Anne Tyler gives us an astutely observed novel, set in Baltimore, of the dynamics of an ordinary American family that begins in 1959 when the Garretts, father Robin, mother Mercy and their three children, the sensible and responsible Alice, the more flighty and rebellious Lily, attractive to and attracted to boys, and the sensitive 7 year old David, take their one and only family holiday at Deep Creek Lake. On holiday they can be seen as people who appear to not even know each other, alone and apart, yet in the relating of small acts that occur then and through time, we see how the effects ripple through the decades. In the title, Tyler gives us the metaphor of a French braid, which on being undone, crinkles are left in the hair for a considerable length of time, informing us "That's how families work too. You think you're free of them but you're never really free; the ripples are crimped in forever."
Through the decades we are given perspectives of different family members and others, their efforts to attain personal agency, their desires, the marriages, divorce, death, having children and grandchildren. When David leaves for college in 1970, Mercy is left with an empty nest and uses the opportunity to move essentials to live at her art studio, intent on putting all her energies into her painting, doing it gradually so that Robin doesn't notice, but, of course, he does eventually, but nothing is said. Whilst Alice and Lily maintain family ties, David's visits home are few and far between, and when he marries Greta, it is not him that lets the family know of the event. Two Robins are born, a girl to Alice and a boy to Lily, it is Candle (Kendall) who forms a close relationship with Mercy through her love of art, whilst the family come together for Robin and Mercy's 50th wedding anniversary. We finally begin to understand David, now a retired teacher, and who he is with his personal family experience of Covid when his young grandson, Benny, comes to stay with his son, Nicolas.
Running through the narrative is humour, compassion and humanity, capturing the resentments, judgements, bickering, love, and the need for independence within families, much of which will resonate for so many readers, along with the knowing and yet not knowing close family members. Tyler nails it when it comes to identifying and painting a picture of the complex and emotional ties that bind and pull apart the modern American family. This is a wonderfully engaging novel that is a delight and joy to read, beautifully written, covering life through the decades, which given its relatively short length, showcases the remarkable talents of the author. Highly recommended. Many thanks to the publisher for an ARC.