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From acclaimed author Phil Stamper (The Gravity of Us and As Far as You'll Take Me) comes a poignant coming-of-age, contemporary middle grade debut novel about finding your place, using your voice, and the true meaning of pride. Perfect for fans of Rick by Alex Gino and The Best at It by Maulik Pancholy.

Jake is just starting to enjoy life as his school's first openly gay kid. While his family and friends are accepting and supportive, the same can't be said about everyone in their small town of Barton Springs, Ohio.

When Jake's dad hangs a comically large pride flag in their front yard in an overblown show of love, the mayor begins to receive complaints. A few people are even concerned the flag will lead to something truly outlandish: a pride parade.

Except Jake doesn't think that's a ridiculous idea. Why can't they hold a pride festival in Barton Springs? The problem is, Jake knows he'll have to get approval from the town council, and the mayor won't be on his side. And as Jake and his friends try to find a way to bring Pride to Barton Springs, it seems suspicious that the mayor's son, Brett, suddenly wants to spend time with Jake.

But someone that cute couldn't possibly be in league with his mayoral mother, could he?

260 pages, Hardcover

First published May 31, 2022

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Phil Stamper

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Phil Stamper grew up in a rural village near Dayton, Ohio. While it could be seen as a boring lifestyle to some, he kept himself entertained by playing the piano and writing stories that stretched his imagination. He has a B.A. in Music from the University of Dayton and an M.A. in Publishing with Creative Writing from Kingston University.

When he first left his home state, he landed in Washington, DC with no job prospects, $800 in graduation money, and the promise of a walk-in closet to live in. Not long after—and he’s not totally sure how—he was jumping headfirst into a career in non-profit PR and sleeping in a real bed. He loved writing for a living, even if he was writing press releases and news stories... and hundreds of emails to annoyed journalists. But after a while, the dry writing started to get to him, so he thought he’d finally work on that book he always wanted to write.

Years later, Phil is now the bestselling author of The Gravity of Us, As Far As You’ll Take Me, and other queer books for kids and teens. He works in author development for a major book publisher in New York City, where he lives with his husband and their dog. Golden Boys, the first book in his upcoming young adult rom-com duology, comes out in February 2022. Small Town Pride, his debut middle grade novel, publishes in Summer 2022.

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June 2, 2022
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This has nothing to do with the story. From what I've listened to so far, it seems lovely and meaningful, Jake is sweet and I really like his dad.

I'm giving up for now because I can't listen to the audiobook anymore. Jake is supposed to be 13 years old, I think, and the narrator definitely doesn't sound like a teenager.

But that wasn't my main problem. My main problem were the voices the narrator gave other characters, especially Jake's friend Jenna and Brett. Jenna sounds like a screeching parrot and also seems very annoying. Not sure if she's meant to be or it's just the narrator's interpretation of her character. And Brett sounds like a grown-up chain-smoker.

It took me 3 days to listen to 1 hour of the audiobook, and at this point the voices are making it impossible for me to concentrate on the story any longer.
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715 reviews866 followers
June 1, 2022
Look at the cover! Sweet, cute, and vivid at the same time. Just like Phil Stamper’s first middle-grade story. Small Town Pride is filled with so much queer love!

I’m incredibly happy that there are more and more queer stories for middle-grade kids. Because in the age of 10-14, so many things change. School, your body, being aware of your sexuality, and maybe even falling in love for the first time. And Small Town Pride just shows us all the feelings you can have as a thirteen-year-old queer teen.

This story is like a warm blanket wrapping itself around you to make you feel safe and loved. Phil Stamper pulled me into the story, and I couldn’t hold back, and without being aware of it, I had already read a quarter of the story. The writing is effortlessly flowing, and the characters are incredibly lovable. I sympathized so much with Jake, and Jenna and Brett are fantastic side characters.

This is a story to cherish if you’re a queer kid, a parent of a (queer) kid, or a queer adult, even if you usually don’t read MG stories. I loved your young adult stories Phil, especially Golden Boys, but this story has a special place in my heart!

