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Homelands: The History of a Friendship
This book is about two unlikely friends. One born in 1970s Britain to Indian immigrant parents, the other arrived from Nazi Germany in 1939, fleeing persecution.
This book is about common ground. It is a story of migration, anti-Semitism, racism, family, belonging, grief and resilience.
This book is about the past and the present. It is about the state we're in now and the ways in which we carry our pasts into our futures.
This book is about homelands.
This book is about common ground. It is a story of migration, anti-Semitism, racism, family, belonging, grief and resilience.
This book is about the past and the present. It is about the state we're in now and the ways in which we carry our pasts into our futures.
This book is about homelands.
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Published April 7, 2022
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September 30, 2023
My thanks to Canongate Books for a review copy of this book via NetGalley.
Powerful, poignant and beautifully written, Homelands (2023) by Chitra Ramaswamy is part biography, part memoir, also a story of friendship in a sense which explores themes of belonging and identity, home and family and much much more. Although separated in age by five decades, when the author (also a journalist) Chitra Ramaswamy is assigned a story on an elderly Jewish couple, Henry and Ingrid Wuga who had first arrived in Britan in 1939 as part of the Kindertransportees, a friendship immediately develops between the two, one that translates into many conversations and visits, as the two and soon their families bond in part over the thing that ties them, the immigrant experience. Eventually these conversations, the sharing of stories and experiences and along with them the developments in their lives in the present weave together and start forming into a book—the one we are reading. (There is an interesting ‘breaking the fourth wall’ moment with the book being written and coming together inside itself!)
The book can perhaps be described as set essentially around Chitra (whose parents emigrated to England in the 1960s) and Henry, but as is obvious no life is ‘independent’, rather it is tied with many others (family, friends, parents, partners, children, neighbours) and so all of their stories intertwined as they are or become, are what we read. Going back and forth in time, between present, past, recent past, in various vignettes we visit little episodes, small snatches of memory, moments, each bringing with it a gamut of experiences and emotions, and all of which together in their way form a story or several intertwined ones.
Born in Nuremberg to a Jewish mother and Austrian (non-Jewish father), the rising power of Hitler’s party and the increasing violations and dehumanisation of the Jewish community being witnessed every day, means his family tries to send Henry to safety taking advantage of the Kindertransportee programme, which is not the generous venture it is made out to be by the English government—children sent must have some sort of sponsor or one has to be found for the government is willing to bear no expense (besides other conditions as you can imagine). While Henry’s (who luckily does have a sponsor) arrival and initial time in England is comfortable, his correspondence with his family in Germany (even though he is only 15 years old at this time) marks him for the government as ‘dangerous’ and once he turns 16, he finds himself transported from one interment facility to another—some reasonably bearable (pleasant even), others torturous in their conditions and attitudes, essentially a situation Hannah Arendt’s words, which Ramaswamy quotes aptly describe:
… history has created ‘a new kind of human beings—the kind that are put in concentration camps by their foes and internment camps by their friends’.
Ultimately freed, narrowly escaping terrible fates (whether the SS Arandora Star on which he well might have landed, or denial of naturalisation—the latter he learns many years later), Henry falls in love, continues his training as a chef (begun in Germany by the foresight of his mother who knew that he would have to be trained to do something given the circumstances) and goes on to build a successful career and life over the decades that follow. While he may be seen as having ‘escaped’ what lay before him in Germany, his life is by no means easy, with various hardships and challenges from the internment camps to later those of language and identity, decisions which illustrate how lived experiences can’t all be black and white, and contributing to advocacy and awareness as Holocaust educators, sharing their stories and experiences as Kindertransportees and as refugees with others who might be unaware or have their own experiences and much more. Reading Henry’s story as he tells Chitra and as she further explores through documents, his lectures, and much else, one can’t but admire and be in awe—not only that after being though so much, how Henry (and indeed Ingrid) managed to do so much (they were active skiers and ski instructors till their late 80s, and Henry was at least lecturing well into his 90s. While Ingrid sadly passed in 2020 aged 96 [she could still thread a needle till a few years earlier], Henry is still with us at 99), but also from the hope that they kept up all through. He has been though much, and yet when he narrates it, he seems to take it far better than any of us ever would.
