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Gay 4 Renovations #1
Style of Love
Asher’s dream job: Interior design – check.
His dream boyfriend: Park Bo Gum – not check. Sadly.
Straight as a board, childhood bff Zar: check
Zar becoming his boyfriend: che–wait, what?!
Tags:
Oh look a contemporary romance, GFY, Best friends to lovers, Dumbasses to lovers, not so much slowburn as two idiots standing around on fire, emotional baggage check, HGTV meets BL, family of choice, Asher needs a better family, Zar’s will adopt him, healthy choice making (and some impulsive ones), no angst here only cuddles, best friends giving The Talk, yes that one, Gage hates -coughlovescough- them, tropey tropes a lot, yaoi fangirls as co-workers leads to interesting situations, and sexy photoshoots, best supporting character goes to the dog, small town, Asher and Zar are so obvious there is a bet riding on them, Zar uses handcuffs for not sexy reasons, at least the first time, only one sledgehammer was sacrificed in the making of this book
Trigger warning:
Toxic family members
His dream boyfriend: Park Bo Gum – not check. Sadly.
Straight as a board, childhood bff Zar: check
Zar becoming his boyfriend: che–wait, what?!
Tags:
Oh look a contemporary romance, GFY, Best friends to lovers, Dumbasses to lovers, not so much slowburn as two idiots standing around on fire, emotional baggage check, HGTV meets BL, family of choice, Asher needs a better family, Zar’s will adopt him, healthy choice making (and some impulsive ones), no angst here only cuddles, best friends giving The Talk, yes that one, Gage hates -coughlovescough- them, tropey tropes a lot, yaoi fangirls as co-workers leads to interesting situations, and sexy photoshoots, best supporting character goes to the dog, small town, Asher and Zar are so obvious there is a bet riding on them, Zar uses handcuffs for not sexy reasons, at least the first time, only one sledgehammer was sacrificed in the making of this book
Trigger warning:
Toxic family members
291 pages, Kindle Edition
First published March 4, 2022
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About the author
A.J. Sherwood
82 books2,052 followersAJ Sherwood believes in happily ever afters, magic, dragons, good men, and dark chocolate. She often dreams at night of delectable men doing sexy things with each other. In between writing multiple books (often at the same time) she pets her cats, plays with her dogs, and attempts insane things like aerial yoga.
She currently resides in Tennessee with aforementioned cats, dogs, and her editor/best friend/sister/partner in crime.
She currently resides in Tennessee with aforementioned cats, dogs, and her editor/best friend/sister/partner in crime.
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March 15, 2022
3.5 stars.
⭐
✦ childhood best friends to lovers. what an amazing trope when done well.
✦ this book felt like a warm hug. gave me lots of fuzzy feelings.
✦ mcs who actually communicate?! *gasp* shocking.
✦ both mcs - Asher and Zar - were very likeable. couldn't help but root for them as a couple.
✦ the "straight" mc being the one to do the chasing, while also getting all clingy and jealous?? absolutely amazing. usually it's the other way around in these GFY best friends to lovers books.
✦ the way Zar did not ignore his attraction to Asher and just went after him??? amazing. outstanding. world stopping. Zar is truly husband material tbh.
✦ the way these two always anticipated each other needs? so cute!!!
“trust me on this when i say, the best relationships aren’t based on romance. they’re based on friendship. married life is you hanging out with your best friend, day in, day out. if you can’t enjoy their company like you would a friend’s, then no amount of love is going to save you at the end of the day.”
✦ the friend group was amazing. so much love, support, and sweet platonic affection between them all. they were all such great side characters.
✦ speaking of side characters... the absolute king - BFG. a giant fluffy teddy bear dog, who just wants all the scritches and treats, stealing the show every time he's in a scene. 🐕
✦ cuddling. lots and lots of cuddling. hand holding. forehead kisses. so much sweetness and fluffiness, i almost couldn't resist squealing like a lunatic sometimes.
✦ i am used to a lot of these cutesy, fluffy, contemporary books ending the moment the mcs get together, but this one didn't. we got a lot of cute, domestic, coupley moments. love that.
✦ very torn between giving this 3 stars and 4 stars tbh. their relationship almost seemed too perfect sometimes if you know what i mean.
✦ if you love cute, easy to consume contemporary romances, you'll most likely love this. i was in the mood for something fluffy, and this certainly delivered.
✦ childhood best friends to lovers. what an amazing trope when done well.
✦ this book felt like a warm hug. gave me lots of fuzzy feelings.
✦ mcs who actually communicate?! *gasp* shocking.
✦ both mcs - Asher and Zar - were very likeable. couldn't help but root for them as a couple.
✦ the "straight" mc being the one to do the chasing, while also getting all clingy and jealous?? absolutely amazing. usually it's the other way around in these GFY best friends to lovers books.
✦ the way Zar did not ignore his attraction to Asher and just went after him??? amazing. outstanding. world stopping. Zar is truly husband material tbh.
✦ the way these two always anticipated each other needs? so cute!!!
“trust me on this when i say, the best relationships aren’t based on romance. they’re based on friendship. married life is you hanging out with your best friend, day in, day out. if you can’t enjoy their company like you would a friend’s, then no amount of love is going to save you at the end of the day.”
✦ the friend group was amazing. so much love, support, and sweet platonic affection between them all. they were all such great side characters.
✦ speaking of side characters... the absolute king - BFG. a giant fluffy teddy bear dog, who just wants all the scritches and treats, stealing the show every time he's in a scene. 🐕
✦ cuddling. lots and lots of cuddling. hand holding. forehead kisses. so much sweetness and fluffiness, i almost couldn't resist squealing like a lunatic sometimes.
✦ i am used to a lot of these cutesy, fluffy, contemporary books ending the moment the mcs get together, but this one didn't. we got a lot of cute, domestic, coupley moments. love that.
✦ very torn between giving this 3 stars and 4 stars tbh. their relationship almost seemed too perfect sometimes if you know what i mean.
✦ if you love cute, easy to consume contemporary romances, you'll most likely love this. i was in the mood for something fluffy, and this certainly delivered.
