For Children Who Have a Brother or Sister Die. Written after Ray and Jody Goldstein’s daughter, Jess, died at the age of nine months. Simple and easy for young children to understand. From the “Sometimes when I talk about Jess, Mommy cries. I’m scared that my talking makes her cry. Mommy smiles. She says I don’t need to be afraid of her tears. I can talk about Jess and my feelings all I want to.” Includes a list of things children can do to remember and honor their siblings.