In fact even reading it, especially of the fates of his family and others (neighbours, people they knew) in Germany, one can’t but be heartbroken (and very angry), and still unable to process how humans can knowingly, intentionally (and clearly sadistically) do what they did, and continue to do so. While we don’t go into terrible detail, it cannot but wrench one’s heart and bring out all emotion.
Alongside is the author’s own story—life as a second-generation immigrant with her own experiences of belonging, racism, her partner and children, the story of her parents, relationship with her family as also loss and grief (another that she and Henry share).
Homelands is of course these personal stories, but interwoven in them are also issues of history, of government and politics—the appalling (yet unsurprising) lack of humanity exhibited and which continues to be so and its counterpart of sorts in society or amongst the general popular in racist and like attitudes.
In telling these stories, the author is not simply conveying fact but emotion, and does this both in her own case and that of Henry by describing the moments in all their dimensions—whether the flowers she is looking on at when told bad news, or the smell and taste of food her mother created, or in Henry’s listening to the music that he speaks of having enjoyed or the scents that he associates with specific moments or people.
Just earlier in the week I was reading a review by Susan at A Life in Books where she described an unusual set of acknowledgements in the volume she reviewed. In this one interestingly was an unusual bibliography, since not only does the author list the different volumes (also audio, film and journalistic sources) that have inspired her and that she had relied on, but also describes what she got from each—not content as much as approaches, literary devices, techniques, ways of being and much else. These range from W.G. Sebald who forms a pivot of sorts for the narrative to Hannah Arendt, Deborah Levy, Walter Benjamin, Susan Sontag and many others.
Deeply felt and emotional, with moments heart-wrenching and despairing, but also plenty of warmth, love, joy and friendship, this is an account that mightn’t fall within neat categories but is an excellent one to delve into, which will lead to many thoughts and touch many chords.
Powerful, poignant and beautifully written, Homelands (2023) by Chitra Ramaswamy is part biography, part memoir, also a story of friendship in a sense which explores themes of belonging and identity, home and family and much much more. Although separated in age by five decades, when the author (also a journalist) Chitra Ramaswamy is assigned a story on an elderly Jewish couple, Henry and Ingrid Wuga who had first arrived in Britan in 1939 as part of the Kindertransportees, a friendship immediately develops between the two, one that translates into many conversations and visits, as the two and soon their families bond in part over the thing that ties them, the immigrant experience. Eventually these conversations, the sharing of stories and experiences and along with them the developments in their lives in the present weave together and start forming into a book—the one we are reading. (There is an interesting ‘breaking the fourth wall’ moment with the book being written and coming together inside itself!)
The book can perhaps be described as set essentially around Chitra (whose parents emigrated to England in the 1960s) and Henry, but as is obvious no life is ‘independent’, rather it is tied with many others (family, friends, parents, partners, children, neighbours) and so all of their stories intertwined as they are or become, are what we read. Going back and forth in time, between present, past, recent past, in various vignettes we visit little episodes, small snatches of memory, moments, each bringing with it a gamut of experiences and emotions, and all of which together in their way form a story or several intertwined ones.
Born in Nuremberg to a Jewish mother and Austrian (non-Jewish father), the rising power of Hitler’s party and the increasing violations and dehumanisation of the Jewish community being witnessed every day, means his family tries to send Henry to safety taking advantage of the Kindertransportee programme, which is not the generous venture it is made out to be by the English government—children sent must have some sort of sponsor or one has to be found for the government is willing to bear no expense (besides other conditions as you can imagine). While Henry’s (who luckily does have a sponsor) arrival and initial time in England is comfortable, his correspondence with his family in Germany (even though he is only 15 years old at this time) marks him for the government as ‘dangerous’ and once he turns 16, he finds himself transported from one interment facility to another—some reasonably bearable (pleasant even), others torturous in their conditions and attitudes, essentially a situation Hannah Arendt’s words, which Ramaswamy quotes aptly describe:
… history has created ‘a new kind of human beings—the kind that are put in concentration camps by their foes and internment camps by their friends’.
