The Devil You Know by Freida McFadden
★ 3.70/5 starssss!
Read: 2 August, ’26
My thoughts:
I wasn’t satisfied with the ending of this book, mainly because we all know who should’ve been the endgame couple… and they just weren’t. Because of that alone, my rating dropped.
Also, more than three-quarters of the book was basically Jane being completely fed up with Ben. Not going to lie, he acted like a kid for the entire book. He’s not a child—he’s her husband. Jane kept thinking about the consequences if she didn’t just comply and let him be himself, but I kept wondering… if you’re constantly scared of the consequences, is the relationship even worth it?
She’d lowered her standards to the point where him simply saying “thank you” would’ve made her entire day, and honestly, that’s just really sad. But at the same time, I think it reflects modern dating culture surprisingly well because, not going to lie, it genuinely feels like that’s where we’re at these days. I know quite a few people rated this book lower, but I wonder if that’s partly because it mirrors the reality of how poor so many relationships can be now. Being a decent human being almost feels like the bare minimum… and somehow that’s become the standard worth celebrating.
So yes, it was frustrating because we all know who should’ve been endgame, but we also know why they weren’t. It was largely out of their hands.
I also think Jane and Ben got married far too early, while they were still deep in the honeymoon phase. Once that wore off and they actually had to live life together, reality set in. That’s when you truly get to know someone—not when you’re floating around on cloud nine with your feelings clouding your judgement.
Honestly, that’s one of the reasons relationships have never really interested me. I have major trust issues because you never truly know someone until you’re actually in those situations with them, and by then, a lot of people feel trapped. Personally, I’d rather avoid all of that. But also… I’m just not interested.
Overall, this was still an enjoyable read. It felt like peeking into contemporary dating and relationship culture from the outside, and if anything, it just made me grateful not to be part of it.