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The Satyr's Kiss: Queer Men, Sex Magic & Modern Witchcraft
This practical guide to Witchcraft both embraces and celebrates queer men through an impressive collection of spells, rituals, and exercises. The Satyr's Kiss empowers everyone who identifies as male to take his rightful place at the center of his own universe, honoring the unique qualities that set him apart from the mainstream. Emphasizing the importance of sexuality in Witchcraft, this book features a variety of methods for celebrating sex in a magical way. Join Storm Faerywolf on a queer-centered exploration of magical philosophy, history, rites of passage, and sex magic. He provides an abundance of spells that aid everything from communication and confidence to romance and sexual protection. This book also showcases rituals and exercises related to initiation, gender polarity, sex with spirits, celebrating pride, and more.
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360 pages, Paperback
Published May 8, 2022
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Storm Faerywolf
21 books95 followersWith a name gifted by vision and dream, Storm Faerywolf is a professional warlock. He has studied and been initiated into various streams of practical witchcraft, most notably the Faery tradition, where he holds the Black Wand of a Master. He is the chancellor of Modern Witch University, co-founder of Black Rose Witchcraft, and a columnist for The Wild Hunt. He has given lectures, taught classes, and led rituals all across the US and Europe, in a career spanning over three decades.
A Master/Teacher in several lineages of Reiki, and a trained folk magician, he is also a published author having penned several books including “The Stars Within the Earth”, “Awakening the BlueLotus”, “Betwixt & Between”, “Forbidden Mysteries of Faery Witchcraft”, “The Witch’s Name”, and “The Satyr’s Kiss”.
A proud queer poly man, he lives in the beautiful San Francisco Bay Area with his loving partners, where together they run an online magical boutique, Datura Trading Co., surrounded by dogs, cats, chickens, and a plethora of trees and plants. He believes in beauty, kindness, equality, true love, and magic.
A Master/Teacher in several lineages of Reiki, and a trained folk magician, he is also a published author having penned several books including “The Stars Within the Earth”, “Awakening the BlueLotus”, “Betwixt & Between”, “Forbidden Mysteries of Faery Witchcraft”, “The Witch’s Name”, and “The Satyr’s Kiss”.
A proud queer poly man, he lives in the beautiful San Francisco Bay Area with his loving partners, where together they run an online magical boutique, Datura Trading Co., surrounded by dogs, cats, chickens, and a plethora of trees and plants. He believes in beauty, kindness, equality, true love, and magic.
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July 8, 2022
This book is best approached with a lot of expectation management.
If you expect yet another witchcraft 101 but from a queer perspective, you’ll be disappointed – get your basic knowledge and training elsewhere first.
And if you expect to discover the scandalous (if that’s even possible in 2022) yet tantalising secrets of gay sex magic in a way that’ll send hot flushes down your spine, you’ll be disappointed – get your head out of the gutter.
Also disappointment awaits anyone looking for a ready-made-just-add-water queer mythology or lore, or anyone who wants a spiritual feelgood book – gurl, this needs your work so get your lazy ass up. The Satyr’s Kiss is none of that.
The best approach is probably as if you’re reading a cookbook by a prestigious chef: You’ll get a lot of inspiration here even if you won’t cook every recipe between its covers – and you don’t have to in order to enjoy this book - and you’ll probably end up adapting a lot of this stuff to your own capabilities and needs.
But apparently that is exactly what Storm Faerywolf wants the reader to do anyway.
The author takes the reader on a roller coaster ride of queer history and philosophy and the chapter about the history and veneration of queer ancestors is especially noteworthy and, in my opinion, the most impactful material in the book. Yes, there also is a lot of sex magic in theory and practice and that’s probably the main selling point for a lot of readers, but the depth of the mythical and historical side of gay and queer spirituality is what makes this book so important. That’s the most empowering material and will probably stay with a lot of practitioners even after the excitement about the sex stuff wears off.
Speaking of sex stuff: yes, there is a lot of it in here and it is surprisingly (from the perspective of the usual material on that topic available) non-bashful, non-icky, and non-obscure.
Writing about sex-magic can be difficult but Faerywolf masters it with a clear voice and much care for the spiritual, mental and physical wellbeing of his readers.
The sex magic part is clearly more the beginner’s part of the book but that shouldn’t deter more experienced readers, because it is also a lesson in consent and magical sex-ed. And no one is ever too good for a beginner’s lesson. Granted, the actual exercises and rituals read a bit dry and clinical but then again, this isn’t supposed to be one-hand-literature anyway.