Ultimately freed, narrowly escaping terrible fates (whether the SS Arandora Star on which he well might have landed, or denial of naturalisation—the latter he learns many years later), Henry falls in love, continues his training as a chef (begun in Germany by the foresight of his mother who knew that he would have to be trained to do something given the circumstances) and goes on to build a successful career and life over the decades that follow. While he may be seen as having ‘escaped’ what lay before him in Germany, his life is by no means easy, with various hardships and challenges from the internment camps to later those of language and identity, decisions which illustrate how lived experiences can’t all be black and white, and contributing to advocacy and awareness as Holocaust educators, sharing their stories and experiences as Kindertransportees and as refugees with others who might be unaware or have their own experiences and much more. Reading Henry’s story as he tells Chitra and as she further explores through documents, his lectures, and much else, one can’t but admire and be in awe—not only that after being though so much, how Henry (and indeed Ingrid) managed to do so much (they were active skiers and ski instructors till their late 80s, and Henry was at least lecturing well into his 90s. While Ingrid sadly passed in 2020 aged 96 [she could still thread a needle till a few years earlier], Henry is still with us at 99), but also from the hope that they kept up all through. He has been though much, and yet when he narrates it, he seems to take it far better than any of us ever would.
In fact even reading it, especially of the fates of his family and others (neighbours, people they knew) in Germany, one can’t but be heartbroken (and very angry), and still unable to process how humans can knowingly, intentionally (and clearly sadistically) do what they did, and continue to do so. While we don’t go into terrible detail, it cannot but wrench one’s heart and bring out all emotion.
Alongside is the author’s own story—life as a second-generation immigrant with her own experiences of belonging, racism, her partner and children, the story of her parents, relationship with her family as also loss and grief (another that she and Henry share).
Homelands is of course these personal stories, but interwoven in them are also issues of history, of government and politics—the appalling (yet unsurprising) lack of humanity exhibited and which continues to be so and its counterpart of sorts in society or amongst the general popular in racist and like attitudes.
In telling these stories, the author is not simply conveying fact but emotion, and does this both in her own case and that of Henry by describing the moments in all their dimensions—whether the flowers she is looking on at when told bad news, or the smell and taste of food her mother created, or in Henry’s listening to the music that he speaks of having enjoyed or the scents that he associates with specific moments or people.
Just earlier in the week I was reading a review by Susan at A Life in Books where she described an unusual set of acknowledgements in the volume she reviewed. In this one interestingly was an unusual bibliography, since not only does the author list the different volumes (also audio, film and journalistic sources) that have inspired her and that she had relied on, but also describes what she got from each—not content as much as approaches, literary devices, techniques, ways of being and much else. These range from W.G. Sebald who forms a pivot of sorts for the narrative to Hannah Arendt, Deborah Levy, Walter Benjamin, Susan Sontag and many others.
Deeply felt and emotional, with moments heart-wrenching and despairing, but also plenty of warmth, love, joy and friendship, this is an account that mightn’t fall within neat categories but is an excellent one to delve into, which will lead to many thoughts and touch many chords.
December 30, 2023
I started reading this memoir around the same time I was delving into W.G. Sebald's Austerlitz, and in some ways, this memoir is quite Sebaldian. Like Sebald, Chitra also employs numerous photographs to recount her life story and that of Heinz Martin Wuga, referred to throughout the story by his British name, Henry. Unlike those of Sebald though, the photographs featured in this book are intensely personal. We immediately recognise them as belonging to Chitra and Henry, two unlikely friends from different generations, whom Chitra describes as having Henry akin to having an adoptive grandparent.