I received an ARC from HarperCollins and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

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November 17, 2022
This is a Middle Grade book with a Wonderful message. I really enjoyed it and loved this book so much. I love the characters in this book. I loved the parents of the main character in this book, and I loved how much they support him. Great Read with more than one message hidden inside. I was kindly provided an e-copy of this book by the publisher (HarperCollins) or author (Phil Stamper) via NetGalley, so I can give an honest review about how I feel about this book. I want to send a big Thank you to them for that.
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900 reviews3,822 followers
May 31, 2022
ESP:

Gracias Netgalley por darme una copia avanzada de este libro!:

QUE HERMOSO LIBRO. Una manera excelente de empezar un mes de lecturas de puro libro con representación.

En su núcleo, Small Town Pride es una historia sobre mostrar tus colores verdaderos, de tener una oportunidad de ser quien quieres ser y quien eres sin miedo alguno. Con protagonistas como Jake, Jenna y Brett, es una imagen preciosa de lo que bello que es recibir el apoyo cuando uno sale del closet.

Esta es una historia sobre la resiliencia, de hacer lo que sea necesario para superar la adversidad, y salir de ella lleno de orgullo. Es un abrazo para todxs lxs niñxs queer, y les hace saber que no estan solos, que son dignos de amor y de cariño. Es una historia demasiado hermosa, con un corazón enorme. Me encantó cada página que leí.

Me gustaría creer que esto podría pasar, que el mundo no es un lugar tan jodido como para privar que niños puedan vivir su verdad y ser felices mientras lo hacen. Espero que, algún día, si hay algún niñx de 13 años que quiera realizar un festival del orgullo lo pueda hacer. Las cosas han ido cambiando para bien por los pasados años, pero aún así hay mucho cambio que hacer. Y, libros como estos, me hacen creer que ese futuro es posible.

No esperaba que Small Town Pride me calentara el corazón como lo hizo, pero estoy feliz de que haya sucedido. Automáticamente se convirtió en uno de mis libros con rep lgbt+ favoritos de la vida. Ya quiero que todo el mundo lo lea.

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Thank you Netgalley for providing me with a free copy of this book!:

What a gorgeous, little book. Great way to start a month long marathon of lgbtq+ stories

Small Town Pride is a middle grade story about 13 year old Jake, who decides that he wants to throw his small town's first pride parade after his father, to show his support after his coming out, hangs a flag in front of his house, making a few people of the town angry. In it's core, Small Town Pride is a story about showing your true colors, and how everyone deserves a shot in being their themselves unapologetically.

This is a story about resilience, about doing what it takes to overcome adversity in the most prideful way. It is also a love letter to every queer kid, and it lets them know that they are not alone, that they are worthy. It's such a beautiful story, with so much heart. I loved every single page of it.

I want to believe that this could happen, that the world isn't such a dark and bad place that it would prefer to deny happiness to its younger ones instead of giving them a chance. I hope someday we can get to a place were, if a 13-year-old child wants to throw their own pride parade, they can. Things have been getting better recently, but there's still a long way ahead. And, books like this, make that future posible.

I didn't expect Small Town Pride to tender my heart the way it did, but I'm so happy it happened. This is one of my new all time favorite lgbtq+ books. I can't wait for everyone to read it.
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1,329 reviews41 followers
July 12, 2023
✰ 4 stars ✰

“Not Dad’s flag. Not the flag outside our house.

My flag.

I think, maybe, that’s a little bit of what pride is. Taking something like the pride flag and confidently saying: this is a part of who I am. The flag does mean something to me, I realize, and even if I’m still a little scared, I’m a little excited, too.”


The title for Small Town Pride sums up perfectly what this story has to offer us - a sweet Middle Grade book about thirteen year old Jake who just wants the town that he has grown up in - a town that he loves - a neighborhood he's proud to be a part of - to simply allow him and others to express themselves in the way that they want to. To take pride in who they are - no matter who they are. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

“It dawns on me then that I don’t want to leave Barton Springs. I mean, maybe I’ll go to college away from here, and sure I might change my mind in a few years, but I love it here. I love the farms, our parades, our festivals.

I love the people, even if they don’t always love me back.”


