I didn’t look at him one day and think he was hot; it was a slow evolution of getting to know him, genuinely liking him, and then starting to notice how beautiful he was.
Thoughts:
- 3.5 Stars ✨
- I HATE this cover
- This certainly won't be my last of this author.
- I wanted to read this because I saw my gr friends loving this and this book kept popping up on my Facebook mm group.
- The first half was sooo much better than the last 25% of this book
- I am trash for the '(not really)bad/jock x nerd geeky boy.
- I related to Ethan's geeky nerdiness, his awkwardness and his fumblings and soft nature 110%
I picked up the remote and nearly fumbled it when he put his hand on my thigh. Even through my jeans, it felt hot.
If there was a male version of me, I'd literally be him but gayer 🤣
And his bowtie and SUSPENDERS?! Kill me now.
People pushed me, and most of the time, I bent. I hated conflict. It tied my stomach up in knots, had done so ever since I was a young child watching my parents yell at one another. There wasn’t a week that went by that they didn’t fight bitterly, calling one another names, slamming doors. Yet, they stayed together, feeding on one another’s misery
- My heart soared so high at every little soft actions Rhett did for Ethan and I blushed and I was so damn soft for his kindness and how open, willing, gentle and mature he was and is for Ethan.
✨ Here's gonna be me saying in so many words how much I adored their friendship and their sizzling hot chemistry
“Quid pro quo, right?” I said lightly. “You scratch my back, and I’ll scratch yours.”
Ethan’s relief was visible. He slumped, elbows braced on the kitchen counter between us. “Okay, thanks. But I think I should warn you. Tess is…not easy to deal with. It won’t be pleasant.”
“So this is more about moral support and less about my incredible arm strength in hauling boxes for you?”
He cracked a tense smile. “Something like that.”
“Don’t worry, Ethan. I’ve got your back.”
“Then I’ve got yours,” he said, reaching out to shake my hand. “Quid pro quo.
Ethan chuckled. It was a weak laugh, but it was a laugh. Anything was better than the defeated expression he’d worn since our visit to his evil ex’s house. “Okay. But don’t expect much. It’s pretty geeky.”
“I’ll be the judge of that,” I said decisively, as if I knew anything about fashion. All I really knew was that if Ethan had a way of expressing himself, he shouldn’t let a vile human like Tess squash that. Even if he did look geeky, so what? Ethan was a geek. And geeky could be hot.
Ethan was methodical, always doing his research before he acted. I’d once watched him read reviews for nearly an hour before settling on a Chinese restaurant for take-out. I smiled at the memory, though at the time I’d been starving and pissed off. Who the hell does that? I’d wondered.
Rhett patted the futon. “Yep. How about one of the Godzilla movies you own?”
That surprised me out of my stupor. I dropped down beside him. “You don’t want to watch that. It’ll bore you.”
“Good.” He waited until I’d turned to look at him—then waggled his brows. “We can make out during the boring parts.”
My heart lurched. “There’s a lot of boring parts. At least, that’s what other people tell me.”
“You like it though?”
“Yeah.”
“That’s good enough for me. Turn it on.”
Ethan hadn’t been hesitant or shy about putting his mouth on my dick. He’d been into it.
And he hadn’t been some messy, eager guy gobbling my dick either, but incredibly thoughtful and focused. He’d tried a lot of different moves, some of them things I’d done, and he’d assessed the results and then tried again. It was very Ethan. He was the type of guy to blow you smarter, not harder. That thought was enough to make me grin.
- I'm glad the online app part of this strong did not drag because I was soooo not in the mood for THAT plot.
- You know how books usually have ONE misunderstanding conflict? Well fear no more because everyone's pet peeve of that choice of conflict with HIGH ROCKET with this book.
Overall thoughts:
I feel like this book started off so strongly and so well, it was just as passionate as it was in the middle, but it kinda sizzled out at the end of it.
September 7, 2021
“I bet if you wanted to kiss someone, you’d just do it, right? You wouldn’t be afraid.”
“I’d ask first,” I said.
“Oh. Right.”
“I’d say…Ethan, can I kiss you?” His lips parted.
“And I’d say yes?”
After reading Matched by My Rival a couple of months ago I couldn't wait for this book to be published. And it didn't disappoint! I still need to read Swiped by My Dad’s Best Friend, but since it’s not required to read this series in order, you'd read the ones that stood out to you as standalones perfectly.
This was definitely less ansty and more in the geek side than Matched by My Rival. I loved that Ethan might have been insecure and struggled to express his thoughts, but he wasn’t portrayed as a doormat. And in the end he demonstrated that. And the fact that Rhett’s hero complex didn’t extend to the point where I couldn’t understand Ethan’s way of action was really well done. In the end they began a cute relationship surrounded by reptiles, Godzilla movies, bowties and lists.
The only negative aspect for me was that I’d have loved to see more interactions with the characters from the previous books, like Simon for example.
A geek rediscovering his sexuality. His sexy roommate with a hero complex. Ethan and Rhett were the cutest and I can’t wait to read more books from this series!
*Disclaimer: I received an ARC of this book in exchange for a free and honest review*
October 1, 2021
3.5 stars
August 2, 2022
3 solid stars.
September 14, 2021
A Joyfully Jay review.
4.75 stars
Unlike the second book in the series, Matched by my Rival, the hook-up app “Thrust” plays a far smaller role, though it still crops up as a handy device to get Ethan and Rhett together without them meaning to. The story unfolds in dual perspectives. Most, if not all, chapters are split between first-person narrative from Ethan’s or from Rhett’s perspective. For a story like this where both characters have major caveats to freely expressing how they feel about the other, I thought the frequent shift in perspective worked very well. I also thought Jamison did an excellent job developing Ethan’s insecurities about falling for fast-and-casual Rhett and Rhett’s insecurities about being worthy of passionate Ethan’s affections.
Along with the big plot device of Ethan and Rhett drawing up a literal agreement about becoming friends with benefits, there are a lot of layers to how the characters fall in love with each other. I really liked how this happened gradually, starting from a simple acknowledgement that there was some level of physical attraction they shared. At the same time, the dual perspectives allowed the sense of unrequited love to grow stronger and stronger the longer these two attempted to share physical intimacy without letting emotions get involved.