There are two layers of stories in this memoir – Chitra’s own narrative of growing up as a child of Indian migrants in 1980s Britain, and the story of Henry, whose tale bears an uncanny resemblance to Austerlitz in many ways. Heinz Martin Wuga was born to a Jewish mother and a gentile father in Nuremberg in 1924. He went to local schools until the age of 10, after which he was forced to move to a Jewish school due to the Nuremberg laws which prohibited him from going to the same schools as “Aryans”. Fearing the growing persecution and anti-semitism in Nazi Germany, in May 1938, his parents managed to send him to Britain with a Kindertransport (Children’s Transport) to Scotland.
In June 1940, Winston Churchill, then British Prime Minister, ordered the internment of all male refugees aged 16 to 70 from enemy countries – the so-called “friendly enemy aliens", which included Henry. The policy of internment was fuelled by panic and anxiety over the handling of German-speaking people in Britain during wartime. The absurdity of the situation, where someone fleeing persecution in Nazi Germany ended up being interned as a “friendly enemy alien” in Britain, is best described by Hannah Arendt in her essay We Refugees, where she notes that 'contemporary history has created a new kind of human beings—the kind that are put in concentration camps by their foes and in internment camps by their friends'.
Unlike Austerlitz, who has no memories of his life before being transported to Britain, Henry Wuga was 15 and had already come of age by the time the Second World War began. In this way, Chitra’s recount of Henry’s story adds depth to what Austerlitz experiences, bringing to light the often-overlooked facts of painful memories of the Kindertransportees. Nearly all the internees under Churchill’s policy were refugees who had escaped persecution in Nazi Germany, and the majority of them were Jewish. Churchill’s policy later sparked debates in the British Parliament, questioning the morality of interning refugees who had escaped persecution, to which the Parliament overwhelmingly voted for their release.
Whilst highlighting the difficulties experienced by Kindertransportees, this memoir also delves into the experiences of migrants and what they had to face to become full-fledged citizens of their adoptive country. Both Chitra and Henry are British citizens, and their lives in Britain are marked by the process of assimilation. Chitra, on her part, could not speak Kannada, the mother tongue of her mother, who originally came from the outskirts of Bangalore in India. Meanwhile, Henry and his wife, Ingrid – herself a Kindertransportee – consistently communicate in English, despite having German as their mother tongue, reflecting their commitment to embrace their British identity. Their journey of embracing their British identity also prompts reflection on what it means to belong. On the question of belonging, Chitra concludes that 'belonging lies in the search' and 'disorientation is the true birthplace of millions of us'.
There are two layers of stories in this memoir – Chitra’s own narrative of growing up as a child of Indian migrants in 1980s Britain, and the story of Henry, whose tale bears an uncanny resemblance to Austerlitz in many ways. Heinz Martin Wuga was born to a Jewish mother and a gentile father in Nuremberg in 1924. He went to local schools until the age of 10, after which he was forced to move to a Jewish school due to the Nuremberg laws which prohibited him from going to the same schools as “Aryans”. Fearing the growing persecution and anti-semitism in Nazi Germany, in May 1938, his parents managed to send him to Britain with a Kindertransport (Children’s Transport) to Scotland.
In June 1940, Winston Churchill, then British Prime Minister, ordered the internment of all male refugees aged 16 to 70 from enemy countries – the so-called “friendly enemy aliens", which included Henry. The policy of internment was fuelled by panic and anxiety over the handling of German-speaking people in Britain during wartime. The absurdity of the situation, where someone fleeing persecution in Nazi Germany ended up being interned as a “friendly enemy alien” in Britain, is best described by Hannah Arendt in her essay We Refugees, where she notes that 'contemporary history has created a new kind of human beings—the kind that are put in concentration camps by their foes and in internment camps by their friends'.
Unlike Austerlitz, who has no memories of his life before being transported to Britain, Henry Wuga was 15 and had already come of age by the time the Second World War began. In this way, Chitra’s recount of Henry’s story adds depth to what Austerlitz experiences, bringing to light the often-overlooked facts of painful memories of the Kindertransportees. Nearly all the internees under Churchill’s policy were refugees who had escaped persecution in Nazi Germany, and the majority of them were Jewish. Churchill’s policy later sparked debates in the British Parliament, questioning the morality of interning refugees who had escaped persecution, to which the Parliament overwhelmingly voted for their release.