Readers coming from a deeper tantric background will probably criticise that there aren’t more energy and sensualising exercise available here, but this a sex magic for witches approach which is more aimed at energising spells and yourself and less towards unity with the Cosmos.
All the exercises read as if they are the author’s own practice and experiences that he tried at least ones and not just his brain children he simply coughed up to fill the pages. But that’s exactly what makes it so inspiring. If this otter-warlock can do it, so can I!
And that’s probably the gist of it. The Satyr’s Kiss is deeply inspiring and that is the best that anyone can say about any book on practical magic. It inspires gay witches to enhance their practice. You don’t have to but after reading you might certainly want to incorporate gay ancestors into your practice, find gay gods and myths that feed your dreams and visions, or turn a bored afternoon wank into an ecstatic celebration of divinity. It will incite your passion for the gay side of the craft in more than just one sense and that was exactly why this is such a useful book, wise and witty, and a benefit for beginners and seasoned practitioners alike.
Highly recommended but best approached with an open mind.
If you expect yet another witchcraft 101 but from a queer perspective, you’ll be disappointed – get your basic knowledge and training elsewhere first.
And if you expect to discover the scandalous (if that’s even possible in 2022) yet tantalising secrets of gay sex magic in a way that’ll send hot flushes down your spine, you’ll be disappointed – get your head out of the gutter.
Also disappointment awaits anyone looking for a ready-made-just-add-water queer mythology or lore, or anyone who wants a spiritual feelgood book – gurl, this needs your work so get your lazy ass up. The Satyr’s Kiss is none of that.
The best approach is probably as if you’re reading a cookbook by a prestigious chef: You’ll get a lot of inspiration here even if you won’t cook every recipe between its covers – and you don’t have to in order to enjoy this book - and you’ll probably end up adapting a lot of this stuff to your own capabilities and needs.
But apparently that is exactly what Storm Faerywolf wants the reader to do anyway.
The author takes the reader on a roller coaster ride of queer history and philosophy and the chapter about the history and veneration of queer ancestors is especially noteworthy and, in my opinion, the most impactful material in the book. Yes, there also is a lot of sex magic in theory and practice and that’s probably the main selling point for a lot of readers, but the depth of the mythical and historical side of gay and queer spirituality is what makes this book so important. That’s the most empowering material and will probably stay with a lot of practitioners even after the excitement about the sex stuff wears off.
Speaking of sex stuff: yes, there is a lot of it in here and it is surprisingly (from the perspective of the usual material on that topic available) non-bashful, non-icky, and non-obscure.
Writing about sex-magic can be difficult but Faerywolf masters it with a clear voice and much care for the spiritual, mental and physical wellbeing of his readers.
The sex magic part is clearly more the beginner’s part of the book but that shouldn’t deter more experienced readers, because it is also a lesson in consent and magical sex-ed. And no one is ever too good for a beginner’s lesson. Granted, the actual exercises and rituals read a bit dry and clinical but then again, this isn’t supposed to be one-hand-literature anyway.
Readers coming from a deeper tantric background will probably criticise that there aren’t more energy and sensualising exercise available here, but this a sex magic for witches approach which is more aimed at energising spells and yourself and less towards unity with the Cosmos.
All the exercises read as if they are the author’s own practice and experiences that he tried at least ones and not just his brain children he simply coughed up to fill the pages. But that’s exactly what makes it so inspiring. If this otter-warlock can do it, so can I!
And that’s probably the gist of it. The Satyr’s Kiss is deeply inspiring and that is the best that anyone can say about any book on practical magic. It inspires gay witches to enhance their practice. You don’t have to but after reading you might certainly want to incorporate gay ancestors into your practice, find gay gods and myths that feed your dreams and visions, or turn a bored afternoon wank into an ecstatic celebration of divinity. It will incite your passion for the gay side of the craft in more than just one sense and that was exactly why this is such a useful book, wise and witty, and a benefit for beginners and seasoned practitioners alike.
Highly recommended but best approached with an open mind.
May 28, 2022
Storm Faerywolf's "The Satyr's Kiss" is as much a book about practical, self-empowered expression of our magical lives as Queer persons as it is a stunningly poetic presentation of his personal path.
Without coming-off militant or overreaching to express the overall Queer experience, Faerywolf offers a gentle, modern and at times, delightfully playful look at magical practice from a Queer male perspective.
That does not, however, limit this book's value to those who identify strictly as men, nor does it limit itself to those who identify as neo-pagan. As an agender, secular and non-binary practitioner, I found Faerywolf's book inspiring. It gives us insight into his unique perspective, and as part of the LGBTQ+ community, that informs my practice and deepens bonds between me and my less-secular siblings on the path.
