Moms Moving On: Real-Life Advice on Conquering Divorce, Co-Parenting Through Conflict, and Becoming Your Best Self

by Michelle Dempsey-Multack MS CDS

Trust your gut, take care of yourself, and find new life on the other side with this “straightforward” (Ilene S. Cohen, PhD, award-winning author of When It’s Never About You), empowering guide to divorce for moms. We hear it all the time on the news. The divorce rates are rising. More children are being raised in split homes. But you didn’t think it would happen to you. Luckily, you’re not alone. Popular divorce coach Michelle Dempsey-Multack not only survived her own divorce but figured out how to move on with her life, just like you will, too. Now happily remarried with a blended family, she’s living proof that no matter which “firsts” you might be experiencing as you end your marriage, and no matter how long you stayed with someone who didn’t meet your needs, your best days are ahead. Mom’s Moving On is your “go-to guide” (Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, psychologist and author of Light on the Other Side of Divorce), filled with practical, actionable, and empowering advice from someone who has been through it and has come out the other side. Through Michelle’s guidance, you’ll learn how to navigate your divorce with confidence, adjust to life as a single mother, and shift your perspective to find your way back to your best self. From coparenting to dating as a single mother, you’ll learn how to truly move on and create the life you deserve.

Genres: Parenting, Self Help, Nonfiction, Divorce, Audiobook

271 pages, Kindle Edition

Published March 15, 2022

Reviews

[Sandra Pahulu · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great read! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Love Michelle Dempsey-Multack’s podcast and her book did not disappoint. Have a feeling I’ll be re-reading certain sections of her book again. I haven’t journaled since I was in HS but feel inspired to start again with her end of chapter journal prompts and the list of 50 journal prompts on pages 245-247.

[Heather Morihara · Rating 2 out of 5]

I did not find this particularly helpful

[Kerry · Rating 4 out of 5]

I found out all out this book from Michelle’s podcast which I very much enjoy and highly recommend. I’ve largely been going through my divorce on my own with just a select few friends who are in the know due to the traumatic stress of my situation. I really enjoyed this book, felt it was an easy read with lots of great and relatable advice.

There were only a few parts that did not relate well to my particular experience but I’m glad Michelle has not been through what I have been through. Trauma is not really a part of this book so trauma recovery was not covered. To be Frank, Michelle never advertises that this book will help with that so no complaints from me.

I have not done the journal prompts yet as I enjoyed the book so much I did not want to take time away from reading it to write, however I do agree with her that journaling is the best way through. I do take more time to journal since I started this book and I do thank Michelle for her words and experience. What a bright light in such a dark time.

[Julia · Rating 5 out of 5]

I wish I would have had this book four years ago, before going through my divorce. Most think that once you leave your spouse, the easy part is over. But, the after separation abuse is worse than the divorce. There are times I almost regret leaving, just because of what I have to deal with daily. Michelle's words make you feel like you are sitting on the couch, in your jammies, sharing a glass of wine and talking with your best friend. Most do not understand what the process of getting to the other side of a divorce, and it is refreshing to see Michelle tell it like it is. She gives readers hope that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and in the end, you will be okay.

Thank you for NetGalley for providing a free copy of this book for my review.

[Jess · Rating 5 out of 5]

A must read for anyone going through divorce or thinking about it.

Michelle gives step by step advice for nearly every aspect of divorce including what to do in the early days all the way up to co-parenting and dating post divorce. Her words make you feel like she’s with you every step of the way.

I especially love the journal prompts that really engage anyone reading.

If a friend, family member or co-worker announces they’re getting a divorce and you don’t know what to say or do, I highly recommend getting them a copy!

[Renée · Rating 5 out of 5]

I can't express how much I needed this, in this moment of my life. It spoke to me and also made me look at things a different way. I have sticky notes all through it to reflect when I need to. It also made me think of other things that need action and what comes next with co parenting. Everything happens for a reason and not being with the person I had a child with doesn't mean my life ends there. It's only the beginning of something greater.