Whilst highlighting the difficulties experienced by Kindertransportees, this memoir also delves into the experiences of migrants and what they had to face to become full-fledged citizens of their adoptive country. Both Chitra and Henry are British citizens, and their lives in Britain are marked by the process of assimilation. Chitra, on her part, could not speak Kannada, the mother tongue of her mother, who originally came from the outskirts of Bangalore in India. Meanwhile, Henry and his wife, Ingrid – herself a Kindertransportee – consistently communicate in English, despite having German as their mother tongue, reflecting their commitment to embrace their British identity. Their journey of embracing their British identity also prompts reflection on what it means to belong. On the question of belonging, Chitra concludes that 'belonging lies in the search' and 'disorientation is the true birthplace of millions of us'.
July 21, 2023
Beautiful, poignant, heartbreaking and loving.
Never have I read a non-fiction book with such grace and flow. The parallel between these two lives, and the way they flow into one another is truly amazing to read about.
As well as telling the story of Henry and Ingrid as German Jewish refugees and Chitra the daughter of Indian immigrants, this also feels like a dedication of love to the places that have touched their lives: predominantly Glasgow and London.
I feel like this is a book that everyone should read - the way the history is told is not overwhelming, almost as if you are watching it all in a dream-like state. Also, it’s a reminder of how the past should still be affecting us now, and making us learn lessons from it.
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Never have I read a non-fiction book with such grace and flow. The parallel between these two lives, and the way they flow into one another is truly amazing to read about.
As well as telling the story of Henry and Ingrid as German Jewish refugees and Chitra the daughter of Indian immigrants, this also feels like a dedication of love to the places that have touched their lives: predominantly Glasgow and London.
I feel like this is a book that everyone should read - the way the history is told is not overwhelming, almost as if you are watching it all in a dream-like state. Also, it’s a reminder of how the past should still be affecting us now, and making us learn lessons from it.
Pr product as part of the Canongate May readalong
April 23, 2024
A beautiful book about friendship, loss, belonging and un-belonging. It is a story simultaneously about lives shaped by transformative world events and simple everyday occurrences.
I am sad to have finished the book but uplifted by the lives shared within.
I am sad to have finished the book but uplifted by the lives shared within.
July 31, 2022
I was absolutely blown away by this. It's about immigrants, identity, history, politics, grief, friendship and every other damn thing. It finds and teases out connections and covers both the broad sweep of history and the little things - pfennig coins, buddleias, a tea trolley. Bits of it really broke me, made me think about my dad. It made me think about how I got here. It made me think hard about the Holocaust for the first time since my teens, when I was obsessed and horrified by it but then filed it under 'Too Fucking Much'. It made me want to read Austerlitz and Insurgent Empire, and more Baldwin. A really special book.
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April 27, 2023
The heart of this book is the love story, a 75 year marriage between Ingrid & Henry Wuga, German refugees who met in the UK as teenagers when both were rescued on the Kindertransport. While I loved how the author befriended the couple and then went on to research & tell their story,I was a little overwhelmed by her insertion of own story, a first generation British citizen of Indian descent.
A blending of memoir & history the story is written in multiple time jumps and felt very disjointed. Spanning a century, this book contained a ton of information. I LOVED the inclusion of dozens of photos! I think I would have enjoyed this book more if it was edited differently.
A blending of memoir & history the story is written in multiple time jumps and felt very disjointed. Spanning a century, this book contained a ton of information. I LOVED the inclusion of dozens of photos! I think I would have enjoyed this book more if it was edited differently.
May 30, 2023
Weaves its way into your heart and mind
It’s an exploration of home, and where/what/who it is. I love the writing, love the premise, love the characters. Ramaswamy describes multiple worlds to us, introduces us to Henry Wuga and his family, and in doing so, introduces us to her own family and herself. It’s deeply felt, beautifully written, and full of love. Definitely recommend this.