Read Camille’s review in its entirety here.
4.75 stars
Unlike the second book in the series, Matched by my Rival, the hook-up app “Thrust” plays a far smaller role, though it still crops up as a handy device to get Ethan and Rhett together without them meaning to. The story unfolds in dual perspectives. Most, if not all, chapters are split between first-person narrative from Ethan’s or from Rhett’s perspective. For a story like this where both characters have major caveats to freely expressing how they feel about the other, I thought the frequent shift in perspective worked very well. I also thought Jamison did an excellent job developing Ethan’s insecurities about falling for fast-and-casual Rhett and Rhett’s insecurities about being worthy of passionate Ethan’s affections.
Along with the big plot device of Ethan and Rhett drawing up a literal agreement about becoming friends with benefits, there are a lot of layers to how the characters fall in love with each other. I really liked how this happened gradually, starting from a simple acknowledgement that there was some level of physical attraction they shared. At the same time, the dual perspectives allowed the sense of unrequited love to grow stronger and stronger the longer these two attempted to share physical intimacy without letting emotions get involved.
Read Camille’s review in its entirety here.
September 11, 2021
They are roommates Ethan is a geek, an intern at the animal rescue, and a wildlife biology major. After a bad breakup with his ex-girlfriend, he’s sharing an apartment with Rhett.
Rhett works at a bar, studies, and is always running to help out family or friends.
When Rhett understands Ethan is bi-curious (after they shared a kiss) he wants to help him explore. Ethan has a list with wishes, rules, and boundaries and it will end when all are explored.
No problem right! Rhett will help him, no feelings involved, just help the guy out.
This was such a sweet story, with palpable emotional moments, a LOT of feelings.
Two lovable guys. Afraid to lose the other by breaking the rules.
Ethan is too shy to ask for anything more, and Rhett is afraid to lose Ethan by asking more.
Misunderstanding and miscommunication added hurtful moments, well put down!
There is so much sweetness and sexiness, so many attractive moments. Very enjoyable!
Let’s not speak of a nasty ex whose only intention was to hurt a sweet soul!
Captivatingly written story, I loved the concept, I love the characters, all were nicely developed.
Rhett works at a bar, studies, and is always running to help out family or friends.
When Rhett understands Ethan is bi-curious (after they shared a kiss) he wants to help him explore. Ethan has a list with wishes, rules, and boundaries and it will end when all are explored.
No problem right! Rhett will help him, no feelings involved, just help the guy out.
This was such a sweet story, with palpable emotional moments, a LOT of feelings.
Two lovable guys. Afraid to lose the other by breaking the rules.
Ethan is too shy to ask for anything more, and Rhett is afraid to lose Ethan by asking more.
Misunderstanding and miscommunication added hurtful moments, well put down!
There is so much sweetness and sexiness, so many attractive moments. Very enjoyable!
Let’s not speak of a nasty ex whose only intention was to hurt a sweet soul!
Captivatingly written story, I loved the concept, I love the characters, all were nicely developed.
September 4, 2021
I really liked the first two books, but I have to say I think this one is my favorite of the three. It has everything I like in a contemporary romance. It is utterly adorable. It has pining. It has conflict. It has character growth. It has lizards (ok, those aren't a requirement so much as a nice bonus, but I'm still a sucker for a pet). All the checks.
I think it could stand alone if needed, though I totally recommend the first two books in the series as well.
I think it could stand alone if needed, though I totally recommend the first two books in the series as well.
September 3, 2021
Best of the series for me.
Rhett and Ethan were fantastic together and I was drawn into the story quickly.
Ethan's exploration was nicely done, Rhett allowed him space to make the decisions. Ethan grew a lot over the book and I loved everything about it.
Rhett and Ethan were fantastic together and I was drawn into the story quickly.
Ethan's exploration was nicely done, Rhett allowed him space to make the decisions. Ethan grew a lot over the book and I loved everything about it.
September 22, 2021
Crazy Exes Make for Great Romantic Material
This book was on the lowere end of medium-angst. I do feel that the almost-miscommunication almost lasted too long. Otherwise, I loved Rhett and Ethan and how they supported each other. They both grew—Ethan into someone more assertive and Rhett into someone who could ask for help—and it was great to read.
The side characters were great—Linh and Rhett’s siblings in particular—and Ethan’s love for reptiles was endearing. And that ending warmed my heart. I’m definitely thinking of going back and reading the first two books in this series.
This book was on the lowere end of medium-angst. I do feel that the almost-miscommunication almost lasted too long. Otherwise, I loved Rhett and Ethan and how they supported each other. They both grew—Ethan into someone more assertive and Rhett into someone who could ask for help—and it was great to read.
The side characters were great—Linh and Rhett’s siblings in particular—and Ethan’s love for reptiles was endearing. And that ending warmed my heart. I’m definitely thinking of going back and reading the first two books in this series.
December 28, 2024
3.5 stars
Ethan is adorable and Rhett has a huge soft spot for his roommate: together they fit very well, they support and care for each other as friends first and then as lovers.
I really liked how Ethan regained his confidence and how Rhett was able to mend the relationship with his stepfather.
What prevented me from giving a higher rate:
the evil ex-girlfriend who got away with destroying Ethan's things and then proceeding to kick him out and stealing his pet was excessive;
the miscommunication between the two MCs: they were so good at bolstering each other's insecurities, but then they couldn't really talk about their mutual feelings. It was a bit frustrating.
Overall I liked it and it was a good addiction to this series.
I recently re read this book and I edited mt first review.
Ethan is adorable and Rhett has a huge soft spot for his roommate: together they fit very well, they support and care for each other as friends first and then as lovers.
I really liked how Ethan regained his confidence and how Rhett was able to mend the relationship with his stepfather.
What prevented me from giving a higher rate:
the evil ex-girlfriend who got away with destroying Ethan's things and then proceeding to kick him out and stealing his pet was excessive;
the miscommunication between the two MCs: they were so good at bolstering each other's insecurities, but then they couldn't really talk about their mutual feelings. It was a bit frustrating.