March 9, 2022
"I've thought about it, slept on it... hasn't changed the realization any. I want you, Asher." I read nothing in his eyes but sincerity. It took my whole world for a spin. I meant that literally-it felt like my head was spinning.
aj sherwood's style of love was insanely good. it was cute, hot, heartwarming and, shockingly, for me as well. it was like the pinnacle of my family-friendly gay dreams. this was a tremendous win because the overall story was just surrounded with actual communication, domestic vibes, and positivity. refreshing to read about characters who are intellectual and ready to... communicate. to talk things out first before they jump into the next best thing. the road that would eventually lead to miscommunication or unnecessary drama was closed down immediately. another, usually its the gay best friend who pursues or longs for his straight friend but i love how in here it's the opposite. i was living for it. the way zar did all the romantics got me feelings for him as well. i was full blown swooning and all that shit. if a book got me a bit delusional, then that book is a hit. also... their height difference? the way zar has to lean down or for asher to tip his toes up to meet zar's kiss? unparalleled, unrivaled, and top tier. zar being this hot cop is nice touch. like i was drooling lmao.
March 12, 2022
This was a bit of a struggle for me to get through sadly. 😞 I was so into the first 20% or so and then I just got less and less interested as I kept reading. The conflicts ended as soon as they began. Zar pining for Asher lasted about 10 seconds! My eyes kept glazing over at the renovation talk. There was so much of it. (Okay maybe there wasn’t but this book felt so long to me and imagine my surprise when I learned it was actually relatively short🤣) I didn’t vibe with the humor either and I’ve never heard the word ‘lover’ be used so much. But this wasn’t a total wash. BFG the dog was adorable. 🥰 I loved every scene with him! I liked the friend group and I’m definitely going to keep reading the series. They gave such great advice. So many romantic comedies are full of well meaning friends who offer empty platitudes to the MC and I appreciated how thoughtful and caring this friend group was. The affection displayed between Zar and Asher was super sweet. Loved how much they cuddled even before dating.🥰 I didn’t really feel the romantic connection as much as I did the best friend connection. And the first kiss // sex scenes were such a let down. I tend to avoid small town stories because the nosiness and getting the opinions of every Bill, Tom and Harry get on my nerves and that happened here. Everyone was involved. Everyone had opinions. I am still looking forward to Cohen’s book next though!🤞😊
March 15, 2022
this is the kind of book that’ll make you audibly ‘awww’.
I loved this sooo much. It was so much more than what I expected and it gave my gooey butterlies. I will have to say that this book was very ———— *will insert word once I find a word to describe the feeling in my head*
So I think it’s not for everyone. It’s very Rom-com though, so if that’s what you’re into then I think you’ll like it
Gage studied us with an exaggerated arch of his eyebrow. “I love how he says ‘I want to sit’ and you translate that as ‘be my chair.’”
•best-friends to lovers cooked to perfection
•angst free. Drama free goodness
•gay for you done so smooth
•only the best ever friend group -secondary characters you can find
•hilarious lol moments
•nosey lil town written w/o it being annoying
Oh, I had a delicious omelet this morning.”
“Oh, really? Do tell.”
“I seasoned the eggs with sugar, oil, chocolate, even threw in some flour for texture. It was amazing. Best omelet ever.”
I I translated without effort. “So, you had cake for breakfast.”
“ Want some?”
I loved the writing here. The author made it so fun for me to read from both Zar and Asher’s pov. The sarcastic and adorable dialogues were what made me keep going.
The family drama was a bit much. I think the whole confrontation and bitch slapping moment could’ve gone a lot different? In my opinion it was completely fine with it being a spectacle so Ashers family would stop acting like the victim but I just couldn’t handle the way Zar’s mom handled it. It was funny and dramatic but the writing was written well enough for me to hear her screaming in my head.
This book contains toxic families so watch out for that. The moms name was Karen ffs.
The friends thought🤌🤌🤌 I loved them😭😭
Riggs: I just had a four-year-old girl ask me if having a penis is fun?
Gage: It has its ups and downs
Asher: Sometimes it’s a little hard
Cohen: It’s a pain in the ass
Riggs: Dammit, guys, come on. What am I supposed to say?!
Beside that this book was a win for me and in definitely checking out the rest of this series
I loved this sooo much. It was so much more than what I expected and it gave my gooey butterlies. I will have to say that this book was very ———— *will insert word once I find a word to describe the feeling in my head*
So I think it’s not for everyone. It’s very Rom-com though, so if that’s what you’re into then I think you’ll like it
Gage studied us with an exaggerated arch of his eyebrow. “I love how he says ‘I want to sit’ and you translate that as ‘be my chair.’”
•best-friends to lovers cooked to perfection
•angst free. Drama free goodness
•gay for you done so smooth
•only the best ever friend group -secondary characters you can find
•hilarious lol moments
•nosey lil town written w/o it being annoying
Oh, I had a delicious omelet this morning.”
“Oh, really? Do tell.”
“I seasoned the eggs with sugar, oil, chocolate, even threw in some flour for texture. It was amazing. Best omelet ever.”
I I translated without effort. “So, you had cake for breakfast.”
“ Want some?”
I loved the writing here. The author made it so fun for me to read from both Zar and Asher’s pov. The sarcastic and adorable dialogues were what made me keep going.
The family drama was a bit much. I think the whole confrontation and bitch slapping moment could’ve gone a lot different? In my opinion it was completely fine with it being a spectacle so Ashers family would stop acting like the victim but I just couldn’t handle the way Zar’s mom handled it. It was funny and dramatic but the writing was written well enough for me to hear her screaming in my head.
This book contains toxic families so watch out for that. The moms name was Karen ffs.
The friends thought🤌🤌🤌 I loved them😭😭
Riggs: I just had a four-year-old girl ask me if having a penis is fun?
Gage: It has its ups and downs
Asher: Sometimes it’s a little hard
Cohen: It’s a pain in the ass
Riggs: Dammit, guys, come on. What am I supposed to say?!
Beside that this book was a win for me and in definitely checking out the rest of this series
May 5, 2022
2.5 rounded down because I'm a bitter queen.
Style of Love is objectively not a bad book. The writing is pretty good; the characters are pretty interesting; the town is described in a very nice, attractive way.
But good grief, this is not my type of book.