I liked this - I didn't love it, but I liked it. 💜💜 It was written with a lot of honest feeling that showed how much joy there can be for a young boy to come out as gay to his family and friends, and then still show the ugly side of it, as well. To show how discrimination and resentment can be so rampant in such a small scale, that it makes you think how difficult it must be to express oneself on a grander scope. All Jake wanted was to be happy with who he was, and his father wanted to show his love for his son. Is a pride flag or even hosting a pride parade something so offensive that it can make people turn on others and scorn one another? 😔

“Still, a part of me wanted more. I thought I’d feel like a whole new person: confident, full of pride. It’s not like they did anything wrong. But I wanted them to, I don’t know, prove to me that this doesn’t change anything.

Make me feel like my whole family supports me. My whole village supports me.”


It can get cruel and hurtful, but what Phil Stamper did so wonderfully is that he kept it so hopeful, too. 🤍🤍 That for all the vile comments Jake received from people he had known his whole life, he still got the glimmer of acceptance from people that mattered. 🌈🌈 That they gave him the courage to speak up for himself - to not be ashamed, but be proud and take pride in his small town. There were times when the tone of the story became a bit more focused on some technical aspects that I felt deviated from the story line, but it didn't bother me too much.

“If people can wear their hate so proudly on their sleeve, why can’t I wear acceptance in the same way?”

All parents should be as supportive and understanding and willing to listen as Jake's parents were. 🫂🫂 The lengths they took to try to help him in any way that they could - to not let him lose hope in what he was trying to prove to the community - the encouragement they never faltered in showing him. It gives such a hopeful message for readers that there are parents who will be accepting and unflinching in their resolve to be by their child through thick and thin. ✨✨

I especially appreciated that Jake's narrative never became overly preachy or condescending. He never openly retaliated in anger, simply tried to understand why people would react the way that they are. And the way that the story resolved with the hopeful promise of change left me with this beautiful feeling that people can be open to acceptance through patience and a little guidance. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
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1,442 reviews1,583 followers
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December 1, 2021

Now available for ARC request on NetGalley:

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Blurb (since it isn't up on GR yet):
We will do it. We’re going to throw Barton Springs’s first Pride.

Jake just starting to enjoy life as his school's first openly gay kid. While his family and friends are accepting and supportive, the same can’t be said about everyone in their small town of Barton Springs, Ohio. When Jake’s dad hangs a comically large pride flag in their front yard in an overblown show of love, the mayor begins to receive complaints. A few people are even concerned the flag will lead to something truly outlandish: a pride parade.

Except Jake doesn’t think that’s a ridiculous idea. Why can’t they hold a pride festival in Barton Springs? The problem is, Jake knows he’ll have to get approval from the town council, and the mayor won’t be on his side. And as Jake and his friends try to find a way to bring pride to Barton Springs, it seems suspicious that the mayor’s son, Brett, suddenly wants to spend time with Jake. But someone that cute couldn’t possibly be in league with his mayoral mother, could he?
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Author 5 books186 followers
June 7, 2022
I would have loved this book if I was a middle schooler (the target age group). It feels important and empowering. The writing felt repetitive though (“with a laugh”, “I shrug”, etc, appear A LOT. But I think this is great. I just didn’t love it. I’ve graded it for the genre and audience though, rather than how much I like it or not.
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165 reviews179 followers
June 6, 2022
i don't read a lot of middle grade but i saw this on Netgalley and had to request at least! this was a lot more emotional then i expected but still made for a sweet read.

small town pride is full of queer joy and i absolutely love it! i loved the main character and following his journey. the side characters were also well done do fun to read about. i liked how the overly supportive parents weren't seen as a bad thing but that Jake was able to communicate to them properly. i love this book's hopeful tone and beautiful message.

overall this is a well done middle grade book i'd reccomend to all ages!
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211 reviews19 followers
May 6, 2022
Thank you so much to NetGalley for providing me this e-ARC in exchange for an honest review.

"Hateful people are everywhere, I know that. But couldn't they just shut up for a minute? Why do they always have to have the last say when it comes to celebrating people who are different than them?"

English: Small Town Pride is an excellent story for lgbtq+ children, because the main character is in the struggle to make his small town a more inclusive place for the community, this book deals with issues such as acceptance and the importance of a safe space, that is why I firmly believe that it is a very good book for children.

