Found a free copy by adding a request to a search engine ( I use Brave and Duck Duck Go) of the author Thomas Kempis with the title, Humility. A free PDF is offered in a few links. Then, add to Speechify with a narrator that’s vintage UK dialect.
With Speechify can choose different languages, dialects, etc. For out of print older books enjoy the white bearded “Narrator” as he’s titled.
You can find many books this way. Archive.org is another resource.
This might not be a good read for someone who is not accustomed to or does not like language that is different from our modern vernacular.
Thomas Kempis was a spiritual man who lived a holy life many hundreds of years ago. This is why I like the man’s voice or an older dude from the UK.
What I enjoy about his work is the thoughtful countenance of Christ and how it relates to being wholly holy and humility in and of itself is a journey of grace, becoming, practice, and progressive sanctification.
This topic though brief in this short book carries a lifetime of experiences. Worth reading more than once. Employing a lesson and rereading for another installment of practice.
God is with me and you. Even for those who do not believe this is so or society has convinced by way of politics or religious conventions … He is. And, practicing ways to be more for oneself bleeds over to more for others. This activates the connection to the spiritual energy that supports a relationship with others and can, with God, too.
Humility is a great place to begin the journey of self discovery. Keep in mind Kempis is directing this walk with God. Though when principle is applied will work regardless of one’s beliefs.
Reflecting on the first time God showed me humility is a forte in 2004 while on a discovery of applying scripture to action. Asking open ended questions in prayer. Waiting on God for a reply.
Someone yelled at me and hung up the phone. When I asked God was there something I could have done differently. Could I improve my approach. Remember hearing a program on the radio the next day that gave me the answer. So, moving forward I have ever since made certain to share a concern without it sounding like a criticism.
I remember thinking, oh, this is what humility is. Was grateful for the lesson.
The person was feeling sensitive and misunderstood me. An apology and hearing them out is always a great way to resolve my part. Though the other persons unadulting choice to react as they did helped me in not engaging with them on more personal matters moving forward.
The next thing that came up was me asking, why did I find their behavior silly. I felt it was not okay to make light of their obvious turmoiled spirit. Not to demean their response. But their reaction was over the top. Like to the moon inappropriate.
God being a humorist replied, in the spirit I was like a big Italian guido from NY.
Meaning’ (slang, US) Italian-American male; an American male of Italian extraction as a member of the working-class’
Standing between you and him. Saying to the guy, “you talkin’ to me? (Deep Italian NYC dialect) ‘Cause I know you’re not talkin’ to my wife like that.” 😆
Given I was single and obedient to godly principles felt protected and loved by Him in that moment. Having this is why the person hung up perhaps. They were not getting an argument or yelling from me in reply.
If anything, until God helped me understand what my part was and how to do a better job in the future would not have figured out their problem.
Moments we have conflict from someone are great opportunities to self reflect. Show up different. The other person may not always know how to communicate their need or be someone who cares to behave in a mature way.
If we are humble can show grace. This can be a step for the other person. Like, in marriage grace and humility can heal a lot of wounds we bring to the relationship that show up. With the love of God and the other persons ability to demonstrate humility and deep listening would resolve a lot of struggles.
Decades later, learned my Great Great Grandpa is first generation born in America is born of Italian parents who migrated here. Maybe it was this God used to make me laugh many years into the future while writing this review with a personal example. My descendants sticking up for me from a heavenly visit.
I realize people do not believe God communicates. My countless stories and testimonies tell me he does with me.
It is like any relationship. Learning how to communicate and create dialogue is different in every connection.
In contemplative prayer and sincere seeking have learned how my actions activate the connection and my sincere heart grounded in faith accesses what I call direct dial.
Penny, someone I worked for many years ago, asked me how I hear from God. Upon sharing examples she said, “I think you hear from God the way you do because sometimes He’s all you’ve had”.
Maybe so. This statement is sad and joyous at once. For Him to be all I have had at times means being deprived of things that do not bear mention.
To learn great joy to balance the scale can mean deep loss.
Anyway, hope this share encourages you regardless of your station in life or beliefs. Humility is a quality that benefits ourselves, our families, friends, coworkers, community, and the world.
If we want more peace we must be grounded in peace. If we wish others to be more thoughtful we must emit humility and thoughtfulness.
It is not about being the bigger person when moments like the one where someone yelled at me had me look inside at my roll, if any. But it is an opportunity for us to become our best.
If we have no humility and stumble we will create unnecessary drama. If we host a humble heart this opens the door to being a bridge for those who may struggle and erupt. Such was the case and it was up to me to make a mends and seek a thoughtful effort of self improvement. To be a better person for others and myself.
Often it is not the misunderstanding that is the problem. It is our personal accountability. Even if we did zero wrong, our countenance with humility can help us help ourselves and those who struggle.
Christ is this for me. The Holy Spirit is the guidepost that holds my heart, so to speak.
It is my hope this type of review does not repel someone of different beliefs or view. Please take what you need. Leave what you do not. Carry the ideas in case they become useful at some point.
Life is full of happenstances ways of being more humble never lose momentum or usefulness.
And, now, in the words of Paul Harvey, you know the rest of the story … why engaging in grounded words of wisdom on humility keeps my practice in check. And why I picked this short book to explore how it is going.
Hope you are having a pleasant spring where ever you are in the world.
Kind regards, Patience 😊❤️