Key take-aways
- Everybody has different personalities and temperaments. Dilly Court has portrayed Patricia's temperament really well: she acts before she thinks, strong-minded, is perseverant, stubborn and selfish at times.
- Sometimes people choose to take the difficult route because they're on a quest to find their purpose in life. Patricia left her family comforts because she wanted to prove her worth in the world. She didn't want to be defined by her past and took it upon herself to find the means to her happiness. One could also call this foolishness as Patricia ignored all sound advice but she would never have changed and become a better person otherwise.
- Healthy love starts with being true to yourself. If you can give yourself what you need, then you can give someone else what they need. Leo promised himself he wouldn't "work for others". He wasn't going to manage Patricia's brother's business just so he could move to the countryside to be with Patricia. He was being true to himself because he knew what he needed for the success and contentment of his own life.
- True love means to nourish the other. One may give up the chance to be with the person they love if they know it would cause the person more harm than good. Leo knew that Patricia wouldn't be happy to live "a hand-to-mouth existence in London" having been brought up as a Lady with servants and maids waiting upon her, for most of her life. However, Leo advised Patricia well when she was at a disadvantage in her life when he could have easily persuaded her to stay with him and she would have. Leo also did everything in his power to save Patricia from all harm as well as those she loved.