Shallow

by Jill Dasher

When I so desperately sought the approval of other people, it led me to live a life of chaos. I was literally like an infant being tossed around in a violent thunderstorm—or probably more like a hurricane. This way of living sent me down a path of destruction, thrown every which way in an attempt to “arrive” at Destination: “They Love Me” and trying to “be” whatever was required at that moment to be accepted. Holy moly, am I the only one? Giving the world an à la carte version of yourself will not lead to life. Instead, it will leave you with an unquenchable thirst for more, with your head on a perpetual swivel. I invite you on this journey with me beyond the shallow and into the deep__beyond the topics that are easy or socially accepted and into the deeper realm that begs to remain silent yet longs to be set free. Truly free. Journal your way to a life worth living.

203 pages, Hardcover

Published January 1, 2021

Reviews

[tia eaves · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was a good book! I feel like it took a while to get into, but the truths of this book are so prevalent in my life! Reading this really helped me to grasp the idea of letting go of the burdens of approval and validation. I learned a bit about how to acknowledge my flaws and bring them to the Lord before anyone else. Confession with a prayerful action was also noted, which I love. I thought this book was sincere and I loved hearing the author’s story!

[Trasa · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book comes from the authentic heart of Jill Dasher, who is married to my cousin Zach. I have known Jill for a long time, but didn't really know her until I read this book. She had a longing for the King of kings that comes across in this book, and she wants others to seek that relationship as well.

[Emily Adkins · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was so encouraging and convicting in the best way. It was helpful to hear Jill’s story and see how I could relate and reflect on ways that I need to integrate these ideas in my life in order to grow closer to God and become a better wife, mom and friend.

[Shanta · Rating 4 out of 5]

Refreshing and raw. Jill Dasher reveals how pursuing perfection did her no favors. True story of a homecoming queen who sets her sights on pleasing God instead of others. Nice read.