Not old enough to drink but old enough to go to war, one where women weren’t supposed to be up front but sometimes necessity takes precedence in any military operation. But what no female soldier or sailor ever asked for or expected was to be sexually assaulted by her peers, and worse how some higher ups tried to stop it before it happened by isolating that female till all she has is herself, put that on top of little sleep and long shifts with no one ever to talk too, and they wonder why there are problems. Female soldiers and sailors hide a lot already, afraid if they go to sick call they will be known as weak (a guy must be really hurt), if they report sexual assault they are the ones to be in reprimanded (and usually are). It is a culture and no matter how prepared it will happen so women try to keep their head down and do their time so they don’t lose their benefits or more. I don’t think there is a servicewoman out there that wasn’t exposed to some of this. Her story is our story and I am glad she wrote it, and told it so well.
This is a story I am glad was told, every time I see on the news that they have passed newer and better rules in the military about sexual assault reporting all I can do is shake my head, in this wonderfully told story mistakes were made on all sides but in reality, it should have never happened in the first place. #iamvanessa