[Jess Evans · Rating 5 out of 5]

Moms Moving On by Michelle Dempsey-Multack is more than a book it's a lifeline for any parent navigating divorce.

This book made me feel less alone and truly "got" what I was going through. Michelle’s wisdom helped me feel validated and empowered.

If you are contemplating, enduring, or recovering from divorce, you need this book. It’s an essential guide and a constant reminder that you have the strength to rebuild your life and create a future you're proud of.

[Sose Jabourian · Rating 5 out of 5]

As a doctoral student in early childhood education, my research focuses on how conflict affects children, and this book offered valuable perspectives on how coparenting can either mitigate or exacerbate those effects. The author does an excellent job of illustrating these dynamics through relatable examples, providing guidance that families and professionals alike can use to foster healthier relationships and create a more supportive environment for children!

[Kitty · Rating 1 out of 5]

A little tough to take relationship advice about moving on from someone who was divorced after a 3 year marriage -- it barely had begun-- and was already remarried a couple years later.
Although parts of the book at the female empowerment "yay you!" message, it was all over the place and she hardly felt like an expert to be giving advice.

[Caitlin Snyder · Rating 3 out of 5]

A helpful and practical book. Michelle brought up some good points and things I hadn’t thought about before. I enjoyed the journal prompts at the end of every chapter and will definitely be utilizing them.

[Mary · Rating 4 out of 5]

I wish this book existed whenever I went through my divorce years ago. While not everything in the book applied to me, I know this would be a great guide to any woman who is going through a divorce and becoming a brand new single mom.

[Erin · Rating 3 out of 5]

This one had been on my list for a long while. Nothing here was especially new, but it was all good. (I would have benefitted from from it five years ago.) I still took several notes and appreciate the journaling suggestions a lot.

[Linda Fruits · Rating 5 out of 5]

If you’re thinking of purchasing this book, this is your sign. Buy it. It’s full of helpful knowledge and uplifting advice!

[Julie · Rating 3 out of 5]

Better as a podcast

[Sandra England · Rating 5 out of 5]

highly recommend for anyone going through a divorce or had gone through a divorce with someone who is intimidating and emotionally abusive.

[Megan · Rating 5 out of 5]

I wish I didn’t need this book…but SO GLAD I have it.

[Julie · Rating 5 out of 5]

Should you ever unfortunately find yourself as a single mother leaving a marriage, this is required reading

[Tracy · Rating 4 out of 5]

I truly felt seen in this book. It's an easy read and great advice on navigating post-divorce co-parenting life.

[Rose Wolzen · Rating 5 out of 5]

So helpful while processing through my divorce. Most helpful advice…. Let go of everything you’re trying to control.

[Kristen · Rating 2 out of 5]

Meh. Very quippy. A bit on the rah-rah side for me. It’s written for women *in* the divorce process. It also feels very type A.

[Katherine Zost · Rating 4 out of 5]

Informational, funny, and a modern day guide to moving on and what that entails for Moms today.

[Jennie Bak · Rating 4 out of 5]

Surprisingly good! I didn’t have the highest expectations, but found this book super uplifting even when not everything totally applied to my life. A great, simple, engaging guide.

[Alyson Fair · Rating 3 out of 5]

Excellent book but geared towards those who are just starting out on the separation/divorce journey. I couldn’t relate as I had gone through most already.

[Danielle Phillips · Rating 3 out of 5]

This was alright. The journal prompts were probably the best part of the book.
I did like the stories she told. I’m glad she found happiness again.

[Lisa · Rating 4 out of 5]

One scoop humor, two scoops wisdom. Excellent recipe for a divorcee mom.

[Nicole Neiman · Rating 4 out of 5]

After listening to Michelle’s podcast and viewing her Instagram feverishly for months, I was so happy to finally have her book also. It’s very much in the same tune of her podcast. It felt like a friend talking sense into you during the most irrational and emotionally draining time of life. While a lot of the information felt familiar because of her other platforms, I still felt like this was a much needed resource in addition to those. They were all the words I maybe knew, but needed to hear. If you are going through a divorce as a single mom, look no further.