Overall I liked it and it was a good addiction to this series.
I recently re read this book and I edited mt first review.
September 8, 2021
Oh Ethan. I love a nerdy MC. Add to it that the man wears suspenders with bow ties and you have me at full swoon. Ethan starts off the book as majorly shy and avoiding confrontation at all costs. When a drunken kiss with this gay roommate Rhett happens, Ethan can't stop thinking about it. Research is a familiar comfort to him, but he can't figure out his sexuality just by looking online. He then decides to do something out of his comfort zone, he signs up for a gay dating app Thrust and agrees to meet a man to experiment with his sexuality. He just didn't realize he'd be meeting his roommate Rhett.
I loved how Rhett was with Ethan. He was so kind and understanding, yet he also was very protective of him. When he realized his hookup was Ethan, he offered to be someone safe for Ethan to learn his desires with. It was just supposed to be hooking up, and it was that, but it turned into so much more.
Both Rhett and Ethan had character growth throughout the book. Ethan worked to stand up for himself more. He was sick of always being a doormat. He was sick of never speaking up for himself. He was never going to get the things he truly wanted if he didn't open his mouth and say it. Rhett, on the other hand, needed to learn to back down. He was always swooping in to save the day for his family or friends. He needed to let them learn to stand on their own two feet. He needed to let them grow too.
The ending of the book was just perfect. It was an epilogue a year down the road and it was just so sweet and tied everything together just so. I love it when that happens. It gives me satisfaction when there is a solid HEA ending and that's exactly what we got.
I loved how Rhett was with Ethan. He was so kind and understanding, yet he also was very protective of him. When he realized his hookup was Ethan, he offered to be someone safe for Ethan to learn his desires with. It was just supposed to be hooking up, and it was that, but it turned into so much more.
Both Rhett and Ethan had character growth throughout the book. Ethan worked to stand up for himself more. He was sick of always being a doormat. He was sick of never speaking up for himself. He was never going to get the things he truly wanted if he didn't open his mouth and say it. Rhett, on the other hand, needed to learn to back down. He was always swooping in to save the day for his family or friends. He needed to let them learn to stand on their own two feet. He needed to let them grow too.
The ending of the book was just perfect. It was an epilogue a year down the road and it was just so sweet and tied everything together just so. I love it when that happens. It gives me satisfaction when there is a solid HEA ending and that's exactly what we got.
September 6, 2021
This series has cemented itself as one I will come back to when I just need some cute, feel-good happiness. I absolutely adored Rhett and Ethan and thought they were just perfect for each other. It's a book that's nearly impossible to put down and constantly had me smiling. If you like new adult romances, with really amazing chemistry, a bisexual awakening done right, and just honestly one of the sweetest MM stories ever written this might just be the book for you!
March 20, 2023
Molto, molto, molto carino
September 2, 2021
Great book! Ethan is such a cutie. I love that he’s such a geek! He and Rhett have such fun moments- Babezilla, was it? Hysterical.
Rhett has worked so hard for so long to help his family. He helps everyone he can whenever he sees the need. He really is a terrific guy! Strong and handsome, too.
The way Ethen comes into his own sexually is wonderful. He had to be coaxed a bit, but him taking charge is so hot.
I really enjoyed this- devoured it all in one go.
Rhett has worked so hard for so long to help his family. He helps everyone he can whenever he sees the need. He really is a terrific guy! Strong and handsome, too.
The way Ethen comes into his own sexually is wonderful. He had to be coaxed a bit, but him taking charge is so hot.
I really enjoyed this- devoured it all in one go.
April 4, 2023
Voto: 3.5
RECENSIONE A CURA DI SLANIF
Ethan Green e Rhett Hayes sono coinquilini da poco e non potrebbero essere più diversi: Ethan è un nerd fissato con Godzilla, che spera di lavorare un giorno con gli animali e con una ex odiosa e cattiva che tiene in ostaggio la sua lucertola domestica: Zilla; Rhett è gay dichiarato, uno sportivo e un fratello maggiore che cerca di fare il padre quando non è quello il suo ruolo.
Anche se condividono lo spazio da qualche mese, i due non hanno molta confidenza e a ciò verrà posto rimedio solo quando Ethan avrà bisogno di aiuto per riprendersi le sue cose dalla casa che condivideva con la sua ex, che non ha nessuna intenzione di ridargli un bel niente.
Rhett è gentile, ama prendersi cura delle persone, perciò come può rifiutare di dare aiuto al suo coinquilino?
Sarà proprio questa occasione a far sì che i due capiscano che non sono proprio come appaiono agli occhi degli altri e che, forse, potrebbero diventare davvero amici e… magari qualcosa di più?
Continua sul nostro blog!
RECENSIONE A CURA DI SLANIF
Ethan Green e Rhett Hayes sono coinquilini da poco e non potrebbero essere più diversi: Ethan è un nerd fissato con Godzilla, che spera di lavorare un giorno con gli animali e con una ex odiosa e cattiva che tiene in ostaggio la sua lucertola domestica: Zilla; Rhett è gay dichiarato, uno sportivo e un fratello maggiore che cerca di fare il padre quando non è quello il suo ruolo.
Anche se condividono lo spazio da qualche mese, i due non hanno molta confidenza e a ciò verrà posto rimedio solo quando Ethan avrà bisogno di aiuto per riprendersi le sue cose dalla casa che condivideva con la sua ex, che non ha nessuna intenzione di ridargli un bel niente.
Rhett è gentile, ama prendersi cura delle persone, perciò come può rifiutare di dare aiuto al suo coinquilino?
Sarà proprio questa occasione a far sì che i due capiscano che non sono proprio come appaiono agli occhi degli altri e che, forse, potrebbero diventare davvero amici e… magari qualcosa di più?
Continua sul nostro blog!
March 12, 2022
Edited 3/12/22 to add my comments about the audiobook:
Audiobook Review:
Overall – 5
Performance – 5
Story – 5
Loved it when I read it and even more in audio.
