A wavering middle-of-the-road novel, with many parts that I vacillate between liking and disliking. A great premise with a not-so-great execution.
First, I had a hard time really investing in the story as I found the overall premise that these girls who met and formed a fast friendship back in their teen years and hadn’t seen each other or even really kept in contact since, were now claiming to be best friends and that their solid friendship had provided so many positive benefits. While I think such friendships can happen and can be maintained over time and distance, I didn’t feel it here. By the end of the book, I felt like only one of the four friends had really made the effort to maintain the friendship across time and miles.
Also, I could not identify with “friendships” like these. I have no patience for the drama and contrived niceties. Yes, there was mean behavior, but it also happened 30+ years ago, why are they still hanging onto it? At one point, it is stated that friendships are forever but so are rivalries. Throughout the book, even as they relive their camp memories, I wondered if they were friends or rivals, and why the polar opposites were the only options?
Another huge problem for me is that I know the theme is friendship, but I am still mystified as to the main point the author wanted to make. The novel tries to be too much and brings in mentions of stereotypes, growing up and losing the fun of childhood, unhappy adults, losing your dreams, body positivity, losing a sibling or parent, and other assorted happenings and troubles. Some of these come up recurringly but none of them are ultimately a major secondary theme. Every time a new subject was introduced, it made the story swing away from a main point and I wondered why it was even introduced in the first place. A clear focus with supporting material would have made for a smooth, relevant flow.
The 80’s references were a fun throwback but not totally awesome as they started to irk me after a while. If I had liked the story more as a whole, I don’t think they would have bothered me at all. I liked that the girls relived their camp memories but wondered just how fun it was with only three people.
I agree with another reviewer that this often felt like a “Pure Michigan” ad. There are so many Michigan mentions, you cannot forget that this is set in Michigan.
Those were my main disappointments and they comprise the bulk of my review, but I did enjoy much of the story. I liked the premise of remembering camp days and earlier friendships, I liked the idea of a true friendship that lasts a lifetime, I liked much of the positive thoughts and feelings regarding friendship and growing up to be who we want to be. I loved the approach to and treatment of the closing scene with Liz and her mom. It was a very fitting end for both Liz and the entire storyline, and there were tears on my part too.
I came away with the impression that I should believe camp was fantastical, and that the girls learned so many profound life lessons there and their own influence on others was substantial and beneficial. They were a force for good and everything goes their way in life. But I don’t believe that; the author did not sell me on that. I liked all of the components, just not how they were tied together. The story was here and there and brought in too many undeveloped and/or unnecessary threads and at times, even detracted from the image the author was trying to portray.
In the end, my takeaways are pretty general and most certainly not what the author intended:
We all define friendship in different ways.
Like life itself, friendships are complicated.
2.5 stars rounded down to 2 because I couldn’t accept the premise presented here.