It’s an exploration of home, and where/what/who it is. I love the writing, love the premise, love the characters. Ramaswamy describes multiple worlds to us, introduces us to Henry Wuga and his family, and in doing so, introduces us to her own family and herself. It’s deeply felt, beautifully written, and full of love. Definitely recommend this.
February 6, 2023
Homelands: The History of a Friendship by Chitra Ramaswamy
Published by Canongate
In 1939, 15-year-old Heinz Martin Wuga, later known as Henry, arrives in the UK from Nuremburg as part of the Kindertransport program. After some exceedingly traumatic experiences, he settles in Scotland, where he meets his future wife, Ingrid, who is also a Kindertransportee.
A few decades later, an Indian couple immigrates from Bangalore to the UK, where they start a family. One of their daughters is the author of this book. She grows up and becomes a journalist. In 2011, she is assigned an interview with Henry and Ingrid. There is an instant rapport between them and a friendship quickly blossoms. With her assignment over and the close friendship deepening (they come to see one another as adopted grandparents/grandchild), she continues to talk to them about their life stories and starts to see similar themes emerging between their experiences, those of her parents and her own. Eventually, she realizes that this book is taking shape. And a fine book it is.
This seems like an ambitious book—as the subtitle says, it is the history of a friendship. It’s more than that, though. It’s also family histories, political history, life story, memoir, and a history of relationships—both that between the author and the Wugas, but also the relationship the author has with literature, in particular the novel Austerlitz by William Sebald, which runs through the book. Ramaswamy deftly weaves together multiple strands of thought to create an engrossing narrative. There is a lot here and in the hands of a less skillful writer, things could get clunky and confusing very quickly, but they don’t. The writing itself is beautiful, as is the story of this friendship. I was absorbed in both the stories and the writing from the start and this continued straight through to the end. I highly recommend this book—definitely 5+ stars.
I received a digital copy of this book from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for a review. I thank them and the author.
Published by Canongate
In 1939, 15-year-old Heinz Martin Wuga, later known as Henry, arrives in the UK from Nuremburg as part of the Kindertransport program. After some exceedingly traumatic experiences, he settles in Scotland, where he meets his future wife, Ingrid, who is also a Kindertransportee.
A few decades later, an Indian couple immigrates from Bangalore to the UK, where they start a family. One of their daughters is the author of this book. She grows up and becomes a journalist. In 2011, she is assigned an interview with Henry and Ingrid. There is an instant rapport between them and a friendship quickly blossoms. With her assignment over and the close friendship deepening (they come to see one another as adopted grandparents/grandchild), she continues to talk to them about their life stories and starts to see similar themes emerging between their experiences, those of her parents and her own. Eventually, she realizes that this book is taking shape. And a fine book it is.
This seems like an ambitious book—as the subtitle says, it is the history of a friendship. It’s more than that, though. It’s also family histories, political history, life story, memoir, and a history of relationships—both that between the author and the Wugas, but also the relationship the author has with literature, in particular the novel Austerlitz by William Sebald, which runs through the book. Ramaswamy deftly weaves together multiple strands of thought to create an engrossing narrative. There is a lot here and in the hands of a less skillful writer, things could get clunky and confusing very quickly, but they don’t. The writing itself is beautiful, as is the story of this friendship. I was absorbed in both the stories and the writing from the start and this continued straight through to the end. I highly recommend this book—definitely 5+ stars.
I received a digital copy of this book from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for a review. I thank them and the author.
December 30, 2023
I started this book optimistically, thinking it was bound to be a five-star book. Then that became four, then three, and then.... two, for several reasons. The heart of the book is the story of Henry Wuga, but the writer's obsession with her own family history keeps interrupting. The chapters bounce backwards and forwards in time, so it's all a bit disjointed; and her writing style (short sentences with no verb, lists of one sentence paragraphs) became increasingly irritating, as was the sloppy grammar at times. As well as being a bit self-obsessed, she also seems to be obsessed by W G Sebald, who is not my style of writer. It's a pity that this fascinating story couldn't have been written by an author who didn't want the book to be all about themself.