I am going to be very careful while writing this review, but it's my opinion, so deal. There is nothing in this book that I, a cis man, am drawn to or identify with. I am very clearly not the intended audience. And that's perfectly fine. But for me, and my taste in m/m romance, there is next to nothing realistic or particularly even cute, funny, or sexy in this book.
There are a few reasons why I think this. The gay-for-you trope is, as always in this genre, alive and well. In some books it works well; here, it makes even less sense than usual. You're telling me that you have a heterosexual man who is so comfortable with his sexuality that he is, in effect, in a long-term relationship with his (gay) best friend, a person to whom he has literally never even considered being attracted, and suddenly has a revelatory moment where, golly, it turns out that he is gay after all! And it's all cool - five pages of wondering what happened and he's comfortable with it! What??? Like, even if you wanted to place this character on the asexual spectrum, that's not how it works.
Another one of my main complaints with this book is how fetishizing it feels, and not in a sexy way. Characters literally ship this couple - and shipped them for years before they got together. In the real world, we deride shipping real people because, wait for it, they're real people and that's gross. In this book, the characters are like, "Oh gosh that's a great idea!" What??? The fetishizing doesn't stop there - the characters actively watch Asian BL dramas and drool over Asian men; a pair of women take reference photos for their BL comic strip and then post them on their Patreon for their fans to gawk over; and people place bets that a heterosexual character will turn gay. And on the note of Asian men fetishization - Park Bo Gum is mentioned in the summary yet isn't mentioned a single time in the book. Why would you do that except if you wanted to draw in the BL/Koreaboo crowd? And then there's a bizarre family drama and an utterly strange coming out scene... I just... you can't make this up.
Listen. Like I said above, I get that everyone's taste in books is different, and this book is very clearly not my type of book. That's fine. But while reading Style of Love I found myself feeling really, well, dirty, like my entire sexuality was being objectified and commodified. That is not an uncommon feeling, particularly when reading m/m romance; it's why I stopped reading the genre circa 2010 and only picked it up again over a decade of social progress later. I just think it's a shame because the writing is pretty good and I am always here for POC characters. I don't think I'll read more in this series.
Recommended if you like BL dramas; gay manga (I am not saying "b*ra" because it's a slur); gfy trope; the fetishization of sexualities; close friendship groups; size differences; house remodeling; a really cute dog.
Style of Love is objectively not a bad book. The writing is pretty good; the characters are pretty interesting; the town is described in a very nice, attractive way.
But good grief, this is not my type of book.
I am going to be very careful while writing this review, but it's my opinion, so deal. There is nothing in this book that I, a cis man, am drawn to or identify with. I am very clearly not the intended audience. And that's perfectly fine. But for me, and my taste in m/m romance, there is next to nothing realistic or particularly even cute, funny, or sexy in this book.
There are a few reasons why I think this. The gay-for-you trope is, as always in this genre, alive and well. In some books it works well; here, it makes even less sense than usual. You're telling me that you have a heterosexual man who is so comfortable with his sexuality that he is, in effect, in a long-term relationship with his (gay) best friend, a person to whom he has literally never even considered being attracted, and suddenly has a revelatory moment where, golly, it turns out that he is gay after all! And it's all cool - five pages of wondering what happened and he's comfortable with it! What??? Like, even if you wanted to place this character on the asexual spectrum, that's not how it works.
Another one of my main complaints with this book is how fetishizing it feels, and not in a sexy way. Characters literally ship this couple - and shipped them for years before they got together. In the real world, we deride shipping real people because, wait for it, they're real people and that's gross. In this book, the characters are like, "Oh gosh that's a great idea!" What??? The fetishizing doesn't stop there - the characters actively watch Asian BL dramas and drool over Asian men; a pair of women take reference photos for their BL comic strip and then post them on their Patreon for their fans to gawk over; and people place bets that a heterosexual character will turn gay. And on the note of Asian men fetishization - Park Bo Gum is mentioned in the summary yet isn't mentioned a single time in the book. Why would you do that except if you wanted to draw in the BL/Koreaboo crowd? And then there's a bizarre family drama and an utterly strange coming out scene... I just... you can't make this up.
Listen. Like I said above, I get that everyone's taste in books is different, and this book is very clearly not my type of book. That's fine. But while reading Style of Love I found myself feeling really, well, dirty, like my entire sexuality was being objectified and commodified. That is not an uncommon feeling, particularly when reading m/m romance; it's why I stopped reading the genre circa 2010 and only picked it up again over a decade of social progress later. I just think it's a shame because the writing is pretty good and I am always here for POC characters. I don't think I'll read more in this series.
Recommended if you like BL dramas; gay manga (I am not saying "b*ra" because it's a slur); gfy trope; the fetishization of sexualities; close friendship groups; size differences; house remodeling; a really cute dog.
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February 3, 2024I am on the lookout for another perfect "best friends who are basically already dating but dont realize it" and this was recomended but it just wasn't it.
No rating, started skimming at about 50%
No rating, started skimming at about 50%
March 14, 2022
3.5 stars
I really did like this, but I can’t say it completely blew me away.
I liked the fluffiness of it. The way there was no unnecessary angst or miscommunication. I also really liked both Asher and Zar. And yay that there was no big gay freak-out. Zar was actually the one to pursue Asher, while Asher was afraid they would wreck their friendship. So there were a lot of things to like here.
But still… I don’t see myself re-reading this anytime soon. It just didn’t feel that deep. And I had a hard time understanding why Asher kept trying with his parents. But that could also be because I have zero experience with that sort of thing. But I would like to think I would choose myself and not try to make my family love me by letting them treat me badly.
Overall it was a very enjoyable read, just not super special.
I really did like this, but I can’t say it completely blew me away.
I liked the fluffiness of it. The way there was no unnecessary angst or miscommunication. I also really liked both Asher and Zar. And yay that there was no big gay freak-out. Zar was actually the one to pursue Asher, while Asher was afraid they would wreck their friendship. So there were a lot of things to like here.
But still… I don’t see myself re-reading this anytime soon. It just didn’t feel that deep. And I had a hard time understanding why Asher kept trying with his parents. But that could also be because I have zero experience with that sort of thing. But I would like to think I would choose myself and not try to make my family love me by letting them treat me badly.