With a natural, almost conversational writing style, readers of his other wonderful books will be familiar with, this book is one of those books you can read in a night or two, because it's so engaging; but will want to revisit in shorter "bites" as well, to allow the rich, poetic, celebration of Queer Magic to wash over you, and reach those places we might not have realised need the healing of magic to touch.
Without coming-off militant or overreaching to express the overall Queer experience, Faerywolf offers a gentle, modern and at times, delightfully playful look at magical practice from a Queer male perspective.
That does not, however, limit this book's value to those who identify strictly as men, nor does it limit itself to those who identify as neo-pagan. As an agender, secular and non-binary practitioner, I found Faerywolf's book inspiring. It gives us insight into his unique perspective, and as part of the LGBTQ+ community, that informs my practice and deepens bonds between me and my less-secular siblings on the path.
With a natural, almost conversational writing style, readers of his other wonderful books will be familiar with, this book is one of those books you can read in a night or two, because it's so engaging; but will want to revisit in shorter "bites" as well, to allow the rich, poetic, celebration of Queer Magic to wash over you, and reach those places we might not have realised need the healing of magic to touch.
September 29, 2024
The Satyr’s Kiss is a ground-breaking addition to the ever-expanding library of modern witchcraft, offering a space where queer men can explore magic, sex, and spirituality without the constraints of mainstream witchcraft’s often heteronormative framework. Storm Faerywolf’s approach is unapologetically queer and refreshingly celebratory, placing queer men and their unique experiences at the very center of a magical universe that is often dominated by more conventional narratives.
From the outset, Faerywolf’s voice is clear: The Satyr’s Kiss is not just about incorporating queerness into witchcraft—it is a manifesto for reclaiming the sacredness of the queer body, the queer spirit, and the queer sexual experience. Drawing on his decades of experience as a witch and teacher, Faerywolf builds a magical system that is firmly rooted in queer identity, exploring how sexuality, gender, and magic intersect in ways that are both profoundly spiritual and powerfully practical.
The book begins by laying a solid foundation in magical theory and philosophy, but Faerywolf’s approach is never overly academic or dry. Instead, his writing exudes a vibrant energy that reflects the joy and passion at the heart of his practice. His discussion of the role of sexuality in witchcraft goes beyond the simplistic notion of "sex magic" as a technique for manifesting desires. Instead, Faerywolf positions sex as an intrinsic aspect of magical power—an expression of the primal, creative force that animates both the body and the cosmos. For Faerywolf, sex is not merely an act—it is an invocation, a ritual, and a celebration of one’s own divine nature.
What sets The Satyr’s Kiss apart is its focus on rites of passage and rituals that honor the distinct experiences of queer men. Faerywolf guides the reader through a series of initiatory experiences, from claiming one’s own power and identity to navigating the often-fraught waters of love and desire in a queer context. His rites for self-dedication, coming out, and gender polarity are written with a keen awareness of the challenges that many queer men face in traditional magical spaces, making these rituals both inclusive and deeply resonant.
The book’s treatment of sex magic is sophisticated and nuanced, addressing both the spiritual and ethical dimensions of the practice. Faerywolf’s spells and rituals are crafted to empower queer men to use their sexual energy in transformative ways, whether through solo workings, partner rituals, or group rites. His exercises for cultivating erotic energy, building confidence, and enhancing communication are practical and accessible, providing tools that can be used by beginners and advanced practitioners alike. There’s a strong emphasis on consent, personal boundaries, and the sacredness of the body, making this one of the few books that treats sex magic with the respect and care it deserves.
Faerywolf’s discussion of sex with spirits and the incorporation of spirit allies into sexual rites may be challenging for some, but it is presented with a deep sense of reverence and clear boundaries. He does not shy away from the darker, more complex aspects of erotic magic, yet he approaches these topics with a sense of integrity that ensures the reader is well-prepared to engage with them safely. The section on crafting pacts and partnerships with spirit lovers is particularly intriguing, offering a rarely explored dimension of magical sexuality that has roots in folklore and traditional witchcraft.
The spells included in The Satyr’s Kiss are practical and varied, covering everything from confidence-building and enhancing attraction to protection and breaking through societal stigmas. Faerywolf’s voice is empowering, encouraging queer men to embrace their unique strengths and experiences as sources of magical power. This emphasis on self-acceptance and self-celebration is woven throughout the book, making it not just a manual for magical practice but a guide to personal transformation and liberation.