October 21, 2023
A biography of a friendship that is grippingly told, allowing the story of Henry Wuga's life to emerge as we go along. The holocaust survivor, who came to Glasgow as a child with The Kindertransport, has lived a full and fascinating life which echoes the story of a century. With reflections from the author on where her own life and Henry's overlap, a fuller picture of an immigrant's life is painted. Couldn't put it down once I got into it.
July 9, 2022
Extraordinary book, seamlessly interweaving personal narratives, history, politics, culture and current affairs, all through the lens of a special, seemingly unlikely friendship. Would very highly recommend especially for fans of Sebald and The Hare with the Amber Eyes by Edmund De Waal. Amazing writing from Chitra Ramaswamy.
January 24, 2023
An amazing, detailed, heartwarming book. As a child of Jewish refugees from Hitler's Holocaust it just rang so many bells in my life, as did Chitra's memories of growing up as different in London.
Highly recommended
Highly recommended
June 12, 2023
3.5/5 A fascinating story documenting the lives of a couple who came on the Kindertransport and a family who immigrated from India. Covering so much history and full of emotion, it was a beautiful story, but much too long and rambling at times.
July 29, 2023
Just a really wonderful book. The friendship itself is so great to read of, and the separate experiences which are so different and yet having so many parallels. This does what the best books do -- entertains and edifies in equal amounts.
January 2, 2024
So beautifully written. Winds the two stories together like a melancholy boat ride along a meandering river of their lives.
Poignant now, as when it was written, as when the story began - the themes of immigration, racism, antisemitism, "otherness", belonging, family and love are eternal.
Poignant now, as when it was written, as when the story began - the themes of immigration, racism, antisemitism, "otherness", belonging, family and love are eternal.
December 16, 2022
Borrow Box
January 10, 2023
I loved this book. An amazing story of an unlikely friendship that manages to encapsulate the enormity of our shared history, and the tiny details of it too.
March 3, 2023
The essence of humanity and empathy.
March 23, 2023
Audioversion and DNF. Not in the mood for it and I found the author's voice difficult to concentrate on. This is more about me than it is about the book or the author.
June 15, 2023
A beautifully written, moving narrative about a friendship which crosses cultures and generations.
July 14, 2023
A beautifully written and well researched book. A very tender testament to these remarkable survivors.
October 7, 2023
Intriguing exploration of the geopolitical connections between two families apparently very different and yet full of commonalities.
September 30, 2024
DNF @p.180
I give up, I'm just not interested.
I give up, I'm just not interested.
October 4, 2024
3.5 stars
February 23, 2023
This was the tale of a friendship that crossed generations and continents and showed that however different our stories might seem to be, we have much in common. Chitra Ramaswamy wove together her own Indian immigrant family's story with that of a, now in his 80s, Jewish World War 2 refugee.
It was moving and well-told and showed that so many things we see in modern day Britain are nothing new. Immigrants have always been a part of the British story and have long been deemed a "problem" by some. Although many might think we opened our arms to Jewish refugees escaping the Nazi threat during the Second World War, we learn that people actually had to be sponsored to enter the UK, as they weren't allowed to be a "burden on the State". Fortunately, many were able to make that journey - even if they then ended up in an internment camp due to being suspected of spying. There is so much to explore in this book and much to ponder.
This book is a labour of love, carefully brought together through Chitra Ramaswamy's journalistic skill. It tells a personal story as well as the bigger story of immigration and trying to become part of a new world.
A thought-provoking and inspiring read.
It was moving and well-told and showed that so many things we see in modern day Britain are nothing new. Immigrants have always been a part of the British story and have long been deemed a "problem" by some. Although many might think we opened our arms to Jewish refugees escaping the Nazi threat during the Second World War, we learn that people actually had to be sponsored to enter the UK, as they weren't allowed to be a "burden on the State". Fortunately, many were able to make that journey - even if they then ended up in an internment camp due to being suspected of spying. There is so much to explore in this book and much to ponder.