Overall it was a very enjoyable read, just not super special.
May 5, 2022
4+
Moje pierwsze spotkanie z AJ Sherwood okazało się wyjątkowo dobre, urocze, optymistyczne i niespodziewanie zabawne 😁
Asher i Zar to para przyjaciół, znająca się od przedszkola, która była parą na długo przed tym, zanim się zorientowali 😁 Wszyscy naokoło o tym wiedzieli i robili zakłady, który pierwszy pęknie i się zorientuje. A że w tym związku przez lata brakowało jedynie świadomości, romantyzmu i seksu? Pfff... drobiazg 😁 Jedna mała sesja zdjęciowa pomogła to rozwiązać 😁
Bardzo mi się podobała scena - długa scena, jak Zarowi przeskakuje pstryczek. Jak doznaje olśnienia. Jak widzi Asha nagle i niespodziewanie w innym świetle. Jak się orientuje, że nie jest taki hetero, jak mu się wydawało. Jak zaczyna rozumieć, dlaczego żadna dziewczyna z nim nie mogła wytrzymać - albo on z żadną dziewczyną. W końcu żadna kobieta nie była warta poświęcenia przyjaźni z Ashem 😉
Poza tym autorka stosuje koncepcję niezmiernie karkołomną, dziwną i niespotykaną - bohaterowie ze sobą rozmawiają 😁 Cóż za szok 😂
Do tego dodajmy świetnych kumpli, jedną pozytywną rodzinkę i jedną toksyczną oraz cudownego psa, który był o 1/3 cięższy od swojego właściciela i który na miejscu pracy chłopaków z Gay 4 Renovations (renowacja pojedynczych pomieszczeń bądź całych domów) zbierał wszystkie narzędzia - nawet z rąk pracowników i odnosił na miejsce - i powstaje fajny kawałek tekstu, przy którym się naprawdę dobrze bawiłam 😁
Moje pierwsze spotkanie z AJ Sherwood okazało się wyjątkowo dobre, urocze, optymistyczne i niespodziewanie zabawne 😁
Asher i Zar to para przyjaciół, znająca się od przedszkola, która była parą na długo przed tym, zanim się zorientowali 😁 Wszyscy naokoło o tym wiedzieli i robili zakłady, który pierwszy pęknie i się zorientuje. A że w tym związku przez lata brakowało jedynie świadomości, romantyzmu i seksu? Pfff... drobiazg 😁 Jedna mała sesja zdjęciowa pomogła to rozwiązać 😁
Bardzo mi się podobała scena - długa scena, jak Zarowi przeskakuje pstryczek. Jak doznaje olśnienia. Jak widzi Asha nagle i niespodziewanie w innym świetle. Jak się orientuje, że nie jest taki hetero, jak mu się wydawało. Jak zaczyna rozumieć, dlaczego żadna dziewczyna z nim nie mogła wytrzymać - albo on z żadną dziewczyną. W końcu żadna kobieta nie była warta poświęcenia przyjaźni z Ashem 😉
Poza tym autorka stosuje koncepcję niezmiernie karkołomną, dziwną i niespotykaną - bohaterowie ze sobą rozmawiają 😁 Cóż za szok 😂
Do tego dodajmy świetnych kumpli, jedną pozytywną rodzinkę i jedną toksyczną oraz cudownego psa, który był o 1/3 cięższy od swojego właściciela i który na miejscu pracy chłopaków z Gay 4 Renovations (renowacja pojedynczych pomieszczeń bądź całych domów) zbierał wszystkie narzędzia - nawet z rąk pracowników i odnosił na miejsce - i powstaje fajny kawałek tekstu, przy którym się naprawdę dobrze bawiłam 😁
July 27, 2022
4-4.5 stars
i love any book with home reno's involved (my inner interior designer coming out) but this was a fun, sugary sweet, low relationship angst book.
i listened to the audiobook, both narrators were new to me, and they did a great job, i liked Asher's voice more, but they both did great in my opinion.
Asher and Zar being friends for over 28 years... i am shook that a photo shoot was the deciding factor to change the relationship. I don't find that as plausible, but when reading you suspend reality. haha i like Ashers character more but Zar was such a sweet friend and loved the support he gave Asher with that devil family. Ashers family all except Ryan are turds. haha they are the worst.. looking at you Karen..
I am excited to read all about these guys, in the Gay 4 Renovations company! they all shined in this book and made me pumped to read future books about them!
Looks like Cohen's book is next and I am interested to see how it will go, single dad books, if done right are one of my favorites!!
i love any book with home reno's involved (my inner interior designer coming out) but this was a fun, sugary sweet, low relationship angst book.
i listened to the audiobook, both narrators were new to me, and they did a great job, i liked Asher's voice more, but they both did great in my opinion.
Asher and Zar being friends for over 28 years... i am shook that a photo shoot was the deciding factor to change the relationship. I don't find that as plausible, but when reading you suspend reality. haha i like Ashers character more but Zar was such a sweet friend and loved the support he gave Asher with that devil family. Ashers family all except Ryan are turds. haha they are the worst.. looking at you Karen..
I am excited to read all about these guys, in the Gay 4 Renovations company! they all shined in this book and made me pumped to read future books about them!
Looks like Cohen's book is next and I am interested to see how it will go, single dad books, if done right are one of my favorites!!
April 5, 2022
I feel bad rating this book so low, but please remember this is based on my own enjoyment level!
I found the beginning pretty decent, if not a bit dull. It was warm and cozy with extremely likable characters who gave great, mature advice.
Eventually, Zar realises he’s attracted to Asher and we get the dullest first kiss scenes and the dullest sex scenes with zero foreplay. Just straight to penetration. No discussion about how amazing anything is, no fireworks, just “I liked that.” Then I started to feel like I was kinda reading a self help book masquerading as a romance because the communication was a bit TOO good and a bit TOO forced.
Asher’s family is fucking disgusting and he didn’t even cut them off by the end, he only talked about it. Good god, why would anyone ever put themselves through that shit.
There’s lots to like though, if you’re less of an asshole than me. It’s a really cute story with cute characters, a cute setting, and cute snuggles. Oh, and a cuuuuute dog.