I read and reviewed this book when it was released back in September 2021. The only thing I can add to this review of the audiobook is how great a job Nick J. Russo did. It’s rare that an audiobook will bring out the same strong emotions that I had when I read a book with my eyes but Nick’s wonderful audio performance got to me in several places and brought on a few tears. I loved this!
Below is original review about Tapped by My Roommate:
Wow, this book really got to me by the end.
Rhett is a struggling college student. He has a contentious relationship with his stepfather but he’d do anything for his brother and sister. He has a scholarship but has to work full time to pay for rent, food, books, etc. He needs a roommate to help share the cost of rent. Ethan’s a geeky, wildlife biology major who moved in with Rhett after a bad breakup. His ex-girlfriend won’t return his pet green iguana.
I really liked this book. Rhett is attracted to Ethan but he knows that Ethan is straight. After a drunken kiss one evening he realizes that there is some great chemistry between them. Ethan eventually decides he wants to experiment to figure out if he’s really bi or not and Rhett agrees to help him out.
Things are really good between them but they both agreed to stick to a list of rules that Ethan made up – neither is looking for any kind of long-term relationship. Their chemistry is off the charts. I loved how patient Rhett is with Ethan. He never makes fun of him or tries to get him to do anything he’s not ready for. Over the period of several weeks his feelings begin to change. Ethan’s feelings also change but of course, neither of them communicates with the other one.
When Rhett finally makes peace with his stepfather it gave me all kinds of feels and brought on the tears.
I think DJ Jamison’s writing just keeps getting better and better. I loved Ethan and Rhett.
A copy of this book was provided to me at my request but my review was voluntary and not influenced by the author.
***Reviewed for Xtreme-Delusions dot com***
Audiobook Review:
Overall – 5
Performance – 5
Story – 5
Loved it when I read it and even more in audio.
I read and reviewed this book when it was released back in September 2021. The only thing I can add to this review of the audiobook is how great a job Nick J. Russo did. It’s rare that an audiobook will bring out the same strong emotions that I had when I read a book with my eyes but Nick’s wonderful audio performance got to me in several places and brought on a few tears. I loved this!
Below is original review about Tapped by My Roommate:
Wow, this book really got to me by the end.
Rhett is a struggling college student. He has a contentious relationship with his stepfather but he’d do anything for his brother and sister. He has a scholarship but has to work full time to pay for rent, food, books, etc. He needs a roommate to help share the cost of rent. Ethan’s a geeky, wildlife biology major who moved in with Rhett after a bad breakup. His ex-girlfriend won’t return his pet green iguana.
I really liked this book. Rhett is attracted to Ethan but he knows that Ethan is straight. After a drunken kiss one evening he realizes that there is some great chemistry between them. Ethan eventually decides he wants to experiment to figure out if he’s really bi or not and Rhett agrees to help him out.
Things are really good between them but they both agreed to stick to a list of rules that Ethan made up – neither is looking for any kind of long-term relationship. Their chemistry is off the charts. I loved how patient Rhett is with Ethan. He never makes fun of him or tries to get him to do anything he’s not ready for. Over the period of several weeks his feelings begin to change. Ethan’s feelings also change but of course, neither of them communicates with the other one.
When Rhett finally makes peace with his stepfather it gave me all kinds of feels and brought on the tears.
I think DJ Jamison’s writing just keeps getting better and better. I loved Ethan and Rhett.
A copy of this book was provided to me at my request but my review was voluntary and not influenced by the author.
***Reviewed for Xtreme-Delusions dot com***
November 14, 2021
Roommates to friends to lovers to...?
4 solid stars!! !!Warning!! Contains spoilers!!
Another wonderful story from DJ Jamison that definitely defines the adage "don't judge a book by its cover" as it applies to humans, not only books.
Rhett, a financially struggling, physically fit college student, places an ad for a roommate to ease his monetary situation. Replying is Ethan, an under confident nerd with a fixation on all things Godzilla, lizards, bowties and suspenders.
Fresh off a less than amicable separation from his vile girlfriend, Tess, Ethan needs a place to live. Replying to Rhett's ad, he moves in and both men immediately notice qualities in the other they find not only intriguing but curiously loveable. Rhett knows Ethan is straight, while Rhett is openly gay. No issue there, until Ethan begins to discover himself nurturing growing feelings toward his sexy roommate.
Ethan was gifted a bearded dragon by Tess but had to leave "Zilla" behind when he left the abusive relationship. Knowing Tess and her new boyfriend would never give Zilla proper care, Ethan, under steadily building self-confidence from Rhett and their female neighbor, Lihn, devises a plan to reclaim the amphibian. With Tess' boyfriend's aid, the rescue (lizard-napping??) is successful, though not without the dreaded confrontation with Tess. As Ethan is a volunteer at the local wildlife shelter, Oasis, he takes Zilla there to recooperate and adjust.
Meanwhile, both protagonists, after a kiss shared after an evening of drinking and personal confessions, agree that Ethan wants to experiment with gay sex to determine his sexual orientation, due to his awakening feelings for Rhett. Thus is born the soon to be infamous "Rules for Ethan's Sexual Awakening," which would later cause much turmoil in their relationship. You must understand that Ethan's life revolves around order and a half-assed attempt at controlling his life...something he repeatedly fails at accomplishing. Thus, his list of sex acts he desires to explore with Rhett to evaluate his sexual orientation. Rhett reluctantly agrees to this list, but only to keep Ethan in his arms, bed and life as he finds his feelings for Ethan also changing.
A few days pass with the roommates gradually completing the various "acts" established on the list. Upon completion, Ethan, realizing he is bisexual at the least, checks off all the acts on the list after an intense evening of "experimentation." Unwisely, he leaves this notebook out and Rhett finds it and reads it. Discovering everything has been completed, Rhett assumes, wrongly, that Ethan will now want to move on to other men to further explore his newfound orientation. This assumption leads to a awkward change in their now stunted relationship, making living together extremely uncomfortable.
With both going about their uber-busy lives, they rarely speak or see each other. Coming home one night after working late, Rhett finds Ethan alone in a dark living room, crying and distraught. He confesses his unhappiness concerning Zilla to Rhett and explains his plan to rescue Zilla, garnering Rhett's admiration and understanding. After much apologizing from both men, they agree to resume their relationship, consummating it by a robust round of sex. Soon afterward, Ethan builds enough confidence to actually implement his aforementioned plan and does so successfully.
