This is a challenging review to write since I experienced nearly all of this book’s content directly as it was being written and as I was living and managing through the events described.
Let me attempt it anyway.
Melissa and Jonathan Nightingale are cofounders of Raw Signal Group, a company that builds better bosses. I subscribe to their newsletter, a year of which is captured in this book. When the editions were coming out, I was a VP in a tech company at the time and caring for young children. During that year, our home became our everything: hotel, restaurant, hair cutting salon, workplace, gaming studio, writing retreat, and play room.
It was a lot.
I found the original newsletters (now chapters in this book) so timely: they nearly always touched the thing I was sensing and not yet articulating for myself. Work issue clairvoyance isn’t taught in any MBA program I know of, but the Nightingales possess it in spades. Waiting for each edition to arrive every other Wednesday morning became part of my weekly ritual. I can say honestly that it was a lifeline.
Reading the essays now, some nearly two years later, is an exercise in bizarre reflection. We’ve been in and out of lockdown three times. My kids are back at school. My husband commutes in person to his same workplace two to three times a week. I’m the only one still working from home, in a completely different context. We are vaccinated, but the world and we are not the same.
A lot of Unmanageable’s commentary about hybrid workplaces, the great resignation, equality and social justice rings as true in 2022 as it did in 2020/2021. At the same time, we’re collectively no closer to resolution on many topics the book discusses. There were many times during my re-read when I frowned in disappointment, aware of the hope I felt during that first year that everything would be clear or “normal” by now.
So, should you read this book?
Unmanageable isn’t as universal in its context as How F*cked Up Is Your Management?, the authors’ first book about how to be a better boss. If you’re looking for an introduction to RSG or a primer on bossing in general, that book is probably a better place to start.
At the same time, Unmanageable’s on the ground look into how work and bossing changed week-by-week gives as good an explanation for how work shifted, and how we got to where we are now, as you are likely to find.
I imagine it will be invaluable to new managers wanting to understand how the ground rules have changed and (someday) to historians wanting to know what this nightmare was like for middle management everywhere.