However in my case I did not like it too much, and all the weight of this is carried by the protagonist, Jake, for me he was just an annoying kid who wanted his life to be perfect, even when you know that this can never always be so, besides he was quite ungrateful to his parents and his friend, it was really too annoying and childish for my taste and it hurt the story.

Also the way the events were handled throughout the book did not end up convincing me, but I must admit that the ending was nice.

Final Rating: 2.5 stars

Español: Small Town Pride es una historia excelente para niños lgbtq+, pues el protagonista se encuentra en la lucha para hacer de su pequeño pueblo un lugar más inclusivo para la comunidad, en este libro se trata temas como la aceptación y la importancia de un espacio seguro, es de ese modo que creo firmemente que para niños es un libro muy bueno.

Sin embargo en mi caso no llego a gustarme demasiado, y todo el peso de esto se lo lleva el protagonista, Jake, para mi el simplemente era un niño molestoso que quería que su vida fuera perfecta, aún cuando se sabe que esta nunca puede ser así siempre, aparte se me hizo bastante mal agradecido con sus padres y con su amiga, de verdad que fue demasiado fastidioso e infantil para mi gusto y me daño la historia.

También el como se manejaron los hechos a lo largo del libro no terminó de convencerme, pero si debo admitir que el final fue bonito.

Calificación Final: 2.5 estrellas
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1,443 reviews220 followers
April 8, 2022
This was such a lovely queer Middle Grade book! The story follows thirteen year old Jake after he comes out to his parents and his dad flies a huge pride flag outside their home. Some people in their small town are super accepting and happy to see the flag, but not everyone. Whether it’s comments like “there are no people like that here” or being concerned that it will lead to a pride parade being held in their town. So Jake decides they should try to hold a pride festival so he can show that Barton Springs can be a welcoming place for everyone.

I really enjoyed the message in this book about how people shouldn’t have to move away to a big city in order to find a queer community. How everyone should be able to feel accepted and welcome in their small towns. It was really rewarding watching Jake and his friends stand up for what they believed in and work to change the minds of adults so they can hold their pride festival. But I also appreciated how the author showed that sometimes people can’t be public about their sexuality because it wouldn’t be safe for them. But I did think that at times Jake and his friends didn’t quite feel like thirteen year olds.

The tone of the book is mostly hopeful. While there are some people who oppose Jake and him wanting to hold a pride festival in town, the story never gets overwhelmed with hate or anger. Definitely check this one out if it sounds interesting to you!

Thank you to the publisher for providing an advance copy via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
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414 reviews
November 11, 2023
A cute little book about a gay middle schooler in small-town Ohio! I love a book set in Ohio with accurate place names.
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998 reviews167 followers
May 15, 2024
What a great middle school book! Jake has ideal/accepting parents, and neighbor/forever-friend Jenna supporting him. The town motto of inclusiveness is tested when Jake tries to hold a June Pride festival in their village. (Technically not a 'town', since towns need >5000 people).

The book nicely did not get 'preachy'. It just felt like a story about this small town trying to REALLY come into actually/physically recognizing ideals they 'like' on social media and with town their town motto.

Jake is in 8th grade, and slightly shy, but he takes action to work on this Pride Festival. This felt slightly out of character/ambitious for a middle school kid, but I must remember this is an idealized book for middle school students to be reading. This is great motivation! That age-group is on the cusp of breaking-out and doing EXACTLY what this book advocates.

The only problem with stories like this is their double-edged sword effect. It is great that Jake 'wins'. But the homophobic crap he has to endure does not belong on his shoulders. He gets supportive friends quickly coming to help.

You hear his straight friend Jenna having the basic 'crush' problems of liking the new-boy at the school, and wondering how to meet/talk with him. While Jake can't mention his crush, as he finds out his crush is showing feelings for him too but still very closeted.

These are all the very real pressures happening in middle school.

Definite tears of happiness from me in the final chapters.