The final sections of the book focus on creating queer-centered magical communities and celebrating pride as a sacred act. Faerywolf’s rituals for honoring queer ancestors, invoking the spirits of pride, and creating group rituals that celebrate queer identity are powerful and moving. His encouragement to view queer magic as a form of resistance against oppression is both timely and inspiring, positioning The Satyr’s Kiss as a book that is as much about social justice as it is about spellcraft.
With a foreword by Christopher Penczak, The Satyr’s Kiss situates itself firmly within the broader tradition of modern witchcraft while carving out a space that is uniquely queer. Penczak’s endorsement adds a layer of legitimacy and connection to the wider occult community, yet Faerywolf’s work stands entirely on its own merits. This is a book that does not seek approval or validation from mainstream magical traditions—it exists to uplift, empower, and transform the lives of queer men who practice witchcraft.
The Satyr’s Kiss is a vital and revolutionary text for any queer witch looking to deepen their practice and embrace their full magical potential. Storm Faerywolf has crafted a guide that is not only practical but profoundly spiritual, offering a path where sexuality and spirituality are not at odds but are celebrated as intertwined expressions of the divine. For queer men who have felt marginalized or excluded from traditional witchcraft, this book offers a beacon of acceptance, strength, and magical power.
From the outset, Faerywolf’s voice is clear: The Satyr’s Kiss is not just about incorporating queerness into witchcraft—it is a manifesto for reclaiming the sacredness of the queer body, the queer spirit, and the queer sexual experience. Drawing on his decades of experience as a witch and teacher, Faerywolf builds a magical system that is firmly rooted in queer identity, exploring how sexuality, gender, and magic intersect in ways that are both profoundly spiritual and powerfully practical.
The book begins by laying a solid foundation in magical theory and philosophy, but Faerywolf’s approach is never overly academic or dry. Instead, his writing exudes a vibrant energy that reflects the joy and passion at the heart of his practice. His discussion of the role of sexuality in witchcraft goes beyond the simplistic notion of "sex magic" as a technique for manifesting desires. Instead, Faerywolf positions sex as an intrinsic aspect of magical power—an expression of the primal, creative force that animates both the body and the cosmos. For Faerywolf, sex is not merely an act—it is an invocation, a ritual, and a celebration of one’s own divine nature.
What sets The Satyr’s Kiss apart is its focus on rites of passage and rituals that honor the distinct experiences of queer men. Faerywolf guides the reader through a series of initiatory experiences, from claiming one’s own power and identity to navigating the often-fraught waters of love and desire in a queer context. His rites for self-dedication, coming out, and gender polarity are written with a keen awareness of the challenges that many queer men face in traditional magical spaces, making these rituals both inclusive and deeply resonant.
The book’s treatment of sex magic is sophisticated and nuanced, addressing both the spiritual and ethical dimensions of the practice. Faerywolf’s spells and rituals are crafted to empower queer men to use their sexual energy in transformative ways, whether through solo workings, partner rituals, or group rites. His exercises for cultivating erotic energy, building confidence, and enhancing communication are practical and accessible, providing tools that can be used by beginners and advanced practitioners alike. There’s a strong emphasis on consent, personal boundaries, and the sacredness of the body, making this one of the few books that treats sex magic with the respect and care it deserves.
Faerywolf’s discussion of sex with spirits and the incorporation of spirit allies into sexual rites may be challenging for some, but it is presented with a deep sense of reverence and clear boundaries. He does not shy away from the darker, more complex aspects of erotic magic, yet he approaches these topics with a sense of integrity that ensures the reader is well-prepared to engage with them safely. The section on crafting pacts and partnerships with spirit lovers is particularly intriguing, offering a rarely explored dimension of magical sexuality that has roots in folklore and traditional witchcraft.
The spells included in The Satyr’s Kiss are practical and varied, covering everything from confidence-building and enhancing attraction to protection and breaking through societal stigmas. Faerywolf’s voice is empowering, encouraging queer men to embrace their unique strengths and experiences as sources of magical power. This emphasis on self-acceptance and self-celebration is woven throughout the book, making it not just a manual for magical practice but a guide to personal transformation and liberation.
The final sections of the book focus on creating queer-centered magical communities and celebrating pride as a sacred act. Faerywolf’s rituals for honoring queer ancestors, invoking the spirits of pride, and creating group rituals that celebrate queer identity are powerful and moving. His encouragement to view queer magic as a form of resistance against oppression is both timely and inspiring, positioning The Satyr’s Kiss as a book that is as much about social justice as it is about spellcraft.
