The Wisdom of Guncles

by Michael Dumlao

Are you the black sheep in your family who chafes at traditions and seeks examples of how to redefine them? The Wisdom of Guncles is about queer people and their relationship with family — however they choose to define it. Featuring a diverse pantheon of gay uncles (“guncles”) and other queer mentors, their stories offer unique perspectives about life, love, and personal empowerment.With each chapter, Dumlao examines what various LGBTQ+ experiences teach about disrupting norms, exploring identity, and creating chosen families that affirm one’s truth. Readers will ponder questions such do I challenge and change traditions that hide those that are different? If I choose to never dim my light, will I become a beacon for others lost in the dark?How will recovering past stories and unsung heroes help us create a better future? How can I leave a space more welcoming that how I found it?The Wisdom of Guncles shares ten powerful journeys, each bearing knowledge honed through struggle and triumph, on living with audacious authenticity and compassion. While these narratives are unapologetically queer, they hold universal lessons about the human condition that, like all stories about family, are grounded in love.

Genres: LGBT

192 pages, Kindle Edition

Published August 23, 2021

Reviews

[Analese · Rating 5 out of 5]

A great collection of heartfelt, sweet, vulnerable stories from the gay uncles (guncles) we all need/want!

[Chris · Rating 1 out of 5]

I expected this book to be full of stories and sage advice from septuagenarian gay men that have been mentors, caretakers, and full-time fixtures in the day-to-day lives of their nieces and nephews. Most of the stories in this book feature people of the LGBTQ+ community that are younger than me, and who just so happen to have nieces and nephews.

[Alanna · Rating 5 out of 5]

I so enjoyed reading this book and appreciated all the insights and stories shared. I loved how Michael formatted the book and I loved Michael’s thoughtful interview and storytelling approach. I am highly recommending this book to family and friends!