I will preface this by saying I'm a lifetime WW member. Six years ago, I lost nearly 70 pounds over 2 years on their program and have kept most of it off (that covid 10 is real...). I really think that in many ways the sensible eating and activity probably has added years to my life. I know I feel better mentally and physically. So why read this book? Well, I think it's because I still follow the eating plan, I still keep my activity up, and I still attend meetings as much as possible. And the mental part of this is so important - it is incorporated in the program but this gives so much more insight into the hows and whys.
What is The Shift? It is a reversal of the "usual" mindsets on weight loss.
You don't need to be harder/tougher on yourself --> You need to embrace self-compassion
You don't need big goals that set you up for epic fails --> You need to build habits and small doable goals that build up your sense of success
You don't need to "fix" your flaws --> You need to build on your strengths
You don't need to hate your body to motivate yourself to lose weight --> You need to love and value yourself to care for yourself and make good decisions
There are seven shifts, seven ways that the author, a scientist who has worked for years on the psychology of weight loss, promotes for caring for yourself and being kind to yourself. When you treat yourself as worthy of care, things turn around and the decisions become easier. It takes work. It's not easy. But it is worth it.
Info to remember:
What's in your head is just as important as what's on your plate.
Eating is not a moral issue. Weight gain and weight loss are not moral issues. Your weight is not your worth.
When you beat yourself up, you are less likely to reach your weight loss goals.
When you focus on your strengths, you see yourself in a new light, build momentum, and respond to setbacks based on what works for you...It's a paradigm shift from what's wrong to what's strong. People just feel more capable...Because now they see possibilities, potential...The behavior of keeping at it (just putting one foot in front of the other and continuing, staying in the game): That's the cornerstone of long-term change.
Building gratitude & happiness by prioritizing an enjoyable activity: each week select an activity that is either (a) an activity you enjoy doing alone (painting, baking, taking a bath, reading); or (b) an activity you enjoy doing with others (dining out, going to a concert, playing cards); or (c) an activity you enjoy doing for your community (volunteering at community center, going through things to donate, tutoring)
Three good things - practice regularly writing down 3 good things that happened to you today. Describe in detail and savor remembering them.