What I loved about this book:
- it takes its goal seriously, it is an in-depth look at particular behavioral characteristics
- it outlines the neurological aspect of dog behavior (yesss, science, baby)
- it provides a holistic understanding of what happens in the mind and body of a reactive dog
- it is mindful about the use of language (guardian instead of owner, etc.)
- it offers insight into the learning process of dogs (classical conditioning, operant conditioning, single event learning, learned helplessness, etc.)
- it advises against aversive training methods and offers alternatives
- it clearly explains in a step by step approach why the dominance theory is incorrect, it highlights several other misconceptions such as the "bad dog", "the manipulative dog", "the guilty dog"
- it empowers you as a guardian to understand, guide, and support your dog's relationship with the world and particular triggers
- it discusses the difference between reactivity and aggression
- it provides a clear description of the ladder of aggression and escalation in dogs, shedding much-needed light on the "he went crazy out of the blue" misconception
- it explains why dogs skip the lower steps on the ladder of escalation and how memory plays a role in reactive behavior
- it stresses the importance of correctly reading your dog's body language and behavior in an attempt to support deescalating certain situations
- it acknowledges that working with a reactive dog is not a linear process and that there will most most likely be setbacks, as well as progress
- it does not make empty promises of quick solutions or immediate success, actually stating that there is no guarantee in solving the reactivity once and for all
- it offers tools and realistic options to improve the situation and reduce stress in both dog and guardian
- it teaches you not to demonize guardians who do not have the resources to work or live with a reactive dog and decide to rehome him/her - although far from ideal, sometimes this is the best long term option for everyone involved
- it is detailed and clear enough about the actual steps of building a solution from allowing your dog to flush cortisol out of his body through to resilience and confidence-building exercises over to the actual behavior modification steps of counterconditioning and desensitization
- it supports guardians in understanding that reactive dogs are dogs who need more empathy, more kindness, more patience, more attention - not less
- it does not lose itself in sentimental effusions about the wonders of having a dog, it rather states them through the incredible research and dedication to its topic. I have read so many superficial "redirect with a toy" kind of books and articles before. This was indeed a breath of much-needed fresh air to me. You learn when to redirect with a toy, when to distract, the accurate timing for a reward, and you understand that evasion is not the ultimate solution. The need to expose your dog to the trigger from a safe distance in order for the counterconditioning to work is crucial. Also, you learn why sometimes your over-the-threshold dog does not react to your attempts to redirect/reward, etc. By understanding the whole process and the logic behind it, not just bits and pieces, your confidence and resilience as a guardian are strengthened
- without becoming preachy, it reminds readers of their responsibility in making the human-dog relationship work, in providing support to their animal companions where needed, in understanding their part of the deal as guardians, and living up to it
- it stresses the fact that behavior does not happen in a vacuum and that multiple factors contribute to it. All behavior is a consequence of a certain type of input and thus, all behavior is normal, although in some cases, undesired
- it raises awareness about the importance of really understanding the breed of choice, its specific needs, and disposition. It stresses the necessity to make informed decisions in this sense: for example, high prey drive in a Beagle is natural, high energy in a Husky as well, emotional dependency and need for closeness is typical for a Great Dane - these are not behavioral issues, this is the nature of certain dogs. Additionally, an underexercised or mentally understimulated dog, as well as a dog suffering from separation anxiety may display unwanted behaviors, but this does not make them "bad dogs" or "spiteful dogs". It is the inevitable consequence of them not having their needs met, of certain structures or lack thereof, that don't allow dogs to successfully integrate into their guardians' daily routine. It is utterly important to get the breed that best fits one's resources and that we as guardians can do right by
- it highlights the fact that dogs do not owe us seamless adaptation to our lifestyles but, obviously, have needs and wants of their own, needs and wants that we as guardians are responsible for
- it does not support the myth that neutering/spaying is a universal tool to improve behavior aka make the dog "calm down"
I read this book in an attempt to understand my socially awkward, overexcited, extremely extroverted, 60kg, frustrated greeter better. And even though this book focuses mostly on fear reactivity, I have learned more from it than from months of online research, several other books, and multiple trainers. I was able to practice the solutions provided with quite some success, because now I understand the big picture.
It's works like these that warm your heart and truly help deepen your knowledge and understanding of your dog's behavior. It's also books like these that offer you tools to improve the human-dog relationship and establish a balance in both your lives.
Jay Gurden leads by example in terms of what it means to love your dog: to, layer upon layer, build a bridge between two completely different communication systems and meet each other halfway with patience, empathy, and kindness.