The epilogue isn’t even about the mains, which always drives me up the wall.
I found the beginning pretty decent, if not a bit dull. It was warm and cozy with extremely likable characters who gave great, mature advice.
Eventually, Zar realises he’s attracted to Asher and we get the dullest first kiss scenes and the dullest sex scenes with zero foreplay. Just straight to penetration. No discussion about how amazing anything is, no fireworks, just “I liked that.” Then I started to feel like I was kinda reading a self help book masquerading as a romance because the communication was a bit TOO good and a bit TOO forced.
Asher’s family is fucking disgusting and he didn’t even cut them off by the end, he only talked about it. Good god, why would anyone ever put themselves through that shit.
There’s lots to like though, if you’re less of an asshole than me. It’s a really cute story with cute characters, a cute setting, and cute snuggles. Oh, and a cuuuuute dog.
The epilogue isn’t even about the mains, which always drives me up the wall.
May 9, 2025
Divertido, dulce, entretenido
Asher y Zar han Sido amigos desde la infancia, los mejores amigos. Pero cuando una sesión de fotos los lleva a sentir mucho más que amistad, comienzan a preguntarse si puede existir entre ellos algún romance. Podrá Zar aceptar si no es tan hetero como pensaba? Podrá Asher dejar de un lado sus miedos y tener una relación con Zar?
Está fue una lectura ligera, divertida, dulce y romántica. Me gustaron mucho los personajes, sobre todo los secundarios. Me gustaron mucho los diálogos, y lo fácil que es seguir las trama. En fin, me gustó mucho esta lectura, y es seguro que leeré otras cosas de este autor más adelante.
Asher y Zar han Sido amigos desde la infancia, los mejores amigos. Pero cuando una sesión de fotos los lleva a sentir mucho más que amistad, comienzan a preguntarse si puede existir entre ellos algún romance. Podrá Zar aceptar si no es tan hetero como pensaba? Podrá Asher dejar de un lado sus miedos y tener una relación con Zar?
Está fue una lectura ligera, divertida, dulce y romántica. Me gustaron mucho los personajes, sobre todo los secundarios. Me gustaron mucho los diálogos, y lo fácil que es seguir las trama. En fin, me gustó mucho esta lectura, y es seguro que leeré otras cosas de este autor más adelante.
March 8, 2022
Unfortunately, besides that awesome photo shoot, I didn't really feel it. 😒
3.5 stars
3.5 stars
August 7, 2022
This was so cute. I seriously can't stop smiling.
If you are used to this author's work this might be quite a change of pace though.
If you are used to this author's work this might be quite a change of pace though.
October 26, 2022
The way POCs were described made me rage. Creepy book on multiple levels. Will never read this author again.
March 18, 2022
Childhood best friends to lovers, cheesy movie nights, morning face times,sexy photoshoots ,BL dramas and a friendship group to die for.This book had every cute thing out there and it did not disappoint !
TW : Toxic Family
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My Rating : 4/5 🌟🌟🌟🌟
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“Yes. I see his fears, I recognize their basis, but failure is only one possibility. All I can do is prove to Ash, step by step, that we’re good together. This is the relationship we’ve both been looking for.”
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This book follows our main characters : Asher and Zar,as they try to overcome the emotional baggage and their feelings towards each other while a friendship gang runs loose. I absolutely loved the friendship between Asher and Zar, and the way they were always there for each other. Even though they don’t start with having feelings, the transition was quite smooth! Zar was bae and I loved his relationship with his family and his sister. Asher, with his quirky quips and a creative mind, was the perfect match for the responsible Zar. Can I also say I loved the friendship group? Like Gage, Cohen and Riggs were all amazing and their bond was solid and made me quite jealous.
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“Then you don’t get to call him your son anymore. Love isn’t a buffet, Karen. You don’t get to pick which parts of him you’ll accept. You either love him wholly or you get out of his life.”
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Coming to the story and character development, I think the relationship development between Asher and Zar was my favourite.Also, Asher coming to terms with his toxic family and depending on his inner circle was slightly hearbreaking. Zar and his mama was spitfires, and that scene at the fair? OMG that was one of my favourites! What I absolutely loved about this story was, it focused more on the emotional acceptance and the aftermath of getting together with someone you have loved and been friends with for decades. The author did a wonderful job with explaining things that stayed true to the character’s personalities.The only thing I wasn’t a fan of was the pacing. Even though I loved the topics the book discuss.Even though I liked it, it was still quick and we don’t get to root for them.
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“I thought I’d take you to the bookstore and turn you loose.” Asher’s eyes went heart shaped. “You do love me.”
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Overall,this was an adorable friends to lovers story that focuses more on the emotional acceptance, aftermath of falling for someone you’ve knows for decades, coming to terms with one’s-sexuality, amazing found family, some BL drama love, random group text conversations and some adorable moments! I want two more people to get together from the same inner circle, but let’s see!!! I can’t wait for the next book!
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Thank you Eliza Ray services for the gifted review copy!
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Book 70 - March 2022 / Arc / ElizaRay
Tags : Friends to lovers, Found family, GFY, MM Adult Contemporary
TW : Toxic Family
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My Rating : 4/5 🌟🌟🌟🌟
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“Yes. I see his fears, I recognize their basis, but failure is only one possibility. All I can do is prove to Ash, step by step, that we’re good together. This is the relationship we’ve both been looking for.”
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This book follows our main characters : Asher and Zar,as they try to overcome the emotional baggage and their feelings towards each other while a friendship gang runs loose. I absolutely loved the friendship between Asher and Zar, and the way they were always there for each other. Even though they don’t start with having feelings, the transition was quite smooth! Zar was bae and I loved his relationship with his family and his sister. Asher, with his quirky quips and a creative mind, was the perfect match for the responsible Zar. Can I also say I loved the friendship group? Like Gage, Cohen and Riggs were all amazing and their bond was solid and made me quite jealous.
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“Then you don’t get to call him your son anymore. Love isn’t a buffet, Karen. You don’t get to pick which parts of him you’ll accept. You either love him wholly or you get out of his life.”