With a foreword by Christopher Penczak, The Satyr’s Kiss situates itself firmly within the broader tradition of modern witchcraft while carving out a space that is uniquely queer. Penczak’s endorsement adds a layer of legitimacy and connection to the wider occult community, yet Faerywolf’s work stands entirely on its own merits. This is a book that does not seek approval or validation from mainstream magical traditions—it exists to uplift, empower, and transform the lives of queer men who practice witchcraft.
The Satyr’s Kiss is a vital and revolutionary text for any queer witch looking to deepen their practice and embrace their full magical potential. Storm Faerywolf has crafted a guide that is not only practical but profoundly spiritual, offering a path where sexuality and spirituality are not at odds but are celebrated as intertwined expressions of the divine. For queer men who have felt marginalized or excluded from traditional witchcraft, this book offers a beacon of acceptance, strength, and magical power.
July 2, 2022
A beautiful offering, full of Storm’s trademark wit, wisdom and love. A breath of fresh air, a love letter to the queer craft, and a homecoming for those who have been unseen in spaces that did not recognise their magic. Full of inspiring lore and praxis, this wonderful book provides a solid and grounding foundation for the queer warlock/witch, as well as the knowledge and secrets to build a practice that is ever growing upward into new mysteries. Suitable for beginners and more advanced practitioners.
July 4, 2022
A delight for witchy queer men
I love the open warmth in Storm's writing. Nary a True Way is prescribed, but alternatives in thought and action are provided. What a delightful guide to opening one's mind to happily and healthily incorporating queer sexuality into magick. So refreshing. This is part of making it better for the next generation as well as ourselves.
I love the open warmth in Storm's writing. Nary a True Way is prescribed, but alternatives in thought and action are provided. What a delightful guide to opening one's mind to happily and healthily incorporating queer sexuality into magick. So refreshing. This is part of making it better for the next generation as well as ourselves.
May 21, 2022
Storm Faerywolf has given us a road map and guidebook for grounding the gay men's spiritual journey in an active practice that is at once political, spiritual, and profound. It is a joy to read! Faerywolf takes the reader on his personal journey making it clear why the queer myths, symbols, and spiritual practices, known since antiquity and across cultures can be significant for today's gay man. We wholeheartedly recommend "The Satyr's Kiss." -- Randy P. Conner and David Hatfield Sparks, authors of the Encyclopedia of Queer Myth, Symbol, and Spirit (Cassell, 1997) and other books of LGBTQ+ spirituality, folklore, and mythology.
May 3, 2022
It's an interesting read that made me reflect and I liked the style of writing and the ideas.
Recommended.
Many thanks to the publisher and Netgalley for this ARC, all opinions are mine
Recommended.
Many thanks to the publisher and Netgalley for this ARC, all opinions are mine
May 28, 2022
I just finished @StormFaerywolf’s The Satyr’s Kiss.
Wonderfully written and a must for Pride Season. This book is rich in Queer history. Storm helps queer your craft. Though it’s target is queer men, I was able to find some of the exercises to be helpful for any gender.
I highly recommend for so many queer identifying people. Storm tackles things like gender and venerating those queer people who came before us. This book also has some “spicy” exercises sure to engage you more intimately in your spiritual journey. Storm makes the Queer Craft accessible, inclusive as well as exciting.
Enjoy exploring the queer side of witch craft and spirituality. We celebrate the past, present and future of what it means to be queer.
Wonderfully written and a must for Pride Season. This book is rich in Queer history. Storm helps queer your craft. Though it’s target is queer men, I was able to find some of the exercises to be helpful for any gender.
I highly recommend for so many queer identifying people. Storm tackles things like gender and venerating those queer people who came before us. This book also has some “spicy” exercises sure to engage you more intimately in your spiritual journey. Storm makes the Queer Craft accessible, inclusive as well as exciting.
Enjoy exploring the queer side of witch craft and spirituality. We celebrate the past, present and future of what it means to be queer.
May 4, 2022
I found it interesting and with good information. I was particularly interested in the meditations. However, it didn't have sources regarding some explanations or historical events, I found a few irregularities that confused me. I'm sure it will be useful for many practitioners, but it wasn't for me.
November 14, 2022
I can't recommend this more highly for the Queer practitioner! It's aimed at gay/bi trans and cis men, but I think it's an invaluable resource for Queer people of every stripe of the rainbow. Tons in there for everyone. Lots in there about Queer history and mythology and how to honor your Queerness and Queer ancestors.
April 4, 2023
It's refreshing to see an approach to neopaganism that doesn't assume that being sex-positive is an excuse to be relentlessly heteronormative.
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