The Chronic Pain Couple: How to be a joyful partner & have a remarkable relationship in spite of chronic pain

by Karra Eloff

The struggle to maintain joy & a fulfilling relationship while coping with chronic illness and pain is a serious problem for millions of people today. Australian entrepreneur and health professional Karra Eloff draws on academic research and her own pursuit of joy in spite of suffering to bring this trailblazing, compassionate, low-energy and practical path to a remarkable new normal, for you and your chosen human/partner. On average, one in five adults suffer from chronic pain. In older people, the number rises to three in five. Most of these people don’t realise they don’t have to settle for a survival-based coexistence with their partner or bury their hopes for success and joy under a mountain of heat packs or duvets. Chronic illness or pain, according to Karra, need not hold you back from experiencing personal joy and success. It is possible to forge a path to remarkable―to move the dial of a relationship challenged with chronic pain from embattled and exhausted to joyful and passion-filled. This is possible through small, practical changes that require little energy but make a big impact in the areas • Communication • Mental health • Intimacy • Personal Success If you experience chronic pain or love someone with a chronic illness this book is for you. If you are a health professional seeking practical advice for people with chronic pain, this book is for you.

Genres: Nonfiction, Mental Health, Disability, Self Help, Audiobook

272 pages, Hardcover

Published March 14, 2023

Reviews

[Emily Fletcher · Rating 4 out of 5]

An incredible resource for those navigating chronic pain in a relationship. A lot of the information and techniques weren't new to me, but the application and lens were very useful, and have left me with lots of interesting and important discussions to have with my partner!

[Jess Brien · Rating 5 out of 5]

Thank you to Exisle Publishing for my copy of this book ❤️

I'll be honest - I felt nervous going into this book. Perhaps I was worried I'd feel worse about myself afterwards, however that was so not the case!

Karra's writing is as if you're listening to your best friend. She is honest, kind, respectful, and encouraging! I really enjoyed the structure and thought all of the advice was great.

I also enjoyed getting to learn about Karra's story too, which is an important aspect to this book. I immediately trusted what Karra was saying as I knew she understood it! She is also living it, and that makes all the difference (in my opinion).

I recommend this book for anyone who is living with a chronic illness (whether that includes chronic pain or not) who is in a relationship, or looking for one. This book can also be read by support people for an insight, however I think it's more suited for people living with the pain/condition.

I'm looking forward to interviewing Karra for an upcoming episode of That's So Chronic!

[Adhirai · Rating 5 out of 5]

I honestly felt so seen and empowered reading this, thank you so much Karra for writing this! It's exactly what I needed as I navigate this chronic pain journey alone ❤️

[Sarah Spivey · Rating 5 out of 5]

Such a good and honest discussion on chronic pain and it’s affect on couples! Both my husband and I suffer from chronic pain and have to work together to keep going forward and finding joy!

[Nikki · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is filled with practical advice delivered with compassion. It has really helped me with the process of coming to terms wih living with chronic pain

[Kristen · Rating 4 out of 5]

I thought this was an informative book. I have heard many of the things discussed, but it is nice to have it all in one place. I think this would be a good resource for anyone, not just couples dealing with chronic pain.

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[Nathan Grieve · Rating 4 out of 5]

I've finished the first read and added tabs for later so I can go back to it. I loved how she addresses the issues with compassion and a realistic view. I can easily see how this can be used for myself, my partner and all my platonic friendships that I would consider very close friends