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Coming to the story and character development, I think the relationship development between Asher and Zar was my favourite.Also, Asher coming to terms with his toxic family and depending on his inner circle was slightly hearbreaking. Zar and his mama was spitfires, and that scene at the fair? OMG that was one of my favourites! What I absolutely loved about this story was, it focused more on the emotional acceptance and the aftermath of getting together with someone you have loved and been friends with for decades. The author did a wonderful job with explaining things that stayed true to the character’s personalities.The only thing I wasn’t a fan of was the pacing. Even though I loved the topics the book discuss.Even though I liked it, it was still quick and we don’t get to root for them.
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“I thought I’d take you to the bookstore and turn you loose.” Asher’s eyes went heart shaped. “You do love me.”
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Overall,this was an adorable friends to lovers story that focuses more on the emotional acceptance, aftermath of falling for someone you’ve knows for decades, coming to terms with one’s-sexuality, amazing found family, some BL drama love, random group text conversations and some adorable moments! I want two more people to get together from the same inner circle, but let’s see!!! I can’t wait for the next book!
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Thank you Eliza Ray services for the gifted review copy!
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Book 70 - March 2022 / Arc / ElizaRay
Tags : Friends to lovers, Found family, GFY, MM Adult Contemporary
April 15, 2023
Sometimes I'm in a mood for too sweet books with low-angst and it was a perfect title for it.
March 2, 2022
[I received a digital arc for an honest review]
Style of Love is the first book in the Gay 4 Renovations series by AJ Sherwood. A sweet best friends to lovers romance. I have to note that I love AJ Sherwood's book Tags because they are always quality and reading them after I've read a book always make me smile .
Asher is the interior designer for the business he runs with his friends. His career is successful, but his love life not so much. When he's asked to do a couple's photo shoot for his employee's web comic, he asks his straight best friend Zar to do it with him. Little did either of them know that this would change their extremely close but highly Platonic friendship. Now Zar can't stop thinking of his attraction towards Asher, and he needs to convince him that taking a chance on them as boyfriends is a sure bet.
"I'd never had a man look at me like that before . Every ounce of passion, of need, of love, was directed solely at me. It was an incredibly empowering feeling."
I loved this tight nit and supportive group of friends. Asher and Zar are both sweethearts, with one of those relationships that look from the outside that they are already in a relationship. Therefore, when they go from friends to more their relationship doesn't change much at all except for the added bonus of bedroom romps. They have a ton of cute domestic scenes between them and Asher's large and lovable pup, and plenty of steamy scenes when they realize their attraction. I felt bad for how crappy and homophobic Asher's parents and brother were, he did have one supportive brother but he wasn't around enough to stop the others harsh words. Thankfully, Zar's parents, especially his mom, made up for it and loved both of them unconditionally.
Only reason I'm not giving it a higher rating is that I felt like the story just kind of ended. I don't know it ended, and I wasn't left completely satisfied . The epilogue was a bit underwhelming too, all it did was let us know that single Dad Cohen was next but nothing to grasp on and anticipate besides that fact.
Overall Style of Love is a super easy-going read, low angst, low drama. Zar , our straight friend, doesn't have an existential crises when he realizes he's sexually attracted to his bestie. I always enjoy AJ Sherwood's writing because it's so easy to get into and her characters are always likeable and charming. I know this is going to be a fun series, and I look forward to all the guys in the groups getting HEAs.
P.S. I was giddy at the Bad Buddy reference since I literally just binged the show the other day !
Style of Love is the first book in the Gay 4 Renovations series by AJ Sherwood. A sweet best friends to lovers romance. I have to note that I love AJ Sherwood's book Tags because they are always quality and reading them after I've read a book always make me smile .
Asher is the interior designer for the business he runs with his friends. His career is successful, but his love life not so much. When he's asked to do a couple's photo shoot for his employee's web comic, he asks his straight best friend Zar to do it with him. Little did either of them know that this would change their extremely close but highly Platonic friendship. Now Zar can't stop thinking of his attraction towards Asher, and he needs to convince him that taking a chance on them as boyfriends is a sure bet.
"I'd never had a man look at me like that before . Every ounce of passion, of need, of love, was directed solely at me. It was an incredibly empowering feeling."
I loved this tight nit and supportive group of friends. Asher and Zar are both sweethearts, with one of those relationships that look from the outside that they are already in a relationship. Therefore, when they go from friends to more their relationship doesn't change much at all except for the added bonus of bedroom romps. They have a ton of cute domestic scenes between them and Asher's large and lovable pup, and plenty of steamy scenes when they realize their attraction. I felt bad for how crappy and homophobic Asher's parents and brother were, he did have one supportive brother but he wasn't around enough to stop the others harsh words. Thankfully, Zar's parents, especially his mom, made up for it and loved both of them unconditionally.
Only reason I'm not giving it a higher rating is that I felt like the story just kind of ended. I don't know it ended, and I wasn't left completely satisfied . The epilogue was a bit underwhelming too, all it did was let us know that single Dad Cohen was next but nothing to grasp on and anticipate besides that fact.
Overall Style of Love is a super easy-going read, low angst, low drama. Zar , our straight friend, doesn't have an existential crises when he realizes he's sexually attracted to his bestie. I always enjoy AJ Sherwood's writing because it's so easy to get into and her characters are always likeable and charming. I know this is going to be a fun series, and I look forward to all the guys in the groups getting HEAs.
P.S. I was giddy at the Bad Buddy reference since I literally just binged the show the other day !
March 11, 2022
Tbh,I skimmed the whole book, there was humor and banter and a very few hot scenes, but that's all it was. It was a bit too sweet. I really liked the characters though, they had good communication. Asher seemed so dependent with Zar which I didn't like, didn't stick around enough to know what happened in the end.
November 5, 2023
Sadly, this is one of those that got progressively less interesting after the MCs got together. I did like the fact that the initially straight one was the one gunning for it though. Usually friends to lovers has the gay one pining for years before the other notices.
March 4, 2022
Ich bin ein großer Fan von A.J. Sherwoods Romanen. Sie schreibt wundervolle Charaktere, spannende Stories und hat ein Händchen für packende Lovestories und ein interessantes Worldbuilding. Ich habe alle ihre bisher veröffentlichten Gay Romance-Titel gelesen und kaufe inzwischen jeden neuen Roman blind.