Solid 5*.
I greatly recommend this as we approach June.
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357 reviews196 followers
August 22, 2022
I'm rating this book as four stars, although it's really a 3-star book for me. Why? Because even though the book didn't really set off any fireworks for me, I think it's a fairly well-written book, it's great to see an awesome writer like Phil Stamper break into the middle-school field, and most of all, because I think this will be, this IS, a very important book for many kids, parents, teachers, and communities (especially smaller and/or more rural ones). I wish this kind of book had been around for me and other LGBTQ and/or questioning preteens and teens and not just for me, but also for potential and actual allies, younger and older. Thanks, Phil Stamper!

For myself, because all the characters read as "white," I feel that an important opportunity for even more inclusion and diversity was missed. Some of you will say, "But it's a small, rural town in Ohio, what do you expect?" Um, hello, there ARE people of color in small, rural towns. On another note, I read a fair amount of YA these days, but middle school books not so much, so admittedly, I'm not the best judge or audience. So, again, not a great read for me, but I would want to see this book in a lot of libraries, bookstores, and especially, in a lot of people's hands!

P.S. Note to publishers: Why do you let so many typos get by? For example, p. 195; p. 198; and p. 218, among others.
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784 reviews23 followers
March 18, 2022
Absolutely DELIGHTFUL. This was a really well portrayed queer experience that is easily connectable for anyone, queer or ally. There were a lot of dimensions to the story between community, family, and friends. The bad is called out and called what it is. The good is celebrated. This was a very well done MG book and I hope Stamper writes more for this age. When I wasn’t reading, it’s all I could think of. When I was reading, it took all I had to slow down and enjoy the story! I really wish I had access to a story like this when I was in middle school. I feel like A LOT would have been different.
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2,563 reviews884 followers
May 2, 2022
This is a great middlegrade in a lot of ways, with a very lovable main character. I also especially adored Brett, who I want to protect with my life. For a book about pride, though, I would have liked to see more queer characters beyond one gay middleschooler and one bi one. Both because this book doesn't quite show how broad the LGBTQ+ community is, and because I would have liked to see more of a queer support system around these kids. I did however think this was an empowering story when it comes to finding the courage and strength to be out.
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176 reviews
May 17, 2024
This was a sweet, simple read that honestly, I think is a great starting point if someone wants to explore LGBT topics, especially those with queer kids, and those just staring to find themselves. Being middle grade, it doesn't go too deep into topics, but lays the broad strokes in a way that's pretty easy to get the ground work for! Glad I read it, and not just for the shameless Stardew Valley clone, haha!
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383 reviews12 followers
April 1, 2023
This book made me cry at least twice. Even talking about it makes me cry. Homophobes suck and we should be protecting kids, not making them feel unsafe. I loved this book.
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2,750 reviews226 followers
May 30, 2022
Small Town Pride is a darling of a book!

It's such a sweetly positive story. It's a story about acceptance and finding your place in the world, even if it's just your small town.
Jake is such an endearing character, you can't help but want all the good things in life for him. I loved that he didn't want to escape his town, he wanted to be accepted there and make it more welcoming for all.

I hope Small Town Pride finds it way into the hands of all the readers who need it-which, honestly, could be anyone, of any age, really. It's a feel good read, but definitely makes you think.
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February 11, 2021
"13-year-old Jake loves his rural town, but doesn't always feel supported by the people there, so he fades into the background. That is, until he comes out and his overly supportive dad puts a comically huge pride flag in their yard, suddenly turning all eyes on him."
Profile Image for Rebecca Wilden.
46 reviews8 followers
August 6, 2022
THIS. BOOK. 😍🌈 I want to give a copy to every queer kid in a small Ohio town 🥹
Profile Image for Shannon.
8,348 reviews424 followers
June 13, 2022
This was such a great middle grade novel about a young gay boy living in a small rural town who tries to organize a Pride festival despite a great deal of homophobia in his town. Heartwarming and inspiring, this was a great book about finding the courage to be yourself and actively fighting against homophobia. Such a relatable and important read and great on audio! Much thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an advance review copy!!
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6 reviews2 followers
November 22, 2022
Small Town Pride is a timely and essential LGBT+ book. In a time of book bannings, censorship, and attacks on LGBT+ rights, having books like this accessible to not only queer youth, but people of all sexual orientations, has never been more important.
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