This is the first ‘self help’ book I’ve ever read and I only even bothered with this one because it’s by Frankie Bridge, my favourite member of The Saturdays, who I have loved since I was a 7 year old kid watching her career begin as a 12 year old in S Club Juniors! But I’m so very glad I did pick this up because I now feel - despite being a huge fan of Frankie since the start of her career 19 years ago - that I now know her much better!
To the general public looking in at Frankie, she has the most perfect life - she’s been in two successful pop groups, is rich, is beautiful, has a loving husband, has two children, and has achieved many things that a lot of 31 year olds don’t necessarily achieve. But Frankie has always had a hidden battle with anxiety and depression that hospitalised her at the height of her fame, and has been suffering with them since she was a young child.
In this book, Frankie is very open (pardon the pun) and honest about her experiences with her mental health struggles in a way she’s never done so publicly before. At times it’s a hard read, especially if you’ve battled with mental health issues too like myself and many millions of people around the world, but on the whole it’s such an empowering and insightful read. Obviously it isn’t the font of all knowledge guidebook that will cure you of your anxiety/depression, and Frankie admits that herself. But she has learnt that talking about mental health actually helps you, and so she decided to share her story with us so that we too feel comfortable to discuss our own and get help like she did.
This book is kind of a memoir of sorts too in a way, not in the traditional autobiography sense that we’re used to celebrities releasing, but she does talk about her childhood, her career and her personal life in great detail. All the way through she speaks of memories and moments that gave great anxiety and caused her to have episodes, and that’s tough to read knowing that she always seemed so happy and smiley on the outside as a facade to hide what was going on inside her head. But that just goes to show that looks can be deceiving and even ‘happy’ people have hidden battles going on.
From a personal standpoint as a fan of Frankie and The Saturdays, I am extremely proud of the way that she has managed to open up and be so honest about her anxiety, depression, OCD and anorexia. She has used her platform to do so much good in regards to helping people seek help and also to talk about mental health. Frankie knows she is in a position where she can make a positive change on the stigma surrounding mental health, and I truly believe that if more celebrities were so honest about their own struggles, that the world wouldn’t necessarily be so judgemental on mental health issues.
So, Frankie, thank you for being so Open.
5/5