Daher war ich sehr gespannt auf ihren ersten Contemporary Romance "Style of Love". Und was soll ich sagen: Wieder wundervolle Charaktere, eine schöne Lovestory zwischen zwei besten Freunden seit der Kindheit. Dazu eine Gay-for-you-Story, die ich plausibel und gut umgesetzt fand ... und doch gebe ich zum ersten Mal bei einem Roman von A.J. Sherwood keine 5 Sterne, sondern nur 4. Mir persönlich hätte es einen Tick spannender sein können. Klar, Liebesromane sind immer vorsehbar, es gibt immer ein Happy End. Aber hier gab es keine Verbrechen aufzuklären oder Kriege gegen einen heimtückischen Magierclan zu führen und irgendwie fehlte mir das gewisse Etwas, das ich sonst immer in ihren Romanen finde. Aber vielleicht bin ich inzwischen auch zu sehr verwöhnt und dies ist Meckern auf hohem Niveau, denn empfehlenswert ist der Roman auf jeden Fall und ich werde die nächsten Bände der Reihe mit Sicherheit lesen. Freue mich schon auf Band 2. :)
Daher war ich sehr gespannt auf ihren ersten Contemporary Romance "Style of Love". Und was soll ich sagen: Wieder wundervolle Charaktere, eine schöne Lovestory zwischen zwei besten Freunden seit der Kindheit. Dazu eine Gay-for-you-Story, die ich plausibel und gut umgesetzt fand ... und doch gebe ich zum ersten Mal bei einem Roman von A.J. Sherwood keine 5 Sterne, sondern nur 4. Mir persönlich hätte es einen Tick spannender sein können. Klar, Liebesromane sind immer vorsehbar, es gibt immer ein Happy End. Aber hier gab es keine Verbrechen aufzuklären oder Kriege gegen einen heimtückischen Magierclan zu führen und irgendwie fehlte mir das gewisse Etwas, das ich sonst immer in ihren Romanen finde. Aber vielleicht bin ich inzwischen auch zu sehr verwöhnt und dies ist Meckern auf hohem Niveau, denn empfehlenswert ist der Roman auf jeden Fall und ich werde die nächsten Bände der Reihe mit Sicherheit lesen. Freue mich schon auf Band 2. :)
September 13, 2022
Fluffy yet meaningful, heart-warming yet thought-provoking.
This is a best friends-to-lovers kind of romance and one of the characters is originally straight. However, to my delight, it doesn't have the usual dramas as the other books and in fact it is the straight mc Zar who pursues the gay one. That's very uncommon since most straight ones in this kind of setting are bound to question his feelings and deny everything or be afraid of coming out and so on. BUT, here there's no such thing. Zar is so considerate and kind-hearted to the point that I think he's the perfect husband material for anyone, regardless of gender. This book kinda reminds me of the Queer Eye. Same setting of four interesting homosexuals and a lot of lovely moments. Asher is also a kind soul and deserves a better family and I'm seriously beyond belated to see him happy in the arms of the man of his dreams. And don't even get me started on the side characters, they are all great except Asher's toxic family members.(The most toxic ones I've ever seen!)
This book probably has the best MCs of the year in my opinion so five stars! Looking forward to the next book!!
This is a best friends-to-lovers kind of romance and one of the characters is originally straight. However, to my delight, it doesn't have the usual dramas as the other books and in fact it is the straight mc Zar who pursues the gay one. That's very uncommon since most straight ones in this kind of setting are bound to question his feelings and deny everything or be afraid of coming out and so on. BUT, here there's no such thing. Zar is so considerate and kind-hearted to the point that I think he's the perfect husband material for anyone, regardless of gender. This book kinda reminds me of the Queer Eye. Same setting of four interesting homosexuals and a lot of lovely moments. Asher is also a kind soul and deserves a better family and I'm seriously beyond belated to see him happy in the arms of the man of his dreams. And don't even get me started on the side characters, they are all great except Asher's toxic family members.(The most toxic ones I've ever seen!)
This book probably has the best MCs of the year in my opinion so five stars! Looking forward to the next book!!
March 5, 2022
So Good!
Told my husband I would be AFL (Away From Life) today because a new AJ Sherwood book was out and I would be reading the hell out of it. I also told him if he needed something to contact Ruby. (Our dog. Who is deaf. I was taking no chances.)
Just finished reading and I am both giddy and sad. Giddy because it was amazing (as all AJ Sherwood books are) and sad because I read it too darn fast and have to wait for the next book. I don't do patient well. :D
Zar and Asher are a really adorable, sweet couple, with a truly fantastic circle of friends and a giant, adorkable dog. I'm leaving this book with a happy grin and a couple of new-to-me Thai dramas to watch (maybe they'll tide me over until AJ's next book comes out, but I'll probably binge them, so...yeah).
Told my husband I would be AFL (Away From Life) today because a new AJ Sherwood book was out and I would be reading the hell out of it. I also told him if he needed something to contact Ruby. (Our dog. Who is deaf. I was taking no chances.)
Just finished reading and I am both giddy and sad. Giddy because it was amazing (as all AJ Sherwood books are) and sad because I read it too darn fast and have to wait for the next book. I don't do patient well. :D
Zar and Asher are a really adorable, sweet couple, with a truly fantastic circle of friends and a giant, adorkable dog. I'm leaving this book with a happy grin and a couple of new-to-me Thai dramas to watch (maybe they'll tide me over until AJ's next book comes out, but I'll probably binge them, so...yeah).
May 16, 2024
Kudos to A.J. Sherwood for her range of books. OTT funny fantasy, super awkward psychic stories (Jon), and now this. Contemporary best friends to lovers. Booooring.
Reading this book was a case of "lost interest" that came way too late for me. Really - where was this going? Only back and forth because one half of the best friends can not cope with becoming lovers?
Quite honestly: I think he is not attracted to his friend, and that's it. Probably not what the author had in mind, though ;-)
Reading this book was a case of "lost interest" that came way too late for me. Really - where was this going? Only back and forth because one half of the best friends can not cope with becoming lovers?