When Rhett's car breaks down, he asks Ethan for an extension on his share of the rent. Between college costs, providing financial help to his family and other bills, he finds himself short of money despite woking more hours at the bar. Ethan offers to lend him money in addition to sliding on the rent for a month, but Rhett only accepts the rent delay.
Rhett decides his only option is to ask his Mother's boyfriend, with who Rhett's relationship is caustic at best, for his help in fixing his broken auto. After a tension filled dinner at his family's home, Rhett discovers, much to his shock, the numerous reasons the boyfriend acts the way he does. Calling a truce, both decide to help each other; the boyfriend with Rhett's car and Rhett by promising to accept the other man as an equal, not an enemy.
To speed up this lengthy review, Ethan is accepted by Rhett's family openly and with kindness. Discovering they both want the other to be a larger part of the other's lives, an agreement is forged to elevate their relationship from roommate's with benefits to full out lovers. Realizing they desire even something more stable, Rhett asks something of Ethan that rocks his soul to its very core. The question, you ask? I am sure you probably guessed it by now, but would you be correct? To find out, I highly recommend you read this touching and well written story by one of my favorite m/m authors. The minimal editing errors (approximately 4) did little to halt my read flow, so I feel good about giving this book 4 stars out of 5. Read and enjoy!
4 solid stars!! !!Warning!! Contains spoilers!!
Another wonderful story from DJ Jamison that definitely defines the adage "don't judge a book by its cover" as it applies to humans, not only books.
Rhett, a financially struggling, physically fit college student, places an ad for a roommate to ease his monetary situation. Replying is Ethan, an under confident nerd with a fixation on all things Godzilla, lizards, bowties and suspenders.
Fresh off a less than amicable separation from his vile girlfriend, Tess, Ethan needs a place to live. Replying to Rhett's ad, he moves in and both men immediately notice qualities in the other they find not only intriguing but curiously loveable. Rhett knows Ethan is straight, while Rhett is openly gay. No issue there, until Ethan begins to discover himself nurturing growing feelings toward his sexy roommate.
Ethan was gifted a bearded dragon by Tess but had to leave "Zilla" behind when he left the abusive relationship. Knowing Tess and her new boyfriend would never give Zilla proper care, Ethan, under steadily building self-confidence from Rhett and their female neighbor, Lihn, devises a plan to reclaim the amphibian. With Tess' boyfriend's aid, the rescue (lizard-napping??) is successful, though not without the dreaded confrontation with Tess. As Ethan is a volunteer at the local wildlife shelter, Oasis, he takes Zilla there to recooperate and adjust.
Meanwhile, both protagonists, after a kiss shared after an evening of drinking and personal confessions, agree that Ethan wants to experiment with gay sex to determine his sexual orientation, due to his awakening feelings for Rhett. Thus is born the soon to be infamous "Rules for Ethan's Sexual Awakening," which would later cause much turmoil in their relationship. You must understand that Ethan's life revolves around order and a half-assed attempt at controlling his life...something he repeatedly fails at accomplishing. Thus, his list of sex acts he desires to explore with Rhett to evaluate his sexual orientation. Rhett reluctantly agrees to this list, but only to keep Ethan in his arms, bed and life as he finds his feelings for Ethan also changing.
A few days pass with the roommates gradually completing the various "acts" established on the list. Upon completion, Ethan, realizing he is bisexual at the least, checks off all the acts on the list after an intense evening of "experimentation." Unwisely, he leaves this notebook out and Rhett finds it and reads it. Discovering everything has been completed, Rhett assumes, wrongly, that Ethan will now want to move on to other men to further explore his newfound orientation. This assumption leads to a awkward change in their now stunted relationship, making living together extremely uncomfortable.
With both going about their uber-busy lives, they rarely speak or see each other. Coming home one night after working late, Rhett finds Ethan alone in a dark living room, crying and distraught. He confesses his unhappiness concerning Zilla to Rhett and explains his plan to rescue Zilla, garnering Rhett's admiration and understanding. After much apologizing from both men, they agree to resume their relationship, consummating it by a robust round of sex. Soon afterward, Ethan builds enough confidence to actually implement his aforementioned plan and does so successfully.
When Rhett's car breaks down, he asks Ethan for an extension on his share of the rent. Between college costs, providing financial help to his family and other bills, he finds himself short of money despite woking more hours at the bar. Ethan offers to lend him money in addition to sliding on the rent for a month, but Rhett only accepts the rent delay.
Rhett decides his only option is to ask his Mother's boyfriend, with who Rhett's relationship is caustic at best, for his help in fixing his broken auto. After a tension filled dinner at his family's home, Rhett discovers, much to his shock, the numerous reasons the boyfriend acts the way he does. Calling a truce, both decide to help each other; the boyfriend with Rhett's car and Rhett by promising to accept the other man as an equal, not an enemy.
To speed up this lengthy review, Ethan is accepted by Rhett's family openly and with kindness. Discovering they both want the other to be a larger part of the other's lives, an agreement is forged to elevate their relationship from roommate's with benefits to full out lovers. Realizing they desire even something more stable, Rhett asks something of Ethan that rocks his soul to its very core. The question, you ask? I am sure you probably guessed it by now, but would you be correct? To find out, I highly recommend you read this touching and well written story by one of my favorite m/m authors. The minimal editing errors (approximately 4) did little to halt my read flow, so I feel good about giving this book 4 stars out of 5. Read and enjoy!
September 9, 2021
*4.5 stars*
Tapped by My Roommate is the third book in DJ Jamison’s highly diverting Thrust into Love series. While I enjoyed Swiped by My Dad’s Best Friend and Matched by My Rival, the two prior books in the series, Tapped exceeds them both by a good margin. Tapped reminds me in many respects of my favorite of Ms. Jamison’s works, Secret Admirer. It’s equal parts sweet and sexy, with absolutely endearing male leads, and a lovely, heartwarming storyline.
