Someone had to tell you everything you ever needed to know about men but were afraid to ask.
Be Less Dickish is a detailed and introspective look into the behavior of the aggressive asshole, the submissive pussy, the imitative douchebag and the victimized dick. David Coates and Corey Kilpack reveal how and why these men do what they do.
Be Less Dickish is for everyone. Understanding these archetypes gives insight into the men we know and into ourselves. The book follows four main characters through their calamity and their evolution. You will be with them in the wild as they trip, fall, then step up and go again. They break down, they confront the chaos of their lives in therapy, they fall apart, and they find their way.
Be Less Dickish provides a simple strategy for dealing with triggers in less extreme ways. The TRACE method described in the book transforms behaviors.
Brace yourself and beware. This book is raw. It is real. It is profound. This is an engaging, confronting, and necessary exploration of our motivations and habits. We can all do better. We can be less dickish, and be less of an asshole, douchebag and pussy too.
Be Less Dickish is hilarious. It is serious. It will make you laugh and it may make you cry. It will help you see yourself and understand others.
Full disclosure- I knew one of the authors from many moons ago in High School. However, this does not affect my review. If I had not liked it I would have left it unstarred. Since I did like it I'm giving it the rating is deserves unbiased.
This is a self help sort of book about men and 4 of the ways they can spin out when triggered. It oversimplifies to make it easy and accessible. I enjoyed the "characters" based on a conglomeration of past clients to also help explain what these type of behaviors look like in real time. Basically, we all have the capacity to react to triggers in negative and not helpful ways. This explores the 4 main ways that men react when triggered. It then discusses how to overcome the maladaptive behaviors and replace with healthier options.
As a female I found this interesting even though it wasn't directed at women per se. I was able to recognize men I have known in the examples. I also thought that the way to overcome negative reactions is a tool that is useful to men and women. Overall I thought it was a helpful book.