“It’s being here now that’s important. There’s no past and there’s no future... all there is ever, is the now. We can gain experience from the past, but we can’t relive it; and we can hope for the future, but we don’t know if there is one.” – George Harrison
Meditation has greatly benefited my life in recent years, though I still consider myself a newbie. This book, instead of focusing on meditation, explores how we can apply mindfulness in our everyday lives, through various activities, in order to be more present and live life to the fullest.
Unfortunately, the author spends too much time explaining what each chapter will cover rather than delivering the actual content. Perhaps, if she read her own book, she would spend less time dwelling on the future, and instead focus on the present. There are errors in the text too, which should’ve been picked up had the editor done their job more mindfully.
There is good content here though and information is nicely spread out. The short, sharp passages are easy to understand. But some content is mind-numbing common sense, like - “Prepare for meetings, interviews and presentations.” Really?
I found the ‘beginner’s mind’ section one of the best. It encouraged me to break routines and embrace new experiences, all while putting aside beliefs and conclusions arising from past events. Opening yourself up to new possibilities will always be a good thing.
“Beginner’s mind can transform the way you experience life. It makes life exciting and fresh, it keeps you young and eager to learn.”
The book also explores “worry time” – a concept that involves setting aside specific time in the day for “worry.” This is then followed by moving onto something that will distract and fully absorb oneself. The concept was introduced to me in a well-being course recently, so this information helped reinforce it.
Sections on forgiveness, acknowledgement and being non-judgemental towards thoughts, feelings, and people were helpful too. Ultimately, the book encourages you to be a better person and to contribute to society in a positive way.
“An old Arab proverb suggests three gates you should be able to pass through before you open your mouth to speak: Is it necessary? Is it kind? Is it true?”
One thing this book made me realise? My dog has it all figured out. I need to be more like my dog. When she plays, she’s not thinking about what happened yesterday, or what she’s doing later today. She’s totally absorbed in the moment. That’s just how she lives her life. It’s how I hope to live mine too, and since reading this, I feel like I'm on the right track.
“Mindfulness is a way of living your life so that you are in the present moment more often. It involves bringing your awareness back from the future or the past and into the present moment. You are not trying to get to a better place or to become a better person - you are already there.”