Quite honestly: I think he is not attracted to his friend, and that's it. Probably not what the author had in mind, though ;-)
March 15, 2022
Think it was chapter 12 that I didn't like Asher for a bit. Zar did everything for him and he legged it. I did like how quickly they sorted things out and the support of the town. Still nearly wasn't enough to overpower Asher's family. With the exception of Ryan, they were toxic AF. Mostly sweet but deals with homophobia, shitty parents and domestic abuse. Favourite parts were the group chats. Looking forward to the next one.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
March 6, 2022
New series from one of my favorites! Love Zar and his family! I am so glad Asher has him and his friends (and Ryan, thank goodness!).
I enjoyed this first book - read it in one sitting! I can't wait to read the other guys' stories! <3
I enjoyed this first book - read it in one sitting! I can't wait to read the other guys' stories! <3
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April 1, 2022DNF 41%
I really wanted to see if the terrible mom got her comeuppance, but I just can't with this book anymore. It's mind-numbingly boring with the same things repeated over. And over. And over! I think it's time for me and this author to part ways, as I've DNFd at least three of her five most recent books. Did a new writer take over this writing name? It's such a puzzle why I've disliked every book she's written since the first dragon book came out with that other author.
I really wanted to see if the terrible mom got her comeuppance, but I just can't with this book anymore. It's mind-numbingly boring with the same things repeated over. And over. And over! I think it's time for me and this author to part ways, as I've DNFd at least three of her five most recent books. Did a new writer take over this writing name? It's such a puzzle why I've disliked every book she's written since the first dragon book came out with that other author.
March 6, 2022
Asher and Zar have been friends forever. Asher is gay. Zar is not. However, their friendship is like that of an old married couple. They snuggle. They look out for and after each other. Zar has even lost a few girlfriends jealous of his closeness with Asher.
Things get complicated on a photoshoot for friends when they need to act like a couple and feelings start to emerge, much to the surprise of both of them (but not to anyone else). I loved both the MCs. It was so cute how they were with each other even before they slept together and I'd have liked to see a bit more of that. And the photo shoot? Phew! 🥵
However, I never really got past being 'told' about how people should feel (about being gay, bi, whatever) and for me some of the dialogue just didn't feel realistic. As an internal monologue? Sure. But who speaks like that with their friends and just spills a whole pile of intimacies?
I know this has not been a problem for others reading this but I just felt a bit like I was getting preached at and that old 'show don't tell' phrase just kept springing to mind. And don't get me wrong, there was plenty of showing. There was also just plenty of telling and it drove me a bit batty.
Nonetheless, I really enjoyed this book and I'm looking forward to the next one.
Things get complicated on a photoshoot for friends when they need to act like a couple and feelings start to emerge, much to the surprise of both of them (but not to anyone else). I loved both the MCs. It was so cute how they were with each other even before they slept together and I'd have liked to see a bit more of that. And the photo shoot? Phew! 🥵
However, I never really got past being 'told' about how people should feel (about being gay, bi, whatever) and for me some of the dialogue just didn't feel realistic. As an internal monologue? Sure. But who speaks like that with their friends and just spills a whole pile of intimacies?
I know this has not been a problem for others reading this but I just felt a bit like I was getting preached at and that old 'show don't tell' phrase just kept springing to mind. And don't get me wrong, there was plenty of showing. There was also just plenty of telling and it drove me a bit batty.
Nonetheless, I really enjoyed this book and I'm looking forward to the next one.
April 25, 2022
Cute and fluffy childhood-friends-to-lovers (which is a fave trope of mine, so obviously I'm biased).
I enjoyed this more than my recent AJ Sherwood reads because the Pop culture references felt more appropriate and tuned down comparatively.
However, I'm not a fan of the female characters here.
The fangirly "fujoshi" characters felt like self-inserts and while self-aware, they left me feeling uncomfortable in how they sexualized the gay characters. Imagining the situation gender-flipped (with a lesbian pair and two leering dudes doing the photoshoot) might hammer it in.
I also think the situation with Asher's toxic family wasn't well handled. It felt a bit preachy and not very genuine in its execution, a bit like it's just repeating sage advice from the internet.
I also resent that AJ Sherwood decided to name the toxic mom "Karen", because while the Karen meme might have started out with valid criticism, I feel like it has evolved to become a misogynistic caricature and I would prefer that this meme would fade into obscurity.
I enjoyed this more than my recent AJ Sherwood reads because the Pop culture references felt more appropriate and tuned down comparatively.
However, I'm not a fan of the female characters here.
The fangirly "fujoshi" characters felt like self-inserts and while self-aware, they left me feeling uncomfortable in how they sexualized the gay characters. Imagining the situation gender-flipped (with a lesbian pair and two leering dudes doing the photoshoot) might hammer it in.
I also think the situation with Asher's toxic family wasn't well handled. It felt a bit preachy and not very genuine in its execution, a bit like it's just repeating sage advice from the internet.
I also resent that AJ Sherwood decided to name the toxic mom "Karen", because while the Karen meme might have started out with valid criticism, I feel like it has evolved to become a misogynistic caricature and I would prefer that this meme would fade into obscurity.
April 6, 2022
I got a weird vibe from this and how women were portrait.
For example the blind date with the girl: Asher judged her for wanting a boyfriend or having a nice date, for going on it on a weekday on 11am but on the other hand he does the same and then it’s ok? Like she is boycrazy for wanting a boyfriend and he is not?
Or with his friends: they are „yaoi fangirls“ and „fujoshis“ for liking BL and gay kdrama and so on but he is not for liking the same thing?
It is subtle but we still love good double standards towards women right?
Also: this is not low on angst and needs some trigger warnings at the beginning for homophobia and domestic violence.
For example the blind date with the girl: Asher judged her for wanting a boyfriend or having a nice date, for going on it on a weekday on 11am but on the other hand he does the same and then it’s ok? Like she is boycrazy for wanting a boyfriend and he is not?
Or with his friends: they are „yaoi fangirls“ and „fujoshis“ for liking BL and gay kdrama and so on but he is not for liking the same thing?
It is subtle but we still love good double standards towards women right?
Also: this is not low on angst and needs some trigger warnings at the beginning for homophobia and domestic violence.
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