“Though mindfulness is in some ways a good place to start, its often not an easy one, especially initially , because the mind is so active and we have never learned how to properly relax it. For many, relaxing means maybe having a beer, or watching TV , or doing something else ‘to take your minds off things’, where ’things’ refers to your issues, problems, stress, unfilled desires and worries . These activities don’t relax the mind though, it just takes your attention off all the thoughts racing through your head , giving you a break from all the noise. So here mindfulness is doing the opposite : it is making you more acutely aware of all the noise- something which, for many, can be quite difficult to confront”
Till now I used to think that relaxing , watching TV , going to the cinema , having a conversation with friends is energising me, but when I reflected upon my past experiences, I realised that these in some way may appear to make me happy but they actually drain our energy. After talking to a friend on the phone for two hours the mind is actually tired! But this notion got unveiled after reading the book. Till now I thought that mindfulness and meditation are the same but according to this paragraph it seems they are not! I mean it’s such an eye-opener ! This book is not just a book but it brings with itself the whole knowledge of the art of being blissful!