What a delightful book! It’s a warm, clever story centered around the Fallen Stones Butterfly Farm, the largest butterfly breeder in Belize which supports the international live-butterfly trade. The author, Diane Marcum, and her partner stumble upon this wildlife sanctuary during a spontaneous getaway. Diane, a journalist by trade, is fascinated by the place, and does what journalists do – follows the story. She builds a relationship with the owner, and Diane and her partner are offered an to opportunity to live in the Belize jungle to more closely observed the workings of Fallen Stones and butterflies.
I’m usually really skeptical of memoirs that appear to be about a writer wandering off to remote locations to do in-depth research on a random topic that sparked their interest, with the secondary purpose of finding themselves or dealing with relationship issues. My general experience with books using this concept is that the whole thing seems unrealistic, the writer is really unprepared for what they signed up for in their remote surroundings to the point of negligence, or the self-involvement conjured up to address their personal problems inspires a lot of eye-rolling (usually it’s a combination of all three).
That was not my experience here though, Diane Marcum crafted a really enjoyable memoir. I loved her casual style. Her storytelling tends to meander at times and some of the sections about visits from friends didn’t seem to directly relate to the storyline, but it didn’t matter to me - it was just really fun to read. During her butterfly quest, Diane was working through a new relationship with her partner. She wrote about the emotionally complicated challenges of adapting to one another’s rhythms and needs in a calm way where I could really relate to the relationship (quite a feat given that they were navigating their new relationship in a remote jungle with no running water and limited electricity!). The jungle is a beautiful place but there are also a lot of creatures that make every day life uncomfortable…scorpions in the shower, bats in the kitchen, aggressive mosquitos, etc. Again, Diane addresses these little adventures in a relatable and often humorous way, but you can also sense her awe and respect for nature.
Fallen Stones is the most remarkable part of this book though. It’s a gem of a place that supports a dozen families in a Mayan village, has a kindhearted and insightful staff that works tirelessly to safeguard a piece of the Belizean rainforest, and maintains an important part in the environmentalist movement. Not to mention it’s covered in all different kinds of butterflies. I’ve always thought butterflies were beautiful, but I have a whole new respect for their delicate place in the ecosystem and their incredible resiliency.
If you want to do some armchair traveling to the Belize jungle, meet some the hard-working and passionate people behind an interesting industry, or just want to learn a lot of fascinating things about butterflies, this is a great pick!
Amazon First Reads - February 2022