6 stars! :) The book was pragmatic, ambitious, and a bit philosophical about growth, discipline, and contribution. I resonated with the message on both achievement and inner fulfillment, made me reflect on practical ways to apply it, especially around discipline, self-image, networking, and defining my own success. The tone is action-oriented, candid. I found a lot of resonance with the book’s philosophy, blending ambition with humility, practical wisdom, and a refusal to settle for either mediocrity or greed. There’s a real emphasis on enjoying the process, developing yourself, and making every encounter and effort count.
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AMBITION & SERVICE. The right path to achievement always leads through serving others, never at their expense. Before seeking wealth, you have to master the art of giving. Ambition isn’t just about wishing for things - like a great relationship or family - but having an eager, active desire and working for them every day. Real ambition is a minute-to-minute mentality, not just grand plans.
INTERNAL VS EXTERNAL SUCCESS. If success or great relationships were easy, more people would have them; the truth is, those who enjoy lasting success are the ones who build it every day. Most people gripe about their lack of results but spend no time tending the garden of their dreams. The unsuccessful see effort and sacrifice as obstacles, the successful see these merely as details to handle on their way to an already vivid dream.
DISCIPLINE AND POSITIVITY. Your dream has to pull you - make it vivid and tangible. Dreaming is a skill, most people don’t do it actively and don’t work on defining their dreams well. If what you do daily isn’t satisfying or meaningful, you’re not successful - happiness is part of the measure. Success is in the little things: greet with joy at the office, hug at home, do daily acts that lift others.
GRATITUDE & TEAMWORK. No win is ever truly solo: even if you landed a mega-client or nailed a project, remember all the people who made the space for it possible - those who held the fort at home, covered other tasks, or gave you quiet to work. Practicing gratitude and sending thank-you notes builds deeper success.
SOWING & REAPING. Prosperity is not just thriving in wealth, but also in health and relationships. Don’t settle for just making a living - aim to make a fortune, in every sense. Life doesn’t give you what you need, it gives what you deserve: you reap what you sow, not what you wish for. Seek to work with others who deserve it, not just those who need it - work with the seekers, not just the wishers.
DISCIPLINE, INTEGRITY & GROWTH. All disciplines connect - if you’re lazy in one part of life, it leaks everywhere else. You can trick the world, but not yourself: if you’re not heading where you claim, you know it deep down. Progress comes from doing things wrong at first - just start, adjust, and you’ll figure it out. After all, “if you fall off the horse seven times, you’re a real cowboy.” Don’t berate yourself for mistakes - celebrate figuring things out. No other creature holds back on its growth; be the tree that grows as tall as possible.
LIVING WITH INTENTION. Other people’s demands will always eat your time unless yours for yourself are stronger. Discipline is full-time: it’s the constant awareness of what needs doing and the conscious choice to keep focusing on it. Don’t even begin a day, week, or month until you’ve finished it on paper with a plan.
SELF-IMAGE & DISCIPLINE. Doing less than you can damages the mind and slowly eats away at your self-image - it becomes a habit, infects every area, and makes you believe your own low standards. Affirmations shouldn’t be pure fantasy; it’s sometimes good to admit your real situation like “I’m broke” if it gives you a kick to act. When you’ve lost everything, admit it - and then use whatever faith and hope you still have to get up again.
PLANNING & PROBLEM SOLVING. Real solutions come when you put the problem on paper and brainstorm: what can I do, what can I read, who can I ask? Choose the most effective option. In a group, brainstorm freely - let the craziest ideas surface, as the best ideas might be in the mix. Doodle, flowchart, and play - your brain will wake up and see fresh angles. Don’t let doubt or worry corner you - corner them! Fear loses power when you face it head-on.
KINDNESS & RELATIONSHIPS. Be as kind as humanly possible, to everyone. You never know when someone really needs a kind word or a listening ear. Sensitivity means you notice others’ real needs - ask layered questions, peel back the onion, and earn trust slowly. Good conversation means having something worth saying, saying it well (authentic, brief, practiced, in your own style), and always reading your audience - know when to pivot, when to explain more, or when to wrap up. Observe body language and feel the mood. Feedback is your friend, even if it stings.
EFFECTIVE FEEDBACK & NETWORKING. Never lash out at your people - lash out at the problem. Correct with care: always make it clear you value the person, it’s just the action that was off. Networking means keep in touch, give before you ask, send helpful articles, meet up occasionally, and give thanks with notes or gifts. If a relationship no longer works, gently let go; if it’s toxic, cut it off. Only keep mutually beneficial networks alive, and focus on those who deserve your time.
SUCCESS & UNIQUENESS. Success isn’t about fame, money, or external rewards - it’s your own steady progress towards your chosen goals, day by day. Maybe your dream is to quit chasing millions and go feed squirrels in a hut - if you do it, that’s massive success. Ignore stereotypes: there’s no one path, only yours. Read widely to stumble into new perspectives and never get stuck in a rut. Take others’ knowledge, but don’t worship it - real value comes from your own conclusions after reflection.
GROWTH & INTEGRITY. Be a student, not a follower. Take advice but don’t take orders. If you don’t have time for your kids or spouse, you need to slow down or change direction - get out of whatever grind you’re stuck in.
TIME, PRIORITY & MASTERY. Either you run your time and business, or they’ll run you. Regularly pause to check: who’s in charge - you, or your obligations? Don’t confuse endless motion with achievement - if you come home exhausted from “going going going,” but can’t name what you achieved, you’ve just been circling, not progressing. Focus on results, not busyness. Do less, but better. Do less, get more.
ENJOYING THE JOURNEY. Enjoy the plateau - the stretches between big leaps matter. Don’t push constantly; savor natural growth. Profound: “The road to heaven is heaven.” If your journey is nothing but suffering, you’re probably not walking the right path. And when your family does make sacrifices for your work, pay them back in emotional dividends.
HEALTH, HABITS & MODERATION. The best exercise or diet is the one you’ll actually stick with.
LEADERSHIP & FAMILY. If you want quality people around you, become a quality person yourself. Be strong, not rude; kind, not weak; bold, not a bully; humble, not timid; proud, not arrogant. Humor - yes, but don’t goof around so much that it turns into folly. Always deal in reality, and help everyone around you feel heard. Real leadership at home or work means communication, shared experiences, time together, and letting everyone contribute.
PROSPERITY & INTEGRITY. Leave every space (a car, apartment, company, relationship) better than you found it. If you get rich, some old friends might get weird or jealous - don’t be surprised. Most people don’t want to be pulled out of mediocrity. Invest your time and kindness where it returns mutual results.
SUCCESS, FAILURE & NUMBERS. The only true failure is not taking action. The most successful people fear failure the least. Track your progress - books read, investments made, skills built. Teaching and helping others also helps you climb out of your own holes - sometimes you hear your own best wisdom when giving it away.
SELF-DEVELOPMENT & ATTRACTIVENESS. Success isn’t something you force, it’s something you attract by becoming the right kind of person. Self-investment is the most respectable use of your resources: become skillful, healthy, powerful, unique, reliable, and you’ll pull the right people and opportunities towards you. If for a time your income grows faster than you do, it’ll shrink to match your mindset. Persistence isn’t enough; patience is just as crucial.
INTEGRITY & VALUE. Don’t chase “cheap” - getting things below their true value cheapens yourself. Pay fairly and value others’ profits, not just your own. Leave behind a legacy of having “fought the good fight,” regardless of whether you win every battle.