Tapped features Rhett and Ethan’s opposites attract romance. Rhett bartends at the bar Tracks with Simon, who starred in Book 2, Matched by My Rival (and appeared, to a lesser extent, as Cooper’s fraternity brother in Book 1, Swiped by My Dad’s Best Friend). Ethan is an adorkable, super-smart wildlife biology major who answers Rhett’s ad for a roommate.
The title of this book is a bit misleading. Given the series name, I can only assume that the vulgar, slang definition of “tapped” is the meaning intended. And yes, Rhett and Ethan agree to a hookup through the Thrust app. And yes, they have sex. A lot of it. But that is soooo not what this story is about, and interpreting the title in that way, IMHO, degrades Ms. Jamison’s well-crafted romance.
I’d rather reframe the title instead, interpreting “tapped” with its more complimentary verb definition: choosing someone. Here, Rhett’s tapped Ethan as his roommate. Ethan’s tapped Rhett to be his bicurious sexual guide. Ultimately both tap each other as lover, forever love, and HEA. The Thrust hookup app actually plays a very minor role in this story. It’s really just a vehicle to propel Ethan and Rhett along the road they’ve already started down in terms of attraction towards each other. Like the prior two stories, the men connect through the Thrust app, not knowing the other’s true identity until they meet in person for the hookup. Meanwhile, they’ve been pursuing a parallel track IRL with each other. Here, Rhett and Ethan’s chemistry is already crackling, and Ethan starts to engage his curiosity with Rhett even before the app comes into play.
I absolutely adored Ethan and Rhett. Their relationship is developed through Ms. Jamison’s solid writing and excellent character development. While seemingly opposites, they actually are very similar in many ways, and in the ways they are different, they dovetail like Ying and Yang. Ethan is an introverted loner, a bow-tie wearing, Godzilla loving, wildlife biology major who volunteers at an animal rescue center. Rhett is more of a jock, although his soccer playing days have been sidelined due to school and family demands. But where they similarly struggle is in standing up for themselves.
Ethan hates confrontation, so much so that he left most of his belongings behind in the apartment he shared with his vile ex-girlfriend, and is afraid to go back and reclaim them. He allows himself to be treated like a doormat because he’s too afraid to speak up for himself. Yet he otherwise does what he wants and pursues what he likes without concern for other people’s opinions. Rhett observes that Ethan is “a collection of contradictions … Timid but bold, shy but passionate.”
Rhett seems like a complete extrovert while in actuality, he’s a bit of a loner himself. He pours his social energy into his bartending job and school, but on his own, he doesn’t party or even date. He puts everything he has into making sure his family has what they need, and in taking care of himself. Rhett, like Ethan, struggles with confrontation, but in a different way: he doesn’t know how to say no and he refuses to ask for or accept help.
Ethan and Rhett have a captivating dynamic. Over the course of the story, we see how they learn about each other and about themselves, and develop the skills to put themselves first. They can do this because of the support they provide for each other. There’s a “rightness” to Rhett and Ethan’s relationship that resonates. They are a couple that’s easy to root for and hard to leave behind when the book comes to a close.
I wholeheartedly recommend Tapped by My Roommate. It checks all the boxes for a highly enjoyable, low-angst, sweet, sexy romance. You don’t need to read the prior two books to read Tapped so I encourage you to jump in notwithstanding whether you have read or plan to read the rest of the series. Tapped by My Roommate is worth it all on its own.
*Originally published on LoveBytesReviews.com
Tapped by My Roommate is the third book in DJ Jamison’s highly diverting Thrust into Love series. While I enjoyed Swiped by My Dad’s Best Friend and Matched by My Rival, the two prior books in the series, Tapped exceeds them both by a good margin. Tapped reminds me in many respects of my favorite of Ms. Jamison’s works, Secret Admirer. It’s equal parts sweet and sexy, with absolutely endearing male leads, and a lovely, heartwarming storyline.
Tapped features Rhett and Ethan’s opposites attract romance. Rhett bartends at the bar Tracks with Simon, who starred in Book 2, Matched by My Rival (and appeared, to a lesser extent, as Cooper’s fraternity brother in Book 1, Swiped by My Dad’s Best Friend). Ethan is an adorkable, super-smart wildlife biology major who answers Rhett’s ad for a roommate.
The title of this book is a bit misleading. Given the series name, I can only assume that the vulgar, slang definition of “tapped” is the meaning intended. And yes, Rhett and Ethan agree to a hookup through the Thrust app. And yes, they have sex. A lot of it. But that is soooo not what this story is about, and interpreting the title in that way, IMHO, degrades Ms. Jamison’s well-crafted romance.
I’d rather reframe the title instead, interpreting “tapped” with its more complimentary verb definition: choosing someone. Here, Rhett’s tapped Ethan as his roommate. Ethan’s tapped Rhett to be his bicurious sexual guide. Ultimately both tap each other as lover, forever love, and HEA. The Thrust hookup app actually plays a very minor role in this story. It’s really just a vehicle to propel Ethan and Rhett along the road they’ve already started down in terms of attraction towards each other. Like the prior two stories, the men connect through the Thrust app, not knowing the other’s true identity until they meet in person for the hookup. Meanwhile, they’ve been pursuing a parallel track IRL with each other. Here, Rhett and Ethan’s chemistry is already crackling, and Ethan starts to engage his curiosity with Rhett even before the app comes into play.
I absolutely adored Ethan and Rhett. Their relationship is developed through Ms. Jamison’s solid writing and excellent character development. While seemingly opposites, they actually are very similar in many ways, and in the ways they are different, they dovetail like Ying and Yang. Ethan is an introverted loner, a bow-tie wearing, Godzilla loving, wildlife biology major who volunteers at an animal rescue center. Rhett is more of a jock, although his soccer playing days have been sidelined due to school and family demands. But where they similarly struggle is in standing up for themselves.
Ethan hates confrontation, so much so that he left most of his belongings behind in the apartment he shared with his vile ex-girlfriend, and is afraid to go back and reclaim them. He allows himself to be treated like a doormat because he’s too afraid to speak up for himself. Yet he otherwise does what he wants and pursues what he likes without concern for other people’s opinions. Rhett observes that Ethan is “a collection of contradictions … Timid but bold, shy but passionate.”