This book is a labour of love, carefully brought together through Chitra Ramaswamy's journalistic skill. It tells a personal story as well as the bigger story of immigration and trying to become part of a new world.
A thought-provoking and inspiring read.
December 28, 2023
The author's writing style was very comfortable to read. It felt like a conversation throughout. The book is of three actual parts. We have the story of a German couple as a couple and the way they led their lives in Scotland, the second is their individual pasts, and how they were once refugees at the start of the war, the final third part is the author's own life which she goes back and forth in time and has a few parallels with the first two lives she is talking about.
The content in itself was very interesting, as were the numerous photographs included at the most appropriate times. I would have been more enamoured by the book if the back and forth in time did not get to me. I am usually fond of a non-linear timeline, especially if there is some sort of hidden part that will surface later in time. In this kind of narrative, I would have preferred a more streamlined description since we go back and forth in time as we talk of the Wugas and their experiences, as well as the author's life and their meetings and conception of this book. It got a little too much for me.
Historical documents in the book provide clarity to a lot of facts, and nothing felt like an info dump. I learnt a lot about the bureaucracy that was part of the system in the world when the war broke out.
Apart from the way time was handled in the book, I cannot fault anything else in it. It lingers on intimate family connections and the simple things that make relationships come alive. I would highly recommend this to readers who want to experience a different look into the experiences of some families during the war and how they managed to survive through it.
I received an ARC thanks to NetGalley and the publishers, but the review is entirely based on my own reading experience.
The content in itself was very interesting, as were the numerous photographs included at the most appropriate times. I would have been more enamoured by the book if the back and forth in time did not get to me. I am usually fond of a non-linear timeline, especially if there is some sort of hidden part that will surface later in time. In this kind of narrative, I would have preferred a more streamlined description since we go back and forth in time as we talk of the Wugas and their experiences, as well as the author's life and their meetings and conception of this book. It got a little too much for me.
Historical documents in the book provide clarity to a lot of facts, and nothing felt like an info dump. I learnt a lot about the bureaucracy that was part of the system in the world when the war broke out.
Apart from the way time was handled in the book, I cannot fault anything else in it. It lingers on intimate family connections and the simple things that make relationships come alive. I would highly recommend this to readers who want to experience a different look into the experiences of some families during the war and how they managed to survive through it.
I received an ARC thanks to NetGalley and the publishers, but the review is entirely based on my own reading experience.
July 8, 2023
Highly nonlinear narrative, felt rather fragmented to me. I'm sure this was intentional, as it does suit certain aspects of the story. it actually works kind of well, and it's my fault for disliking it, seeing as I read it in short fragments over 6 weeks!].
Some really good insights on the children-of-immigrants experience, infused with a light dose of the standard flavors-and-smells stuff we expect from the memoirs of children of immigrants (it may be a cliche, but cliches exist for a reason--at least it's not overdone or forced in this book). It takes no small amount of self-confidence to draw connections between the narratives of Holocaust refugees and the more mundane migrations for reasons of opportunity or whatever, but the book works because of the particularity, the focus on the author's friends Henry and Ingrid Wuga. It's just a lovely story about friendship and loving people as they age, and in the final accounting, it's the love stories that make it meaningful.
Some really good insights on the children-of-immigrants experience, infused with a light dose of the standard flavors-and-smells stuff we expect from the memoirs of children of immigrants (it may be a cliche, but cliches exist for a reason--at least it's not overdone or forced in this book). It takes no small amount of self-confidence to draw connections between the narratives of Holocaust refugees and the more mundane migrations for reasons of opportunity or whatever, but the book works because of the particularity, the focus on the author's friends Henry and Ingrid Wuga. It's just a lovely story about friendship and loving people as they age, and in the final accounting, it's the love stories that make it meaningful.
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