Rhett seems like a complete extrovert while in actuality, he’s a bit of a loner himself. He pours his social energy into his bartending job and school, but on his own, he doesn’t party or even date. He puts everything he has into making sure his family has what they need, and in taking care of himself. Rhett, like Ethan, struggles with confrontation, but in a different way: he doesn’t know how to say no and he refuses to ask for or accept help.
Ethan and Rhett have a captivating dynamic. Over the course of the story, we see how they learn about each other and about themselves, and develop the skills to put themselves first. They can do this because of the support they provide for each other. There’s a “rightness” to Rhett and Ethan’s relationship that resonates. They are a couple that’s easy to root for and hard to leave behind when the book comes to a close.
I wholeheartedly recommend Tapped by My Roommate. It checks all the boxes for a highly enjoyable, low-angst, sweet, sexy romance. You don’t need to read the prior two books to read Tapped so I encourage you to jump in notwithstanding whether you have read or plan to read the rest of the series. Tapped by My Roommate is worth it all on its own.
*Originally published on LoveBytesReviews.com
January 19, 2026
After stewing on this for days I down graded the stars. Most of the book made be uncomfortable so 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
UGHHH...This book had almost everything I dislike in a book BUT it did turn into a really sweet romance between roommates.
Ethan was the biggest sweetest shyest dork.
Rhett was a ummm Rhett. I did enjoy the evolution of his character. He was protective of his family and friends.
Rhetts description of Ethan was terrible
Quote: "Not that Ethan was hot. I mean, he was okay. Attractive enough, with his blond hair and smooth skin and vivid blue eyes."
💥Roommates to Lovers
💥Rhett is Gay and Ethan discovers he is Demi
DISLIKES
💥 Rhett talks/thinks about his hook ups alot in the beginning. His app username was "EasyLay". 😳
💥 MCs share a drunken kiss. They avoid each other after because neither knows how the other feels about it. A couple days later Rhett goes out to hook up to stop thinking about Ethan. 🤮 He agrees to meet up with CuriousLizard at a hotel only to find out it is Ethan so he offers his services.
💥Rhetts idea of a sexy night with Ethan was watching roommate porn together. It made Ethan uncomfortable but because he was shy he didnt say anything just stared at Rhett jerking it to the guys on TV. When Rhett noticed Ethan avoiding the TV did he turn if off? No just kept it playing. 🤮🤮🤮
💥 Miscommunication
💥 Third Act break that lasts a couple weeks. They finish Ethan's checklist of sex acts he wanted to try so they go back to roommates. Rhett offers to extend the list but Ethan turned him down. Ethan does assume Rhett starts to hook ups again after they stop sleeping together but he didnt.
💥 I disliked the neighbor, Linh. She was always just walking in UNINVITED, eating their food and giving wanted advice. Her everyday outfit was oversized sweater, fishnets and high heels because she is only 5'6 🙄
UGHHH...This book had almost everything I dislike in a book BUT it did turn into a really sweet romance between roommates.
Ethan was the biggest sweetest shyest dork.
Rhett was a ummm Rhett. I did enjoy the evolution of his character. He was protective of his family and friends.
Rhetts description of Ethan was terrible
Quote: "Not that Ethan was hot. I mean, he was okay. Attractive enough, with his blond hair and smooth skin and vivid blue eyes."
💥Roommates to Lovers
💥Rhett is Gay and Ethan discovers he is Demi
DISLIKES
💥 Rhett talks/thinks about his hook ups alot in the beginning. His app username was "EasyLay". 😳
💥 MCs share a drunken kiss. They avoid each other after because neither knows how the other feels about it. A couple days later Rhett goes out to hook up to stop thinking about Ethan. 🤮 He agrees to meet up with CuriousLizard at a hotel only to find out it is Ethan so he offers his services.
💥Rhetts idea of a sexy night with Ethan was watching roommate porn together. It made Ethan uncomfortable but because he was shy he didnt say anything just stared at Rhett jerking it to the guys on TV. When Rhett noticed Ethan avoiding the TV did he turn if off? No just kept it playing. 🤮🤮🤮
💥 Miscommunication
💥 Third Act break that lasts a couple weeks. They finish Ethan's checklist of sex acts he wanted to try so they go back to roommates. Rhett offers to extend the list but Ethan turned him down. Ethan does assume Rhett starts to hook ups again after they stop sleeping together but he didnt.
💥 I disliked the neighbor, Linh. She was always just walking in UNINVITED, eating their food and giving wanted advice. Her everyday outfit was oversized sweater, fishnets and high heels because she is only 5'6 🙄
September 7, 2021
I've read other roommate romances, but there was something special about Ethan and Rhett's story. I wasn't completely sure what to think of the two of them when I first met them, but all it took was one nasty confrontation with Tess and I was firmly on Team-Ethan-and-anybody-else. I wasn't expecting a drunken kiss to kickstart a deliciously steamy checklist of sexual explorations, but wow did I have fun seeing how many ways Rhett and Ethan could get each other off. I loved the way Rhett was so patient with Ethan, never pushing him for more and always showing his interest in everything they did together. The two of them had insane chemistry that went way beyond physical touches and kisses. They may have pretended their interest in each other was strictly for hookups, but their actions told an entirely different story.
As much as I loved the steamy bits (and I really, really did), I thought Ethan and Rhett's individual storylines were really compelling as well. Ethan not only explored his sexuality in this story but also tackled his fear of confrontation. I was so distraught after seeing the way Tess and others treated him--especially because I have my own qualms about confrontation and I understand the struggle to speak up for yourself. That's why it was so satisfying to see Ethan gain confidence and learn how to be brave when it mattered most. In turn, Rhett had his own savior complex to overcome on top of a difficult decision about what major he wanted to pursue. What I really enjoyed about this story was how deep it delved into Ethan and Rhett's history. I didn't just experience Ethan and Rhett's struggles in the present day--I got glimpses into how their pasts shaped them to put everything into context. On top of that, seeing how Ethan interacted with his co-volunteers and Rhett spent time with his family made their characters feel satisfyingly well-rounded. Of course, I can't leave out Linh, who was always around to give either guy a kick in the backside when they needed to get out of their heads.
Though Rhett and Ethan spent way too much time dodging important discussions about their relationship, I couldn't help but fall head over heels for them. That didn't stop me from being devastated each time a communication issue threatened to derail their romance before it could get off the ground, but in the end they managed to get on the same page. I'm so happy with the way that sappy love confession turned out, and don't even get me started on that adorkable marriage proposal at the end!
**I voluntarily read an ARC of this book. This review expresses my honest thoughts and opinions.
As much as I loved the steamy bits (and I really, really did), I thought Ethan and Rhett's individual storylines were really compelling as well. Ethan not only explored his sexuality in this story but also tackled his fear of confrontation. I was so distraught after seeing the way Tess and others treated him--especially because I have my own qualms about confrontation and I understand the struggle to speak up for yourself. That's why it was so satisfying to see Ethan gain confidence and learn how to be brave when it mattered most. In turn, Rhett had his own savior complex to overcome on top of a difficult decision about what major he wanted to pursue. What I really enjoyed about this story was how deep it delved into Ethan and Rhett's history. I didn't just experience Ethan and Rhett's struggles in the present day--I got glimpses into how their pasts shaped them to put everything into context. On top of that, seeing how Ethan interacted with his co-volunteers and Rhett spent time with his family made their characters feel satisfyingly well-rounded. Of course, I can't leave out Linh, who was always around to give either guy a kick in the backside when they needed to get out of their heads.
Though Rhett and Ethan spent way too much time dodging important discussions about their relationship, I couldn't help but fall head over heels for them. That didn't stop me from being devastated each time a communication issue threatened to derail their romance before it could get off the ground, but in the end they managed to get on the same page. I'm so happy with the way that sappy love confession turned out, and don't even get me started on that adorkable marriage proposal at the end!
**I voluntarily read an ARC of this book. This review expresses my honest thoughts and opinions.
September 13, 2021
4.5 Stars
Tapped by my Roommate is a fun romance by DJ Jamison. The third book in the Thrust into Love series, it's easily read as a standalone.
From the start, my heart hurt for Ethan. His ex girlfriend's a vindictive ass who treated him like crap.
What follows is a super duper fun roommates to lover story, as Ethan falls for his new roommate Rhett.
There's a sexual awakening involved for Ethan, as he's never felt this way about a guy before. Oh, how I love this trope. There's nothing better than getting to watch Ethan fall for a guy. And I appreciated the way Rhett handled everything.
And, ohhh...first time kisses!
This is an opposites attract story, as the two are night and day. Ethan's a geek/nerd to the core, while his new roommate is the jock type. Seriously, Ethan loves boo ties and lizards! Love it!
The writing is great, with two wonderfully developed characters. I enjoy everything they go through, and all the humor throughout.
Tapped by my Roommate is a totally feel good college romance. DJ Jamison delights throughout this sweet story.
Tapped by my Roommate is a fun romance by DJ Jamison. The third book in the Thrust into Love series, it's easily read as a standalone.
From the start, my heart hurt for Ethan. His ex girlfriend's a vindictive ass who treated him like crap.
What follows is a super duper fun roommates to lover story, as Ethan falls for his new roommate Rhett.
There's a sexual awakening involved for Ethan, as he's never felt this way about a guy before. Oh, how I love this trope. There's nothing better than getting to watch Ethan fall for a guy. And I appreciated the way Rhett handled everything.
And, ohhh...first time kisses!
This is an opposites attract story, as the two are night and day. Ethan's a geek/nerd to the core, while his new roommate is the jock type. Seriously, Ethan loves boo ties and lizards! Love it!
The writing is great, with two wonderfully developed characters. I enjoy everything they go through, and all the humor throughout.
Tapped by my Roommate is a totally feel good college romance. DJ Jamison delights throughout this sweet story.
April 5, 2022
OMG, how cute were Ethan and Rhett? Totally adorbs! And they just fit together so well. Ethan was shy and nerdy and Rhett was protective and sweet. They had amazing chemistry and I just loved how hot and sweet they were.
I adored Ethan's neighbor and Rhett's coworker. And I hated Ethan's ex and his study partner with a passion. I just hated how they took advantage of how nice Ethan was.
Nick J. Russo was the perfect choice to narrate this series. His voice sounds youthful enough to pass for college-aged guys, and he's just so talented at bringing the right kind of emotion to every single scene. Super recommendable!
I adored Ethan's neighbor and Rhett's coworker. And I hated Ethan's ex and his study partner with a passion. I just hated how they took advantage of how nice Ethan was.
Nick J. Russo was the perfect choice to narrate this series. His voice sounds youthful enough to pass for college-aged guys, and he's just so talented at bringing the right kind of emotion to every single scene. Super recommendable!
September 13, 2021
Alright it was cute. I had to finish out the series.
I ended up kind of liking Rhett and Ethan. I hated the whole idea of Ethan's list and how Rhett let that get in the way initially.
It was kind of funny how Ethan kind of associated Rhett as being super confident, when he clearly wasn't. He had a lot of his own issues. Like not wanting to admit his feelings for Ethan and being embarrassed about needing tutoring.
The story about getting the iguana back was a bit over dramatic, but funny.
Overall I enjoyed the book and the series.
I ended up kind of liking Rhett and Ethan. I hated the whole idea of Ethan's list and how Rhett let that get in the way initially.
It was kind of funny how Ethan kind of associated Rhett as being super confident, when he clearly wasn't. He had a lot of his own issues. Like not wanting to admit his feelings for Ethan and being embarrassed about needing tutoring.
The story about getting the iguana back was a bit over dramatic, but funny.
Overall I enjoyed the book and the series.
September 9, 2021
Tapped by My Roommate is the sweetest book yet in the Thrust Into Love Series! Whether you've read the first two books or not, you'll want to add this to your TBR ASAP!
Read my full review here: http://www.mmromancereviewed.com/2021...
I received an ARC to facilitate my review
Read my full review here: http://www.mmromancereviewed.com/2021...
I received an ARC to facilitate my review
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